JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2023


Pearl Drops Red Pill Truth Bombs on the Panel

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Post Wall Woman Gets In Her Feelings After Man said this DESPERATE Women Settle for SIMPS and Don't Respect Them

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

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192.57

Word count

1,908

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Harmful content

Misogyny

21

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this week's episode, the lads discuss how to deal with a husband who doesn't want to have sex with you anymore, what it means to be a good wife and why women are not loyal enough to their husbands.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 female condition is very different to a man as well like we we do like to no offense but picket 1.00
00:00:06.560 things yeah whereas a man will be very much more upfront about it and if they have an issue with
00:00:11.760 something they would just most of the time most of the time not all men i i know not all men are
00:00:16.240 quite as straightforward as that but most men will just say it as it is whereas women will 1.00
00:00:20.800 sugarcoat things and kind of i'm going to be straightforward me it makes it more complicated
00:00:26.400 so if you can't take it don't give it no what my opinion on it is oh um i actually haven't seen
00:00:35.520 this response video to me i was sent it so let's um do i want to show the original tick tock you know
00:00:42.640 what okay i do want to can you click my original tick tock i sent tick tock awry this week oh my
00:00:48.960 gosh awry um what oh yeah but you have to it's a stitch you got to click the
00:00:59.120 you see that yeah there you go
00:01:04.480 now
00:01:07.120 okay are you gonna show it okay i'll look it i know i had something on my shirt i'd like to say
00:01:13.680 i'm in the comments thank you i don't know i don't know how to curl my hair my friend does
00:01:22.560 you naturally straight hair no i just that's the only thing i know how to do
00:01:27.200 i don't know how to do anything else fair enough you do you you do you um okay wait go ahead
00:01:32.480 so i sent the internet awry with this a muck i've done that a lot this week okay
00:01:38.800 scroll it up oh we can't hear it
00:01:43.680 so a lot of the wives are triggered on this app saying i'm young inexperienced don't know what 0.87
00:01:49.840 i'm talking about but i listen to what the men say every single day through consultations through
00:01:56.880 what i do for work youtube videos made about you guys don't shoot the messenger i'm just letting you 0.95
00:02:03.040 know a lot of you are shitty wives sorry okay this is the wrong one i thought it was a different one 1.00
00:02:08.240 okay my the one i'm talking about because i was responding to the other one i just said okay look 0.99
00:02:13.040 if you don't clean you don't cook and you don't have sex with him what does he get out of that 0.99
00:02:16.800 and that's a shitty wife and you leave and take half that's a shitty like it's like ouch 1.00
00:02:22.960 i mean you've got you've got a point what does he get out of the basic principle of marriage 1.00
00:02:30.640 this is what i said you're a shitty wife okay if you get fat oh god you're not loyal because you 1.00
00:02:42.240 know 70 to 80 percent of women in the us are overweight 70 80 percent yeah so yeah so so that's 1.00
00:02:48.480 one two we're not loyal we leave 70 to 80 percent of the time on top of that um one out of four
00:02:54.880 marriages is sexless so and i i can't imagine most women really have their original recipes really 1.00
00:03:01.120 cater to men support them so it's like can we really say we're doing a good job as a group i'm
00:03:05.600 including myself in this right but i'm just saying as a group can we say we're we're offering a lot
00:03:12.800 i feel like a lot of it comes down to the fact that marriage is now a nearly a political statement
00:03:19.600 it's nothing to do with the religion aspect of it i'm not religious myself but i
00:03:24.160 come from a very religious background i'm born and raised in northern ireland very religious and
00:03:29.840 all the basis of marriage is like the core elements of it you take religion out of that
00:03:35.600 yeah marriage kind of is nothing but a statement yeah she's right no you're right because it's the
00:03:42.160 because religion has become you know watered down and fewer people are religion religious today and
00:03:48.080 also societal constraints but the societal constraints came out of religion didn't they
00:03:52.240 you know the whole reason that it was so um frowned upon for people to be divorced and certainly for
00:03:58.000 women to be divorced in the past was because of the religious aspects to it we'll take out the religion 1.00
00:04:01.760 and suddenly it's like well what is the incentive do you know i mean there is no incentive and that's
00:04:05.200 the that's the problem with the marriage contract now i also think that's quite sad because i feel
00:04:10.160 like marriage has lost its meaning like let's not forget marriage is a beautiful thing it's a sacred thing
00:04:15.520 but that's only that's only if you're religious that's the issue that that is coming up at the
00:04:20.560 minute i think they come at the marriage but but you'll i understand what you're saying like in some
00:04:26.720 people can just be in relationships and not get married but you're forgetting that you don't actually
00:04:29.840 get that security the type of security that you get when you're married but the man doesn't get the
00:04:34.960 security because 70 we said the women leave i would say yeah it's women's fault we don't get security 1.00
