JustPearlyThings - Pearl Explains Why Women Shouldn't Be On Instagram

00:00:00.000 all right so since there's five of us in here we're gonna do a vote and it's

00:00:12.140 gonna be really fun so we're gonna vote on if this is acceptable in a

00:00:15.920 relationship or unacceptable like I think we're gonna do

00:00:31.000 what are we laughing about I don't get it okay so all right number one

00:00:41.000 Instagram is it okay for a girl to have an Instagram in a relationship yes yes yes

00:00:51.280 yeah raise your hand if you think yes yeah if she wants to I actually think

00:00:58.140 it's unacceptable oh god well I mean there's exceptions but if I think of a

00:01:05.540 general rule Instagram's the number one dating app so it's kind of interesting

00:01:10.820 because okay now if we if we go off the premise I'm gonna see if I can get you

00:01:15.000 guys to my side we're gonna do a vote here if we think of the premise that

00:01:18.640 Instagram that do we agree with the premise attention is to women as sex is

00:01:25.100 to men do you agree with that or disagree okay why because you can get

00:01:30.500 attention at home if you have a man so not every woman likes attention okay so

00:01:39.560 you would pick sex over beauty so if you if you had to pick between you get to

00:01:46.160 look 21 forever or you get to have sex with whoever like the hottest guy on the 0.68

00:01:50.480 planet forever what would you pick really you pick sex oh yeah okay would you pick

00:01:55.560 sex or beauty yeah cuz I feel like sex makes you feel beautiful makes you feel

00:01:58.960 yeah look you've got someone that think do you not agree no I pick beauty well no I

00:02:04.360 wanna if I could look 22 forever one you can make money off of that to like it to

00:02:10.420 it's like yeah I would I would pick that over sex over like like sex with the 0.98

00:02:14.240 hottest guy ever or beauty it depends if it's like how long you're having sex for

00:02:19.500 like is that the same person you having sex for for the rest of your life with that

00:02:22.800 just I think it depends I think it depends on the person as well like if it's

00:02:26.400 Michael B Jordan then yeah let's do it but if it's not then okay Mars Chestnut

00:02:31.080 okay you guys think sex is to women as to attention or sex is to men as

00:02:37.680 attention is to women it depends on the woman depends on the women yeah I think 0.67

00:02:42.720 it's all women yeah this is just my my personal thoughts but okay I'll tell you

00:02:47.860 why I think that when all right when a guy sleeps with a girl he gets some sort of

00:02:52.760 validation right women don't get validation through sex we get validation through guys 1.00

00:02:57.440 like finding us attractive you're like being desired that's true that's why I

00:03:02.420 think it's that's why I think it's different like when we post the picture on

00:03:06.020 Instagram that's us getting validation through being desired or when a man

00:03:11.180 fucks a bunch of chicks that's him like feeling the most desired to see or you 1.00

00:03:15.700 know maybe he screwed the hottest check right it might for some guys it's just

00:03:19.520 one but you guys get the idea that's why I think Instagram is cheating because

00:03:24.860 you're basically putting your beauty on display for other men but it's okay I can

00:03:30.860 I can be overruled I can be overruled some women are put it on display for other women 1.00

00:03:34.700 some some people want to show the kids like you know they want to show the family

00:03:38.360 that the kids are around I I think if you look at most I think we could pull up you

00:03:42.920 guys's Instagram profiles and I think it'll probably look like a dating app a little

00:03:47.420 bit we could we could do it it'll be fun if you want I don't think you should

00:03:51.580 put up mine to be honest we can we can later later some bad bee pics you know um all right

00:04:00.420 so all right we could we could anyone change their opinion or same opinion still acceptable

00:04:05.960 or unacceptable acceptable acceptable all right I won't sway you today it's all right

00:04:10.700 all right um no it makes sense going it makes you on my side now no Instagram I don't think

00:04:18.320 women should have an Instagram wow all right well okay he's it depends on the Instagram yeah 0.88

00:04:23.100 that's what I'm saying what is it I mean if you to pull up my wife's Instagram it's there's nothing

00:04:28.280 yeah I'm sure it's about her daily life or you know shouldn't she want to tell you about her

00:04:36.000 date like why does the world need to know it's probably just she's probably got a certain amount 1.00

