JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023


Pearl Drops This Harsh Truth On Feminist


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

188.99138

Word count

1,687

Sentence count

191

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about what men are looking for in a woman and why they are attracted to younger women. We also talk about why men like young women and how to sell them on the idea that they are hot in their old age.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You know what the numbers are, actually?
00:00:03.540 It's actually, it's going to be very sad for most women.
00:00:07.680 Yeah, it's going to be pretty bad.
00:00:09.300 Yeah, I mean, they're predicting, and these are banks, right?
00:00:12.280 So banks are making investments.
00:00:14.020 These are people that have no skin in this game, all right?
00:00:17.280 They are just trying to make money.
00:00:18.620 And they're predicting half of women are going to be single and childless, 50%.
00:00:23.020 So half of the women are, we're not going to have kids. 1.00
00:00:26.580 And the other half that get married, half will divorce.
00:00:29.020 Arguably higher than that.
00:00:31.720 You know, they followed 40-year marriages, found 67% divorce.
00:00:35.980 And a quarter of marriages are sexless.
00:00:38.740 So, I mean, if we're going to count successful marriages, it's really only 10% of us.
00:00:43.240 Which, so, you know, the future is pretty grim for everybody.
00:00:47.200 Yeah.
00:00:47.740 Anyways, but it's all right.
00:00:52.380 It doesn't have to be grim for you, because I can tell you exactly what guys want.
00:00:56.760 Let's pull to the next, let's pull to the next, let's go to the next one.
00:01:01.000 So, now again, usually we used to get this information from our mothers and grandmothers.
00:01:06.520 But unfortunately, our mothers and grandmothers have all led us astray.
00:01:11.460 They've told us to always have a backup plan and have never told us what men want ever.
00:01:16.580 Because most women are too selfish to even care and are more focused on other things. 1.00
00:01:22.560 Now, the next thing that men want, let's pull it up. 0.82
00:01:25.000 Drum roll, please.
00:01:27.100 All right.
00:01:28.060 All right.
00:01:31.120 Not old.
00:01:32.560 Yes.
00:01:33.620 Yes.
00:01:34.100 Yes.
00:01:34.420 I had a legendary tweet that got 15 million views.
00:01:38.420 And I still couldn't believe it, all right?
00:01:40.880 I had a tweet that said, 25-year-old women are hotter than 35-year-old women. 0.99
00:01:46.620 Yes.
00:01:47.240 And I still have women tweeting their selfies at me, proving to me how hot they are in their old age. 1.00
00:01:55.220 Now, when you think about it, the average lifespan is about 77 years old.
00:02:01.380 Let's just round it and say 80.
00:02:03.760 35, you're almost halfway through your life.
00:02:06.240 Why do we keep saying that is young?
00:02:08.640 That is not young.
00:02:09.660 You're almost over the hill.
00:02:11.240 You're almost done.
00:02:12.540 Yes.
00:02:12.960 Or over halfway.
00:02:14.780 Yes.
00:02:15.280 But we keep selling.
00:02:16.820 And I would argue that the ultimate way to sell anything is to convince women they're young forever. 0.97
00:02:22.720 They do this with Instagram filters, Botox, and plastic surgery, and a bunch of makeup.
00:02:28.540 To the point that half the time chicks come on my show, if I follow them on Instagram, oftentimes I don't recognize them. 1.00
00:02:35.380 It's super crazy.
00:02:37.140 I'm like, wow.
00:02:38.540 Now, men like young women. 0.99
00:02:41.760 Does anybody disagree?
00:02:43.180 Not too young.
00:02:44.300 Please, please don't give me any underage arguments.
00:02:47.460 That's not what I'm saying.
00:02:49.060 Of age, but younger.
00:02:51.620 Anybody disagree?
00:02:53.080 Nine slides.
00:02:54.780 It's the it.
00:02:56.560 Wow.
00:02:57.620 The last few ones.
00:02:58.500 You've done that, man.
00:02:59.120 I don't know how to approach this one.
00:03:00.340 No, I want to say something.
00:03:01.140 No, I'm joking.
00:03:01.560 No, I have money on you.
00:03:05.360 I have money on you.
00:03:06.720 Yes, yes, yes.
00:03:07.980 I lost my house.
