JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


Pearl Explains The Role Of Women In Society

Topics
hunt role of a wife
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Amal King
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

163.65

Word count

1,375

Sentence count

166

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

6

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and how they need to be more assertive in order to be a good wife. We also discuss the importance of a good relationship and how women need to take care of their husbands and children.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What is Amal's purpose in four words?
00:00:02.520 I think it's to provide, protect and to provide, protect
00:00:08.460 and also to live out his divine purpose.
00:00:13.040 So protect, provide, bear children, so reproduce 1.00
00:00:17.940 and to live his dreams.
00:00:20.580 So whatever gift that God has given you,
00:00:22.620 you have to make sure that you manifest that in life
00:00:25.340 before you die, before you leave this planet.
00:00:27.460 So live his dreams in one word, what does that mean?
00:00:30.760 To give out whatever, to give out, to live out his gifts.
00:00:34.820 So whatever gift that he's got is to bring it into fruition.
00:00:39.800 So if you can put that in one word, what would that one word be?
00:00:43.340 To be alive.
00:00:45.600 So that's a few words.
00:00:48.680 Fulfillment?
00:00:50.080 Yes, that's it.
00:00:51.680 Can I date you? You sound pretty good.
00:00:55.340 Are you two going to get together now?
00:00:58.260 Yeah, that's it.
00:00:58.960 Well, they've gone shy.
00:01:01.720 What did you think of that answer?
00:01:03.680 No, he missed 50%.
00:01:04.960 What was wrong with the answer?
00:01:07.140 Protect and provide is definitely the two words.
00:01:12.000 Again, like I said, there isn't any wrong or right answers,
00:01:14.100 but the four words that I'm looking for is protect, provide, hunt, and lead.
00:01:19.100 Okay.
00:01:19.600 He's got to say hunt?
00:01:21.300 Yeah.
00:01:22.620 We live in London.
00:01:24.540 We live in London. 0.89
00:01:28.600 You're actually not the first girl that's come on the show and said she wants a guy to like kill an animal,
00:01:33.880 but I'm like, we live in London.
00:01:36.560 You know what I mean?
00:01:38.140 Where is he going to go hunting?
00:01:40.560 I mean, hunt in terms of...
00:01:42.600 Do you pick berries?
00:01:44.340 But modern daily, obviously, we don't do hunting.
00:01:47.780 Yeah.
00:01:48.000 We're living in, like you said, London, 21st century.
00:01:51.540 So, a man's hunting now is going to Sainsbury's and buying the food or providing the money to buy the food.
00:01:57.640 Is that another thing that's what I said?
00:01:58.880 To provide?
00:01:59.580 Yeah, exactly.
00:02:00.660 But that's what men have to...
00:02:02.440 What I'm saying is from, I don't know her name, but anyway, like she said, hunting.
00:02:06.640 But that's what she kind of means.
00:02:08.340 But obviously, you can't go and shoot a deer or whatever.
00:02:11.860 So, you have to go to Sainsbury's and buy steak.
00:02:14.400 I want to hear from the guys.
00:02:17.740 These questions, would these be like a red flag?
00:02:21.060 Or a green flag?
00:02:22.120 Massive red flag, bro.
00:02:23.300 Really?
00:02:24.340 Personally, I feel like she's on a mission.
00:02:26.180 I feel like she's looking for love.
00:02:28.500 She's here, which is a good thing.
00:02:30.220 But then if I'm not really on that kind of vibe...
00:02:32.480 Then you're trying to...
00:02:33.020 I would just like, okay.
00:02:34.140 Why do you say it's a red flag, King?
00:02:37.000 Because when it comes to relationships, the same way women expect men to be tactful about how they approach them, 0.95
00:02:46.480 how they ask them certain questions,
00:02:47.940 I expect a woman of intelligence to do the same thing. 1.00
00:02:52.600 You can't just be asking me direct questions as if we're like in an interrogation.
00:02:56.280 It doesn't make any sense.
00:02:57.320 Yeah, but she said she doesn't do it like how she said it. 0.98
00:03:00.540 Yeah, those five questions last within a two-hour conversation.
00:03:03.800 You won't even realise I'm asking you these questions for that purpose.
00:03:06.900 No, but what I'm saying is if you deliver it exactly the way you delivered it,
00:03:10.240 it's just going to be a waste of time.
00:03:11.980 Of course, that won't be genuine and anyone would turn off and not even answer that, to be honest, of course.
00:03:17.840 So I have a question.
00:03:19.680 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:03:23.060 I expect you'll say it's to bear children. 0.64
00:03:26.280 No, that's not what I would say.
00:03:27.520 No, okay.
00:03:28.820 Well, to be supportive, I think, and encouraging and kind and respectful 0.74
00:03:33.240 and give men a lot of what they need as long as it isn't insane and ridiculous.
00:03:37.580 I think I work as a dominatrix and I think too often wives fail to do that 1.00
00:03:41.400 and men come to me for things that women should often be providing themselves.
00:03:44.640 Yeah, question actually.
