JustPearlyThings - Pearl Explains Why Women Need Men

00:00:00.000 funny like the day you realize your parents were right about everything like it's like it's like

00:00:04.080 you just wake up one day and you're like oh it was like around 21 or 22 for me i was like oh my

00:00:11.360 gosh my mom and dad raised me so well and they were right about everything they told me we never

00:00:16.640 listen we never we never listen through our teenage years except for relationships oh yeah

00:00:22.320 i'm not listening to them for relationships i've got no relationships compared to those two yeah

00:00:26.800 yeah yeah well do you like the guy she's dating very much yeah i mean i think that i think that

00:00:32.800 mothers like actually we should ask our parents about those like people we date yeah and i actually

00:00:37.280 he met my mom and my dad and i i would i wouldn't have been with him if they didn't like him yeah

00:00:42.000 period because that's just how that's just how it should be my man like that as well because even

00:00:45.680 the girl i'm seeing now her family unit is strong and i feel like it wouldn't have worked if her if

00:00:50.720 her mom or things didn't like man you get what i'm saying totally and my family is like my most

00:00:54.880 important thing but my but my respect that once the family is important to you totally and close

00:00:59.280 to you like i feel like i feel like men respect women more when they have that family dynamic

00:01:05.840 whether the even if the dad's not there if the dad's there obviously he's going to respect it a lot

00:01:10.560 more in it because he's going to come differently but if if if he knows you have a strong support unit

00:01:16.080 with mom cousins aunties whatever yeah he is going to respect you a lot more than if a girl doesn't

00:01:22.160 really have the same kind of support we're asking how you find a good woman and i i also find it

00:01:26.720 really challenging to know when you find a good man i mean i think by now at 47 you know it's challenging

00:01:31.920 to find a good man i think i found one whose values align but it's not that easy it's not easy

00:01:39.440 exactly what do you guys think how do you know when a guy's a good guy you know what when when the

00:01:45.520 man them are good yeah yeah yeah yo you know what it is with you know you can tell when a man is in

00:01:53.840 line when he has a good woman a good woman makes a good man no but he has to be good on his own first

00:01:59.600 okay no no no no no no no no no because you know what it is now pal that's not the question i asked

00:02:04.080 i know but you know what it is no no no no please stop please stop please stop please stop no i i asked you guys for

00:02:09.200 for her she's a single woman or sort of she's dating someone but like for a single woman how do you know if it's a

00:02:14.400 good man what do you think do you think it's easy to tell as a guy who the guy good guys are no it's

00:02:20.400 not easy to be it's not if he's willing to accept your trauma he's a good guy that's a good one that's

00:02:26.960 a good one definitely because really that's a good point yeah that's a good point okay i'm just like

00:02:36.480 why would a good guy want to accept a bunch of trauma because if he sees something in you he will

00:02:42.160 yeah you see something if he supports you through certain things you're going through and trauma

00:02:46.320 that then you know like he listens to your problems no not no just not just listen forget the listening

00:02:51.440 okay he's actually there like raw like cool you've gone let's say all right what kind of example can i

00:02:57.520 do maybe working around like trying to work around you in a way wherever the issue may be or whatever

00:03:02.880 it is yeah like if she needs time like you're there but you're you're you're supportive you're

00:03:09.440 supporting but it's not just what do you think i feel like i feel like you got something to say

00:03:14.320 fundamentally i think that all most guys are good guys you know good guys we are good guys we are

00:03:22.000 agree no um but the thing is it's about have we found the right woman okay so if we were with the

00:03:28.320 right woman then it works if we're not that it's not but how does she see it though and she's not going

00:03:34.320 to see it but um easily because it depends on who she is all right ted this is what i just said to

00:03:39.600 pearl it's about the woman but she doesn't understand you see me saying it from a mandate

00:03:43.600 like in order for a man to be a good man you have to have a good woman because the woman will put you 0.97

00:03:49.520 in line like man on their own don't put their self in line we do reckless things we buy we spend money

00:03:56.240 recklessly we live recklessly until you get that good one i was chatting to the man them today in the

00:04:00.800 whatsapp group and it's like well you could even remember we're saying about a man dressing well

00:04:05.360 you could tell when a man's dressing a certain way in a relationship and out of a relationship

