JustPearlyThings - Pearl DESTROYED O.F Model for Saying This!

00:00:00.000 somebody single oh she's gone i had a question for her oh well um okay we're gonna go around

00:00:04.720 the table on this actually we're not gonna go around the table on this um zoe you had a viral

00:00:10.000 video recently on tiktok uh where you were giving some dating advice what was the title of the video

00:00:15.840 uh the very first one yeah it was like dating advice that no one wants to hear what was it

00:00:22.320 common sense dating advice that you don't want to hear but you need to hear right okay we were

00:00:27.120 gonna pull it up and watch it but unfortunately we can't so um i hate hearing myself speak sometimes

00:00:31.920 so uh what i don't know if you've committed it to memory but what were the tips that you offered in

00:00:37.760 that first uh video i think the very first one if someone wants to pull it up we can just because

00:00:43.600 like i've already made like six of them we we can't um so i would say the very first one was

00:00:48.880 if let's see like don't complain about cheating if you're willing to stick around for it you either

00:00:52.880 shut up and move on and learn how to work through it or leave um i'm trying to think of a based yeah

00:01:02.000 what does that mean face it just means like good is okay i'm new to the lingo i'm like what but i

00:01:08.640 think the one that pisses most people off is that i said men have it harder in life especially financially

00:01:13.600 but i was talking about dating in dating a hundred percent i feel like men and yes i know like my um

00:01:20.800 um what i compared it to i was like you know like men can't just sit here and bust their coochie open

00:01:26.720 on of for 10 grand a month was a little biased because it's literally my life but um yeah i don't

00:01:34.640 you want to go into that why i think that men well first we will go into that how about we go around 0.75

00:01:40.320 the table so who has it harder when it comes to dating men or women go ahead i think it definitely

00:01:47.680 does depend on the situation in general

00:01:53.600 i think men okay i think it depends on your standards but in general in general men i think

00:02:01.440 it's a lot of pressure i think men 100 percent oh that's so funny that everyone's saying this now

00:02:06.000 because the girlies in the comment were calling me pick nisha spring to sprinkle the dating specific 1.00

00:02:10.320 dating yeah specific to dating men yeah i feel like a lot of things in life men have it harder

00:02:16.240 yeah no into the mic i think we both equally have it hard men and women both well i don't know if

00:02:23.280 it's equally have it hard i think women have certain difficulties that perhaps men don't have but

00:02:28.240 of course and men have difficulties that women don't have yeah exactly i think generally speaking men

00:02:32.960 have a definitely a harder time with dating um what about you what do you think yeah i would say that men

00:02:38.240 have a pretty rough time if you if it like like you have these guys in your comments asking if

00:02:43.520 they're being overlooked because they're blue-collar and now it becomes this issue where and you you

00:02:49.840 talk about this and and actually you do too brian but a very small pool of men are the ones that get

00:02:54.240 all of the attention even though there are lots of good hard-working men who would love to find somebody

00:02:59.760 good and and have a relationship but because women are the gatekeepers of sex they have to compete 1.00

00:03:05.280 and it's difficult and it can be really discouraging and extremely lonely and that's why like after it

00:03:10.720 took me about a week to make a response video to all the girlies in my comments being like pick me 0.98

00:03:15.280 pick me because i really i had to sit down with a few of my girlfriends just to make sure that like 0.94

00:03:19.760 maybe my comment was a little like fucked up maybe i should like do some self-introspection which is 0.87

00:03:24.400 everything that i preach and then i came down to it as i do feel like in society especially when it comes

00:03:29.840 to dating we hold the power we hold the yes or the no's right they don't really have much say anymore

00:03:33.840 which i mean that's just the way the world works around it right now but i don't feel like we give

00:03:37.600 men enough compassion for the hardships that they face like we love men conditionally i don't i mean

00:03:43.680 in my relationship now is the first relationship i've actually practiced loving somebody unconditionally

00:03:50.320 so like when it comes to like money and when it comes to like dick size all this kind of

00:03:55.280 shit that we're so like i don't love you unless you have this yeah what about us and i feel like a lot 0.74

00:03:59.920 of women take this and they're like okay cool you want this out of a man but i i do not feel that

00:04:05.920 the question would you bring to the table is a bad question to ask because if all you can bring me is

00:04:10.160 that you have a fat ass and you have a pretty face and you can good that's gonna get the man but like 0.91

00:04:15.040 how are you gonna keep him that's the reason why i don't i don't care about the oh she's just a porn 1.00

00:04:19.760 star and only fans girl no i'm smart as and half of the men that can get that have gotten to know me

