JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS The Gender Wage gap


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12 minutes

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225.08711

Word Count

2,907

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3

Misogynist Sentences

52

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 very quickly culture can i say something very quickly pearl my sister listen let me just can
00:00:05.260 i just help you around this conversation because i know it can be awkward especially with what
00:00:08.460 happened guys she is not racist she's a g uh racism is not a hindrance it is a challenge but
00:00:14.760 you can overcome it and i'm so sorry that i brought that into the conversation because
00:00:18.400 we're talking about feminism feminism is destructive okay so i'm so sorry pearl i didn't
00:00:23.600 mean you don't have to be sorry in your opinion a lot of you guys who have this opinion about
00:00:28.180 feminism being destructive feminism is the reason you're here you're here you know it's not it kind
00:00:33.820 of is though because if we're being honest did the equal pay act women even getting into work
00:00:38.960 okay but who started the whole movement for women to even come out of the kitchen can i ask you
00:00:44.860 like who did all of that and that's just recent generations i know from what i know my knowledge
00:00:51.860 of feminism um in terms of the destructive feminism um came from i think i think it's
00:00:59.820 always been destructive i mean even in the early days they planned assassinations it's always been
00:01:03.980 freedom at the expense of men always can i even even like let's take the vote like the vote was one
00:01:09.700 of the first things that we got right would you agree that was a good thing that women got to vote
00:01:13.660 yes okay but then women were not equally drafted so if there's a war that breaks out the men are the
00:01:18.400 ones that are have that have to go fight so that's why women didn't want to vote because they had
00:01:22.520 to be drafted in order to vote because if you're voting for in the u.s it's the commander in chief
00:01:26.700 who picks if we go to war that's who you're voting for so you have to have some skin in the game
00:01:30.620 so again women wanted the freedom they want to say oh let's vote but they didn't get the
00:01:34.540 responsibility that comes with it in the u.s um selective service is up to two hundred thousand
00:01:39.120 dollars per year but you know so so if they don't enlist basically like if if war breaks out and they
00:01:43.980 don't um sign up for the service basically they get fined two hundred thousand dollars but you know
00:01:49.100 why women should still have a say because the same way that men are the ones that go to war that could
00:01:53.120 get killed it's the same way that women are then going to be left behind without a father at home
00:01:56.940 without a husband at home so there's there's um effects of war on both sides that's why it shouldn't
00:02:02.680 just be men making decisions we're all part of this society so if democracy is about people we are all
00:02:07.640 people so that's why the vote makes sense so yeah well i just i just think i just think make it equal
00:02:12.280 feminists want equality then be equally drafted and go on the front lines but then women say oh
00:02:16.280 no i don't want to do that okay well then and it doesn't have to be about the vote all of feminism
00:02:20.740 is i want i want special treatment because you always hear the feminists talk about oh um equal pay even
00:02:27.300 though we get paid more in a lot of industries you never talk about equal pay and sex work
00:02:31.280 why are women strippers paid more oh no let's go march but nobody cares and this is why i find feminism
00:02:37.320 to be completely contradicting because women will say things like i want to have equal pay i want to be
00:02:42.060 making this amount of money as men and then the minute they find men that's making less money
00:02:46.540 than them he's a simp or he's soft yeah it's very contradicting a lot of the times you guys want
00:02:54.020 equal pay you guys want equal sexual liberation and so on so forth women that talk about equal pay are lazy
00:02:59.940 lazy it's usually they just i i cannot stand women that complain about getting paid equal because i've
00:03:07.780 worked in so many industries that are begging women to work there but their hard jobs and women
00:03:12.240 don't want to work they're used to work in sales they wanted female salesmen but then the women
00:03:16.540 would get the job and they would quit it's just like what are you my highest paid employee in all
00:03:20.740 my companies is a woman straight up and it's by a landslide just just christmas bonus alone was 30
00:03:27.240 grand on top of her salary and all of her health benefits her gym membership her car everything in her
00:03:33.040 travel and the vacations i send her on do you know what can i say something that is really cute about
00:03:37.260 feminists i think that feminists are just little girls that manage to do something and they're so
00:03:41.680 excited and they just want people to say yay you well done no but no i think that's what she produces
00:03:48.000 the most i know i know but i'm talking about feminists because i realize that sometimes i'm looking at
00:03:52.560 these girls and say oh yeah what we call rights we want this we want that and realistically no you just
