JustPearlyThings - May 26, 2023


Pearl Wants This From Her Dream Man


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

201.34883

Word Count

1,443

Sentence Count

200

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode, the guys talk about what they look for in a significant other and why they don t get it. They also talk about how to find the perfect partner and how much money you should be making in order to have a good relationship.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're single.
00:00:01.380 So what does your ideal man look like?
00:00:04.560 Ideal guy.
00:00:06.400 I would say I like guys that are super conservative.
00:00:10.940 Ideally in the U.S., because that's kind of been an issue I'm moving.
00:00:15.200 So ideally he'd be in the U.S.
00:00:17.200 What kind of money does he need to make?
00:00:20.180 Maybe like U.S. dollars, like $40,000, $50,000.
00:00:25.020 $40,000, $50,000?
00:00:26.000 Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
00:00:27.540 Everyone's going to say I'm capping.
00:00:28.520 It depends what he does.
00:00:30.000 I know, everyone's going to say I'm capping.
00:00:31.300 Well, okay, well, let's start out.
00:00:32.900 It depends what he does.
00:00:34.360 We're not trying to diagnose you and break you down, but you're very successful.
00:00:38.720 Yeah.
00:00:39.160 Okay, I know you do more than six figures.
00:00:40.840 We're not going to talk about it.
00:00:42.100 Okay, but how tall are you?
00:00:44.520 I'm six foot.
00:00:45.560 Oh, my gosh.
00:00:46.060 I know.
00:00:46.620 And you got heels on.
00:00:47.680 Like, guys, you know, I'm comfortable with my height.
00:00:52.400 I sound like, I'm comfortable with my weight.
00:00:54.440 No, but you're tall.
00:00:56.540 Yes, yeah.
00:00:57.800 No, I was thinking about it.
00:00:58.880 And I'm like, yeah.
00:01:00.680 Because I'm the average height in America.
00:01:03.080 That's, what, 5'9".
00:01:04.140 Okay.
00:01:04.860 So, I'm short.
00:01:06.760 But we've all done the numbers on six foot tall, six figure six pack abs, right?
00:01:11.360 Right.
00:01:11.520 The probability is, like, less than a percent.
00:01:13.560 Yeah, and that's why I'm like, I got to go, like...
00:01:16.060 Because every year, your income is going up.
00:01:19.460 Right.
00:01:19.840 The more successful your brand becomes.
00:01:21.400 Right.
00:01:21.940 Right?
00:01:22.320 And you're 26.
00:01:23.200 You're at the perfect age.
00:01:24.680 Right?
00:01:25.180 So, the question is, because it'll get exposed, you have to find a man that's going to be comfortable
00:01:30.540 with being exposed to being married to you.
00:01:32.660 Right.
00:01:33.180 Because your last relationship...
00:01:34.740 Yeah, you know, they're, yeah.
00:01:37.900 They went after him.
00:01:38.780 They did, yeah.
00:01:40.000 Is that why you guys broke up or no?
00:01:42.160 No.
00:01:43.120 I...
00:01:43.640 They all say he dumped me.
00:01:45.300 I was like, I broke up with him.
00:01:47.100 I'd like to set that straight.
00:01:47.980 Okay, okay.
00:01:48.540 But, no, it was...
00:01:49.920 I just think our backgrounds were a bit too different.
00:01:52.120 I just couldn't see it, like, long term.
00:01:53.780 Somebody said 40, 50K, stop the cash.
00:01:57.300 I mean, it depends how old he is.
00:01:59.360 Okay, okay, let's talk about this.
00:02:00.760 Okay, okay.
00:02:01.060 Because you said my...
00:02:02.360 Okay, just so you guys know, Pearl's talking about moving back to the U.S.
00:02:06.500 We're all, like, move to Vegas, move to Vegas.
00:02:09.520 Now, she's right.
00:02:11.360 When you look at Las Vegas from the outside in, it's like,
00:02:13.480 the bottom of hell where Lucifer lives, right?