00:04:24.800 can all say the same thing like holy you smart as hell like why are you doing important i'm like well

00:04:28.800 because i'm capitalizing off the market okay i'm using my look to capitalize but i feel like a lot

00:04:33.920 of women that i meet which is the reason why 90 of my friends are guys and i know it sound i know

00:04:38.880 this is like feeding into more of the pick me thing but no i feel like men keep hold me accountable

00:04:44.640 i don't feel like a lot of women hold themselves accountable and especially so we're like always 0.99

00:04:48.640 preaching these standards and i i'll say the same thing for men i don't i don't do leftist i don't

00:04:52.960 do right i'm literally my shit is middle ground because i feel like women preach these crazy 1.00

00:04:58.000 standards that they can't even upkeep themselves men preach these crazy standards and like you know

00:05:01.840 like the whole men want a traditional wife but they're not traditional men 100 but i feel like

00:05:07.280 women are taken like we know when a man says oh i don't want a girl with a high body count we're like 1.00

00:05:12.880 that man's trash he's shit no that's just his fucking preference but then i feel like when women say 0.99

00:05:18.320 um like oh you know i want i want a man to make this this amount of money it's not coming from a place

00:05:25.440 of like she knows who she is she's she's coming from a place of like what society is sort of what

00:05:29.600 they should want victor underscore in men and men are just precious hold on just a sec hey look it's

00:05:35.840 pearl i like pearl i just got here thanks for the awesome content one more time it's a really nice vibe

00:05:43.760 to enjoy a coffee to and fire up the business much love brie and panel brie huh i feel like something in

00:05:52.320 that thank you victor in that same vein it's like it's never our fault when things go wrong and that's

00:05:56.880 something that i see a lot when women talk about different aspects of life it's never if you pick 0.98

00:06:01.920 if you pick shitty guys it's never your fault if you if you go into too much student debt it's never

00:06:06.640 your fault right if you don't negotiate well when you're trying to get a job it's never your fault

00:06:10.720 and that really hurts women because it doesn't actually empower us to take any sort of agency over 1.00

00:06:16.640 our own lives and actually make decisions and be responsible for our own actions but men have to do that 0.92

00:06:21.920 because if they do not they are not attractive partners and that's really an unfair standard

00:06:26.320 that our society has particularly in the u.s i think that that's a real problem yeah yeah

00:06:32.640 i mean that's just my sentiment about it you know what i was thinking about which is crazy

00:06:36.640 if you're a one percent guy like top one percent let's just say height money looks whatever you can't

00:06:43.920 expect a virgin like you can't or you can you can't if you're a top one yeah like they don't expect it

00:06:51.600 i'm not saying they don't want it but they don't expect it oh a top guy yeah doesn't expect a virgin

00:06:56.640 yeah and that's like that's just kind of speaks to the dating pool for like men today you can get

00:07:01.360 like to the top like one percent of men and you don't expect a virgin elaborate on that i mean like

00:07:07.120 what what do men look for typically historically purity youth right and attractiveness obviously pretty

00:07:13.120 in shape and so it's like you have a guy that can get to like the pinnacle of what women want like

00:07:18.720 you know tall muscles money whatever and like those guys don't expect a virgin because like

00:07:24.720 the quality of women has just gone down today like the average partner count is like what

00:07:29.040 i mean they say like between five and eight um and like you know that after like five to seven

00:07:36.800 partners your chance of a happy marriage drops to like 20 percent in 10 years roughly

00:07:40.880 why though yeah if you're i mean why does body count matter so much i mean i mean you're gonna

00:07:48.320 find different studies that i do think that part of the reason that your chance of having marriage go

00:07:54.000 down is because you have more experience and you know what you want all right and a lot of people

00:08:00.080 settle in marriage and relationships you know about it like oh i mean i just want to i just want to ask

00:08:04.560 like how is it working like how how is women having more partners working in society is it doing is it 1.00

00:08:10.480 leading us to having more fulfilling long happy relationships or not because 100 years ago we're

00:08:14.640 getting the relationships we're talking about people so 100 100 100 100 100 100 100 100 100 years ago

00:08:20.160 only 15 of women admitted to premarital sex 85 of women and then let's say they're a lot let's say 0.86

00:08:26.640 they're big liars and we double it okay that's still two out of three that were virgins on their wedding 1.00

00:08:30.640 nights and so like my question is are relationships in a better place today than they were 100 years

00:08:36.320 ago because say say what you want about relationships 100 years ago you cannot tell me that the way

00:08:40.960 relationships are today are working like half of our generation is afraid of getting married because

00:08:45.520 of what we've seen in our parents yeah like that is a horrible place to stay together because they felt