00:03:08.900 I lost my house.
00:03:09.480 I'm 20, and I'd like to actually go even further.
00:03:11.740 I had this thought because all these women were tweeting at me their selfies, right? 1.00
00:03:15.440 And it was 35-year-old women. 1.00
00:03:17.260 And these were the most beautiful 35-year-old women, I would say, tip of the top. 1.00
00:03:22.140 And I still thought to myself, if I go to any college campus, I could find a chick hotter. 1.00
00:03:28.200 Yeah.
00:03:28.460 And it wouldn't be hard.
00:03:29.600 It would be easy.
00:03:30.320 It would be like, there's one, there's one, there's one.
00:03:32.300 Yes, by 35, you're on sale.
00:03:35.560 Discount.
00:03:36.520 I guess I'm not getting married then.
00:03:38.140 I mean, I'm 29.
00:03:39.080 That's not what I said.
00:03:40.000 Well, you said over 25.
00:03:41.600 No, well, I said 25's hotter than 35.
00:03:44.520 I would argue 20's hotter than 25, typically.
00:03:47.420 In general, men are going to be more attracted to, say, a 21-year-old women.
00:03:50.680 I didn't, you know, statistically, yeah, most of us, it'll be a negative situation.
00:03:54.920 Most of us, no happy ending.
00:03:56.720 Sorry, guys.
00:03:57.860 But there's hope because the next thing we can learn.
00:04:02.340 Let's go back to the PowerPoint.
00:04:04.660 So we have a summary.
00:04:06.480 I have a summary.
00:04:07.380 To summarize, men do not want fat whores. 1.00
00:04:12.900 I should have put, don't want old fat whores. 1.00
00:04:16.420 My bad.
00:04:16.920 I was trying to start a riot.
00:04:17.820 Yeah.
00:04:18.920 Yeah.
00:04:19.160 I should have that absolute pandemonium in it. 0.66
00:04:21.340 No, no, no pandemonium.
00:04:22.540 I don't think this is our, like, we should agree, right?
00:04:24.820 Everyone agree?
00:04:25.460 No, no, no.
00:04:25.980 We agree.
00:04:26.560 I'm just saying.
00:04:28.380 Can I add something?
00:04:29.760 Go ahead.
00:04:30.100 Go ahead.
00:04:30.280 I just feel like we talked a lot about, like, the word masculinity has been thrown around
00:04:35.360 a lot.
00:04:35.680 But we didn't even try to define what masculinity is for, like, most men.
00:04:40.780 Because in that sense, like, I feel like it might give a wrong impression or a wrong idea
00:04:46.020 that masculinity is about overexerting your dominance or, like, trying to, you know, like,
00:04:50.820 stop problems.
00:04:51.960 I'm not saying that that's the case.
00:04:53.800 But I'm just saying that some people could take it the wrong way.
00:04:56.900 So maybe we could try to, like, you know.
00:04:58.660 Now, people that are emotional and like that, they're not masculine.
00:05:01.320 When you're masculine, you can control your emotions.
00:05:03.460 So all these people out here chinging and doing all this stuff, they're not masculine men.
00:05:07.320 They're overemotional men.
00:05:08.680 People, I write music, I write music, and that's, like, an emotional experience for me.
00:05:12.460 So does that take away from my masculinity?
00:05:13.460 But that's not the same thing.
00:05:14.240 You're talking about overexerting yourself and being violent, like, masculine men.
00:05:17.020 I would say most musicians are a little more feminine. 1.00
00:05:20.360 Yeah.
00:05:20.820 I'm getting slight feminine, style.
00:05:22.180 I'm not going to lie.
00:05:23.180 I'll be honest with you, bro.
00:05:24.500 I'm not going to.
00:05:25.020 I'm getting slight, slight.
00:05:26.300 I'm not saying you, but I'm saying, like, I mean, maybe, maybe a little bit.
00:05:29.800 I'm getting slight.
00:05:30.860 But it's okay.
00:05:31.780 But I'm a tomboy, so it's like, no one's perfect, right?
00:05:35.620 But I'm saying, like, I don't know.
00:05:38.500 Typically, when I look at the guys in music today, YouTube, too, to be honest.
00:05:42.940 I think YouTube kind of, like, a lot of guys are more feminine.
00:05:46.680 Like Harry Styles.
00:05:49.860 To defend him a little bit, I actually don't think, like, music and all of that makes any more feminine.
00:05:56.060 I actually think masculinity is more about taking responsibility, being someone of your word,
00:06:02.480 being, like, having a, like, we've been saying, having a baseline value that you don't stray from.
