Pearl Explains The Role Of Women In Society
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and how they need to be more assertive in order to be a good wife. We also discuss the importance of a good relationship and how women need to take care of their husbands and children.
Transcript
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I think it's to provide, protect and to provide, protect
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So protect, provide, bear children, so reproduce
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you have to make sure that you manifest that in life
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So live his dreams in one word, what does that mean?
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To give out whatever, to give out, to live out his gifts.
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So whatever gift that he's got is to bring it into fruition.
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So if you can put that in one word, what would that one word be?
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Protect and provide is definitely the two words.
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Again, like I said, there isn't any wrong or right answers,
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but the four words that I'm looking for is protect, provide, hunt, and lead.
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You're actually not the first girl that's come on the show and said she wants a guy to like kill an animal,
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But modern daily, obviously, we don't do hunting.
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We're living in, like you said, London, 21st century.
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So, a man's hunting now is going to Sainsbury's and buying the food or providing the money to buy the food.
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What I'm saying is from, I don't know her name, but anyway, like she said, hunting.
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But obviously, you can't go and shoot a deer or whatever.
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So, you have to go to Sainsbury's and buy steak.
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These questions, would these be like a red flag?
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But then if I'm not really on that kind of vibe...
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Because when it comes to relationships, the same way women expect men to be tactful about how they approach them,
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I expect a woman of intelligence to do the same thing.
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You can't just be asking me direct questions as if we're like in an interrogation.
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Yeah, but she said she doesn't do it like how she said it.
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Yeah, those five questions last within a two-hour conversation.
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You won't even realise I'm asking you these questions for that purpose.
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No, but what I'm saying is if you deliver it exactly the way you delivered it,
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Of course, that won't be genuine and anyone would turn off and not even answer that, to be honest, of course.
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Well, to be supportive, I think, and encouraging and kind and respectful
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and give men a lot of what they need as long as it isn't insane and ridiculous.
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I think I work as a dominatrix and I think too often wives fail to do that
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and men come to me for things that women should often be providing themselves.
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And I think one thing I've always heard from sex workers is a lot of times men seek out sex workers
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because their wives are not sleeping with them.
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Or just listening to them, actually, or just respecting them.
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I had a man recently pay me so he could cry in my arms because their son had just died
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and his wife just wasn't providing any emotional support.
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Or they just really want their wives to wear stockings.
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Yeah, I don't sleep with men, so I'm not entirely confident on that.
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It's just you kind of live in your own little world?
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I'm not married, so does my opinion really count?
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I mean, the question is, does the average chick know the role of a wife?
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My mum, she cooks, she cleans, she loves, she supports, she fends for her kids.
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She goes with her instincts, womanly instincts.
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I don't know if everyone's got them, but she is amazing.
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And my dad is still there, still there supporting her, and she's still there supporting him.
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So what I've seen her do over all these years, because they were together, well, from before
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Her just, even the business, they've opened up a business.
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Yeah, like together, like just, they build each other.
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You think your role in marriage is to be an equal, a teammate?
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Well, I just feel like they've still been right, they're happy.
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And obviously, I'm not going to go into my deep detail of my life and my family, but
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To be the husband's helper, to love, respect, and to submit to him.
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Like, he is the leader, and to just nurture the home, make a home, make a house for home.
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Yeah, I would say to love and support, be respectful, and to listen.
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And, yeah, I think that's pretty much, and, yeah, be able to just give him what he won't
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I would say exactly what she said, actually, but that's kind of biblical.
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All the things that she said, the lady over there, I don't really know her name.
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Whatever Chantel said, I googled, so copy and paste, whatever she said.
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Yeah, definitely, you know, to be a helper, to respect, you know, commit in terms of paying
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Okay, so that would be to nurture, to reproduce.
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Two other elements, I'll say, to heal the sick and to feed the hunger and to contribute
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towards the legacy that the man's trying to obtain or maintain.