00:04:09.280 you can tell obviously i don't know mandem could tell i don't know if women can tell

00:04:12.640 but really the most like dependable like responsible men i know don't really need a woman to like look

00:04:18.160 after them to be honest it's not about need it's about guidance so like i mean do you get what i'm

00:04:25.200 saying no but no because i'm just thinking about the men like i respect the most of my life that are

00:04:28.720 really like doing stuff um like i think of my dad some of my brothers they don't need a woman to like

00:04:33.600 guide them or take care of them they kind of have a path stuff they want to do they don't really no

00:04:38.000 we're always gonna have a path but women have certain like we're practical so we're always on 1.00

00:04:44.480 yo we need to do this we need to do that when blah blah blah where women are more 1.00

00:04:49.040 structured they will put that men are structured but we will got we will see we'll have a vision and

00:04:54.160 we go for that vision and sometimes we just go because we can see what we're going for we know

00:04:59.440 we we got the picture in our head but a woman a woman can organize the route a bit better than a 1.00

00:05:04.800 man can organize them i think what you're saying is more like enhancing your qualities enhancing your

00:05:10.720 life maybe yeah but like honestly for me i think that if if a guy can get up even when he's sad when he

00:05:18.320 has a bad day maybe if he likes to work out he'll do a workout go to work not be emotional all the

00:05:25.120 time you know these things that if you already do them without a woman it's good yeah we do that 1.00

00:05:30.000 naturally but go on pal yeah i know you you was in there you get me no this this just this just sounds

00:05:37.680 to me yeah like the guys you don't want to date which is the guys that like need a woman yeah to like

00:05:43.520 to guide them yeah yeah like i would think you'd want like a leader or maybe i'm wrong no no man's

00:05:48.880 a leader yeah i just need someone to organize man's paperwork while i'm okay but that's like

00:05:56.320 you're kind of switching what you started saying no i hear what you know but i'm okay it's hard for

00:06:01.600 me to explain it because it's like it's mad because obviously man i'm i'm i'm when i'm saying i'm focused

00:06:08.480 smart you can be focused on something but sometimes you need somebody there to help you in line certain

00:06:14.240 things because man we will just do things like for example are you shopping for example yeah

00:06:20.240 if i'm going if i'm going shopping yo i'm going in there size eight air force one boom bam gone

00:06:25.520 i know exactly what i want i know what i'm going there for i'm not spending long where a woman 1.00

00:06:29.760 will if they want to dress or something or they want to shoes you try it on it's got to make sure it

00:06:34.480 looks right blah blah up there they will pattern up things make sure everything's correct before

00:06:39.120 they leave that do you get what i'm saying but how does it make getting your size eight better

00:06:43.360 your air force better don't need to get my air force better so is that she organizes your route 1.00

00:06:49.120 yeah but i'm just saying they will look for more i'm gonna i'm gonna read superchats

00:06:57.520 um okay guys make sure you like the video do we open the chat do we get two thousand likes blessing

00:07:02.800 yeah 1.2 oh 1.2 good job guys uh aw message deleted i don't know what you said but someone

00:07:10.560 deleted it um harashima uh 21st century uh is the biggest l for humanity we trusted women to be 0.97

00:07:17.120 accountable like men are but all they did was destroy society rome empowered women it's gone now 1.00

00:07:22.080 is that true did rome do that um vincent fraga the traditional righteous focused um

00:07:29.280 men focused since youth to be godly protectors providers and intelligent for the purpose to

00:07:33.840 build families at large i'm harashima average japanese guys doesn't leave his house all i

00:07:39.120 saw outside were chads and good-looking guys they openly said they had multiple girlfriends because

00:07:43.760 that's all they had the rest of the guys um aren't even in the dating pool just rotting at home

00:07:49.840 um that was for the japanese uh super chat earlier um oi thanks for the hard work pearl

00:07:56.160 peace gore um does being submissive mean submit to your uh men are being or does it mean submit

00:08:02.320 to your family and tell tats to stop talking oi ha ha you're right um zoro slot uh only simps want

00:08:09.600 to wait months if women isn't a virgin um it's a woman's job to retain a man after hooking up uh 1.00

00:08:16.000 women want quality and men want quantity we are not the same 1.00

00:08:23.920 um okay

JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023

Pearl Explains Why Women Need Men

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