Pearl Explains Why Dating Single Moms Is A Bad Idea
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the dangers of single mothers abusing their kids and the men who prey on single mothers. We also discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to sexual education and sexual education. We discuss sexual education in schools and in the media.
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single mothers were responsible by and large then the most likely person to abuse the kid
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wouldn't be the next man if it's not the mother it's actually the mother is the most likely but
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second most likely is that the man you do hear a lot about guys who are on dating apps that they're
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meeting single moms and the single mom is and the single mom is then like oh you know how do you
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feel about you know i've got a kid and like and they're sort of angling for somebody to become
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the new baby daddy you know i mean again that's not statistics but there's also men there's also
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men that they aren't still active i would say there's also men that actually prey on single
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mom yeah yeah because i think if we're being general i don't think a lot of men are out here
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looking for single mothers i don't absolutely you're not looking for no i'm not like um i mean
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i'm 33 years old and i've never i've never had any conversation with anyone any guy and they're going
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oh you know what let's get out single single mother you're not looking for a single mom but there are
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there are some that pray ominous men out here that they they prey on the high value
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there's a lot of men out here that are just trying to bum off rich women as well
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that's a new phenomenon yeah the nowadays i think men men they're like trying to women
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women wanted equality i think that's admirable i mean i'm absolutely in the market for a sugar
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mama for a hundred percent i mean i can always go to the gym i look good exactly but i would agree with
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you i would agree with you i don't think there's many guys who are out there actively looking for
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single mothers i think it's a bit more like you know you meet the girl and then she turns out to
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be a single mother and you're like yeah well okay maybe i could overlook that after you breed her and
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leave her exactly exactly if there's a connection then yeah you're open to whatever can happen but
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you're not actively seeking a single mom yeah she just happens to be a single you're not actively
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seeking a single mom but some men are i'm saying no no no no i've heard stories that don't want to
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have it i understand what she's saying though i think what you're saying is the men are looking for
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single mothers because they feel they want to set family yeah i'm not even saying it's an easy shag
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i'm saying when she was doing when she was saying about the the the statistics and i was saying but
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in that there are some men that actually prey on single women yeah because they want to be around
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their kids yeah oh that's a small percentage of that's like a tiny percentage there's loads of
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pedos out there mate yeah yeah yeah yeah but still a tiny percentage i actually i actually i think that
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women actually prey on young men more than men prey on young women i disagree
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young men always chase me and i'm just like i don't know someone they chase me
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i'm talking about like um i i see it more commonly now where a woman gets in trouble for sleeping with
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a student than vice versa you see them all the time in the news i think they're mentally ill because
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i don't know why they would want to sleep with most of my friends growing up that that lost their
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virginity as little kids all lost it to older women same with the guys i know as well yeah would you go
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younger kelly then um i have dated younger but i wouldn't date someone underage or like not underage
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if someone was juvenile to me god no what about 20 about 23 24 definitely not actually i have
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i have a question i have a question kind of pertaining to this who's more sexual men or women
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men women women women women women when they're older men when they're younger okay we have to go
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one at a time one at a time one at a time and then tell me why you think that so here i would
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say women because i think we're very sensual we're very emotional and i think that when we're
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in the throes of passion we're kind of led by that sensuality oh yeah
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go ahead i'm also saying women wow okay women why i think also emotionally we're just more attached to
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that kind of stuff so okay i think men why right because men men can just have so many different
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partners and have like so much sexually sexually yeah and i just think they could just go from one
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to the other and just not even worry about that mental connection like yeah i would say men also
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because i saw this um documentary where there was this woman that she was um like trans she wants to
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trans into am i a male who lost but anyways that's what she was doing and um she said like as as a
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woman her sex drive was healthy and then when she started um taking taking trust from just like oh my
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god my sister went through the roof i think hormonally um men men are gonna feel more
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um yeah sorry pale say what was the question again who's more sexual men or women okay men i
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think definitely men i think you're right because they could just bang it bang bang bang
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see okay this is this is what's got me i could honestly i could honestly be convinced either way
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but i've started to think it's women yeah and the reason i think it's women this is just my thoughts
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yeah we talk about relationships 24 7 it's like when we're with our friends and wine what do women
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talk about boys but not sex though that's like power struggles that's like oh my god he didn't do
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this or he did this well yeah but i think we seek attention and men seek sex and that's what we get
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like that doesn't make us more sexual though does it i would say yes i think more emotional
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i would say because the ways we seek attention is sexual and wearing tight clothes taking off our clothes
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like dressing very sexually i would say is how women seek sexual attention oh yeah i think if you
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go into a gym um that the clothes that women wear today would have been banned like 20 years ago
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in some cities like vegas in america the women wear like stickers on their boobs you go to bikinis
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like when i was growing up most people wore one pieces and then like the bikinis were kind of like
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out there now we're in thongs people used to get sent off the beach for bikinis didn't they yeah
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do you know the other thing as well i don't know if you guys have ever read the book uh
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my secret garden by nancy friday but it was this book okay i think it's i think it came out in the
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70s in the 80s but it's this book of sexual fantasies that this psychologist collected women's
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sexual fantasies and i mean some of the stuff in there is frankly crazy you know this is some of the