00:04:42.320 okay we wanted to work we said send us to work and then we go to work and now the wages are cut in
00:04:49.120 half for everyone when you got double the amount of employees it's our own fault and then women women 1.00
00:04:54.400 who's in charge of sex right so women set up you know what i used to require marriage to have sex with 1.00
00:05:00.640 me now we don't do that so it's our own fault it broke down because of women 1.00
00:05:11.120 i'll tell you i'll tell you this my grandma my grandma
00:05:15.040 old lady sweet lady she had nine kids my dad had 13 my mom and i got a lot big family right 0.97
00:05:20.720 and you know she's getting older right and i asked her um like grandma why do you think like the divorce 1.00
00:05:27.200 rate spiked so much because the divorce rate really went um up in the 60s right and i was like grandma
00:05:32.400 like what like why is that like what happened you were you around right she looks at me she says birth
00:05:38.480 control made him do it oh wow oh okay she doesn't know about stats but if you look at the birth control
00:05:44.800 rate and the divorce rate they're the same so what are you saying that the birth control does something
00:05:50.160 to the women kind of thing no i think women just wanted to sleep around oh yeah lovely i mean birth 1.00
00:05:56.560 control has shown to have a difference in your yeah because i've heard about attractiveness 0.98
00:06:04.240 basically it's just what you're attracted to at the time when you're a hormonal yeah i heard that
00:06:10.880 some really interesting research i'm very scientific i i studied science as a degree some really interesting
00:06:17.120 research on it have you but it still doesn't give to a reason for difference have you heard about
00:06:21.840 women who get married to a dude when they're on birth control and they come off yeah yeah again that's 1.00
00:06:29.440 not a materialistic thing though at least at least it's just it's something a bit deeper though in it
00:06:35.200 do you know why that is that because when she's on the birth control she's looking for a certain type 1.00
00:06:39.120 of dude it's a completely different hormonal imbalance in the body so when you come off the birth
00:06:44.400 control is it different hormone balances is it basically when she's on birth control she's 1.00
00:06:49.120 looking for a more of a dad kind of character then she comes off it she's looking for life
00:06:52.320 i think it's personal preference it's naturally what she would have been attracted to i thought
00:06:57.200 you were right because i thought it was because doesn't when you're on birth control like the body
00:07:00.720 tricks you into thinking you're pregnant yeah yeah and you're looking for those aspects like a strong
00:07:05.280 man man with good selective genes good um i thought you wanted the resources because you already got
00:07:11.920 you but that that's the you when you feel like you're pregnant you want that security but then 0.99
00:07:17.360 when you come off it it's just go wild in it i mean that's the issue though isn't it they come off
00:07:24.240 it and they're like they go on so they want they're more they're more up for yeah yeah any anything
00:07:29.920 because there's an idea there's i don't know if you guys agree with this or not but there's an idea
00:07:33.200 in the men's online you know advice space that basically women look for two different things they look 0.92
00:07:37.360 for the dads and they look for the cats so they look for the guys who are more like the provider guys
00:07:40.720 more who's he's a nice guy he's dependable he's solid he's got a good pension pension plan in
00:07:45.600 place you know all that stuff and then you've got the sexy the sexy dude over here who maybe hasn't 1.00
00:07:49.920 got any of that stuff but he's ripped and he's like devil may care and he's like you know he's that kind
00:07:53.840 of and and and there's this idea that women look for those two things so what it sounds like you're 1.00
00:07:58.000 saying is that on the birth control they go for the first and then they come to birth control they're
00:08:01.840 like right where's chad yeah where's the poor boy you think these days men wants kids more than
00:08:10.320 women wants kids no i don't know i think it's i i think today's society though it's not more about
00:08:18.320 what the man or woman wants it's more about what's being pushed on you yeah so a lot of people are
00:08:23.920 thinking i don't want too many children because the financial aspects of it or i don't want too many
00:08:28.080 children because the environmental aspects of it or it's just personal preference or they waited
00:08:33.280 too long yeah exactly and there's a huge amount of evidence now saying if you're into your 40s and
00:08:39.600 you're having a child you increase the risk of them having severe abnormalities having down syndrome
00:08:47.200 and as much as those children they thrive in life but it's not fair to push that on them knowing you're
00:08:53.360 you're going into your 40s and you're having a child me i i don't i don't agree with it it's 0.97
00:08:57.920 not fair when she was 45. no it's not everyone it's not everyone but the science the science
00:09:04.480 supports it saying once you reach a certain point you increase that risk of something like that
00:09:10.080 happening or stillbirths or having a child that has fear fetal fatal abnormalities which then into their
00:09:17.200 very very young years end up dying so i think that's a lot of the things that now because we have the
00:09:21.840 research backing up people are going well it's too late and i don't want to i don't want to force that on
00:09:26.720 a child which is fair which is fair as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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