Pearl Exposes Fat Modern
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why men prefer smaller women and why women are more picky when it comes to choosing a mate. We also discuss why women tend to date cheaters and why men tend to choose smaller women.
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what what women in the media do men desire that's overweight i'm not leaving in the
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media no what what what women do men desire that's overweight in the media no i'm not that
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men will men will say is a celebrity then yeah there ain't gonna be no size eight to ten yeah
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that i'm and most men are going for that between 14 that i would say like 12 and 14
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curvy i don't know no i'm gonna speak to you that wants a wife a girl full of bone
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i didn't say bone but i think women or i think men prefer thinner women yeah slim yeah
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okay and and 14 to 16 is generally overweight in general no she said 12 to 14. okay are you happy
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12 to 14. because you can be you know what a bigger waist you know i'm like it comes across as a
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bigger woman but she's actually not that big her belly can be the reality is they would never ask
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men what men want the thing is most men cannot say what they want because of how women lash out
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so most men would settle and just deal with what they can get because most men actually don't have
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a choice that is what we're saying is when you look at the men that have the most choice what do they go
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for but i feel like it's the men who have the choice and not really the woman i feel like it's the man who
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he picks the woman not the woman exactly no that's women women women don't choose men
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women uh at it unless unless you're some what's that what's that what's oh would you go out of me
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but generally what is what is what is all right what is the number one way people are meeting under 30
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well i don't agree with internet yeah but it's not what you agree with i'm asking what is the number
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one way people are meeting dating upper internet okay what percent of the time do women swipe right
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yeah what percent of the time do you think women swipe right i don't think they do much i've never
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ever seen so women women swipe right five percent of the time and how much do men uh around fifty
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percent so it's the men who's choosing the women right no it's the women choosing the men
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when we're swiping right five percent of the time and the men are swiping right 50 that means we're far
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more picky than the men it also means that we're all sharing men why do you think women have dated cheaters
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because it's a small percentage of men that we're all going after so again his point is that when
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you look at the men with the most choice they don't pick fat women they don't pick size 14s
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they pick thin women with butt and boobs like this shouldn't even be controversial you mean
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like so the facts in the right places yeah basically a healthy bmi typically
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do you disagree with this well if you're going to go back to like some of the earlier points as in
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chemistry psychology etc then yeah because the man's going to be looking at her childbearing ips
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if the ips are bearing enough or the overbearing or underbearing i don't know but i'm not a guy so
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i can't really say about that because i don't look at girls and it so i don't really know but i'm
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but i'm saying you you can you can kind of see like the same way the the most beautiful women in
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society who do they pick yeah normal average looking size girls any no all right when we look at models
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right the most beautiful women in society eight to tens when they're beautiful right who do they tend to
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pick yeah i was tall rich handsome men right yeah so when men have the most money they're going
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to pick the same in it they're they're no they don't care about they don't care about the money
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they don't care about the money but yeah slim looking girls correct so what does that tell us
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that men like wait come on slim girls thank you
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that but not every man does still what we we know not every man but most men when given the choice will
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pick slimmer women would you say that's true i think down to geographics yeah i agree with that
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geographics because if you're coming from a western society yeah right like say europe then you're
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going to go for the girl that's on the bony side and but then if you're coming from the caribbean
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if you typically find what look at what men find attractive they take dating apps from all over
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the world it's typically the waist to hip ratio but you know what i think men actually like women
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based on the your first encounter of the top women who saw growing up for example like guys guys were
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born and brought up in the west they like light skin girls whatever they they think that's attractive
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because that's what they saw growing up go to ghana there are some men who like big women because
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that's what they saw growing up i think that's how the human brain is formed when you when you're a
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guy because i what she said i could understand because i've got uncles who are who are successful but
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they're like women with meat that's what that's what they like right do they do they typically no no
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no no no most of the time when they bro i grew up in nigeria most of the time when they marry those
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women those women were slim they became fat in the marriage that's the reality it could be i don't
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know what i see go and look at all your aunties go and look at their pictures when they were
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like this is like like come on generalize it i definitely got to be sincere with myself yeah
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and me being sincere i can't say oh what she's saying isn't true i get where you're coming from
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but that's the west like she said that's based on where you're from because the people who are born in
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you've gone though nigeria wherever they might have been to other things they might like well
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he's from nigeria yeah but that's what you're saying that they they were slimmer but not the
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bigger i'm coming from me seeing them now but i'm what i'm saying is men typically pick slim women
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is that true or not true yes but i'm saying it's based on where they are as well i would say men
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typically pick slimmer women they might have a big butt yeah okay yeah but the waist is yeah yeah yeah i agree
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yeah i agree with that yeah not caribbean men boy they love any shape size
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he wants to get out with a big belly anyway no but yeah hey i got a big belly besides no but i mean like
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one that's hanging i think no but i mean i think we need to give men a bit more credit
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hold on one second please it's not even just about the sex thing it's like a lot of times we forget the
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biological implications of some of these things men naturally want a healthy woman if they care
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about building a legacy can you can you look so it's not just when you when you see women that are
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overweight it it is an indicator of something wrong with their health that's the reality and any man with
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any sort of intelligence who has worked on himself and wants to build a future for himself is not going
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to set out to pick a woman who is already showing signs of poor health because one she's more than likely
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to pass that down to her kids if a woman can't even figure out how to feed herself and make
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herself look healthy what do you think she's going to feed the kids no i get it i'm also looking up i'm
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also looking up the famous caribbean men and and it's like we got shaggy's wife finn not you on good
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we got we got yeah yeah yeah no i'm i'm i'm i'm taking look at i'm taking his his his point it's
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different and i'm looking up doug e fresh wife what doug e fresh yeah he's from new york who even is
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that it's it i just googled caribbean man that's what i looked up this is what i'm looking up this is
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the top ones that come up all right now you're gone too far what testing this wait are we talking
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about celebrity people yeah i'm talking about that you can google i'm talking about the men with the
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most options who has the most options the celebrity okay celebrities you you know you know they do
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like uh you're telling who's got more options than drake future all of these i know she doesn't drink love
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them bbws yeah i don't know she knows that she don't know that who did who did drake have a child
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with was she overweight no i'm not i'm not saying that men like women that are um overweight but i'm
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just saying that some men also do find women are bigger attractive based on what the environment is
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providing that's what they see that's what they encounter if they have no other choice but then it
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goes back to when they have the choice what do they pick um big bomb pretty face and what and slim
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ways thank you thank you i feel that's generalizing because you're talking about weight are we talking
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about what do we say wait wait wait wait what did we what did we say in the beginning of the
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conversation that we're talking about what what do we say in the beginning of the conversation we're
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talking about i lost it from it in it in in general remember we are talking in general there's
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exceptions or talking in general oh yeah yeah okay okay thank you