Pearl Explains Why Women Shouldn't Be On Instagram
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Summary
Is it okay for a woman to have an Instagram in a relationship? Should a woman be allowed to post her sex life on social media in a romantic setting? Is this an acceptable thing for women to post photos of their sex life?
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all right so since there's five of us in here we're gonna do a vote and it's
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gonna be really fun so we're gonna vote on if this is acceptable in a
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relationship or unacceptable like I think we're gonna do
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what are we laughing about I don't get it okay so all right number one
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Instagram is it okay for a girl to have an Instagram in a relationship yes yes yes
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yeah raise your hand if you think yes yeah if she wants to I actually think
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it's unacceptable oh god well I mean there's exceptions but if I think of a
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general rule Instagram's the number one dating app so it's kind of interesting
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because okay now if we if we go off the premise I'm gonna see if I can get you
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guys to my side we're gonna do a vote here if we think of the premise that
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Instagram that do we agree with the premise attention is to women as sex is
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to men do you agree with that or disagree okay why because you can get
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attention at home if you have a man so not every woman likes attention okay so
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you would pick sex over beauty so if you if you had to pick between you get to
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look 21 forever or you get to have sex with whoever like the hottest guy on the
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planet forever what would you pick really you pick sex oh yeah okay would you pick
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sex or beauty yeah cuz I feel like sex makes you feel beautiful makes you feel
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yeah look you've got someone that think do you not agree no I pick beauty well no I
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wanna if I could look 22 forever one you can make money off of that to like it to
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it's like yeah I would I would pick that over sex over like like sex with the
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hottest guy ever or beauty it depends if it's like how long you're having sex for
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like is that the same person you having sex for for the rest of your life with that
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just I think it depends I think it depends on the person as well like if it's
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Michael B Jordan then yeah let's do it but if it's not then okay Mars Chestnut
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okay you guys think sex is to women as to attention or sex is to men as
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attention is to women it depends on the woman depends on the women yeah I think
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it's all women yeah this is just my my personal thoughts but okay I'll tell you
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why I think that when all right when a guy sleeps with a girl he gets some sort of
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validation right women don't get validation through sex we get validation through guys
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like finding us attractive you're like being desired that's true that's why I
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think it's that's why I think it's different like when we post the picture on
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Instagram that's us getting validation through being desired or when a man
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fucks a bunch of chicks that's him like feeling the most desired to see or you
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know maybe he screwed the hottest check right it might for some guys it's just
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one but you guys get the idea that's why I think Instagram is cheating because
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you're basically putting your beauty on display for other men but it's okay I can
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I can be overruled I can be overruled some women are put it on display for other women
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some some people want to show the kids like you know they want to show the family
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that the kids are around I I think if you look at most I think we could pull up you
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guys's Instagram profiles and I think it'll probably look like a dating app a little
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bit we could we could do it it'll be fun if you want I don't think you should
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put up mine to be honest we can we can later later some bad bee pics you know um all right
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so all right we could we could anyone change their opinion or same opinion still acceptable
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or unacceptable acceptable acceptable all right I won't sway you today it's all right
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all right um no it makes sense going it makes you on my side now no Instagram I don't think
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women should have an Instagram wow all right well okay he's it depends on the Instagram yeah
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that's what I'm saying what is it I mean if you to pull up my wife's Instagram it's there's nothing
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yeah I'm sure it's about her daily life or you know shouldn't she want to tell you about her
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date like why does the world need to know it's probably just she's probably got a certain amount
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of friends in there that she wants to share her daily life with instead of putting we make it
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still validation though isn't it but what if it's for her business exactly yeah what if it's her
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business well how much okay but it's not how much are women really make in a month you know
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the average woman makes like 500 a month on OnlyFans we can't even sell sex
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like most women don't make any money you know what I mean like it may be if she's a real business
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you know yeah if it's a real business but it's like uh do we really but even then do you need to
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post your face no that's what your business is that's true what are you selling but then again
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yeah it depends you could be to selling products not sure you could be your brand but you can post
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other people you could be your brand you don't have to post yourself though yeah but you could be
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the brand or it could be homemade made stuff that you want to promote but you don't have to post
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yourself you could it could probably be okay I think if we're going to use Kim Kardashian that's like
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why women shouldn't have an Instagram why because she sells sex literally she literally her brand is
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based on her sex tape like that's her life oh yeah wow and have you seen have you seen her Instagram
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is that look how much money she's made from that is women is is money is money worth her her kids
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mental health no not at all okay so so what has that led to for her does it seem like the outcomes
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for her children are going to be good when we got the one kid like dancing with ice spice
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depends if you're looking at a bank account or if you're looking at well it depends well it depends
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what matters to you yeah money money or mental health yeah like money or your values right
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because yeah a little bit I mean I I personally think they are quite a put together family obviously
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they have their no no my personal opinion on that family is each other no they don't they don't
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everyone in that family is a money pig like none of them people have anything substantial the only
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person that has something substantial is Kylie and Kendall none of them have anything that's grown from
