JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS The Gender Wage gap


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In this episode, we discuss the destructive nature of feminism and how it has impacted our society for the past 50 years. We discuss the role of women in society and the impact feminism has had on the way we live our lives.

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00:00:00.000 very quickly culture can i say something very quickly pearl my sister listen let me just can
00:00:05.260 i just help you around this conversation because i know it can be awkward especially with what
00:00:08.460 happened guys she is not racist she's a g uh racism is not a hindrance it is a challenge but
00:00:14.760 you can overcome it and i'm so sorry that i brought that into the conversation because
00:00:18.400 we're talking about feminism feminism is destructive okay so i'm so sorry pearl i didn't 1.00
00:00:23.600 mean you don't have to be sorry in your opinion a lot of you guys who have this opinion about
00:00:28.180 feminism being destructive feminism is the reason you're here you're here you know it's not it kind 1.00
00:00:33.820 of is though because if we're being honest did the equal pay act women even getting into work 1.00
00:00:38.960 okay but who started the whole movement for women to even come out of the kitchen can i ask you 1.00
00:00:44.860 like who did all of that and that's just recent generations i know from what i know my knowledge
00:00:51.860 of feminism um in terms of the destructive feminism um came from i think i think it's 0.97
00:00:59.820 always been destructive i mean even in the early days they planned assassinations it's always been
00:01:03.980 freedom at the expense of men always can i even even like let's take the vote like the vote was one
00:01:09.700 of the first things that we got right would you agree that was a good thing that women got to vote 1.00
00:01:13.660 yes okay but then women were not equally drafted so if there's a war that breaks out the men are the
00:01:18.400 ones that are have that have to go fight so that's why women didn't want to vote because they had 1.00
00:01:22.520 to be drafted in order to vote because if you're voting for in the u.s it's the commander in chief
00:01:26.700 who picks if we go to war that's who you're voting for so you have to have some skin in the game
00:01:30.620 so again women wanted the freedom they want to say oh let's vote but they didn't get the 1.00
00:01:34.540 responsibility that comes with it in the u.s um selective service is up to two hundred thousand
00:01:39.120 dollars per year but you know so so if they don't enlist basically like if if war breaks out and they
00:01:43.980 don't um sign up for the service basically they get fined two hundred thousand dollars but you know
00:01:49.100 why women should still have a say because the same way that men are the ones that go to war that could 0.98
00:01:53.120 get killed it's the same way that women are then going to be left behind without a father at home
00:01:56.940 without a husband at home so there's there's um effects of war on both sides that's why it shouldn't
00:02:02.680 just be men making decisions we're all part of this society so if democracy is about people we are all
00:02:07.640 people so that's why the vote makes sense so yeah well i just i just think i just think make it equal
00:02:12.280 feminists want equality then be equally drafted and go on the front lines but then women say oh 1.00
00:02:16.280 no i don't want to do that okay well then and it doesn't have to be about the vote all of feminism
00:02:20.740 is i want i want special treatment because you always hear the feminists talk about oh um equal pay even 1.00
00:02:27.300 though we get paid more in a lot of industries you never talk about equal pay and sex work
00:02:31.280 why are women strippers paid more oh no let's go march but nobody cares and this is why i find feminism 0.99
00:02:37.320 to be completely contradicting because women will say things like i want to have equal pay i want to be 0.99
00:02:42.060 making this amount of money as men and then the minute they find men that's making less money
00:02:46.540 than them he's a simp or he's soft yeah it's very contradicting a lot of the times you guys want
00:02:54.020 equal pay you guys want equal sexual liberation and so on so forth women that talk about equal pay are lazy 1.00
00:02:59.940 lazy it's usually they just i i cannot stand women that complain about getting paid equal because i've 1.00
00:03:07.780 worked in so many industries that are begging women to work there but their hard jobs and women 0.99
00:03:12.240 don't want to work they're used to work in sales they wanted female salesmen but then the women 1.00
00:03:16.540 would get the job and they would quit it's just like what are you my highest paid employee in all
00:03:20.740 my companies is a woman straight up and it's by a landslide just just christmas bonus alone was 30
00:03:27.240 grand on top of her salary and all of her health benefits her gym membership her car everything in her
00:03:33.040 travel and the vacations i send her on do you know what can i say something that is really cute about
00:03:37.260 feminists i think that feminists are just little girls that manage to do something and they're so 1.00
00:03:41.680 excited and they just want people to say yay you well done no but no i think that's what she produces
00:03:48.000 the most i know i know but i'm talking about feminists because i realize that sometimes i'm looking at 1.00
00:03:52.560 these girls and say oh yeah what we call rights we want this we want that and realistically no you just 1.00
