JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS ALL Feminist Ideologies With This Fact


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In this episode, we discuss the rise of feminism in the 20th century and the impact it had on the way of life. We discuss the difference between the wives of today and those of 200 years ago, and compare and contrast them with what you would get out of a wife today.

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00:00:00.000 All the Marxists went back and basically said,
00:00:02.300 we wanna look at history from the viewpoint of the oppressed.
00:00:05.280 So they literally went back in the history books
00:00:07.240 and rewrote the history.
00:00:08.640 Yes, they did.
00:00:09.480 From the vantage point of an oppressed woman,
00:00:11.300 even though the women of the writings at the time,
00:00:13.460 not oppressed.
00:00:14.360 Well, they were all really rich, wealthy.
00:00:16.600 How did feminism overtake as a movement? 1.00
00:00:19.400 It was female led. 0.95
00:00:20.720 So it was like, how did they have the voice
00:00:22.300 if they had no voice or education?
00:00:23.840 It's very erotic.
00:00:24.680 These were the most privileged women in society. 0.99
00:00:27.060 If you look at, especially the old school,
00:00:28.400 first wave feminist people. 0.92
00:00:29.480 Well, the biggest-
00:00:30.480 Elizabeth Cady Stanton.
00:00:31.480 Yeah, isn't that the one that divorced her husband, 1.00
00:00:33.480 took all his money, and then started-
00:00:34.480 They were terrible, all of them.
00:00:36.140 They were always, right from the get-go,
00:00:37.720 it was a very mean-spirited, very antagonistic movement.
00:00:41.280 And the problem is that a lot of people
00:00:42.920 don't understand this.
00:00:43.920 It's nobody's fault, it's the fact that,
00:00:46.140 for example, people will say,
00:00:47.040 oh, look at the suffragettes, 1.00
00:00:48.080 but the suffragettes were terrible. 1.00
00:00:49.320 They put all the women's studies professors in the schools. 1.00
00:00:52.920 Yes!
00:00:53.760 And then they even said this themselves,
00:00:56.800 they're gonna rewrite our history,
00:00:59.200 and then teach it in the schools to brainwash the kids 0.97
00:01:02.860 and get rid of religion.
00:01:03.960 They did the same thing in the church.
00:01:06.000 So they went into the Christian churches,
00:01:07.800 the Catholic churches.
00:01:08.980 Why do you think there's all those gay priests, right? 1.00
00:01:11.280 It was because they literally sent 11,000 priests
00:01:14.620 into the church because they realized that people
00:01:17.060 listened to the church.
00:01:18.820 And yeah, it's rabbit hole when you get into it.
00:01:22.080 But the crazy thing is, they literally said,
00:01:24.740 we want to infiltrate these institutions
00:01:27.740 because we know people listen to them.
00:01:30.040 I mean, a lot of these priests rules are pedophiles.
00:01:31.760 A hundred, no, no, they are, no, I'm serious.
00:01:34.500 But they sent 11,000.
00:01:36.240 They funded the seminaries to, again, to reteach education
00:01:39.740 from a more like the Christian doctrine,
00:01:42.220 from a more liberal point of view.
00:01:44.200 Yeah, well, it's not really liberal, it's Marxist, but.
00:01:46.400 Well, yeah, yeah, yeah, Marxist.
00:01:48.040 I think American liberalism, it's a shame, isn't it?
00:01:50.440 Because actually classical English liberalism
00:01:52.740 is completely anti-Marxist.
00:01:54.540 It's a really terrible thing, how like in America, 0.96
00:01:56.800 like your version of liberalism
00:01:58.660 is what we would call like leftism.
00:02:00.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:01.200 But it's all your fault as well, like that's another like,
00:02:03.620 you know, language barrier or whatever.
00:02:06.640 Kind of a pain in the butt, really.
00:02:07.640 So what I thought was interesting, okay,
00:02:10.180 this is what I wanted to do.
00:02:11.720 I wanted to talk about the wives before feminism 0.94
00:02:14.780 and after feminism. 1.00
00:02:15.920 So I collaborated with Dr. David Baker, shout out.
00:02:20.100 He wrote The History of Sex.
00:02:22.380 And I wanted to compare the wives of yesterday, 0.81
00:02:25.440 like what you would get out of a wife 100 years ago, 0.84
00:02:29.720 200 years ago, versus what you get out of a wife today. 0.97
00:02:33.040 And I wanna, it's, you know, I wanna compare and contrast.
00:02:37.600 So one, she would not leave you.
00:02:42.300 So, if you married her, it was highly unlikely
00:02:45.560 she would leave.
00:02:46.760 Divorce was extremely difficult to obtain.