00:08:50.400 like they know they didn't our parents that's not true our parents are the most speak for your parents

00:08:54.880 or my no no i'm talking about i'm talking about like generationally no for so long women didn't 1.00

00:09:01.600 have the autonomy to say no and to ask for what they want and demand what they want and now women do 0.94

00:09:09.680 they can say no i don't want that i don't want you you don't make me happy i want what makes me happy

00:09:14.560 okay and that's why i think that is that what a relationship is about no i think it goes both ways

00:09:20.720 100 i think the man gets to say no that doesn't make me happy but the thing is is it was only

00:09:25.440 one-sided for so long i want to look at what outcomes have women had so not like personally

00:09:30.400 anecdotally this is just in society what outcomes has this led to one in three women have had an

00:09:36.000 abortion one in three women have an std 90 of women have been on contraceptives at one point in their

00:09:42.080 life women are on antidepressants more than ever before what has promiscuity led to why are we 1.00

00:09:48.560 magnifying us so well why can't we why can't we have a conversation about women without saying but

00:09:54.640 men like we're just talking about the women now so we can come back to the men later i'm not saying

00:09:59.520 men are perfect but i'm saying like if if we're so happy and promiscuity leads to great things why is

00:10:06.000 it when our body counts go up where we have more stds more abortions we're on antidepressants more like

00:10:13.200 it's not good antidepressants has anything to do with your body count yeah go ahead go ahead go ahead

00:10:19.360 i personally don't think that it's just like oh yeah you should just whoever whenever at any time

00:10:25.920 you want just legs wide open anyone can get in i don't think that that's necessarily healthy but i do

00:10:32.560 think that it is your it's your life and your decision if you if i want to have more than one sexual

00:10:39.680 partner in my life that's it i have and it hasn't like i'm okay on that topic let me just come in

00:10:47.200 here for a sec pearl um if you want to have more than one sexual partner at a time uh what's the

00:10:51.760 most you've had at one time oh at one time i don't think i've ever had more than one oh well then what

00:10:57.360 are you arguing for no i mean in my life like if i don't want to only ever have sex with hold on

00:11:02.480 one person thank you man appreciate it now that the u.s government has admitted that ufos are real

00:11:08.880 and we are about a year from them admitting non-human intelligence is real and has visited us

00:11:14.240 would you date outside your race alien would you date outside your your like 0.66

00:11:32.400 i would i would definitely alien i would so alien but like if it was a humanoid alien you know

00:11:40.000 but if it was like some fucking weird looking yeah but if it was like humanoid alien i'm down 0.87

00:11:48.560 why are you looking at me that way she has no poker face i'm just picturing some kind of like

00:11:56.080 giant spider with like fangs or some shit coming in like that's just not yeah i can't picture aliens

00:12:03.120 it's like avatar like a blue app like the blue avatar avatar that's not how i'm gonna take my hair

00:12:11.360 i need my extensions back y'all bro turbo you you wildin um who here would let's say it's like an

00:12:18.960 alien but it it kind of looks like a human like a human shape and it's like got parts and shit but

00:12:25.840 i don't know it's got like some weird i don't know i mean if it's hot and you'd

00:12:29.600 fuck an avatar oh hell yeah who here would fuck an avi what the navi i think they're called 0.94

00:12:35.280 yeah i don't know i don't know i i need to see like if he was cool if the alien was cool you'd

00:12:43.280 fuck him yeah i'm a vibes girl you're all about the vibe okay all right i got it okay wow that was an 0.90

00:12:53.200 interesting one okay we were talking about um you said you've only dated one person at the time yeah

00:13:00.160 word there's never been any crossover no i actually it it like really stresses me out

00:13:06.240 even when it comes for your friends are throwing you under the bus she just laughed at you there's

00:13:10.000 been like three days you don't even know me that well that one does okay so you're saying that maybe

00:13:14.400 there's like chas on sunday and gustavo it really stresses me out to try and juggle relationships so i 0.98

00:13:23.520 really try to avoid it just one at a time yeah in a 72 hour period what's the most amount of guys that

00:13:28.080 you've like ever ever hooked up with in a 72 hour period of time three days uh i think two two

00:13:36.160 is she telling the truth yes i think so you think that i'm like 99.9 doesn't that contradict what you

00:13:41.840 just said yeah but i when i was saying like sexual partners i meant more like relationship wise like if

00:13:48.640 i am involved with someone i don't want to be involved with anybody else at the same time

00:13:53.840 like i can't speak for everybody um i've had my nights where i got a little

