Pearl Drops Red Pill Truth Bombs on the Panel
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Summary
In this week's episode, the lads discuss how to deal with a husband who doesn't want to have sex with you anymore, what it means to be a good wife and why women are not loyal enough to their husbands.
Transcript
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female condition is very different to a man as well like we we do like to no offense but picket
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things yeah whereas a man will be very much more upfront about it and if they have an issue with
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something they would just most of the time most of the time not all men i i know not all men are
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quite as straightforward as that but most men will just say it as it is whereas women will
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sugarcoat things and kind of i'm going to be straightforward me it makes it more complicated
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so if you can't take it don't give it no what my opinion on it is oh um i actually haven't seen
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this response video to me i was sent it so let's um do i want to show the original tick tock you know
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what okay i do want to can you click my original tick tock i sent tick tock awry this week oh my
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gosh awry um what oh yeah but you have to it's a stitch you got to click the
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okay are you gonna show it okay i'll look it i know i had something on my shirt i'd like to say
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i'm in the comments thank you i don't know i don't know how to curl my hair my friend does
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you naturally straight hair no i just that's the only thing i know how to do
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i don't know how to do anything else fair enough you do you you do you um okay wait go ahead
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so i sent the internet awry with this a muck i've done that a lot this week okay
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so a lot of the wives are triggered on this app saying i'm young inexperienced don't know what
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i'm talking about but i listen to what the men say every single day through consultations through
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what i do for work youtube videos made about you guys don't shoot the messenger i'm just letting you
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know a lot of you are shitty wives sorry okay this is the wrong one i thought it was a different one
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okay my the one i'm talking about because i was responding to the other one i just said okay look
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if you don't clean you don't cook and you don't have sex with him what does he get out of that
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and that's a shitty wife and you leave and take half that's a shitty like it's like ouch
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i mean you've got you've got a point what does he get out of the basic principle of marriage
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this is what i said you're a shitty wife okay if you get fat oh god you're not loyal because you
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know 70 to 80 percent of women in the us are overweight 70 80 percent yeah so yeah so so that's
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one two we're not loyal we leave 70 to 80 percent of the time on top of that um one out of four
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marriages is sexless so and i i can't imagine most women really have their original recipes really
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cater to men support them so it's like can we really say we're doing a good job as a group i'm
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including myself in this right but i'm just saying as a group can we say we're we're offering a lot
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i feel like a lot of it comes down to the fact that marriage is now a nearly a political statement
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it's nothing to do with the religion aspect of it i'm not religious myself but i
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come from a very religious background i'm born and raised in northern ireland very religious and
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all the basis of marriage is like the core elements of it you take religion out of that
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yeah marriage kind of is nothing but a statement yeah she's right no you're right because it's the
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because religion has become you know watered down and fewer people are religion religious today and
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also societal constraints but the societal constraints came out of religion didn't they
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you know the whole reason that it was so um frowned upon for people to be divorced and certainly for
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women to be divorced in the past was because of the religious aspects to it we'll take out the religion
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and suddenly it's like well what is the incentive do you know i mean there is no incentive and that's
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the that's the problem with the marriage contract now i also think that's quite sad because i feel
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like marriage has lost its meaning like let's not forget marriage is a beautiful thing it's a sacred thing
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but that's only that's only if you're religious that's the issue that that is coming up at the
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minute i think they come at the marriage but but you'll i understand what you're saying like in some
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people can just be in relationships and not get married but you're forgetting that you don't actually
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get that security the type of security that you get when you're married but the man doesn't get the
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security because 70 we said the women leave i would say yeah it's women's fault we don't get security
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okay we wanted to work we said send us to work and then we go to work and now the wages are cut in
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half for everyone when you got double the amount of employees it's our own fault and then women women
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who's in charge of sex right so women set up you know what i used to require marriage to have sex with
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me now we don't do that so it's our own fault it broke down because of women
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i'll tell you i'll tell you this my grandma my grandma
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old lady sweet lady she had nine kids my dad had 13 my mom and i got a lot big family right
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and you know she's getting older right and i asked her um like grandma why do you think like the divorce
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rate spiked so much because the divorce rate really went um up in the 60s right and i was like grandma
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like what like why is that like what happened you were you around right she looks at me she says birth
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control made him do it oh wow oh okay she doesn't know about stats but if you look at the birth control
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rate and the divorce rate they're the same so what are you saying that the birth control does something
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to the women kind of thing no i think women just wanted to sleep around oh yeah lovely i mean birth
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control has shown to have a difference in your yeah because i've heard about attractiveness
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basically it's just what you're attracted to at the time when you're a hormonal yeah i heard that
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some really interesting research i'm very scientific i i studied science as a degree some really interesting
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research on it have you but it still doesn't give to a reason for difference have you heard about
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women who get married to a dude when they're on birth control and they come off yeah yeah again that's
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not a materialistic thing though at least at least it's just it's something a bit deeper though in it
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do you know why that is that because when she's on the birth control she's looking for a certain type
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of dude it's a completely different hormonal imbalance in the body so when you come off the birth
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control is it different hormone balances is it basically when she's on birth control she's
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looking for a more of a dad kind of character then she comes off it she's looking for life
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i think it's personal preference it's naturally what she would have been attracted to i thought
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you were right because i thought it was because doesn't when you're on birth control like the body
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tricks you into thinking you're pregnant yeah yeah and you're looking for those aspects like a strong
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man man with good selective genes good um i thought you wanted the resources because you already got
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you but that that's the you when you feel like you're pregnant you want that security but then
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when you come off it it's just go wild in it i mean that's the issue though isn't it they come off
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it and they're like they go on so they want they're more they're more up for yeah yeah any anything
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because there's an idea there's i don't know if you guys agree with this or not but there's an idea
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in the men's online you know advice space that basically women look for two different things they look
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for the dads and they look for the cats so they look for the guys who are more like the provider guys
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more who's he's a nice guy he's dependable he's solid he's got a good pension pension plan in
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place you know all that stuff and then you've got the sexy the sexy dude over here who maybe hasn't
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got any of that stuff but he's ripped and he's like devil may care and he's like you know he's that kind
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of and and and there's this idea that women look for those two things so what it sounds like you're
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saying is that on the birth control they go for the first and then they come to birth control they're
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like right where's chad yeah where's the poor boy you think these days men wants kids more than
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women wants kids no i don't know i think it's i i think today's society though it's not more about
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what the man or woman wants it's more about what's being pushed on you yeah so a lot of people are
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thinking i don't want too many children because the financial aspects of it or i don't want too many
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children because the environmental aspects of it or it's just personal preference or they waited
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too long yeah exactly and there's a huge amount of evidence now saying if you're into your 40s and
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you're having a child you increase the risk of them having severe abnormalities having down syndrome
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and as much as those children they thrive in life but it's not fair to push that on them knowing you're
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you're going into your 40s and you're having a child me i i don't i don't agree with it it's
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not fair when she was 45. no it's not everyone it's not everyone but the science the science
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supports it saying once you reach a certain point you increase that risk of something like that
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happening or stillbirths or having a child that has fear fetal fatal abnormalities which then into their
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very very young years end up dying so i think that's a lot of the things that now because we have the
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research backing up people are going well it's too late and i don't want to i don't want to force that on
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a child which is fair which is fair as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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