00:02:49.840 As opposed to today, if you multiply the divorce rate
00:02:53.680 by the percent the woman leave, there's a 32 to 41% chance 1.00
00:02:58.880 that she's going to leave you.
00:03:00.680 Thank you, feminism. 1.00
00:03:02.180 Two, two, depending on the time period or social class,
00:03:06.140 your wife would help out on the farm,
00:03:08.860 doing hard work beside you, like planting seeds,
00:03:11.920 dealing with livestock, helping out the harvest,
00:03:14.660 and at least she'd be a housewife. 1.00
00:03:16.360 In both scenarios, you'd be dealing with
00:03:18.220 cooking from scratch
00:03:20.120 and putting a hot lot of work into cleaning and laundry.
00:03:26.260 No domestic technology.
00:03:28.260 So, we'll put on this side, today,
00:03:32.340 you get like microwave dinner.
00:03:35.140 But it's not all wives as well,
00:03:36.500 because this is a shame, like there's plenty of good women, 1.00
00:03:38.940 it's just the problem is that the feminists 1.00
00:03:41.060 have kind of made like women look bad. 1.00
00:03:42.940 So there's still lots of good wives out there. 1.00
00:03:45.220 This is what I'll say about it.
00:03:47.540 95% of us would be thrown out,
00:03:50.220 because one of the prerequisites back then was a virgin,
00:03:53.980 and today, only 5%.
00:03:55.980 Yeah, but it's like, who wants,
00:03:56.460 isn't that a bit outdated?
00:03:58.380 I don't think so.
00:03:59.820 I don't think men,
00:04:00.620 I think men would prefer their wife 1.00
00:04:03.100 to have only slept with them
00:04:04.760 as opposed to multiple men.
00:04:06.760 But why is it it should be like that for us?
00:04:08.440 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:09.320 But what about men?
00:04:10.860 Yeah, it's a big double standard.
00:04:12.220 I don't want a man that slept with over 100 ladies. 1.00
00:04:14.540 It's a biological standard.
00:04:16.140 You guys want some stats on this?
00:04:17.780 Yeah, give them the stats.
00:04:18.780 This comes from Christianity.
00:04:19.420 Give them the stats.
00:04:20.300 I'll give you guys some statistics.
00:04:21.560 So, today, it's 4% of women 1.00
00:04:23.020 that are marrying as virgins.
00:04:24.480 Here's something really, 4%.
00:04:26.000 We're not even at 5%.
00:04:26.980 No, it's 4%.
00:04:27.720 Dang it, guys.
00:04:29.020 Okay, I'll give you guys some interesting stats.
00:04:31.100 And there's like a, let's say,
00:04:34.260 a common theme to all of these
00:04:35.240 that kind of converge onto a point.
00:04:36.660 But in the 1950s,
00:04:38.760 the birth control pill comes out, right?
00:04:40.660 We now have, obviously,
00:04:42.440 fewer women marrying off as virgins than before.
00:04:44.440 It dropped, like, the amount of women 1.00
00:04:45.760 that were marrying as virgins in the 50s
00:04:47.900 have dropped to, like, down to 4%.
00:04:49.820 It was at, like, 80%.
00:04:51.040 Now, it's, like, 4%.
00:04:52.040 Interesting.
00:04:52.560 65% 100 years ago.
00:04:54.460 What's really interesting is,
00:04:55.480 since the 1950s,
00:04:56.360 the percentage of men
00:04:57.320 that are marrying as virgins
00:04:58.260 is actually higher than it was in the 50s.
00:05:00.580 So, what happened with the birth control pill
00:05:02.420 is that it basically took out all the,
00:05:05.100 it just streamlined all the sex
00:05:07.620 to the guys that the women
00:05:08.500 wanted to do it with the whole time
00:05:10.140 and without consequence.
00:05:11.300 So, that's an interesting outcome.
00:05:12.420 But when you're looking at
00:05:13.960 the marriage statistics, okay,
00:05:15.880 there are two predictors
00:05:17.140 that stand above all else
00:05:19.400 for, three predictors, actually,
00:05:21.580 that stand above all else
00:05:22.520 for a poor outcome to the marriage.
00:05:24.200 Like, an unsuccessful, bad breakup,
00:05:26.140 poor marriage, unhappiness.
00:05:27.320 Number one, getting married
00:05:28.700 before the societal standard age.
00:05:30.180 So, if you're married at, like, 18,
00:05:31.360 you're going to fail,
00:05:31.960 it's going to suck, don't do it.
