JustPearlyThings - May 24, 2023


Pearl Encounters A Based Pr0nstar


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

206.9067

Word Count

2,111

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this episode, we are joined by a very special guest who is a dating coach, a dating expert, an astrologer, a writer, and a whole lot more. We discuss dating, money, dating advice, and dating tips.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 yeah all right we have uh tj king thing for the hundred do you women think that a blue collar man
00:00:04.340 that works 80 plus hours a week is more looked over in today's yeah by the way tolu thank you
00:00:09.080 for the oh my god all right um is more looked over in today's society than a woman who has an o f
00:00:14.880 yes do you women think that a blue collar man that works 80 plus hours a week
00:00:21.560 is more looked over in today's society than a woman who has an o f i think he's asking
00:00:27.020 i think he means less desirable yeah no i don't i think i think a blue collar man i think a blue
00:00:33.000 collar man is more desirable to a woman so it's straight i think a blue collar man is more
00:00:37.860 desirable uh to any woman only fans or not um then and only fans is to a mass majority of
00:00:47.900 men that aren't trying to subscribe to her okay we have uh bad zxc we got victor here
00:00:54.040 answer can i answer i want to say sure i think it depends how hot the only fans model is
00:00:59.240 thank you no as someone who dates nothing but regular guys 50 000 people subscribe to kirsten
00:01:07.120 i can say as someone who actually actively loves dating blue collar i mean honest i really don't
00:01:12.280 like white collar men you know i'm not really into that finance road tech shit but like blue collar
00:01:15.840 absolutely but i look for them you know what i mean like i make sure i'm open enough to them but
00:01:20.160 as someone who works with nothing but women hell yes i mean i feel like some of them a lot are kind
00:01:25.940 of airheadish and a little like too full of themselves and they're like oh my god you can't
00:01:29.500 make as much money as i do you're not worth my time which i feel like is completely acidine that's
00:01:33.780 really funny but all right we have uh kiyoshi gadget thank you for the hundred men in the manosphere
00:01:40.520 need to hear the truth that astrology will make you powerful know thyself the ruling class have
00:01:46.400 always made moves with the planets because these giant consciousnesses generate the realm we exist
00:01:53.280 in it's too foolish to write off the metaphysical oh um what i dig it what okay um i think we already
00:02:04.200 talked about astrology a little earlier on apparently now our overlays are is the monitor working again or
00:02:10.560 no okay well apparently i'm seeing the overlays now so that's good um okay and then we have
00:02:15.920 bad's exe here thank you man thank you victor the room probably smells like lacroix cheap perfume
00:02:22.600 and a warm warm turtle tank turtle tank like a tank for turtles for the girl wearing the cross
00:02:31.680 low-key you can buy me a drink sometime
00:02:33.980 all right sounds good you're in a relationship though apparently
00:02:38.940 somebody drink doesn't have to be like that though rip okay um where were we at okay we were talking
00:02:49.700 single single somebody single oh she's gone i had the question for her oh well um okay we're gonna go
00:02:56.760 around the table on this actually we're not gonna go around on the table on this um zoe you had a viral
00:03:02.260 video recently on tiktok uh where you were giving some dating advice what was the title of the video
00:03:07.440 uh the very first one yeah it was like dating advice that no one wants to hear what was it
00:03:14.140 common sense dating advice that you don't want to hear but you'd need to hear right okay we were
00:03:19.340 gonna pull it up and watch it but unfortunately we can't so um i hate hearing myself speak sometimes
00:03:23.980 so uh what i don't know if you've committed it to memory but what were the tips that you
00:03:29.340 offered in that first uh video i think the very first one if someone wants to pull it up we can
00:03:35.460 just because like i've already made like six of them we we can't um so i would say the very first
00:03:40.280 one was if let's see like don't complain about cheating if you're willing to stick around for it
00:03:44.800 you either shut up and move on and learn how to work through it or leave um sam what the fuck
00:03:51.260 i'm trying to think of a based yeah what does that mean base it just means like good is okay i'm new
00:03:58.820 to the lingo i'm like what but i think the one that pisses most people off is that i said men have
00:04:04.080 it harder in life especially financially but i was talking about dating in dating a hundred percent i
00:04:10.560 feel like men and yes i know like my um what i compared it to i was like you know like men can't
00:04:17.080 just sit here and bust their coochie open on of for 10 grand a month was a little biased because
00:04:22.120 it's literally my life but um yeah i don't you want to go into that why i think that men well first
00:04:30.480 we will go into that how about we go around the table so who has it harder when it comes to dating
00:04:37.180 men or women go ahead i think it definitely does depend on the situation in general
00:04:43.580 i think men okay i think it depends on your standards but in general in general men i think
00:04:53.820 it's a lot of pressure i think men 100 that's so funny that everyone's saying this now because
00:04:58.520 the girlies in the comment were calling me pick misha sprinkle sprinkle dating specific dating yeah
00:05:03.480 specific to dating men yeah a lot of things in life men have it harder yeah no into the mic i think
00:05:11.600 we both equally have it hard men and women both well i don't know if it's equally have it hard i think
00:05:17.180 women have certain difficulties that perhaps men don't have but of course and men have difficulties