00:13:58.640 too fucked up and made poor decisions good times um what about in a fortnight what's the most in 0.96

00:14:07.280 the fort in the fortnight it's like 14 days oh my goodness oh god i don't know because you said two

00:14:13.200 and 72 hours wait clarify the two and 72 hours was it 48 hours yeah was it 24 hours was it seven hours

00:14:22.480 was it one hour both at the same time or one right after the other just take the out oh what

00:14:33.040 well just admit it's the amid the threesome that's not it would i think it would be worse if it was like

00:14:39.280 one and then like 30 minutes later other dude you might as well just say yeah yeah okay

00:14:45.120 that's not the worst thing to do well in terms of like the scale of like sexual ethics and morality

00:14:52.960 which is uh whatever i feel like a threesome you think a threesome is better than i think a threesome 0.78

00:15:00.400 would be better than back to back i i don't disagree like because they know about it yeah like because

00:15:07.040 the second dude is just like just you know what i mean is this heron pearl um wait so but what about

00:15:14.800 the fortnight what's the most in the fortnight and we're going around the table on this one

00:15:18.480 so get ready i think it probably was within a fortnight so i'll say come on three yeah okay

00:15:24.640 kiana kumani what is it 14 days four score and seven years ago how many people i've slept with

00:15:34.240 in 14 days yeah we're in the porn industry what do you mean that's not fair civilian like civvies oh 0.99

00:15:41.920 civilians civilians i'll laugh at you too i think three three yeah well i yeah in the 70 how much

00:15:50.320 in the 72 hour period and then the fortnight two two and three two yeah for both or for just one i

00:15:58.960 think two yeah two for 72 hours it was two and then well i was pissed at the first one so i kind

00:16:03.280 of got back at him good times it was only two sure okay if you say so um wait so

00:16:12.160 counting johnny sins how much or sorry not like just with the porn industry including in 14 days

00:16:21.280 i've had i've had five shoots in 14 days before and one of those shoots was um a threesome so seven

00:16:31.120 word okay um what about you what's the most in 72 hours i mean i think three and three three and three

00:16:38.560 yeah 72 and fortnight what about you one for both yeah okay byronique what's up none honey i ain't

00:16:47.120 had no dick since uh september it's dry and it's a hard desert i ain't never had no fortnight whatever 0.76

00:16:55.520 toys are tired nothing dry rip okay um are you talking about like how many

00:17:02.800 how many people you've hooked up with within a 72 hour period throughout your whole life

00:17:07.440 and then also a 14 day period throughout my whole life i've already been over this i don't know my

00:17:12.480 number are you talking about like my back in a 72 hour period oh um like in 72 hours yeah like at the

00:17:20.400 most uh probably two wait uh chat really quick wait two in the 70 unless you're talking about threesomes

00:17:27.760 because i wasn't a polyamorous relationship with a female at one point in my life and that was the

00:17:32.320 last relationship i was in so sure okay yeah oh by the way chat can you let me know did flan life gift

00:17:39.840 50 did he gift 50 because if so we need to do a fit check did we get a 50 gifted chat hello um okay and

00:17:47.040 so in a fortnight two how many three no i said i said if we're are we counting threesomes because i had

00:17:54.000 an ex-girlfriend sure okay because because i had an ex-girlfriend we um we had a we had a threesome

00:18:00.480 um with well it's still it's still the same girl so do i count the same girl twice no no no just one

00:18:06.960 time okay then because that's just one body because yeah okay we can skip mikaela because yeah um 0.98

00:18:15.520 uh one i've only ever been with my husband so really yeah okay i highly hey i highly recommend it

00:18:22.000 yeah you're waiting i would highly recommend it highly recommend really stressful otherwise

00:18:27.760 so you said so like i don't know i think my 72 hours and then 14 i was like 19 i had a foursome with

00:18:33.680 three girls in the back of my honda civic and then i don't know so i'd say 72 hours probably like 0.95

00:18:38.000 five i was so young okay i didn't do a honda i don't know man i had some twister all really skinny

00:18:47.920 out we were drunk as there was some in the front some in the back and the middle it was great how

00:18:52.320 do you comfortably it was not comfortable we were drunk as i don't even know if we did it correctly

00:18:57.040 i just know that coochies somebody was falling out of the window yeah somebody got to come from like

00:19:02.240 the roof and yeah the sunroof you're just right in the center two weeks

00:19:07.520 uh archduke franz fernand back there do you want to answer this

00:19:14.480 are we doing a check just one in the set in the fortnight 14 days you sure about that okay

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JustPearlyThings - May 27, 2023

Pearl DESTROYED O.F Model for Saying This!

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