Pearl DISMANTLES Her ABSURD Claim
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In this episode, we discuss the Black Lives Matter movement and its impact on the black community. We also discuss the lack of representation of black people in the media, and the role of the Black community in society.
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i have a question i have a question do you think throwing money at a problem solves it of course
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not so so like throw it at me it will solve it yeah are you a stripper can i also make one point
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you said that um black lives matter helped businesses and black people build their brand
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or whatever but i think we need to also question how long is that gonna last because i feel like
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this is just gonna last for like the last two five years and after that it's gonna go back to
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it's already blown over yeah well it's it's going starting to withdraw the people that got leg up
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even if it did solve that problem in a sense where they're supporting black businesses
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it didn't solve the main matter at hand people representing on tv like zz mills is on channel
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four now but i wasn't a sister is there with another sister presenting prime time the problem
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was white cops killing black people the problem wasn't not having her answer was they put a black
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person on team representation you inspire other people to want to do the same because it didn't
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solve the problem no the problem doesn't get solved like this zz mills is on tv because she's
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talented to insinuate it's because of blm pretty racist yeah i'm not gonna lie if you understand
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the industry you know i ain't lying come for me if you want to wait so there we go hold on one point
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who understands the industry better than me well in the uk in london yes i built the biggest
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podcast in london you built the biggest podcast what do you know about the london people them here
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not as much as i do i've lived here for longer than you i've met hundreds in the past you've met
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them do you know their history you don't so you can't actually tell me that you know more about
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the come up okay okay do you think zizi mills is on tv because she's talented i'll tell you why
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she's yes or no i think she's talented but guess why she's on tv and why she was given prime time
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because they want to now make inclusivity and diversity something that's the forefront of a lot
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but it also sounds like you're admitting that there's an advantage for being black and it has
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nothing to do with skill set and diversity and inclusion so where's the mindset that black people
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are oppressed no if you're getting a job for representation this is not what i said i said
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the fact that people are talking about certain situations is making other people give our community
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more opportunities which then creates more representation more inspiration the problem starts
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to get so sounds like you're getting jobs over your skin color no but it doesn't matter because
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the whole point is at least i'm there when flying a plane it matters well these emails is talented
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that's why they picked her they wouldn't just pick you know why can't it be that because i feel like
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they picked her over someone else yeah but i feel like saying it's because she's black takes away
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from her skill set you're taken away from her 100 let me tell you people i take cancel me if you want
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but diversity inclusivity is now something that every corporate company is talking about they're raving
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about it so it doesn't matter what you do with the opportunities up to you but if you're smart
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you take this opportunity because right now you can make a lot of money so are you oppressed or not
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i'm not of course not that's why i said me being black is actually a superpower it depends actually
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i'm not a victim if you was gonna run for a prime minister that you would be faced
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rishi sunak is prime minister and he's brown isn't he yeah
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yeah nah i mean i don't agree with that i mean he didn't get elected we do have a female black
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vice president his representation right we did obama i mean it is possible guys it is possible
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and if you look at like the percentages of white people versus black people just the actual percentages
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you know y'all do really really well y'all have a lot of millionaires like we do i tell you who i
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really admire who i really admire is lil wayne he's one of my favorite people because when he asked
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about that he he doesn't live in that way and he was so fucking successful not living that way
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and just doing his thing and i just i know i've said it three four times i just want every young
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person seeing this to hear it you can do it bro you really can and don't live any other way but you
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can that's it you can do it and going back to the victim mindset i would say that um a lot of people
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wouldn't even go and apply for that role to be president or prime minister because they think like
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that because they think okay i'm black there's i'm not gonna i don't have a chance
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in all fairness i don't have a chance you actually went to go and do it and you actually put in the
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effort and you were talented and you over 30 years and doing everything he had to do to get in the
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position to even win because i mean the presidency is not something you apply for right yeah it's like
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over time you come to know that hey i got a shot at this thing and he ran for it dude if candace owens
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ran tomorrow vote for her ass straight up i would vote for candace owens ran for president tomorrow i would vote for
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her i would vote for her that's such a i would why because i think she's intelligent i think she
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knows her shit and she's based as fuck very base yeah i think sometimes that's the whole point of
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what i'm trying to say sometimes and it's not because she's black by the way i know but zero because
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of that you brought up danielba you brought up quotas before quotas which is like getting um a job
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because of your gender or your race i brought them up for one no but i'm saying you seemed like you said it
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was a good thing you think it's a good thing i think so don't you think it's kind of a slap in the face
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because it's saying that you can't do it yourself no not really the reason why i think quotas are i
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think quotas are racist and sexist but but it is but the reason why i i'm i'm a bit like i'm kind
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of going on the whole thing of use race as your superpower i don't really care about why you're
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doing it as long as i'm there and i can make something good out of it then great i'll go there
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and i'll turn it it's an opportunity so if i if somebody now was saying to me okay because
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you're mixed race and you got curly hair we want you to present this show primetime tv but it's because
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you got curly hair be like yeah no stress let me do it let's see how i'm gonna do i'm gonna get