00:04:39.980 of friends in there that she wants to share her daily life with instead of putting we make it

00:04:44.240 still validation though isn't it but what if it's for her business exactly yeah what if it's her

00:04:48.000 business well how much okay but it's not how much are women really make in a month you know 1.00

00:04:53.120 the average woman makes like 500 a month on OnlyFans we can't even sell sex 1.00

00:04:58.280 like most women don't make any money you know what I mean like it may be if she's a real business 1.00

00:05:04.820 you know yeah if it's a real business but it's like uh do we really but even then do you need to

00:05:09.980 post your face no that's what your business is that's true what are you selling but then again

00:05:15.940 yeah it depends you could be to selling products not sure you could be your brand but you can post

00:05:20.700 other people you could be your brand you don't have to post yourself though yeah but you could be

00:05:25.400 the brand or it could be homemade made stuff that you want to promote but you don't have to post

00:05:29.980 yourself you could it could probably be okay I think if we're going to use Kim Kardashian that's like

00:05:35.360 why women shouldn't have an Instagram why because she sells sex literally she literally her brand is 1.00

00:05:43.640 based on her sex tape like that's her life oh yeah wow and have you seen have you seen her Instagram

00:05:49.020 is that look how much money she's made from that is women is is money is money worth her her kids 1.00

00:05:55.280 mental health no not at all okay so so what has that led to for her does it seem like the outcomes

00:06:01.700 for her children are going to be good when we got the one kid like dancing with ice spice

00:06:06.880 depends if you're looking at a bank account or if you're looking at well it depends well it depends

00:06:11.860 what matters to you yeah money money or mental health yeah like money or your values right

00:06:18.060 because yeah a little bit I mean I I personally think they are quite a put together family obviously

00:06:24.000 they have their no no my personal opinion on that family is each other no they don't they don't

00:06:31.400 everyone in that family is a money pig like none of them people have anything substantial the only

00:06:37.280 person that has something substantial is Kylie and Kendall none of them have anything that's grown from

00:06:42.140 the mud all they do is stem off that woman's tape literally there's nothing else to them well and and they're 0.80

00:06:49.220 all single mothers literally all of them I think Caitlin's all right there you go

00:06:55.220 all right we got all right we got Instagram okay um all right

00:07:13.340 clubbing clubbing if you're clubbing with your partner no like alone clubbing alone no

00:07:24.560 would never go depends what age you are as well you know if you're young I had a chick on the show 1.00

00:07:30.740 that was really confused why I said she shouldn't club with children anymore like she had kids I was 1.00

00:07:35.880 like maybe it's time to spend out like not go to the club anymore yeah it depends what age you are

00:07:39.760 but I think if you're a young mum all right so who says um acceptable who says yes oh wait I put 0.76

00:07:45.980 this in the wrong one yes depending on what stage you are in your relationship stop women should stop 1.00

00:07:51.940 going to the club yeah I'm asking is it cheating or not cheating like is it yes it's acceptable no

00:07:58.000 it's not acceptable it's not all right so raise your hand if you think think no not acceptable

00:08:03.120 traditional clubbing yeah like yeah I mean bars and stuff you think it's acceptable or not acceptable

00:08:09.760 to go to a club if she's in a relationship no no no it's fine it's a bar yeah bars and stuff

00:08:16.060 yeah it depends what you're doing you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club though

00:08:20.620 yeah you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club like where you're going to not go

00:08:23.600 because you're in a relationship you could go to a bar yeah you lot stay at the restaurant

00:08:28.200 and go home all right so since we approved instagram I want to know selfies yes what's one for selfies

00:08:37.980 is it is it is there like a type of selfie just uh you know face just like your face that's cool

00:08:43.620 is it is it a pretty face though because if she's ugly she can post as much as she wants 1.00

00:08:48.900 that's fine she's she's gonna be with you right so she's gotta be a pretty girl 1.00

00:08:53.400 I mean no always I mean yeah man I don't judge oh wow you know okay let's see yeah she's she's a

00:09:00.820 pretty chick yeah so selfies yes who says a selfie is okay no I think selfies are good

00:09:06.920 kind of I'm in the middle with that one what do you think I'm gonna say no I'm gonna go hard no