00:05:21.900 that women don't have yeah exactly i think generally speaking men have a definitely a harder time with
00:05:27.380 dating um what about you what do you think yeah i would say that men have a pretty rough time
00:05:31.480 if you if it like like you have these guys in your comments asking if they're being overlooked
00:05:36.820 because they're blue collar and now it becomes this issue where and you you talk about this and
00:05:43.040 and actually you do too brian but a very small pool of men are the ones that get all of the attention
00:05:47.160 even though there are lots of good hard-working men who would love to find somebody good and and
00:05:52.860 have a relationship but because women are the gatekeepers of sex they have to compete and it's
00:05:58.040 difficult and it can be really discouraging and extremely lonely and that's why like after it took
00:06:03.280 me about a week to make a response video to all the girlies in my comments being like pick me pick
00:06:07.800 me because i really i had to sit down with a few of my girlfriends just to make sure that like
00:06:11.780 maybe my comment was a little like fucked up maybe i should like do some self-introspection which
00:06:16.520 is everything that i preach and then i came down to it as i do feel like in society especially when
00:06:22.020 it comes to dating we hold the power we hold the yes or the no's right they don't really have much
00:06:25.460 say anymore which i mean that's just the way the world works around it right now but i don't feel
00:06:29.600 like we give men enough compassion for the hardships that they face like we love men conditionally i
00:06:35.180 don't i mean in my relationship now it's the first relationship i've actually practiced loving
00:06:39.900 somebody unconditionally so like when it comes to like money and when it comes to like dick size all
00:06:47.100 this kind of shit that we're so like i don't love you unless you have this yeah what about us and i feel
00:06:51.940 like a lot of women take this and they're like okay cool you want this out of a man but i i do not
00:06:57.780 feel that the question what do you bring to the table is a bad question to ask because if all you
00:07:01.900 can bring me is that you have a fat ass and you have a pretty face and you can fuck good that's
00:07:06.000 gonna get the man but like how are you gonna keep him that's the reason why i don't i don't care
00:07:10.880 about the oh she's just a porn star and only fans girl no i'm smart as shit and half of the men that
00:07:15.340 can get that have gotten to know me can all say the same thing like holy shit you smart as hell like
00:07:19.800 why are you doing porn i'm like well because i'm capitalizing off the market okay i'm using my
00:07:23.780 look to capitalize but i feel like a lot of women that i meet which is a reason why 90 percent of
00:07:28.600 my friends are guys and i know it sound i know this is like feeding into more of the pick me thing
00:07:33.860 but no i feel like men keep hold me accountable i don't feel like a lot of women hold themselves
00:07:38.500 accountable and especially so we're like always preaching these standards and i'll say the same
00:07:42.600 thing for men i don't i don't do leftist i don't do right i'm literally my shit is middle ground
00:07:48.580 because i feel like women preach these crazy standards that they can't even upkeep themselves
00:07:51.920 men preach these crazy standards and like you know like the whole men want a traditional wife but
00:07:56.280 they're not traditional men a hundred percent but i feel like women are taken like we know when a man
00:08:02.120 says oh i don't want a girl with a high body count we're like that man's trash he's shit no that's just
00:08:07.160 his fucking preference but and then i feel like when women say um like oh you know i want i want a man
00:08:14.520 to make this this amount of money it's not coming from a place of like she knows who she is she's
00:08:18.980 she's coming from a place of like what society is sort of what they should want victor underscore
00:08:24.360 and men and men are just precious hold on just a sec hey look it's pearl i like pearl i just got here
00:08:31.760 thanks for the awesome content one more time it's a really nice vibe to enjoy a coffee too and fire up
00:08:38.040 the business much love brie and panel brie huh i feel like something in that thank you victor in
00:08:46.080 that same vein it's like it's never our fault when things go wrong and that's something that i see a
00:08:50.020 lot when women talk about different aspects of life it's never if you pick if you pick shitty guys
00:08:55.180 it's never your fault if you if you go into too much student debt it's never your fault right if you
00:09:00.200 don't negotiate well when you're trying to get a job it's never your fault and that really hurts
00:09:04.180 women because it doesn't actually empower us to take any sort of agency over our own lives and
00:09:09.900 actually make decisions and be responsible for our own actions but men have to do that because if
00:09:14.620 they do not they are not attractive partners and that's really an unfair standard that our society
00:09:19.340 has particularly in the u.s i think that that's a real problem yeah yeah i mean that's just my
00:09:25.600 sentiment about it you know what i was thinking about which is crazy if you're a one percent guy like
00:09:30.560 top one percent let's just say height money looks whatever you can't expect a virgin
00:09:37.200 like you can't or you can you can't if you're a top one yeah like they don't expect it i'm not
00:09:44.260 saying they don't want it but they don't expect it oh a top guy yeah doesn't expect a virgin yeah
00:09:49.220 and that's like that's just kind of speaks to the dating pool for like men today you can get like to
00:09:54.020 the top like one percent of men and you don't as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok
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