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famous i'm gonna make money i can open another business i can empower through that opportunity
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that came from a bad reason well i think what what is good about what you're saying is you're talking
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about seizing the opportunity and you're talking about using whatever whatever prospects come along
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to get where you want to get to i think there's a there's almost like a schism in this conversation
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isn't there because i think what what these guys are talking about and probably what i'm talking
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about is more mindset based and over here we're getting into the weeds about some of these social
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issues which do exist 100 they do exist but ultimately overall what we need to do we need
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to transcend that because actually i mean social class is a huge thing as well right and actually
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you've you sort of paid lip service to that i mean so it's not like rishi sunak he's the prime
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minister of the united kingdom but he came from an incredibly privileged background right so social
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class is a big thing whether you're black or white or asian or whatever um but people from very
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underprivileged social backgrounds can also go on to become hugely successful so what we all need
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to do is think sod my background i don't my race my ethnicity all of that stuff it's irrelevant how am
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i going to go out there and change the world today what am i going to do what steps am i going to take
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to make a dent in this universe before i die in this short period of time i've got here and furthermore
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setting up the generations that come behind you yeah because for that man to be in a position to be
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prime minister probably his grandpa was a g his grandpa's grandpa was a g like so it's a legacy thing
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and creating a family that sticks together and has certain family values that can literally propel
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into the future normally it takes a couple generations to create a rockefeller type family
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yeah and so if if people start today building that legacy then it's a really huge thing in fact
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i just got a text yesterday from an nba player that wants to like talk business about something
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i knew who he was because he was in the league but his father and grandfather own a large portion
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of real estate in baton rouge and i knew who they were just from the real estate world
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and so when kyle is his name's kyle's temple he's been he's the class he's my favorite nba player
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not because he's the best players because he's a fucking class act gentleman you know i'm saying
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like yes i'll do whatever whatever kyle wants to do let's do it let's do let's make money bro
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and my suit guy's a black guy he knew him he gave him my cell phone number the guy that made this suit
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black guy right gave me the contact the plug i don't care because money's green
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and he and that family the temple family is a great example of a legacy family
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and that can be made if young men see that it's a possibility
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what about women women too yeah women too but the thing the thing about women is this
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you have to understand there's primal parts of us and most often like she was saying earlier
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a woman would much rather be with a strong man she looks up to and be inside the frame of the family
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and do the maternal things the things that matter the things that the world cannot live without
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a mother i think being a mother is one of the strongest most impressive hard jobs
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on the planet that baby will not sleep you can't get any sleep you've been pregnant your body's torn
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up and then you still have to nurture that baby and not get upset with it not shake it
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not you know it's maddening right like let's not belittle that job one of the most important jobs
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on the planet because you're molding the next generation that might be that legacy holder
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for your race or or your family or whomever so i think that it's really really really important
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that we put mothers on a pedestal more than we put rappers and i don't mean that to disrespect you
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i just mean it because it's what's important for the children and the thing is that feminism
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bullshit that even when we were talking about oh you get to work you get to do this well we got
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to be mothers i mean my grandma um she had uh she had nine kids and she said her one regret in life
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it wasn't dropping 16 bars on sway and i think and i think that's one of the worst things about feminism
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is because if i was to speak out now and say that i just want to be a stay-at-home wife with six kids
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people will look at me when i'm saying he's lazy but i think that's like the best part of a woman's
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life is having kids and raising them is a privilege you want to hear what's going to call you lazy
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though huh you know who's going to belittle that probably one of other women yeah men aren't going
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to look down at you for that it's it's the competition this is why it's important no they wouldn't
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this is why women need to be very careful who they keep around because a lot of time you're in
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competition with each other and misery loves company whenever a woman now on social media
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when they see like a famous woman in a happy relationship you see them all the time trying
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to bring them down trying to catch them cheating they want to be at the same level because it's
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jealousy misery loves company and so a lot of the friendships that women have they aren't productive
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whatsoever a lot of them are feeding garbage when you get in a breakup when you have problems with
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your boyfriend and you go talk to your girlfriends what do they say leave him leave him right now let's
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go to the club they don't actually promote anything positive they just want to bring you back down to
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degeneracy and watch out she might text him i had a friend that told me to leave him but was texting him
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yep those are female friends and that's that's what's really destructive about feminism is that you talk
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about female empowerment and then you guys bring each other down more than men do that's actually the real
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misogyny is you trying to destroy each other's lives and ruin each other's relationships for jealousy
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we're not the misogynist because i'm speaking aggressive it's misogynist to not want a woman
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to be a mother which is the happiest state a woman could ever be in how can you say that what did i
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say that's wrong what is wrong about what i said just say what you just said i'm not repeating it for
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you like see you right now perfect example you don't even hear what i said it's the way i said it and
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now you're upset you don't even know why you're mad i know what you said what i say okay okay what
