Pearl Explains Why Women Need Men
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how to find a good man, how to be a good woman and how to know if a man is good in a relationship. We also discuss the importance of being a good father and how important it is to have a good relationship with your children.
Transcript
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funny like the day you realize your parents were right about everything like it's like it's like
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you just wake up one day and you're like oh it was like around 21 or 22 for me i was like oh my
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gosh my mom and dad raised me so well and they were right about everything they told me we never
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listen we never we never listen through our teenage years except for relationships oh yeah
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i'm not listening to them for relationships i've got no relationships compared to those two yeah
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yeah yeah well do you like the guy she's dating very much yeah i mean i think that i think that
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mothers like actually we should ask our parents about those like people we date yeah and i actually
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he met my mom and my dad and i i would i wouldn't have been with him if they didn't like him yeah
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period because that's just how that's just how it should be my man like that as well because even
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the girl i'm seeing now her family unit is strong and i feel like it wouldn't have worked if her if
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her mom or things didn't like man you get what i'm saying totally and my family is like my most
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important thing but my but my respect that once the family is important to you totally and close
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to you like i feel like i feel like men respect women more when they have that family dynamic
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whether the even if the dad's not there if the dad's there obviously he's going to respect it a lot
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more in it because he's going to come differently but if if if he knows you have a strong support unit
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with mom cousins aunties whatever yeah he is going to respect you a lot more than if a girl doesn't
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really have the same kind of support we're asking how you find a good woman and i i also find it
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really challenging to know when you find a good man i mean i think by now at 47 you know it's challenging
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to find a good man i think i found one whose values align but it's not that easy it's not easy
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exactly what do you guys think how do you know when a guy's a good guy you know what when when the
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man them are good yeah yeah yeah yo you know what it is with you know you can tell when a man is in
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line when he has a good woman a good woman makes a good man no but he has to be good on his own first
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okay no no no no no no no no no because you know what it is now pal that's not the question i asked
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i know but you know what it is no no no no please stop please stop please stop please stop no i i asked you guys for
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for her she's a single woman or sort of she's dating someone but like for a single woman how do you know if it's a
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good man what do you think do you think it's easy to tell as a guy who the guy good guys are no it's
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not easy to be it's not if he's willing to accept your trauma he's a good guy that's a good one that's
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a good one definitely because really that's a good point yeah that's a good point okay i'm just like
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why would a good guy want to accept a bunch of trauma because if he sees something in you he will
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yeah you see something if he supports you through certain things you're going through and trauma
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that then you know like he listens to your problems no not no just not just listen forget the listening
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okay he's actually there like raw like cool you've gone let's say all right what kind of example can i
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do maybe working around like trying to work around you in a way wherever the issue may be or whatever
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it is yeah like if she needs time like you're there but you're you're you're supportive you're
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supporting but it's not just what do you think i feel like i feel like you got something to say
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fundamentally i think that all most guys are good guys you know good guys we are good guys we are
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agree no um but the thing is it's about have we found the right woman okay so if we were with the
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right woman then it works if we're not that it's not but how does she see it though and she's not going
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to see it but um easily because it depends on who she is all right ted this is what i just said to
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pearl it's about the woman but she doesn't understand you see me saying it from a mandate
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like in order for a man to be a good man you have to have a good woman because the woman will put you
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in line like man on their own don't put their self in line we do reckless things we buy we spend money
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recklessly we live recklessly until you get that good one i was chatting to the man them today in the
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whatsapp group and it's like well you could even remember we're saying about a man dressing well
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you could tell when a man's dressing a certain way in a relationship and out of a relationship
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you can tell obviously i don't know mandem could tell i don't know if women can tell
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but really the most like dependable like responsible men i know don't really need a woman to like look
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after them to be honest it's not about need it's about guidance so like i mean do you get what i'm
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saying no but no because i'm just thinking about the men like i respect the most of my life that are
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really like doing stuff um like i think of my dad some of my brothers they don't need a woman to like
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guide them or take care of them they kind of have a path stuff they want to do they don't really no
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we're always gonna have a path but women have certain like we're practical so we're always on
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yo we need to do this we need to do that when blah blah blah where women are more
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structured they will put that men are structured but we will got we will see we'll have a vision and
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we go for that vision and sometimes we just go because we can see what we're going for we know
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we we got the picture in our head but a woman a woman can organize the route a bit better than a
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man can organize them i think what you're saying is more like enhancing your qualities enhancing your
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life maybe yeah but like honestly for me i think that if if a guy can get up even when he's sad when he
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has a bad day maybe if he likes to work out he'll do a workout go to work not be emotional all the
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time you know these things that if you already do them without a woman it's good yeah we do that
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naturally but go on pal yeah i know you you was in there you get me no this this just this just sounds
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to me yeah like the guys you don't want to date which is the guys that like need a woman yeah to like
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to guide them yeah yeah like i would think you'd want like a leader or maybe i'm wrong no no man's
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a leader yeah i just need someone to organize man's paperwork while i'm okay but that's like
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you're kind of switching what you started saying no i hear what you know but i'm okay it's hard for
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me to explain it because it's like it's mad because obviously man i'm i'm i'm when i'm saying i'm focused
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smart you can be focused on something but sometimes you need somebody there to help you in line certain
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things because man we will just do things like for example are you shopping for example yeah
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if i'm going if i'm going shopping yo i'm going in there size eight air force one boom bam gone
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i know exactly what i want i know what i'm going there for i'm not spending long where a woman
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will if they want to dress or something or they want to shoes you try it on it's got to make sure it
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looks right blah blah up there they will pattern up things make sure everything's correct before
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they leave that do you get what i'm saying but how does it make getting your size eight better
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your air force better don't need to get my air force better so is that she organizes your route
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yeah but i'm just saying they will look for more i'm gonna i'm gonna read superchats
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um okay guys make sure you like the video do we open the chat do we get two thousand likes blessing
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yeah 1.2 oh 1.2 good job guys uh aw message deleted i don't know what you said but someone
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deleted it um harashima uh 21st century uh is the biggest l for humanity we trusted women to be
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accountable like men are but all they did was destroy society rome empowered women it's gone now
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is that true did rome do that um vincent fraga the traditional righteous focused um
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men focused since youth to be godly protectors providers and intelligent for the purpose to
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build families at large i'm harashima average japanese guys doesn't leave his house all i
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saw outside were chads and good-looking guys they openly said they had multiple girlfriends because
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that's all they had the rest of the guys um aren't even in the dating pool just rotting at home
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um that was for the japanese uh super chat earlier um oi thanks for the hard work pearl
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peace gore um does being submissive mean submit to your uh men are being or does it mean submit
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to your family and tell tats to stop talking oi ha ha you're right um zoro slot uh only simps want
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to wait months if women isn't a virgin um it's a woman's job to retain a man after hooking up uh
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women want quality and men want quantity we are not the same