JustPearlyThings - October 16, 2023


Pearl Explains Why Women Are Cheaters


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

205.77002

Word count

1,688

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

43

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Hate speech

37

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Summary

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In this episode, the guys and girls have a deep discussion about girl trips and girl ships. What is the difference between a girl trip and a girl ship and what are the benefits of them? What are the risks? Is it safe to have sex with a guy on a trip? Is sex even a thing? Should women be allowed to go on girl trips or should they stay in a relationship?

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00:00:00.000 We're gonna get we're gonna make them separate
00:00:06.120 All right girls trips who says yes, we should be able to go 0.77
00:00:09.680 Yeah, we're not gonna go we're not just gonna go on a trip to have sex like we don't really do that
00:00:17.480 But the problem is the difference is
00:00:19.320 But you look, do you know what, you look are so devious
00:00:21.880 What about a spa break?
00:00:22.880 We never know
00:00:23.880 What about a spa break?
00:00:24.880 The average girl doesn't really, let's be real 1.00
00:00:26.280 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no for the right guy though, for the right guy you will
00:00:29.880 No, because we, we, like girls we thrive off emotion like we don't thrive off of teeth 1.00
00:00:33.880 So imagine if you meet a guy that sparked those emotions
00:00:36.880 Yeah, but if you're in a good relationship and you've got on a girl ship 1.00
00:00:39.840 I've done, okay, I did interviews at a Chris Brown concert and I asked the chicks 1.00
00:00:44.480 I asked the chicks, I said hey 1.00
00:00:45.680 I asked them if they're in a relationship
00:00:48.400 I asked those chicks as well 0.99
00:00:49.700 Yeah, and I asked like if Chris Brown wanted to fly you out for the weekend, would you go?
00:00:54.300 And they all said yes, pretty much all of them regardless of if they had a boyfriend or not
00:00:58.520 And the difference is for average chicks, you know, there's just that rumor that that podcaster slept with Drake 1.00
00:01:05.180 You remember? Do you know what I'm talking about?
00:01:06.880 Oh yeah, I know who you're on about, yeah
00:01:09.200 That's like an average looking normal chick 1.00
00:01:11.040 Normal chicks have access to these top 10, 20% of guys 1.00
00:01:14.660 Yeah
00:01:15.180 So that's a reality
00:01:16.100 You've got five out here thinking they're 10s, it's crazy
00:01:18.680 Yeah, like a six could actually sleep with one of these athletes
00:01:22.220 Like the top 1% athlete, entertain, whatever it is
00:01:25.540 So that's why I think we can't go
00:01:27.800 Because I think there's just too many people trying to sleep with us all the time
00:01:31.880 A spa trip
00:01:33.160 Yeah, but the average gal that's in a relationship is not going on a girl's trip to go and find a guy 1.00
00:01:38.580 She might not be going, but I think we go for validation
00:01:41.540 I think that even the girl in the relationship might put on a nice outfit to look nice and get the attention 1.00
00:01:47.200 And I don't think that's necessarily like cheating or abnormal
00:01:51.360 Loads of self
00:01:52.020 I think girls get more high off of getting a bit of an attention on a night out than going to a guy's room 0.98
00:01:58.060 Okay, so you agree
00:02:00.040 Attention is to women as to sex is to 0.99
00:02:02.360 No, no, no
00:02:04.260 You put yourself there
00:02:07.620 I can't lie, you put yourself there
00:02:09.040 No, I'm saying
00:02:09.640 If that's what it is
00:02:11.880 Everybody likes a compliment
00:02:13.860 We're human
00:02:14.420 Who doesn't like a compliment?
00:02:15.920 But the point is
00:02:17.340 The problem is when they give you the compliments
00:02:19.380 And they're trying to have sex with you 1.00
00:02:20.760 Like, okay, imagine
00:02:21.560 If your guy went into a room
00:02:23.740 With a bunch of women trying to have sex with him 0.98
00:02:26.340 Would you be perfectly okay with that?
00:02:29.580 Absolutely not
00:02:30.500 But they're not
00:02:32.760 A girl's not going on a trip 1.00
00:02:34.380 To go with a bunch of guys
00:02:35.820 Yeah, but he says baby
00:02:37.180 You're going with your girls
00:02:38.180 Okay, so he says baby
00:02:40.340 You know, I'm not going there to get laid