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did he say that was wrong it's how i said it what did he say that was wrong what about all the barren
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women what about women that can't have kids they're what they're miserable have you ever have you
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ever spoken to a woman that can't have kids that's barren yes they're usually miserable they're not
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happy with that and if you talk to you know what percentage of women that don't have kids are happy
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with it less than 20 percent the majority of women that don't have kids are not happy so he's right
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what did he say that was wrong that's a perfect example of feelings over facts she pulled the greta
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thought her tell me tell me what what did he say that was incorrect she's what how dare he exists
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what did i say that was wrong yeah what did he say you just sound you're just it's just like
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you're throwing out these facts like oh and you think girls are jealous a woman's sole purpose is to
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be a mother okay there's nothing more there's nothing more okay whilst i do believe there is nothing
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more important than not actually i don't believe that i don't believe that there's there's more to
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women in society and this is what's more important than having children name name name five things
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being healthy no no no i'm not asking you to know what what's name five things
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your actual career your dreams from a little girl yeah we from from a child all girls we all have a
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dream like whatever the prince charming usually not all of us have the prince charming dream being
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stable okay okay okay okay so wait wait wait i just want to talk to you so so your career
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what else what else is more important your mental stability your health your um contribution to
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society outside of motherhood so so you're you're 65 okay by yourself okay your career is more
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important yeah i'm a cat mom and i've got a great career i've made i've made i've left i've made my
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mark in this world just like a man has like just like because if a man doesn't have kids at 65 the
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society look at him in any way would i agree that mental stability is important but for me if i hit
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let's say 30 and i have no kids my mental stability will be very low i will be depressed and even though
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i want to be this i want to be that i want to have a career so badly if i don't have kids
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like i wouldn't know what to do you're completely right let me just tell you something right now like
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you said you're going to be a cat mom no i'm saying i'm not saying i'm going to be i'm saying
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there's women like that is that what you're on the right path and not only that women tend to
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lesbians is that what you want genuinely i'm not trying to be aggressive do you want to be a cat
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mom rapper you talk about your contribution to society it's dropping a rap song having an
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instagram like where your your tits are out and then having some cats is that what you want that
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what you think women do is that i haven't seen your motherhood that's probably what that's the only
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value you see in a woman the only thing that i'm asking you no but i'm saying the only thing the
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only value that a woman has in your eyes is motherhood so every that's the most important
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that's the most every woman you get with as long as she has kids she's valuable i'm not talking about
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but is that what you're trying to say the highest contribution to society a woman has is mothering
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so what's the what's the highest contribution that a man has in your opinion invent build and
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maintain society can i just challenge you quickly didn't you say that there would be none of this
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without women having children you said that in the beginning but i'm what i'm trying to say is i don't
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like the fact that there's a lot of men who have this mentality towards women i don't see your value
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as a woman outside of let me marry you let me breed you like a fuck like a fucking cow and then you know
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like you're gonna stay there i'm gonna do what i need to do and all your whole purpose in your whole
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existence is to do nothing but have my kid but that is crazy but why is that but why is that wait why is
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that a bad thing it's not a bad thing that's what that's what i look at look at that's what my
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grandma did she had nine kids and now she has over 50 grandkids and i feel like you're trying you're
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making it seem more terrible than what she is you compare motherhood to being a cow you just
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compared motherhood to breeding being bred like a cow comparing like the attitude that i heard what
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she said why are you trying to fix because you're misinterpreting what she said i heard something
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different she's not saying that she's saying the attitude that people have to say that women should
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just be mothers and your motherhood is the most important thing and she belittled it no wait wait
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wait that's wait yeah yeah what she's trying to really say is that attitude that you say that
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that's what women are for what they are about makes it look like we're just like little what do you
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call the cows like cattle like what do you call the dog the dog girl uh bitch is that what you call
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this female dog no one said that word i see you starting to realize this you're the jesus lover over
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here hold on you're starting to realize the mindset that a lot of these women have they're comparing
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motherhood to being bred like a cow i feel like it's just very backwards because i feel like
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with you and i'm not trying to attack you but i just feel like you're trying to make it seem more
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dark than what it actually is a lot of men yes they're very privileged by the fact that they've
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picked the women and they want to have children with them but it's not just centered around them
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maybe they just love their company it's not maybe they just love their softness you're just making
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it seem like men just come and just like let me have your children that's like five percent of men
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it's not it's not that the men it's not in the vast majority of cases it's not that the men just
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look at the woman as this kind of breeding animal he's like right i'm going to impregnate her it's
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this very animalistic thing i mean we're talking about love we're talking about he falls in love
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with that woman he wants to to rebuild a family to build a family with her and that's an incredible
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thing can you explain what you're talking about what are you talking about then if you're not talking
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about that no i don't think they're talking about that because they haven't made it clear you just
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said that motherhood's the most important thing so for you your sole purpose is to get with a woman
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and have a kid with her and that's bingo that's all she can do i want to clarify as many of you know i
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