JustPearlyThings - Pearl EXPOSES Feminist's Selfish Nature

00:00:00.000 okay how does a woman become a man's piece by not stressing him out

00:00:07.100 supporting me so supporting him and we've what he chooses to do and yeah

00:00:16.320 make the home a home what's the best way she cannot stress him out by giving him

00:00:24.100 problems or telling him problems that he doesn't really need to okay know about

00:00:29.280 etc okay um i can give you three points of what would make a woman valuable today

00:00:38.780 those three points would be uh health but they're healthy no children and the third

00:00:47.220 point would be that's hard

00:00:49.820 i'll say this contributes but a two-parent household that they've experienced lived in

00:00:58.540 okay so question when do you yourself um i know some of i know you said you already

00:01:05.160 have kids um if you want more kids when would you want them and remind them what

00:01:11.400 age you are and what age you'd want kids i was 24 when i had my son i think that's

00:01:15.560 probably about right i mean it is true you know we're all just bags of chemicals

00:01:19.000 and the older you get egg quality drops off and you do get more disabilities

00:01:23.380 possibly and um yeah certainly nature intended us to reproduce teens and early 20s okay

00:01:30.840 when do i want kids um remind them how old you are and what age you want kids

00:01:38.380 i'm 29 okay um to be honest i've been kind of thinking about children but i just feel like

00:01:46.300 when i'm a little bit more stable when i finish doing certain things with myself then i'll i'll

00:01:54.980 have them i can actually have and i've got a partner okay but i've just put it on hold for a

00:02:00.260 second not for too long low-key maybe next year but okay i need to go and travel what do you okay

00:02:06.200 so you want you want to travel i want to travel a bit get that i'm just curious like why like when i

00:02:12.180 grew up i traveled with my family yeah like why do we have to travel first and then have the family

00:02:16.780 oh no i don't even i like that idea as well yeah i just felt like i need to do some things by myself

00:02:23.880 separately and then i'll get to the family well i just i just don't understand that mindset do you

00:02:29.900 know what i mean it's like because you can do both like you can go on a trip with your kid

00:02:34.000 yeah no it's harder but you know um so i'm just curious like what made you say you have to do that

00:02:39.540 first something i want

00:02:42.180 okay just it's just me i just want to travel without a kid first and then and then travel

00:02:48.300 with a kid yeah yeah yeah okay um i'm 20 and i'm hoping to have children by like between 23 and 25

00:02:56.200 okay yeah um i'm 30 i already have a son um i don't know did you say 30 wow you do not look that old

00:03:05.240 yeah i'm 30 um i already have a son um and how old were you when you had your son

00:03:11.580 my son is six so i was 24 okay um i don't mind having more children i think i give myself till

00:03:20.880 35 okay and then you don't i i don't think i don't see myself wanting to have kids after 35

00:03:27.160 you don't mind having more kids or you want more kids i don't mind it's not something that i want

00:03:32.380 while i'm in a relationship so if it's something if he wants kids you'll have them then yeah okay

00:03:38.920 so but i'm asking well i'm just asking what you want your perfect reality are you done or you want

00:03:45.400 more it is it's it's it's up in the air okay it's like one day you think yes the next day you think no

00:03:52.360 not necessarily it's just it's it's an open okay open thought okay all right um i'm thinking

00:04:00.440 around like 35 so i've got like two three years to go okay yeah i mean if it happens then it happens

00:04:06.360 okay well i feel like when you have your kids that's down to your personal choice of what age you have

00:04:13.460 them so long as you can provide for them and love them and give them the things that they need

00:04:19.760 and you've got the support maybe by family their family etc um in terms of age i feel that that's

00:04:29.280 very personal there isn't a right age or a wrong age um maybe in terms of when you said an older

00:04:36.100 woman yes there is more health risks um i would i didn't say right or wrong i said what age do you

00:04:43.620 want to have kids um what age even even if you passed it like what would be the ideal age to have

00:04:50.200 kids well personally speaking i feel that being a younger parent there's more advantage um simply

00:04:57.240 because you can raise them and grow with them you still got a lot of energy where you can do quite a

00:05:04.100 lot of activities with them um when you're a more mature parent i feel that you become less energetic

00:05:11.560 and it may become a bit harder not impossible but however it's not going to be as easier when you've

00:05:18.780 got like a lot of energy when you're young okay so what age i would say 20s maybe okay like 20 or 29 25

00:05:31.420 i would say 20 going on 21 22 okay so 20 so early 20s early 20s yeah okay and do you have kids um

00:05:40.020 yeah i do okay how was that around the age you had them um no i had them a bit younger which i'm glad

00:05:46.240 that i did okay um why is that you just had more energy is what you're saying um because it's fact i've

00:05:53.880 had children and when i was younger i had a way lot more energy whereas becoming a more mature

00:05:59.800 parent i would have a way lot any less energy now than what i did yeah no i've heard that that if you

00:06:08.100 wait too long like like because my dad my youngest sister's 10 years younger than me and he's just

00:06:12.340 exhausted he's like i'm trying to get these kids out of the house um what about you i'm 25 and if i had

00:06:20.100 a partner i would have children as soon as he's ready to be able to cater for the children you