00:03:56.360 want the man to be able to say to you oh you're a g as well well done and it's actually quite annoying
00:04:00.860 because you don't need that validation you know what i mean because for me i don't that's you no i
00:04:05.860 know and that's why i'm saying i don't like feminism but my feminist that i've met are actually men so
00:04:11.620 i'm just a bit like yeah because it's a mating strategy and trans women and men so of course they
00:04:16.520 are those are the simps the the ones that go and placate to women and act like they want to be
00:04:21.540 a male feminist those are the simps they hate guys like us they hate it so what's a guy like it's white
00:04:27.120 night shit a guy that lives by truth and just calls it how it is and guess what you know what
00:04:31.980 that creates a crease respect and you respect means with a man and a woman love you can't respect a
00:04:36.660 man that you know is full of shit you can't what are you talking you said this wanting validation
00:04:41.940 for men for being equal you just wanted him to validate you for being able to fix a car
00:04:46.320 no you keep talking about yourself do you know why you get no do you know why you're getting
00:04:52.480 confused because you've already immediately labeled me to be a feminist i'm standing again it's not
00:04:56.500 about feminism you said that feminism is wanting to get validation for men for being equal let me
00:05:00.480 clarify you got mad at him for not being able to fix a car and we just all gave you put money up to
00:05:04.540 go fix a car students like you let me explain why why you're actually just looking for an argument
00:05:08.880 because i'm saying it's not an argument i'm just trying to see the double standard what you're saying
00:05:12.160 feminists are actually a bit confused and they're screaming for so many things when in reality
00:05:16.780 what they're actually looking for is just yay well done that's it because women cannot go and do
00:05:21.880 newsflash men go to work all day every day and nobody thanks them exactly it's a thankless world
00:05:27.560 listen and that's what i'm saying having a movement for it is quite pointless say well done to yourself
00:05:31.940 and it's okay so i'm actually against feminism because it actually hinders me i get called that all
00:05:36.480 the time and it's so annoying completely agree with you i'm not because i've already told you
00:05:40.680 so why did you why do we all put up money to go fix a car if you're not exactly what you just
00:05:44.960 described okay and let me tell you why i am not a feminist in that essence because that's what i
00:05:50.600 want i want just somebody to say to me oh by the way i'm not if i tell you that i can fix a car oh
00:05:56.120 yeah cool that's good well done to you because i got skills validation so basically what you're seeking
00:06:00.700 validation what you're talking about she's exactly what she's describing right now i'm explaining to you
00:06:06.520 the difference between what they say they want what they actually really want that's it
00:06:10.480 because so what do you want well i just want to be able to be somewhere do something so yeah
00:06:15.360 that's really good well done so basically okay no i'm saying i'm belittling the fact that
00:06:25.100 feminists will stand there say equal rights we want all of this when in reality you're just
00:06:29.680 a sweet little girl that just wants to be like well done but they're and yet without all of those
00:06:34.320 movements you wouldn't be here 50 years ago yeah 50 years ago like without those women actually
00:06:42.920 taking the logic upon themselves you know using that logic whether it was to do what meant what
00:06:48.520 was the example that you gave when they were terrorists men have been known terrorists for
00:06:53.380 a very long time we're talking back to the 70s but what outcomes has that given for women has that
00:06:59.800 given us good outcomes are we happier no or do we have more children no are we on are we're on
00:07:06.480 antidepressants more than ever before yes is this because we're more sexually promiscuous than ever
00:07:12.920 before we're in less relationships than ever before more of us are childless over 30 than ever
00:07:17.900 before what outcomes has happened that it's that are good we can point to individual things and say
00:07:23.080 yes we're on a podcast that's fun but in society as as a whole what what good has it done it got me
00:07:30.320 to meet you
00:07:31.680 but also the other the other issue with it is at what point you're talking about yeah 50 years ago and
00:07:41.480 that's how you've got to this point and everything like that there's a sort of but there i believe there
00:07:44.800 isn't even playing field now in in certainly in the uk i think in the united states as well
00:07:49.180 canada all these anglosphere countries right i don't believe that women are now held back
00:07:53.060 in any material way okay in terms of the job market in terms of opportunities being an entrepreneur
00:07:57.820 etc etc so at what point at what point no absolutely but but absolutely but at what point do we say okay
00:08:04.960 right now the conversation is closed because now i would go even further and say that women have
00:08:11.160 more freedom than men yeah yeah yeah and that's the that's where it becomes destructive because it
00:08:17.380 seems now that the the the power balance has shifted more into the feminine and then guys are
00:08:23.780 actually being disadvantaged now i do think that's the that's the problem of modern day feminism i think