00:09:12.940 no selfies why because you're advertising your beauty why why do why do they gotta see you smile

00:09:19.420 she'll only be smiling for your man you can't have nothing nice can you what if she's not smiling 0.98

00:09:25.700 I mean yeah why if she's wearing the title neck and she just I just want to know like what what's 1.00

00:09:31.020 the balaclava yeah like what is she gonna get out of like what is the point of posting it I'm not

00:09:35.700 gonna lie it'll be better for a chick to post a selfie than a woman who has a fat ass fat boobs 1.00

00:09:41.480 beautiful curves to post a full body pic she's gonna be more advertising well just because 1.00

00:09:46.420 there's something worse it doesn't make the selfie good that's like saying well I only did only fans

00:09:54.200 not porn like I don't think it matters to be fair it's like taking the question is what what what is

00:10:01.300 the point of posting the selfie because yeah what you're not realizing is I can easily compare that

00:10:07.220 to someone addicted to drugs like why are you posting the selfie just to get that dopamine hit

00:10:11.740 of oh people like your picture why it's validation she probably wants to show off that she she bought

00:10:16.820 nice earrings she got her hair done or you know she got her makeup she got her makeup done still 1.00

00:10:22.220 validation could be that but at the end of the day why is she showing it off to strangers but would it

00:10:26.540 be better would it be better for a man to post a selfie is it necessarily we get less validation

00:10:31.500 okay then so would it be better for a man to post a full body pic to obviously advertise his

00:10:36.280 design aware that that's what was saying the same thing like it's an addiction if it's that if he's

00:10:42.820 validation selling something like he's selling the clothes or he's selling like a fitness plan that's

00:10:47.020 different but if you're just posting it just so that people can like it but this is the point like you

00:10:52.040 used to get all that validation and attention from your man and not a million strangers like I used

00:10:57.480 to watch like 1940s like wife tips and it was like oh get some makeup on before your husband gets home

00:11:03.980 like have your hair done so so you're like ready to see him but now it's like women will get their 0.99

00:11:09.040 makeup done for Instagram but not their husband they'll look half like homeless but aren't we all

00:11:14.100 seeking out validation not just women no I think that women seek out validation much more than men

00:11:19.540 partially because we can but but I my opinion I think women like men seek sex so I that would the 0.99

00:11:27.400 equivalent of that to me would be men having access to easy sex and taking it I think yeah they probably

00:11:33.820 would like if you had that validation doesn't necessarily come from the opposite sex always

00:11:37.560 like you could be um your friends could be like oh cool picture like do you mean it's no um I think

00:11:45.440 they could but I would say typically women post for attention from high status men 0.99

00:11:51.040 that's that's my opinion typically yeah I think some women actually post for other women literally 1.00

00:11:58.720 yeah I I think that's the equivalent of when women dress half naked and they say they do it for 1.00

00:12:03.420 themselves but then I just don't really believe that's why I still have to ask like it's still to

00:12:07.660 the same point what's the difference between a selfie and a full body pic if you get a girl who's got

00:12:12.840 ass curves boobs and she takes a full body picture if she taking a selfie of just that she just like 1.00

00:12:20.220 the face that she just yeah if you if you were gonna have a dating profile would you put a selfie

00:12:24.820 on it yeah that's the point that's before I'm just showing myself because you're getting correct

00:12:30.520 you're showing yourself and that's the whole point is you're getting validation from the opposite

00:12:35.320 gender but I actually agree with the lady on the right I think women also post for other women 1.00

00:12:41.120 yeah we do because yeah it's not even like it's not even just for the validation aspect it still

00:12:46.580 ties back to men because it's kind of like a competition competition women are very 1.00

00:12:50.220 I don't know it still ties back to men but it's still like there's still that competition

00:12:54.820 between women because women want to be able to post and have other women validate them and say 0.99

00:12:59.520 yes you are beautiful right but then it still ties back to validation right the latest handbag or the

00:13:05.820 latest shoes or the latest top and say oh what the name's got that you know right but it's yeah

00:13:10.860 women too yeah but it's but he's right but it's all to compete for the guys so it still ties back to the man

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00:13:19.760 yeah no gonna Familien

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JustPearlyThings - October 16, 2023

Pearl Explains Why Women Shouldn't Be On Instagram

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