JustPearlyThings - October 14, 2023


Pearl Exposes Fat Modern


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Length

9 minutes

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187.93402

Word count

1,732

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why men prefer smaller women and why women are more picky when it comes to choosing a mate. We also discuss why women tend to date cheaters and why men tend to choose smaller women.

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00:00:00.000 what what women in the media do men desire that's overweight i'm not leaving in the 1.00
00:00:04.000 media no what what what women do men desire that's overweight in the media no i'm not that
00:00:09.760 men will men will say is a celebrity then yeah there ain't gonna be no size eight to ten yeah
00:00:15.760 that i'm and most men are going for that between 14 that i would say like 12 and 14
00:00:21.840 curvy i don't know no i'm gonna speak to you that wants a wife a girl full of bone 1.00
00:00:27.280 i didn't say bone but i think women or i think men prefer thinner women yeah slim yeah 0.99
00:00:35.120 okay and and 14 to 16 is generally overweight in general no she said 12 to 14. okay are you happy
00:00:42.720 12 to 14. because you can be you know what a bigger waist you know i'm like it comes across as a
00:00:52.320 bigger woman but she's actually not that big her belly can be the reality is they would never ask 1.00
00:00:56.160 men what men want the thing is most men cannot say what they want because of how women lash out 1.00
00:01:02.960 so most men would settle and just deal with what they can get because most men actually don't have
00:01:07.280 a choice that is what we're saying is when you look at the men that have the most choice what do they go
00:01:12.320 for but i feel like it's the men who have the choice and not really the woman i feel like it's the man who
00:01:16.240 he picks the woman not the woman exactly no that's women women women don't choose men 1.00
00:01:24.160 women uh at it unless unless you're some what's that what's that what's oh would you go out of me 1.00
00:01:30.240 but generally what is what is what is all right what is the number one way people are meeting under 30
00:01:36.240 well i don't agree with internet yeah but it's not what you agree with i'm asking what is the number
00:01:41.200 one way people are meeting dating upper internet okay what percent of the time do women swipe right 1.00
00:01:46.160 yeah what percent of the time do you think women swipe right i don't think they do much i've never 1.00
00:01:51.600 ever seen so women women swipe right five percent of the time and how much do men uh around fifty 1.00
00:01:57.360 percent so it's the men who's choosing the women right no it's the women choosing the men 1.00
00:02:02.320 when we're swiping right five percent of the time and the men are swiping right 50 that means we're far
00:02:07.680 more picky than the men it also means that we're all sharing men why do you think women have dated cheaters 0.99
00:02:14.160 because it's a small percentage of men that we're all going after so again his point is that when
00:02:20.400 you look at the men with the most choice they don't pick fat women they don't pick size 14s 0.96
00:02:25.920 they pick thin women with butt and boobs like this shouldn't even be controversial you mean 1.00
00:02:30.640 like so the facts in the right places yeah basically a healthy bmi typically 0.76
00:02:37.520 do you disagree with this well if you're going to go back to like some of the earlier points as in
00:02:46.400 chemistry psychology etc then yeah because the man's going to be looking at her childbearing ips 0.67
00:02:52.880 if the ips are bearing enough or the overbearing or underbearing i don't know but i'm not a guy so 1.00
00:02:58.960 i can't really say about that because i don't look at girls and it so i don't really know but i'm
00:03:03.920 but i'm saying you you can you can kind of see like the same way the the most beautiful women in
00:03:09.840 society who do they pick yeah normal average looking size girls any no all right when we look at models 1.00
00:03:18.720 right the most beautiful women in society eight to tens when they're beautiful right who do they tend to 1.00
00:03:24.960 pick yeah i was tall rich handsome men right yeah so when men have the most money they're going 0.79
00:03:33.840 to pick the same in it they're they're no they don't care about they don't care about the money
00:03:39.040 they don't care about the money but yeah slim looking girls correct so what does that tell us 1.00
00:03:44.320 that men like wait come on slim girls thank you 0.99
00:03:50.640 that but not every man does still what we we know not every man but most men when given the choice will
00:03:57.280 pick slimmer women would you say that's true i think down to geographics yeah i agree with that 1.00
00:04:03.120 geographics because if you're coming from a western society yeah right like say europe then you're
00:04:08.160 going to go for the girl that's on the bony side and but then if you're coming from the caribbean 0.99
00:04:18.240 if you typically find what look at what men find attractive they take dating apps from all over