00:08:28.580 that um everyone wants women empowerment and i'm for women empowerment but we can't pick and
00:08:34.840 choose when we want feminism to take place say for example like we want a man to provide for us and
00:08:42.320 care for us and some people might want to be a housewife but then also you want the the other
00:08:47.920 side of it and you want to take control in the relationship or vice versa yeah but she doesn't
00:08:53.540 really want that like it's not actually equal because it's like who say for example certain areas of
00:08:59.680 work like a bin man very few women want to be a bin man they will say it's a man i would say zero
00:09:05.500 yeah they would say it's a man to check the applications but then if you want to look at
00:09:09.600 feminism you guys want equality but when it comes to certain jobs you don't want to do them when it
00:09:13.900 comes to certain certain instances you don't want to be involved in them so it doesn't really i think
00:09:20.340 feminists pick and choose yeah it benefits them no but i think something i would see i think the
00:09:26.160 issue here is you guys are not trying to like not you guys in general but just like women who are
00:09:31.400 like i'm not a feminist but everything that you've actually being made like and alive right now i mean
00:09:37.060 and it's back to my point of the 50 years ago 100 years ago when your ancestors and your great great
00:09:42.020 great grandmothers are sitting there in the kitchen unable to do anything yeah like feminism has benefited
00:09:47.940 every woman in today's society yeah i was about to say i would suspect those women are happier than
00:09:53.600 these women currently how and how are they happier they're not even here i would actually prefer to
00:09:58.600 be where women was in the 20s because the pressure for me as a lady to work can be very exhausting
00:10:03.220 so when you sit here and say that oh this is the reason why i'm here today most women really don't
00:10:07.640 most women i'll be honest with you we do all of this work boss chick stuff because of the pressure
00:10:11.900 that this feminist woman has put on women to not be lazy and to get up and work so when you sit here
00:10:17.180 and say oh this is the reason why you guys are here and da da da da da most of us really don't want to
00:10:21.640 just to correct something the first female millionaire was um in the early it was in 1900
00:10:33.980 so yeah the hair shop lady no but everyone says they couldn't um vote or they couldn't work until
00:10:38.880 like the 50s and 60s but before that there was a female millionaire so there someone did it
00:10:43.020 yeah that's nice weren't held back well to be honest making money is not really that hard
00:10:48.520 you know this is the thing if you are capable you can do anything whether you're a man or a woman
00:10:54.300 the problem with feminism i think is that it displaces women a lot of the time because you're
00:10:58.400 trying to make us be something that we're not like i work for myself i i i do i would say i am a boss
00:11:03.980 in what i do but i'm not a boss baby and i have to be proved to my man that i'm this woman and you
00:11:08.440 i deserve certain things i all i want is not because i'm a feminist just because i'm a person
00:11:12.540 that likes to be told well then i just want if i'm with a man to be like oh that's quite cool you
00:11:16.100 know well done for trying that that's it but i don't really get anything against that i don't really
00:11:20.480 get too many people sometimes especially the people that know me telling me things like oh your woman
00:11:25.060 you shouldn't do this so do you want validation from men or not i just want i don't it's not just
00:11:29.040 from men i want it from anybody even women that will look at me and be like no you can't do that
00:11:33.560 women do that to each other so i don't want to be boxed in because i'm a woman
00:11:36.360 i just want to be treated like normal just it's fine it seems like your value system is extremely
00:11:41.220 external and exists in other people's minds no not really this is in terms of the context of the
00:11:45.580 conversation because i think you can tell that i don't actually need a much external validation i'm
00:11:49.540 quite gassed by myself thank you but it seems like in some industries in say in london we're in london
00:11:54.300 now right i mean if you look at media industry if you look at advertising um uh certain types of like
00:11:59.580 information technology and stuff like that it's very actually female based you know you've got like say the
00:12:03.620 advertising industry you've got more female leaders in that space than you have men so it
00:12:07.860 seems to me at some point we have to say right well the balance has been addressed now
00:12:11.160 i think so it's getting there i think women need to just kind of like empower themselves
00:12:16.400 and then it becomes request for the stuff and then it goes back to what they were saying before which
00:12:19.780 is like okay man or woman you've got to go out into the world and you've got to bend it to your will
00:12:23.560 right you've got to make it you've got to make your own narrative and not and not fall back on these
00:12:27.520 you know yes yes you summed that up nicely i can see you've got good experience talking to people
00:12:33.540 and making them understand the simple and basics oh i like that thank you for summarizing it as many
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