00:03:56.360 want the man to be able to say to you oh you're a g as well well done and it's actually quite annoying
00:04:00.860 because you don't need that validation you know what i mean because for me i don't that's you no i
00:04:05.860 know and that's why i'm saying i don't like feminism but my feminist that i've met are actually men so 1.00
00:04:11.620 i'm just a bit like yeah because it's a mating strategy and trans women and men so of course they 0.98
00:04:16.520 are those are the simps the the ones that go and placate to women and act like they want to be
00:04:21.540 a male feminist those are the simps they hate guys like us they hate it so what's a guy like it's white 0.71
00:04:27.120 night shit a guy that lives by truth and just calls it how it is and guess what you know what 0.85
00:04:31.980 that creates a crease respect and you respect means with a man and a woman love you can't respect a
00:04:36.660 man that you know is full of shit you can't what are you talking you said this wanting validation 0.92
00:04:41.940 for men for being equal you just wanted him to validate you for being able to fix a car 0.99
00:04:46.320 no you keep talking about yourself do you know why you get no do you know why you're getting
00:04:52.480 confused because you've already immediately labeled me to be a feminist i'm standing again it's not
00:04:56.500 about feminism you said that feminism is wanting to get validation for men for being equal let me 0.68
00:05:00.480 clarify you got mad at him for not being able to fix a car and we just all gave you put money up to
00:05:04.540 go fix a car students like you let me explain why why you're actually just looking for an argument 0.76
00:05:08.880 because i'm saying it's not an argument i'm just trying to see the double standard what you're saying
00:05:12.160 feminists are actually a bit confused and they're screaming for so many things when in reality 1.00
00:05:16.780 what they're actually looking for is just yay well done that's it because women cannot go and do 1.00
00:05:21.880 newsflash men go to work all day every day and nobody thanks them exactly it's a thankless world
00:05:27.560 listen and that's what i'm saying having a movement for it is quite pointless say well done to yourself
00:05:31.940 and it's okay so i'm actually against feminism because it actually hinders me i get called that all 0.99
00:05:36.480 the time and it's so annoying completely agree with you i'm not because i've already told you
00:05:40.680 so why did you why do we all put up money to go fix a car if you're not exactly what you just
00:05:44.960 described okay and let me tell you why i am not a feminist in that essence because that's what i 0.98
00:05:50.600 want i want just somebody to say to me oh by the way i'm not if i tell you that i can fix a car oh
00:05:56.120 yeah cool that's good well done to you because i got skills validation so basically what you're seeking
00:06:00.700 validation what you're talking about she's exactly what she's describing right now i'm explaining to you
00:06:06.520 the difference between what they say they want what they actually really want that's it
00:06:10.480 because so what do you want well i just want to be able to be somewhere do something so yeah
00:06:15.360 that's really good well done so basically okay no i'm saying i'm belittling the fact that
00:06:25.100 feminists will stand there say equal rights we want all of this when in reality you're just 1.00
00:06:29.680 a sweet little girl that just wants to be like well done but they're and yet without all of those
00:06:34.320 movements you wouldn't be here 50 years ago yeah 50 years ago like without those women actually 1.00
00:06:42.920 taking the logic upon themselves you know using that logic whether it was to do what meant what
00:06:48.520 was the example that you gave when they were terrorists men have been known terrorists for
00:06:53.380 a very long time we're talking back to the 70s but what outcomes has that given for women has that
00:06:59.800 given us good outcomes are we happier no or do we have more children no are we on are we're on
00:07:06.480 antidepressants more than ever before yes is this because we're more sexually promiscuous than ever
00:07:12.920 before we're in less relationships than ever before more of us are childless over 30 than ever
00:07:17.900 before what outcomes has happened that it's that are good we can point to individual things and say
00:07:23.080 yes we're on a podcast that's fun but in society as as a whole what what good has it done it got me
00:07:30.320 to meet you
00:07:31.680 but also the other the other issue with it is at what point you're talking about yeah 50 years ago and
00:07:41.480 that's how you've got to this point and everything like that there's a sort of but there i believe there
00:07:44.800 isn't even playing field now in in certainly in the uk i think in the united states as well
00:07:49.180 canada all these anglosphere countries right i don't believe that women are now held back
00:07:53.060 in any material way okay in terms of the job market in terms of opportunities being an entrepreneur
00:07:57.820 etc etc so at what point at what point no absolutely but but absolutely but at what point do we say okay
00:08:04.960 right now the conversation is closed because now i would go even further and say that women have 1.00
00:08:11.160 more freedom than men yeah yeah yeah and that's the that's where it becomes destructive because it 0.98
00:08:17.380 seems now that the the the power balance has shifted more into the feminine and then guys are 0.82
00:08:23.780 actually being disadvantaged now i do think that's the that's the problem of modern day feminism i think 1.00