00:06:26.820 meet a you meet a guy tomorrow he says he said i'll get i'll marry you in the next six months

00:06:32.280 let's immediately yeah okay cool i'm ready um what are your deal breakers 0.99

00:06:39.500 men smell funny or if they're stupid or boring i guess um if they're jealous and possessive 0.99

00:06:49.500 obviously abusive that kind of thing why is why is abusive the first it's not just you guys it's 1.00

00:06:58.160 everybody abusive yeah it's like why is that the first thing women say i guess it's like the worst

00:07:03.620 thing you can imagine really yeah yeah but it's like why are we why are we always thinking of the

00:07:07.580 worst thing that could happen because in debate i suppose you go to the extreme to make your point

00:07:11.740 this is a debate like you know all right just men that smell funny then and balmy

00:07:17.440 okay men that are abusive and see it's like no but it's true though come on who you asked the 0.98

00:07:24.020 question it's very obvious no one's going to stay with an abusive crazy psycho that's beating you left

00:07:29.200 right and center my question my question is not telling you to stay with an abusive guy it is why is

00:07:34.700 that the first thing that we bring up if we can agree it's how do we think if it's like it's like

00:07:40.620 why why is that why do we always go to the extreme like the worst thing that could happen

00:07:44.940 maybe because it's just out there you know you hear of it often

00:07:48.320 that wouldn't be your deal breaker though what's your deal breaker mine mine yeah

00:07:53.720 yeah boy because if i was to get into it with my my partner and we was to start getting mad like

00:08:02.440 probably be mad back you know women are more you know women are more violent than men 1.00

00:08:06.680 yeah i've seen some stuff no so it's it's funny because one-sided abuse women hit men one-sided 0.78

00:08:15.540 more than men hit women one-sided yet women are always the ones that bring up abuse when if we're 1.00

00:08:21.360 going to be technical about it men should be the ones bringing up abuse and they never do

00:08:25.520 yeah but why but maybe we're not abusive maybe we can say it maybe men that haven't been abusive

00:08:32.360 can say it too like maybe when you're just not when you're not abusive you probably will bring

00:08:37.360 it up because it's something that you just don't believe in you know no my my whole point is women 0.94

00:08:42.480 have this like negative picture of men that they're just abusive out to get us well all of them

00:08:48.120 i would say i would say in general i hear the word abuse come up way too often considering

00:08:55.280 like from women i never hear it from men even though one-sided abuse is more common from women to men

00:09:01.600 but that's because the men are meant to be alpha and the stronger one so they would never admit

00:09:05.760 that anyway my my point is like why do women always go to the extreme if if we would agree 1.00

00:09:13.000 right we'd agree it's the minority of guys that are abusing women well we would agree that's not a

00:09:18.200 majority right that's not your right right come on like this shouldn't be you think over 50 percent

00:09:24.260 of men are abusing women oh cool i wouldn't say it's the majority but with my friends and stuff

00:09:31.260 and family and stuff i've seen it quite a lot and from what i've heard it's something that i personally

00:09:38.020 would never want to go through and so i'm not saying it's the majority of men but i have heard it

00:09:44.440 quite frequently from lots of different backgrounds i meet randoms and tell me stuff like that

00:09:51.340 yeah it's lies what's lies sorry what's lies the the abuse allegations they're they're mostly lies

00:09:58.060 wait i don't get it yeah women lie about abuse yes no yeah there's there is not all of them

00:10:04.240 women you're telling me i would say i would say the majority of women that say were there they were 1.00

00:10:09.640 abused are lying okay because what they did was they expanded the definition of abuse so women will 1.00

00:10:16.480 use these words that like mean nothing like like they like for example um what what is coercion

00:10:24.060 and i'm and i'm the only reason i say this is because i've done these shows so many times and women

00:10:29.400 come on they tell me their story and then i ask questions and it's not abuse i'll give you an example

00:10:35.740 um had a girl come on she said my my ex-boyfriend like shoved me out of the house or whatever like 1.00

00:10:42.180 pushed me out and i was like okay like why did he shove you like to the ground or whatever

00:10:47.240 turns out she refused to leave his house she was trespassing but does give him the right to

00:10:52.660 shove her i mean i think if i have someone that is breaking and entering into my house i certainly

00:10:58.640 can shove you out of there but yes they're not meant to be together and what kind of shove because

00:11:03.380 um if you love someone i wouldn't really be well i'll tell you i'll tell you i'll tell you the problem

00:11:10.860 is i like i know guys that have slammed a door that the woman was holding on to the door boom 1.00

00:11:15.900 abuse and he's actually was charged with that okay and i get that that is so massive and i'm saying

00:11:21.740 and i'm telling you you wouldn't know not being in it how one-sided it is it's very very one-sided

00:11:27.200 like it's very much like and and the reason we can look at this is because um family court is based

00:11:33.580 on a balance of probabilities where criminal court is based off of evidence so if you really want to see

00:11:37.900 how how common is abuse the majority of abuse allegations that happen in family court only 10

00:11:43.580 percent take it to the police so that tells us that the majority aren't even taking it to the police

JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023

Pearl EXPOSES Feminist's Selfish Nature

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