00:02:42.160 But there's all these people that want to sleep with me all the time
00:02:44.880 But here's the reality
00:02:46.620 Guys want quantity
00:02:47.840 Women want quality, right? 1.00
00:02:49.200 Right, that's what I'm saying
00:02:50.320 So the guy will go on the trip to try and get a bunch of chicks 1.00
00:02:53.360 The woman, on the other hand, will go on the trip 1.00
00:02:55.840 On the trip to try and get that one right guy
00:02:58.520 Quality
00:02:59.000 That's a single woman 1.00
00:03:01.000 That's a single woman 1.00
00:03:01.900 A woman 0.57
00:03:02.560 That's a single woman 1.00
00:03:04.040 A woman 0.57
00:03:05.660 A woman 0.57
00:03:06.340 A woman who has a loving husband at home
00:03:10.260 She has the kids
00:03:11.540 And she is loving her situation
00:03:13.540 I think personally
00:03:14.500 Women will only break free 1.00
00:03:16.360 If they're not in a good situation
00:03:18.720 You literally just explain
00:03:20.560 The most perfect marriage
00:03:22.200 Which doesn't exist
00:03:23.420 That's fine
00:03:24.300 But if there's a situation
00:03:25.980 You literally just said
00:03:27.240 A woman who has a loving husband at home
00:03:29.060 Who is loving her situation
00:03:30.520 Who has the perfect relationship
00:03:31.760 Yeah, if she's loving
00:03:32.560 That doesn't exist
00:03:33.380 My bro, I've still slept with those women 1.00
00:03:35.720 Exactly
00:03:36.360 How did you
00:03:38.220 I'm not saying it's never happened 0.78
00:03:40.700 But nine times out of ten
00:03:42.360 So even
00:03:44.020 What is the guarantee that
00:03:45.860 At the moment she's going on that trip
00:03:47.440 She is in the relationship
00:03:48.240 There is no guarantee
00:03:49.240 I'm not saying that
00:03:49.940 There's no guarantee in anything
00:03:51.340 I'm not saying that she has to be in
00:03:52.500 In like a perfect situation
00:03:54.180 She has to be in a situation that makes sense
00:03:56.700 If she's in a situation that makes sense
00:03:58.500 She's never going to really have a reason to do that
00:04:01.040 But every day
00:04:02.380 A woman could wake up today 1.00
00:04:03.300 And the relationship would make sense
00:04:04.300 And the very next day
00:04:05.220 It doesn't make sense
00:04:06.360 Yeah, look
00:04:07.020 Men fall in love with the women 1.00
00:04:09.000 Women fall in love with how you make them feel 1.00
00:04:10.900 So if they're not feeling it on that day
00:04:12.700 It's a different story
00:04:13.560 Okay, that's fair enough
00:04:15.000 It could even have nothing to do with the man
00:04:16.400 It could just be how she's feeling that day
00:04:17.900 She could have just gotten her 0.87
00:04:18.940 She just could have
00:04:19.640 Like she's about to get her period
00:04:20.800 She's pissed off about God
00:04:22.040 She could be ovulating 0.59
00:04:22.480 But I just think
00:04:24.000 If a woman is in like a good set up 1.00
00:04:26.080 I don't think she's really going to go on a trip
00:04:27.800 And go shag somebody else 1.00
00:04:28.880 I think we're too unstable
00:04:30.200 Okay, it's like
00:04:31.880 You've never seen a chick 1.00
00:04:33.680 Do something out of character
00:04:35.000 Plus, you're even forgetting the fact that
00:04:38.360 She's going on a trip with other girls 0.97
00:04:40.480 Where there's social influence
00:04:41.700 Single ones
00:04:42.280 There's alcohol
00:04:43.140 Not all the time
00:04:44.380 No, but the point is
00:04:45.720 There's alcohol
00:04:46.660 There's going to be other girls 1.00
00:04:48.440 Egging her on to probably do something
00:04:50.160 That she probably
00:04:50.600 No, but that's where it comes
00:04:52.420 That's where it comes down to
00:04:53.720 Like what I said
00:04:54.700 Like when I said that
00:04:55.980 If you're single
00:04:57.400 As somebody who's single
00:04:58.940 You shouldn't be around women 1.00
00:05:01.040 Who are in very good unions
00:05:02.980 Or good marriages
00:05:03.820 You should really and truly
00:05:05.260 You shouldn't even be influencing them
00:05:06.680 You should be allowing them
00:05:07.920 To influence you
00:05:08.600 To find your husband
00:05:09.500 You shouldn't really be going
00:05:10.620 So much influence in them
00:05:11.740 It's a her mentality thing 1.00
00:05:13.100 I don't know
00:05:16.720 It's just peer pressure, isn't it?
00:05:18.720 I actually truly believe that
00:05:19.820 Women have 0.95
00:05:20.780 Like something that could be
00:05:22.200 Compared to like a hive mind
00:05:23.460 So when you're in groups
00:05:25.400 You all tend to think alike