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the mud all they do is stem off that woman's tape literally there's nothing else to them well and and they're
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all single mothers literally all of them I think Caitlin's all right there you go
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all right we got all right we got Instagram okay um all right
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clubbing clubbing if you're clubbing with your partner no like alone clubbing alone no
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would never go depends what age you are as well you know if you're young I had a chick on the show
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that was really confused why I said she shouldn't club with children anymore like she had kids I was
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like maybe it's time to spend out like not go to the club anymore yeah it depends what age you are
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but I think if you're a young mum all right so who says um acceptable who says yes oh wait I put
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this in the wrong one yes depending on what stage you are in your relationship stop women should stop
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going to the club yeah I'm asking is it cheating or not cheating like is it yes it's acceptable no
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it's not acceptable it's not all right so raise your hand if you think think no not acceptable
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traditional clubbing yeah like yeah I mean bars and stuff you think it's acceptable or not acceptable
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to go to a club if she's in a relationship no no no it's fine it's a bar yeah bars and stuff
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yeah it depends what you're doing you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club though
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yeah you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club like where you're going to not go
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because you're in a relationship you could go to a bar yeah you lot stay at the restaurant
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and go home all right so since we approved instagram I want to know selfies yes what's one for selfies
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is it is it is there like a type of selfie just uh you know face just like your face that's cool
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is it is it a pretty face though because if she's ugly she can post as much as she wants
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that's fine she's she's gonna be with you right so she's gotta be a pretty girl
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I mean no always I mean yeah man I don't judge oh wow you know okay let's see yeah she's she's a
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pretty chick yeah so selfies yes who says a selfie is okay no I think selfies are good
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kind of I'm in the middle with that one what do you think I'm gonna say no I'm gonna go hard no
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no selfies why because you're advertising your beauty why why do why do they gotta see you smile
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she'll only be smiling for your man you can't have nothing nice can you what if she's not smiling
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I mean yeah why if she's wearing the title neck and she just I just want to know like what what's
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the balaclava yeah like what is she gonna get out of like what is the point of posting it I'm not
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gonna lie it'll be better for a chick to post a selfie than a woman who has a fat ass fat boobs
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beautiful curves to post a full body pic she's gonna be more advertising well just because
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there's something worse it doesn't make the selfie good that's like saying well I only did only fans
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not porn like I don't think it matters to be fair it's like taking the question is what what what is
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the point of posting the selfie because yeah what you're not realizing is I can easily compare that
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to someone addicted to drugs like why are you posting the selfie just to get that dopamine hit
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of oh people like your picture why it's validation she probably wants to show off that she she bought
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nice earrings she got her hair done or you know she got her makeup she got her makeup done still
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validation could be that but at the end of the day why is she showing it off to strangers but would it
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be better would it be better for a man to post a selfie is it necessarily we get less validation
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okay then so would it be better for a man to post a full body pic to obviously advertise his
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design aware that that's what was saying the same thing like it's an addiction if it's that if he's
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validation selling something like he's selling the clothes or he's selling like a fitness plan that's
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different but if you're just posting it just so that people can like it but this is the point like you
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used to get all that validation and attention from your man and not a million strangers like I used
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to watch like 1940s like wife tips and it was like oh get some makeup on before your husband gets home
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like have your hair done so so you're like ready to see him but now it's like women will get their
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makeup done for Instagram but not their husband they'll look half like homeless but aren't we all
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seeking out validation not just women no I think that women seek out validation much more than men
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partially because we can but but I my opinion I think women like men seek sex so I that would the
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equivalent of that to me would be men having access to easy sex and taking it I think yeah they probably
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would like if you had that validation doesn't necessarily come from the opposite sex always
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like you could be um your friends could be like oh cool picture like do you mean it's no um I think
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they could but I would say typically women post for attention from high status men
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that's that's my opinion typically yeah I think some women actually post for other women literally
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yeah I I think that's the equivalent of when women dress half naked and they say they do it for
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themselves but then I just don't really believe that's why I still have to ask like it's still to
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the same point what's the difference between a selfie and a full body pic if you get a girl who's got
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ass curves boobs and she takes a full body picture if she taking a selfie of just that she just like
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the face that she just yeah if you if you were gonna have a dating profile would you put a selfie
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on it yeah that's the point that's before I'm just showing myself because you're getting correct
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you're showing yourself and that's the whole point is you're getting validation from the opposite
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gender but I actually agree with the lady on the right I think women also post for other women
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yeah we do because yeah it's not even like it's not even just for the validation aspect it still
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ties back to men because it's kind of like a competition competition women are very
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I don't know it still ties back to men but it's still like there's still that competition
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between women because women want to be able to post and have other women validate them and say
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yes you are beautiful right but then it still ties back to validation right the latest handbag or the
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latest shoes or the latest top and say oh what the name's got that you know right but it's yeah
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women too yeah but it's but he's right but it's all to compete for the guys so it still ties back to the man
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