00:05:33.340 Number two, if a woman brings a child 1.00
00:05:35.120 into the relationship,
00:05:36.360 into the marriage,
00:05:36.980 that's not the man's child,
00:05:38.720 is an extremely high predictor
00:05:40.300 for the woman's unhappiness in that marriage. 0.99
00:05:42.160 Not the man's unhappiness,
00:05:43.420 the woman's own unhappiness,
00:05:44.660 which inevitably leads to divorce 0.99
00:05:46.400 because, what, 80% of marriages
00:05:48.000 are, divorces are initiated by women. 1.00
00:05:50.500 The third factor,
00:05:51.480 and this is really interesting,
00:05:52.620 the third factor today
00:05:53.460 that's the highest correlated statistically
00:05:55.180 with a poor outcome to the marriage
00:05:56.340 is the woman has more than 10 sexual partners.
00:05:59.460 So, what happens is
00:06:00.280 the biggest drop for a woman's 0.88
00:06:01.420 and a man's happiness in the marriage
00:06:02.520 is after the woman has one sexual partner, 0.95
00:06:04.680 you see the biggest drop in the happiness
00:06:06.040 and the potential positive outcome
00:06:07.760 in the marriage.
00:06:08.580 And then, like, between two and five,
00:06:10.680 it kind of, like, hovers,
00:06:12.180 you know, where it was at two.
00:06:13.300 And then, between, like, six and nine,
00:06:16.020 it kind of gets a little bit worse.
00:06:17.600 But at 10 or more,
00:06:18.440 the drop is significant and massive.
00:06:21.020 And this is just measuring,
00:06:22.840 you know, longitudinal studies
00:06:24.100 of the happiness
00:06:24.680 and the outcomes of the marriage.
00:06:25.880 But here's what's interesting.
00:06:27.880 Then they did the same study on men,
00:06:29.220 number of sexual partners
00:06:30.180 that a man has,
00:06:31.460 and then correlated that
00:06:32.320 to the outcome of the marriage.
00:06:33.260 No statistical correlation at all.
00:06:34.900 So, why do you think that's the case?
00:06:36.040 Because men don't leave marriages. 0.99
00:06:37.420 Women do. 1.00
00:06:38.020 That's why.
00:06:38.540 So, you don't think it's actually
00:06:39.660 because of sex?
00:06:40.680 It's because women 1.00
00:06:41.220 are just more likely to leave.
00:06:43.000 Well, men don't leave.
00:06:43.740 So, it's like this.
00:06:44.540 If a man's had a...
00:06:45.240 If he's Genghis Khan level
00:06:46.420 and he's got 1,000 partners,
00:06:47.680 it has no statistical difference
00:06:49.160 in the outcome of a marriage
00:06:50.000 if a man's had three partners.
00:06:51.260 It just doesn't...
00:06:52.060 Like, that's just what
00:06:52.800 the statistics say.
00:06:54.100 Interesting.
00:06:54.680 Right?
00:06:55.160 And so, women are like, 1.00
00:06:56.020 well, why do men get the privilege? 0.97
00:06:57.100 Because biologically,
00:06:58.000 we're different from women. 1.00
00:06:58.960 And I think that's the premise here.
00:06:59.760 I mean, historically,
00:07:00.580 they had to make sure
00:07:01.680 that the kid was theirs.
00:07:03.320 Yeah.
00:07:03.500 And they're saying, like, what?
00:07:04.560 10, 20% of men today
00:07:06.320 are raising a kid
00:07:07.020 that's not theirs.
00:07:07.880 Paternity fraud, yeah. 0.89
00:07:08.840 But it's not 10, 20...
00:07:09.740 What?
00:07:09.920 Is it really that many?
00:07:11.320 It's 1 out of 3.
00:07:12.500 If you have...
00:07:12.840 Out of men that...
00:07:14.140 And it depends on the study
00:07:15.380 you look at.
00:07:15.980 But out of men that get it tested,
00:07:17.240 it's 1 out of 3.
00:07:18.260 I know in the UK
00:07:18.800 it's like 1 in 50 men.
00:07:20.420 Yeah.
00:07:20.900 Well, I mean,
00:07:21.240 it depends what you look at.
00:07:22.640 But, I mean,
00:07:23.160 they think it's higher.
00:07:24.280 It would be really interesting
00:07:25.220 to see if they did
00:07:26.180 mandatory paternity tests
00:07:27.600 at birth.
00:07:28.020 I would guess it would go up.
00:07:30.680 But, yeah, I mean...
00:07:32.600 I mean, you guys know this
00:07:33.880 on an innate level.
00:07:34.800 Men don't like horrors, right?
00:07:36.200 But don't you think, though?
00:07:37.020 We shouldn't be shaming women
00:07:38.340 because, actually,
00:07:39.000 when we say that women are whores, 1.00
00:07:40.440 what we're actually doing
00:07:41.160 is we're buying into
00:07:41.840 this very reductive,
00:07:43.120 like, virgin, good girl,
00:07:45.160 bad girl dichotomy
00:07:46.140 which comes from Christianity.