00:02:15.640 Okay.
00:02:16.100 It's not, but it does look like that.
00:02:17.980 But if you move to Miami, that's expensive.
00:02:21.280 Okay.
00:02:22.020 It's expensive on the Strip, but outside the Strip, it's very affordable.
00:02:25.700 Now, Florida is a good option, but I think Vegas is better for you.
00:02:28.840 More people come in.
00:02:29.700 I'm going to shoot for you.
00:02:30.860 We need you on our side of the West Coast.
00:02:33.020 Represent.
00:02:33.660 West side, right?
00:02:34.880 But here, 100K, you're doing really well in Vegas.
00:02:39.000 Okay.
00:02:39.220 Really well.
00:02:39.640 But the average income for a man in America is $51,000, right?
00:02:44.300 A black man is $41,000, right?
00:02:46.140 Okay.
00:02:46.640 So you say $40,000, $50,000, you've got to stop the cap because it's not going to work.
00:02:49.940 I'm not saying you're lying, but you're just guessing because you don't know.
00:02:52.340 But imagine going to Miami and London.
00:02:56.160 London is expensive.
00:02:56.980 Okay.
00:02:57.420 New York, London.
00:02:58.280 Okay.
00:02:58.820 Miami, a little bit less than London, but it's expensive.
00:03:02.460 So now you're in the top 1%, and he's got to be 6 feet tall because when you've got
00:03:07.580 heels on, you've got conservative heels on, it's an inch and a half.
00:03:11.220 Yeah.
00:03:11.760 Now how tall are you?
00:03:13.440 Like 6'1", too, roughly.
00:03:15.520 And he's got to learn.
00:03:16.240 He has to be able to take it to the hoop because you're going to dunk on him, right?
00:03:20.160 I mean...
00:03:20.900 Because you play basketball.
00:03:23.120 Yes.
00:03:23.620 Yes, I do.
00:03:24.300 So what if he can't hoop?
00:03:25.480 I mean, I don't care.
00:03:26.640 You're going to embarrass him?
00:03:28.100 I mean, well, I've done that before.
00:03:30.800 I didn't...
00:03:31.600 I forgot as a girl, you're supposed to let the guy win.
00:03:34.180 Oh, how embarrassing.
00:03:35.300 I know.
00:03:35.840 I know.
00:03:36.280 I have done that where I was seeing someone, and I beat them in basketball.
00:03:40.760 And I actually...
00:03:42.300 I would say, girls, let them win.
00:03:44.080 Like, you shouldn't do that.
00:03:45.560 Yeah.
00:03:46.040 What position did you play?
00:03:48.080 Forward?
00:03:48.560 I was a center.
00:03:49.580 Oh, my gosh.
00:03:50.420 Yeah.
00:03:50.800 Could you dunk?
00:03:51.780 No.
00:03:52.180 I was too...
00:03:52.840 I could touch...
00:03:53.620 I could touch 9'10", which is like 2 inches from rim.
00:03:56.900 Like, my peak.
00:03:57.980 I don't think I could jump that high now.
00:03:59.580 Do you think you could have went pro?
00:04:01.280 Yeah, I could have.
00:04:02.120 I had a pro contract offered to me in the fall.
00:04:04.380 If the YouTube thing didn't take off, I probably would have taken it.
00:04:07.340 Wow.
00:04:08.020 Yeah.
00:04:08.360 Because that's what...
00:04:09.220 Because I took three years off.
00:04:10.820 I worked in sales.
00:04:11.980 That's why I give the 40, 50 a year, because that's what I used to make.
00:04:15.620 So I'm like, is it real?
00:04:16.820 Like...
00:04:17.260 Because I think, like, would I date someone that worked the same job I used to work?
00:04:20.940 I'm like, well, it was a good job.
00:04:22.820 I respect the job.
00:04:23.680 Yeah, but when was that?
00:04:24.520 How many years ago?
00:04:25.120 Uh, like, I don't know, two, three years ago.
00:04:28.900 But you were in Milwaukee.
00:04:30.740 Yes.
00:04:31.320 Yes.
00:04:32.020 Yeah.
00:04:32.600 I mean, it's not expensive to live in Milwaukee.
00:04:34.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:35.400 Right?
00:04:35.660 In fact, they're losing population.
00:04:38.000 Are they really?