00:05:26.840 And I've noticed a lot on this podcast
00:05:28.920 Because you have
00:05:29.620 A bunch of girls
00:05:30.800 And then
00:05:31.580 Pearl will ask a question
00:05:32.880 And what the first girl says 1.00
00:05:34.340 There are many girls
00:05:35.280 Just keep repeating it
00:05:36.620 Over and over and over again
00:05:38.200 That's so cheeky
00:05:40.880 Have you ever seen a hen night?
00:05:43.580 Jesus Christ
00:05:44.660 No
00:05:44.680 That is mental
00:05:46.640 A hen night is crazy
00:05:48.420 So
00:05:49.000 Boys trips 0.97
00:05:50.620 I'm going to say
00:05:51.480 Let the boys go
00:05:52.780 Yeah, man
00:05:53.600 You would say the boys can go
00:05:55.640 Let the girls go too 0.99
00:05:56.400 No
00:05:56.800 She doesn't bring their wives 1.00
00:05:58.300 She's a good woman
00:05:59.360 That serves her man 0.98
00:06:00.760 Takes care of the home
00:06:01.900 Makes sure the kids are good
00:06:03.540 I know
00:06:04.060 Loves on her husband
00:06:05.180 Publicly shows him affection
00:06:06.860 Why can't she go over a trip
00:06:08.500 On a trip with her sister
00:06:09.740 And her cousin
00:06:10.200 The same reason
00:06:10.860 And her best friend
00:06:11.640 Okay, I'm going to
00:06:12.240 You know what
00:06:12.920 As you know
00:06:13.460 You're wrong
00:06:14.020 The same reason
00:06:15.300 Your husband shouldn't
00:06:17.260 Let you go to work
00:06:18.140 Because
00:06:18.840 Because
00:06:19.600 I'll say a husband
00:06:20.700 Exactly
00:06:22.240 I don't mind that
00:06:23.460 Exactly
00:06:24.360 Because
00:06:24.920 Because when we
00:06:26.580 Get into certain situations
00:06:28.360 We just
00:06:28.900 I just
00:06:29.900 You know
00:06:30.400 The fact that they convinced us
00:06:31.900 We were like at home
00:06:32.960 We didn't have to work
00:06:34.040 And like we had all this
00:06:35.900 Automated stuff
00:06:37.000 And they convinced us
00:06:38.620 To go work
00:06:39.500 And be whores 1.00
00:06:41.080 I was just like
00:06:42.060 We can't be trusted
00:06:42.940 So it's their fault then 0.65
00:06:44.560 It's not ours then
00:06:45.240 Is it
00:06:45.480 Yeah
00:06:45.760 No, I think
00:06:47.100 I think we should
00:06:48.340 Switch as women 1.00
00:06:49.140 For everything
00:06:49.700 I think we should take
00:06:50.960 Accountability for our
00:06:52.200 Some people that ruin it
00:06:53.380 For others
00:06:53.840 And those people
00:06:54.840 Ruined it for y'all
00:06:55.920 Well, we all ruined it
00:06:57.440 For ourselves
00:06:57.940 I'll tell you why
00:06:58.940 All we had to do
00:07:00.200 And I thought about this
00:07:01.060 The other day
00:07:01.560 I'm like
00:07:01.780 Do you know how powerful
00:07:02.820 A 22 year old virgin
00:07:04.300 In shape
00:07:05.740 Would be on the dating market 0.91
00:07:07.000 She would have so many options
00:07:09.060 Imagine
00:07:09.640 And none of us
00:07:11.000 Thought of that
00:07:11.600 We just
00:07:14.080 Like who
00:07:14.800 Who do most women 0.99
00:07:16.180 Lose their virginity to
00:07:17.420 Is it
00:07:18.740 Some random guy
00:07:20.140 In the alleyway
00:07:20.800 Oh no
00:07:21.860 Oh no
00:07:23.360 And you could get
00:07:24.100 That is so criminal
00:07:25.480 Maybe it's
00:07:26.000 Maybe it's a college boyfriend
00:07:27.720 High school boyfriend
00:07:28.700 Whatever it was
00:07:29.360 But it's like
00:07:30.040 You could have gotten
00:07:30.720 Like a ring out of that
00:07:31.960 You could have gotten
00:07:32.500 Lifelong commitment
00:07:33.800 And we
00:07:34.900 Like
00:07:35.540 None of us had the idea
00:07:37.160 To wait till we were 22
00:07:38.480 And marry basically
00:07:40.260 Anyone in the west
00:07:41.340 It's because
00:07:42.220 You're all influenced
00:07:43.280 By Cardi B
00:07:44.060 Do you know what I mean
00:07:44.980 Correct
00:07:45.180 Cardi B is not
00:07:47.120 In this equation
00:07:47.860 She did what she had to do
00:07:49.940 Just wet whaps everywhere
00:07:51.120 She did what she had to do
00:07:52.980 Alright boys trips
00:07:53.980 Who says yes
00:07:55.180 Wet whaps everywhere 0.91
00:07:56.680 Who says yes
00:07:58.040 To the boys trips
00:07:58.900 I say yes
00:07:59.640 Yeah man
00:08:00.060 Let them go
00:08:00.600 Alright
00:08:00.920 Let me go
00:08:01.860 As long as we can go
00:08:04.380 On the girls trips 0.89
00:08:04.960 Alright
00:08:05.220 No no
00:08:05.920 I said
00:08:06.600 We voted that one now
00:08:08.480 But yeah
00:08:09.000 Thank you guys
00:08:09.700 What a great team effort
00:08:10.980 Thank you