00:08:28.580 that um everyone wants women empowerment and i'm for women empowerment but we can't pick and
00:08:34.840 choose when we want feminism to take place say for example like we want a man to provide for us and 0.95
00:08:42.320 care for us and some people might want to be a housewife but then also you want the the other 1.00
00:08:47.920 side of it and you want to take control in the relationship or vice versa yeah but she doesn't 1.00
00:08:53.540 really want that like it's not actually equal because it's like who say for example certain areas of
00:08:59.680 work like a bin man very few women want to be a bin man they will say it's a man i would say zero 0.99
00:09:05.500 yeah they would say it's a man to check the applications but then if you want to look at
00:09:09.600 feminism you guys want equality but when it comes to certain jobs you don't want to do them when it 0.62
00:09:13.900 comes to certain certain instances you don't want to be involved in them so it doesn't really i think
00:09:20.340 feminists pick and choose yeah it benefits them no but i think something i would see i think the 1.00
00:09:26.160 issue here is you guys are not trying to like not you guys in general but just like women who are
00:09:31.400 like i'm not a feminist but everything that you've actually being made like and alive right now i mean
00:09:37.060 and it's back to my point of the 50 years ago 100 years ago when your ancestors and your great great
00:09:42.020 great grandmothers are sitting there in the kitchen unable to do anything yeah like feminism has benefited 1.00
00:09:47.940 every woman in today's society yeah i was about to say i would suspect those women are happier than 0.99
00:09:53.600 these women currently how and how are they happier they're not even here i would actually prefer to 0.97
00:09:58.600 be where women was in the 20s because the pressure for me as a lady to work can be very exhausting 1.00
00:10:03.220 so when you sit here and say that oh this is the reason why i'm here today most women really don't 1.00
00:10:07.640 most women i'll be honest with you we do all of this work boss chick stuff because of the pressure 1.00
00:10:11.900 that this feminist woman has put on women to not be lazy and to get up and work so when you sit here 1.00
00:10:17.180 and say oh this is the reason why you guys are here and da da da da da most of us really don't want to
00:10:21.640 just to correct something the first female millionaire was um in the early it was in 1900 1.00
00:10:33.980 so yeah the hair shop lady no but everyone says they couldn't um vote or they couldn't work until
00:10:38.880 like the 50s and 60s but before that there was a female millionaire so there someone did it 1.00
00:10:43.020 yeah that's nice weren't held back well to be honest making money is not really that hard
00:10:48.520 you know this is the thing if you are capable you can do anything whether you're a man or a woman
00:10:54.300 the problem with feminism i think is that it displaces women a lot of the time because you're 1.00
00:10:58.400 trying to make us be something that we're not like i work for myself i i i do i would say i am a boss
00:11:03.980 in what i do but i'm not a boss baby and i have to be proved to my man that i'm this woman and you
00:11:08.440 i deserve certain things i all i want is not because i'm a feminist just because i'm a person 0.97
00:11:12.540 that likes to be told well then i just want if i'm with a man to be like oh that's quite cool you
00:11:16.100 know well done for trying that that's it but i don't really get anything against that i don't really
00:11:20.480 get too many people sometimes especially the people that know me telling me things like oh your woman
00:11:25.060 you shouldn't do this so do you want validation from men or not i just want i don't it's not just
00:11:29.040 from men i want it from anybody even women that will look at me and be like no you can't do that
00:11:33.560 women do that to each other so i don't want to be boxed in because i'm a woman 1.00
00:11:36.360 i just want to be treated like normal just it's fine it seems like your value system is extremely
00:11:41.220 external and exists in other people's minds no not really this is in terms of the context of the
00:11:45.580 conversation because i think you can tell that i don't actually need a much external validation i'm
00:11:49.540 quite gassed by myself thank you but it seems like in some industries in say in london we're in london
00:11:54.300 now right i mean if you look at media industry if you look at advertising um uh certain types of like
00:11:59.580 information technology and stuff like that it's very actually female based you know you've got like say the 1.00
00:12:03.620 advertising industry you've got more female leaders in that space than you have men so it 1.00
00:12:07.860 seems to me at some point we have to say right well the balance has been addressed now
00:12:11.160 i think so it's getting there i think women need to just kind of like empower themselves 1.00
00:12:16.400 and then it becomes request for the stuff and then it goes back to what they were saying before which
00:12:19.780 is like okay man or woman you've got to go out into the world and you've got to bend it to your will
00:12:23.560 right you've got to make it you've got to make your own narrative and not and not fall back on these
00:12:27.520 you know yes yes you summed that up nicely i can see you've got good experience talking to people
00:12:33.540 and making them understand the simple and basics oh i like that thank you for summarizing it as many
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