00:03:46.800 I have a theory.
00:03:49.300 I'm like, what can we learn from sex workers?
00:03:51.400 And I think one thing I've always heard from sex workers is a lot of times men seek out sex workers
00:03:57.220 because their wives are not sleeping with them. 0.83
00:03:59.120 Is that true?
00:04:00.600 Yes, I'm sure that's true.
00:04:01.740 Or just listening to them, actually, or just respecting them.
00:04:03.940 I had a man recently pay me so he could cry in my arms because their son had just died
00:04:08.360 and his wife just wasn't providing any emotional support. 0.93
00:04:11.360 Or they just really want their wives to wear stockings. 0.99
00:04:13.980 I don't think that's really unreasonable.
00:04:17.000 Yeah, I don't sleep with men, so I'm not entirely confident on that.
00:04:21.400 How does that work with your husband?
00:04:23.620 He doesn't mind? 0.94
00:04:24.340 No, he thinks it's just ridiculous and fun.
00:04:26.620 He just hears the beating noises. 0.50
00:04:28.280 No, she's off again.
00:04:29.680 He doesn't think spanking's sexy at all. 0.70
00:04:31.460 Not him there.
00:04:32.560 But you don't do anything sexually with them? 0.99
00:04:34.880 No, just beat them up. 0.99
00:04:37.800 Wow, that's interesting. 0.99
00:04:38.940 Do you know women that do have sex with them? 0.95
00:04:41.740 I don't, actually.
00:04:42.880 No, it just stops the beating.
00:04:44.320 It's just you kind of live in your own little world?
00:04:46.120 Yeah, really.
00:04:46.980 Okay.
00:04:48.340 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:04:49.640 I'm not married, so does my opinion really count?
00:04:52.820 It still counts.
00:04:53.860 I mean, the question is, does the average chick know the role of a wife? 1.00
00:04:58.060 Okay.
00:04:59.860 Wow.
00:05:02.600 My mum, she cooks, she cleans, she loves, she supports, she fends for her kids.
00:05:10.880 She goes with her instincts, womanly instincts. 1.00
00:05:17.100 I don't know if everyone's got them, but she is amazing.
00:05:21.080 And my dad is still there, still there supporting her, and she's still there supporting him.
00:05:29.740 So what I've seen her do over all these years, because they were together, well, from before
00:05:36.720 I was born, they're in their 50s now.
00:05:39.880 Her just, even the business, they've opened up a business. 0.59
00:05:43.500 They've got teamwork now.
00:05:45.880 It's just, it's all about building.
00:05:50.000 She's built with her partner and her partner.
00:05:53.400 My dad, she's built him together.
00:05:56.720 She's built him?
00:05:57.820 Yeah, like together, like just, they build each other.
00:06:00.640 Okay.
00:06:01.100 And it's like, it's a team thing, you know?
00:06:04.320 Mm-hmm.
00:06:05.060 Do you think they're equals?
00:06:07.220 Equals? 0.97
00:06:07.780 In marriage, are they equal? 0.74
00:06:10.360 Yes.
00:06:11.060 Yeah.
00:06:11.660 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:13.220 But my opinion...
00:06:14.900 You think your role in marriage is to be an equal, a teammate?
00:06:18.300 Well, I just feel like they've still been right, they're happy.
00:06:21.940 They've been going on.
00:06:23.100 This is just what I've seen.
00:06:24.640 And obviously, I'm not going to go into my deep detail of my life and my family, but
00:06:28.840 this is just my opinion.
00:06:30.480 I'm not married.
00:06:31.280 I've just seen what she's done.
00:06:33.240 And as a wife, they're still happy, boy.
00:06:37.740 Still together, still riding it.
00:06:40.000 And that's just me.
00:06:40.940 Anyway.
00:06:41.220 Okay.
00:06:41.720 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:06:43.720 To be the husband's helper, to love, respect, and to submit to him.
00:06:49.840 Like, he is the leader, and to just nurture the home, make a home, make a house for home.
00:06:57.520 Yeah.
00:06:58.360 Yeah, I would say to love and support, be respectful, and to listen.
00:07:07.680 And, yeah, I think that's pretty much, and, yeah, be able to just give him what he won't
00:07:16.100 be looking in other women for. 0.99
00:07:18.660 Okay.
00:07:21.080 I would say exactly what she said, actually, but that's kind of biblical.
00:07:24.320 Speak up to the mic.
00:07:25.800 Well, what she said, I agree with her.
00:07:28.220 All the things that she said, the lady over there, I don't really know her name.
00:07:32.400 What's her name?
00:07:33.080 No, no.
00:07:33.680 Oh.
00:07:34.460 Chantel.
00:07:34.960 Chantel, yeah. 0.69
00:07:35.480 Whatever Chantel said, I googled, so copy and paste, whatever she said.
00:07:39.160 I think a wife should be. 0.99
00:07:42.360 Okay.
00:07:42.840 What do you think?
00:07:43.400 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:07:44.560 Yeah, I totally agree with you guys.
00:07:47.540 Yeah, definitely, you know, to be a helper, to respect, you know, commit in terms of paying
00:07:57.540 your role as a wife. 1.00
00:07:59.660 Okay.
00:08:01.760 Okay, so that would be to nurture, to reproduce.
00:08:05.480 Two other elements, I'll say, to heal the sick and to feed the hunger and to contribute
00:08:15.200 towards the legacy that the man's trying to obtain or maintain.
00:08:20.540 Okay.
00:08:21.380 Okay.