00:04:38.780 Yeah.
00:04:39.180 I didn't know that.
00:04:39.940 I like the city.
00:04:40.960 It's too bad.
00:04:42.320 Well, I mean, that's okay.
00:04:43.960 So it's official.
00:04:45.360 She's moving to Las Vegas.
00:04:46.580 What day?
00:04:47.240 No, I'm just kidding.
00:04:47.740 So, no, but you're, are you, how are you preparing yourself?
00:04:52.180 Because this is, this gets asked by women.
00:04:54.480 Right.
00:04:55.440 You said you're single.
00:04:56.520 Yes.
00:04:57.340 Are you, and I hate this when women say this, but I'm not looking.
00:05:01.600 Are you looking?
00:05:03.740 Honestly, you're busy, but are you keeping an eye out?
00:05:07.600 Yeah.
00:05:07.940 Do you check DMs?
00:05:09.040 I do check DMs.
00:05:10.140 Okay.
00:05:10.800 The issue now is I want, I want to date someone in the U.S. because I don't see myself long
00:05:16.080 term in the U.K.
00:05:16.660 What nationality?
00:05:17.320 Black, white, or other?
00:05:18.780 Anything.
00:05:19.340 It doesn't really, I haven't, I've never gone for like, um, guys that are like Asian, but
00:05:24.020 mostly it's because they're like a lot shorter than me, you know, like, like a lot.
00:05:27.560 I'm actually okay.
00:05:28.360 If they're a little shorter, I don't really mind.
00:05:30.000 Okay.
00:05:30.320 Okay.
00:05:30.940 But yeah.
00:05:32.340 Do you want a conservative guy?
00:05:33.560 Yes.
00:05:34.240 And how many kids do you want to have?
00:05:36.200 Um, I've always said, like, ideally.
00:05:40.560 Four, um, but I'd be, I'd be, I'd be, but at least, but I'm okay with, as long as I
00:05:45.520 have two, I'm okay.
00:05:46.480 Oh my God.
00:05:47.140 40K kind of girlfriend.
00:05:48.780 You got to make 250 a year.
00:05:50.640 No, that's good.
00:05:51.220 So you want to be married then?
00:05:52.300 Yeah, I do.
00:05:52.700 Okay.
00:05:52.920 Okay.
00:05:53.120 So you see the fear shifting gears.
00:05:55.460 See the, the fear.
00:05:56.640 We talked about this earlier, men in America and the fear of us right now.
00:06:01.520 And I look at it from a business perspective.
00:06:03.180 If you take a hundred marriages, 51% are divorced.
00:06:06.340 Correct.
00:06:06.620 And out of those 51%, 75 to 80%, the women are filing for divorce.
00:06:11.180 And I was getting, well, why are they filing?
00:06:13.260 Why are they filing?
00:06:14.340 And what's, what's funny, they say that, but then I talked to some of the women and they're
00:06:18.100 like, um, I just, I just wasn't happy.
00:06:21.380 I just, I just, it, there was no energy.
00:06:24.700 I'm like, what?
00:06:25.680 Well, well, marriage in 2023 isn't marriage.
00:06:28.660 It is not marriage today.
00:06:30.280 What is it?
00:06:30.700 Like it's something else.
00:06:32.360 Like we can't, we can't call it marriage.
00:06:34.300 If you can like, what, what is marriage?
00:06:35.900 It's supposed to be for better, for worse, for richer and poor, for poor, for sickness
00:06:39.480 and in health.
00:06:40.220 Not until I felt like leaving.
00:06:42.260 Right.
00:06:42.560 And so it's like, when you have a contract that is supposed to be for life and now anyone
00:06:47.580 can leave for any reason.
00:06:48.620 I just think it like marriage today isn't marriage.
00:06:51.520 It's just at this point, a long-term relationship.
00:06:53.920 Do you, do you feel women are rewarded to get divorced?
00:06:57.380 Oh yeah.
00:06:57.900 Oh my gosh.
00:06:59.100 Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:07:00.500 And I, I especially learned this through the divorce documentary that I'm doing when I,
00:07:04.400 when I interview these men that are like getting like actually completely wrecked by these women.
00:07:09.020 Oh my gosh.