00:06:08.300 And no one, no matter what anyone says about you, no matter how people try to push you off your square,
00:06:14.300 you stand your ground.
00:06:15.300 That's what masculinity is. 1.00
00:06:16.540 You say it.
00:06:17.100 You preach, sir.
00:06:17.780 You preach.
00:06:18.560 Can I just try to, like, explain myself on this one?
00:06:21.680 Because, like, for example, I'm North African.
00:06:23.700 I'm from Libya.
00:06:24.640 So I had a very different upbringing, probably, to most people over here.
00:06:27.860 You know?
00:06:29.040 And growing up, for example, or experiencing a civil war and whatnot, like, it's just, like,
00:06:34.860 you know what I mean?
00:06:35.680 Like, you've seen certain things or you've seen men go, like, and transform in a way
00:06:41.460 or do things that they can't, you know, go back from.
00:06:45.100 So it's, like, at some point, the idea of masculinity, even within those spaces,
00:06:50.340 has just become that, like, of violence.
00:06:53.380 It's just become that.
00:06:54.340 Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:06:55.280 You know, it's just become, like, it's my way or nothing.
00:06:58.320 Because it's so accessible to just say, like, you know how you say cancel culture?
00:07:02.840 I cancel you.
00:07:03.680 But there, it's, like, you're dead.
00:07:05.280 Like, it's, like, you know what I mean?
00:07:06.580 It's to that point, to that extreme in certain places.
00:07:09.880 So when I bring in that perspective, I'm looking at that and relating it to my background
00:07:15.680 from what I know.
00:07:16.520 Yeah, but obviously, masculinity, there is an aspect of, you know, violence with that.
00:07:23.120 But I'm just saying, to be masculine, you have to...
00:07:25.480 Because I've been through an experience where I've almost personally died,
00:07:28.080 and that was the last time I've ever went back to Libya, which was, like, in 2014.
00:07:31.920 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:32.540 But I'm saying, like, for me, I'm just saying masculine would be someone who can control their emotions.
00:07:37.860 Yeah.
00:07:38.460 That's masculine.
00:07:39.180 Well, I think, I guess my point with the musician thing was more,
00:07:42.520 in music, they're just pushing feminine dudes nowadays. 1.00
00:07:44.860 Like, you know what I mean?
00:07:46.740 Like, it's...
00:07:47.880 I mean, the way I see, for example, for me, music, and I'm not trying to make it...
00:07:51.120 They used to be, like, rock stars.
00:07:52.880 You know what I mean?
00:07:53.380 Like, that was kind of more of a masculine thing.
00:07:54.460 Bring back rock music.
00:07:55.500 But now it's, like, it's, like, guys that kind of are singing, like, women a lot.
00:08:00.020 Hmm.
00:08:01.100 Yeah, like, who's really popular right now?
00:08:03.320 DBE, they sound like women. 1.00
00:08:05.120 Hmm?
00:08:05.560 Dear Block Europe is really popular with, like, women my age.
00:08:08.860 I'm thinking of Harry Styles.
00:08:09.140 They sound like women. 1.00
00:08:09.760 I'm thinking of Harry Styles.
00:08:10.960 That's why I just keep, I keep getting him in my head.
00:08:13.040 No, no, I'm not.
00:08:15.300 They're both very similar.
00:08:16.620 Both artists, well, both groups of artists.
00:08:18.920 I don't know who that is, but...
00:08:20.460 Yeah, that's what I mean.
00:08:21.100 That's what I'm trying to throw out there, that you're not too far off anyway.
00:08:23.440 They're both really similar.
00:08:24.220 Or even, like, One Direction.
00:08:26.380 You rap, but you don't know who DBE is.
00:08:30.240 And you're a rapper.
00:08:31.380 Well, I mean, I do dabble.
00:08:34.940 I don't know.
00:08:35.720 Nobody's asked me to be on a track yet.
00:08:37.800 I like rating.
00:08:39.800 Can't YouTube collab?
00:08:40.660 I don't know why I've...
00:08:41.780 I've had Auntie Jenny at some point tell me that she wanted to hear us play.
00:08:45.620 Oh, no way!
00:08:47.380 You should do the freestyle.
00:08:48.800 You should play and she should freestyle. 1.00
00:08:50.240 I was watching your freestyle.
00:08:51.560 Oh, yeah.
00:08:52.500 I got in trouble for the freestyle.
00:08:54.740 I don't know.