00:04:23.280 the world it's typically the waist to hip ratio but you know what i think men actually like women
00:04:30.640 based on the your first encounter of the top women who saw growing up for example like guys guys were
00:04:36.320 born and brought up in the west they like light skin girls whatever they they think that's attractive 0.96
00:04:40.800 because that's what they saw growing up go to ghana there are some men who like big women because
00:04:44.480 that's what they saw growing up i think that's how the human brain is formed when you when you're a
00:04:47.840 guy because i what she said i could understand because i've got uncles who are who are successful but
00:04:52.720 they're like women with meat that's what that's what they like right do they do they typically no no 1.00
00:04:57.520 no no no most of the time when they bro i grew up in nigeria most of the time when they marry those
00:05:01.920 women those women were slim they became fat in the marriage that's the reality it could be i don't 0.99
00:05:06.160 know what i see go and look at all your aunties go and look at their pictures when they were
00:05:09.760 like this is like like come on generalize it i definitely got to be sincere with myself yeah
00:05:24.080 and me being sincere i can't say oh what she's saying isn't true i get where you're coming from
00:05:28.800 but that's the west like she said that's based on where you're from because the people who are born in
00:05:33.440 you've gone though nigeria wherever they might have been to other things they might like well
00:05:37.120 he's from nigeria yeah but that's what you're saying that they they were slimmer but not the
00:05:41.760 bigger i'm coming from me seeing them now but i'm what i'm saying is men typically pick slim women 1.00
00:05:47.920 is that true or not true yes but i'm saying it's based on where they are as well i would say men
00:05:53.040 typically pick slimmer women they might have a big butt yeah okay yeah but the waist is yeah yeah yeah i agree 1.00
00:06:00.960 yeah i agree with that yeah not caribbean men boy they love any shape size
00:06:06.240 he wants to get out with a big belly anyway no but yeah hey i got a big belly besides no but i mean like
00:06:13.360 one that's hanging i think no but i mean i think we need to give men a bit more credit
00:06:25.120 hold on one second please it's not even just about the sex thing it's like a lot of times we forget the
00:06:30.080 biological implications of some of these things men naturally want a healthy woman if they care
00:06:35.520 about building a legacy can you can you look so it's not just when you when you see women that are 0.99
00:06:41.280 overweight it it is an indicator of something wrong with their health that's the reality and any man with
00:06:48.080 any sort of intelligence who has worked on himself and wants to build a future for himself is not going
00:06:53.120 to set out to pick a woman who is already showing signs of poor health because one she's more than likely 1.00
00:06:58.880 to pass that down to her kids if a woman can't even figure out how to feed herself and make 1.00
00:07:04.240 herself look healthy what do you think she's going to feed the kids no i get it i'm also looking up i'm
00:07:09.280 also looking up the famous caribbean men and and it's like we got shaggy's wife finn not you on good
00:07:16.720 we got we got yeah yeah yeah no i'm i'm i'm i'm taking look at i'm taking his his his point it's
00:07:22.160 different and i'm looking up doug e fresh wife what doug e fresh yeah he's from new york who even is
00:07:30.720 that it's it i just googled caribbean man that's what i looked up this is what i'm looking up this is
00:07:39.040 the top ones that come up all right now you're gone too far what testing this wait are we talking
00:07:46.400 about celebrity people yeah i'm talking about that you can google i'm talking about the men with the
00:07:52.080 most options who has the most options the celebrity okay celebrities you you know you know they do
00:07:58.240 like uh you're telling who's got more options than drake future all of these i know she doesn't drink love 1.00
00:08:03.440 them bbws yeah i don't know she knows that she don't know that who did who did drake have a child
00:08:11.440 with was she overweight no i'm not i'm not saying that men like women that are um overweight but i'm
00:08:17.040 just saying that some men also do find women are bigger attractive based on what the environment is
00:08:22.960 providing that's what they see that's what they encounter if they have no other choice but then it
00:08:29.040 goes back to when they have the choice what do they pick um big bomb pretty face and what and slim 1.00
00:08:36.720 ways thank you thank you i feel that's generalizing because you're talking about weight are we talking
00:08:42.640 about what do we say wait wait wait wait what did we what did we say in the beginning of the
00:08:46.960 conversation that we're talking about what what do we say in the beginning of the conversation we're
00:08:52.080 talking about i lost it from it in it in in general remember we are talking in general there's
00:08:58.960 exceptions or talking in general oh yeah yeah okay okay thank you