00:07:47.700 I mean, do you...
00:07:47.940 Actually, you're...
00:07:48.540 No, but I don't think it's like...
00:07:50.580 Sorry.
00:07:51.100 I'll let you...
00:07:51.760 I don't think it's like
00:07:52.600 we're shaming women. 1.00
00:07:54.000 You kind of are, though,
00:07:54.880 because, actually...
00:07:55.840 Because if you're going around
00:07:56.720 sleeping with any who
00:07:57.780 and everyone,
00:07:58.560 people are going to look at you
00:08:00.120 and be like,
00:08:00.600 you're a hoe. 1.00
00:08:01.840 But I don't mean we're shaming...
00:08:02.920 It doesn't mean we're shaming ladies. 1.00
00:08:05.200 Who's slut-shamed women? 1.00
00:08:06.140 Men or women? 0.78
00:08:07.020 Well, actually, women do it. 1.00
00:08:08.120 It's women. 1.00
00:08:08.520 It's women. 1.00
00:08:09.600 It's women and it's not close. 1.00
00:08:11.160 And do you know why women are the ones... 1.00
00:08:12.420 It's the women that are saying 1.00
00:08:13.340 you're slut-shamed. 1.00
00:08:13.700 You know why women do it. 1.00
00:08:14.620 It's not jealousy, no.
00:08:15.660 It's not.
00:08:16.240 It's because I'll put myself
00:08:18.160 in their shoes
00:08:18.740 and I think...
00:08:19.340 I look at them and I think,
00:08:20.840 no, you're a hoe. 1.00
00:08:22.060 Because I would never...
00:08:22.640 Okay, I'll tell you guys
00:08:23.500 why women slut-shamed women. 1.00
00:08:25.060 It's very simple.
00:08:26.140 Because women control 1.00
00:08:27.120 access to the sexual marketplace. 0.99
00:08:28.380 It's women that decide 1.00
00:08:29.400 who gets to have sex. 0.60
00:08:30.360 And if a woman's giving it away easily, 1.00
00:08:32.300 it actually devalues yourself
00:08:33.720 in the market
00:08:34.220 because a man can get it from her.
00:08:35.760 So it's women... 1.00
00:08:36.400 What if people just want to have fun?
00:08:38.420 People can have all the fun they want,
00:08:39.980 but it's not the men that are saying it.
00:08:41.820 I mean, you can have fun.
00:08:42.800 It's just they probably won't pick you
00:08:43.900 for a wife later.
00:08:45.280 Well, it depends on the kind of guy
00:08:46.620 you go with.
00:08:47.380 Because personally,
00:08:48.000 I wouldn't want to go with...
00:08:49.000 Well, I wouldn't want to go with a guy
00:08:50.520 who wanted a virginal wife.
00:08:51.960 I'll give you an example.
00:08:53.680 90% of men would disqualify a girl
00:08:56.020 just based off of OnlyFans.
00:08:57.760 Yeah, but why would you want...
00:08:59.000 Why would you want a guy 1.00
00:09:00.040 who thinks like that?
00:09:01.100 I don't know.
00:09:02.160 I can tell you why.
00:09:03.800 That's a biologically easy answer.
00:09:05.560 I'll tell you why.
00:09:06.000 Why would a guy take a girl home 0.99
00:09:07.860 that does OnlyFans to their mom? 1.00
00:09:09.540 I would never...
00:09:10.100 What's wrong with that?
00:09:10.880 If I was a man...
00:09:11.220 OnlyFans model was a human being. 0.93
00:09:13.000 That is embarrassing.
00:09:13.760 Why is it embarrassing?
00:09:14.660 My mom would look at me and be like,
00:09:15.800 Who is this husband?
00:09:17.300 Yeah, but don't you...
00:09:18.820 What if she's poor? 0.59
00:09:20.300 What if she's trying to make a living? 1.00
00:09:22.260 Then go to McDonald's like the men!
00:09:24.440 Go to work!
00:09:25.060 Go to McDonald's life!
00:09:26.420 The men have to go get a job at McDonald's.
00:09:29.000 I got zero...
00:09:29.960 That's the easy way out.
00:09:32.620 OnlyFans is the easy way out
00:09:34.400 for people that are lazy
00:09:35.640 and that don't want to work.
00:09:37.180 That's the realest of it.
00:09:38.100 No, it is.
00:09:38.740 It is because what are you doing?
00:09:39.900 You're flashing your body
00:09:40.900 for some money.
00:09:42.240 Yeah, but what's wrong with that?
00:09:43.180 There's nothing wrong with it.
00:09:44.240 But obviously,
00:09:45.300 we've all got our own opinions.
00:09:47.300 Cheers.