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stuff that am i able to google it yeah yeah my secret my secret garden by nancy friday it's really
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it's really eye-opening to read and the other thing of course was the 50 shades of gray phenomenon you
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know it's best selling book ever you know and it was this complete so i think that while i agree
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on the point about testosterone and yeah guys like bang bang bang whatever but i think women
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once they get into it they're really into it they're really into the whole fantasy side of
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it the sensuality side of it i think probably more than men because let's be honest men want
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to just get their end away and then have a cigarette and you know go go to sleep whereas
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women they get much more bought into the whole you know the whole drama of the whole thing
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there's a bit more depth in it with with women i think more passionate are you changing your answer
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now no no no no i still say men i still say men you still say men okay what do you think kind of
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women i was gonna say both but i do think it is women because i feel like i do think it's women
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because i feel like with us it's true we use our our looks we use like obviously in terms of the way we
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look um when a guy approaches us and then all of that we could be come across very seductive at times i think
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i think it's women who breathed like that into the mic
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i think it's just like if i talk to guy friends and they're like oh yeah i met this girl and you
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know yeah she came back to mind and yeah we banged or whatever it's very sort of perfunctory and it's
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like right yeah we did that with women and then when i deal with women it's very sort of like they go
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into this hole and then he took me against the wall it's just even when i did when i when i've
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dealt with women that i maybe i've dated and stuff like that like that there's just so much more to
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it this is this whole like sexual like fantasy and this kind of imagination and everything
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and he didn't just say good night babe he sent me a smiley emoji with hot eyes
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it's got to be it's got to be the aubergine doesn't it the aubergine oh yeah oh yeah
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because shops like i still think it's men because i feel like everything we've just described is
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like a woman uses sex to get the emotional connection to get the spiritual connection
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when we are in our bag we're so sensual because we're trying to get to that place
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and i kind of rate men for being able to be like this is sex i'm gonna do it here it is love it all
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right cool move on whereas women it's always like i'm doing this for this and that and this
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and then it's not like about the sex yeah but no just out of interest do you genuinely think that
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or do you not think that the women are actually getting off on that as well i think women are
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sexier than men right but i think men are more sexual than women like if it was like a man's gonna
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give me like the spiritual and emotional connection i thought i would get if i was having badass sex with
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him then i would probably just do have that conversation what is what is the spiritual and emotional
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connection that's when you're like looking at him and it's like this is it we are so connected
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we are like you just look at a guy and you're like so it's like it's like bring adding more
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meaning to everything because you're having this great time and it's like yeah so if you were to tell
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a guy he says i want to make a spiritual and emotional connection how would you do that um if he just
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like wanted to see he sat me down and he was like i'm just like so into you i think you're great and
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i think we're gonna have this amazing life together and he just again the fantasy thing he he leaned into
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all the fantasies of this wonderful life i want to live then i'd probably like just like do women
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do women do women do women i'm not saying i don't need to question every question do women typically
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like the men that like them or that don't like them um typically don't i would say okay so aren't you
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giving them the wrong advice then giving who what the guys when i asked you how to give you a spiritual
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and emotional connection for me oh for you for me i don't know about anyone else but for for me there's
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gonna be a lot of boxes he needs to tick in the first place and then there's gonna be the life and the
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fantasy and and the experience i want i think i think like with a lot of women's advice it's
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probably you would want that but you would want that from a dude that you're already attracted to
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oh hell yeah yeah yeah don't like chat me up on tinder and be like i'm gonna get into your mind
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so if it's like chris hemsworth or whoever right and or whoever you like and he's coming out with
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more chestnut and he's coming out with this stuff then you're going to be into that but
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it's not in gardouche he doesn't shake my head i like it he went for thaw but that's the problem
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that's that's the problem with female that's the problem with female dating advice though sometimes
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when it's aimed at guys because women will say well we want a guy who's this we want a guy who's
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honorable who's noble who does these things he's chivalrous blah blah blah and guys think right i've
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just got to do those things but actually it's about so much more than that because women want it from
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the guy they're already attracted to and i still want to have sex sorry and i still want to have
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sex yeah well you want men that are good in bed yeah yeah and know how to like treat as well but
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also in good but would i use it as much if i felt like i could connect with you on a different basis
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i don't think men are capable of connecting the same way women can so i don't know if i would
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well i feel like i'm more basic than that i actually think i feel like i actually think i think men
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connect better than women yeah they're more straight way i think i think men are women are
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a lot more heartless where men actually have hearts absolutely actually i think you're right
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because i think men get upset because you can break their heart and sometimes i think men can take
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things like really to their heart after they've broken yours yeah but women can just forget about it but
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have you ever like let someone down and they're absolutely heartbroken and they really take it in
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don't they when they're heartbroken what do they do when they take it in what is the characteristics
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of a man that's taking something to heart yeah so tell me did you know when you've just like you know
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you're not bothered with them and that you've they've taken you out on a date and you just they
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are no i can't be bothered with him he's not my sort of type of guy and he's absolutely wounded
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because they take it to heart you could tell you're speaking from personal experience here and
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so there's some poor bloke who's watching this now going no