JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES High Value Men

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Candace Owens Ben Shapiro Rolf Deegan
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Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

170.92

Word count

1,256

Sentence count

100

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Toxicity

5

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, I discuss the difference between the chads, the simps, and the sexless men in society. I talk about my personal experiences with these three groups of men and how they differ from one another on how they view women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 A realization I had is in society, there's really three groups of guys.
00:00:06.920 There are the chads, the simps, and the sexless.
00:00:13.040 And this is how I'm going to divide it. 0.99
00:00:14.860 Now, the chads typically are the guys that bang all the chicks. 1.00
00:00:18.440 And I've always said that the chads have the most honest view of women.
00:00:23.700 Because the chads are the best looking, most successful guys that they've seen the worst of women. 0.99
00:00:30.820 They've seen wives cheat on their husbands with them. 1.00
00:00:34.120 They've seen women that you would think are good girls go home with them on the first night. 0.93
00:00:39.900 So it's interesting.
00:00:41.120 If you talk to a guy that gets laid a lot or just has been with a shit ton of women, he just has a really different view.
00:00:48.500 Then you have the simps. 0.72
00:00:49.780 So now, I'm not saying every guy in this category is a simp.
00:00:54.480 There is some overlap where some guys are kind of in between, where they'll simp for one girl and be a chad for another.
00:01:01.360 So there's some overlap, but we're just going to talk in generalities.
00:01:06.260 Now, the next group are the men that marry chads left over. 0.58
00:01:11.340 They'll typically put women on a pedestal. 1.00
00:01:14.260 They'll say things like, let me ask my wife. 0.95
00:01:16.520 Because to them, the women are above them. 1.00
00:01:19.160 The women have this amazing feminine, and it's more of a mindset than anything. 1.00
00:01:24.280 But the women are just so awesome and amazing and so special, and you should just cherish them for a lifetime. 1.00
00:01:30.500 Where the chads are like, they're just chicks. 1.00
00:01:33.080 What are you doing?
00:01:36.240 And then there's the sexless, who really just aren't even a part of the game.
00:01:39.760 Women don't give them a time of day. 1.00
00:01:41.040 And they always talk about the incels, like the sexless men being so angry.
00:01:46.740 And that's just not really my experience, you know.
00:01:49.840 I think if anything, the guys that get, I don't even want to say angry, but like, are a bit more blunt when talking about women.
00:01:57.860 Take them off of the pedestal.
00:01:59.560 It tends to be the chads, because they've seen the worst.
00:02:03.460 An incel is never going to see the worst of women. 1.00
00:02:05.920 Well, okay, let me actually go back.
00:02:11.020 An incel will see the worst of women in the fact that he'll see women be especially rude to him. 0.93
00:02:17.000 But in terms of, like, I guess, slutty behavior, I would say the chads see the worst of it. 0.71
00:02:22.220 The incels don't really get to interact with women, because really, most women kind of treat them like they're invisible. 0.95
00:02:29.660 And the simps are the guys that kind of have to jump through hoops.
00:02:33.600 So they think you have to court a girl, do all the traditional stuff to get sex and relationships.
00:02:39.380 The chads know they don't really got to do too much.
00:02:42.080 Okay.
00:02:42.760 And it's interesting, because I saw this on Twitter.
00:02:45.760 And this has just been my experience from talking to men.
00:02:49.320 So I've done, like, two years of shows now.
00:02:54.420 So I want to give you guys a little background into, like, I guess my research into this.
00:02:59.520 What my worldview comes from.
00:03:01.480 So I started with more of a traditional conservative point of view.
00:03:06.780 That's where I started.
00:03:08.360 I grew up watching The Daily Wire, Ben Shapiro, Candace Owens.
00:03:12.400 Love them.
00:03:13.160 Still do.
00:03:14.020 Awesome, awesome content creators.
00:03:16.820 But I started off reacting to, like, pickup videos.
00:03:20.720 So it would be all these videos from guys learning how to get laid.
00:03:24.400 I just thought it was so interesting to hear these, like, tricks they would do or, like, how they built attraction.
00:03:29.340 So far, so I went to, like, a pickup artist conference.
00:03:32.300 So I did this for, like, a year.
00:03:33.640 In my free time, I would just do reaction videos.
00:03:36.560 Then I started a show.
00:03:38.380 And I always felt like, you know, at that point, I was like, okay, a lot of these guys are a bit dramatic.
00:03:44.000 Women aren't so bad. 1.00
00:03:45.740 You know, like, not all women are like that. 0.76
00:03:48.200 Until I did a show, okay?
00:03:51.680 And I interviewed guys.
00:03:54.880 I can't even tell you how much this changes your worldview.
00:03:58.180 I interviewed hundreds of men and women.
00:04:01.600 I think we have over 700 guests logged that have been to this studio.
00:04:08.640 On top of that, I started doing a divorce documentary.
00:04:11.280 And, you know, interviewing the guys that get laid and interviewing the men that have been screwed by divorce has made me have a completely different point of view of women.
00:04:24.240 Because what I found out was that the guys that get screwed over in divorce tend to be the simp category. 0.83
00:04:31.660 Where they think women are these awesome angels. 1.00
00:04:34.720 They're just, they could never do no wrong.
00:04:36.720 All you have to do is find a good woman and treat her well, and you'll have a good life.
00:04:41.500 And those are the ones that I just saw getting screwed over in divorce.
00:04:45.100 It wasn't the rich guys.
00:04:46.560 It wasn't the incels.
00:04:48.700 It was the traditional men that wanted to get married semi-young, usually in their 20s, and have a good life.
00:04:57.640 And what would happen is they would trust a woman. 0.99
00:05:01.640 She would say she was on birth control.
00:05:03.280 And no, it was not always baby mothers.
00:05:05.360 No, it was not women with tattoos. 0.94
00:05:08.080 They are normal women that you meet. 0.99
00:05:10.400 And a lot of these women would trap men in marriage and relationships. 1.00
00:05:14.480 Or they would get married.
00:05:15.740 They would do it the right way.
00:05:17.580 And after she got the kids that she wanted, she would just change.
00:05:22.560 It was interesting because I was scrolling through Twitter, and I saw something that sort of backed up what I saw in the real world.
00:05:28.640 So Rolf Deegan, contrary to popular belief, it is the sexually busy chads, not the sexually desperate and frustrated incels who have the most misogynistic worldview.
00:05:39.360 So it says,
00:05:41.080 We asked whether a mismatch between sexual intentions, how many sexual partners a person would like to have an actual sexual practice, how many sexual partners a person had, predicts extreme misogynistic views.
00:05:54.600 Which, you know, it's like, how do you measure what is misogynistic?
00:05:58.100 But whatever.
00:05:58.460 So, contrary to the incel narrative, we do not find support for this overall claim.
00:06:05.120 Rather, extreme misogynistic views are driven by a psychology of status-seeking and dominance orientation, which correlates with having many, not few sexual partners.
00:06:15.660 The individuals we crudely categorize as incels in our sample are characterized by lower levels of misogyny, need for chaos, social dominance, orientation, psychopathy, narcissism, machiavellianism, and acceptance of violence than the rest of the sample.
00:06:33.960 Further, the incels, opposite the chads, the archetypal alpha males, who is socially dominant and successful in finding romantic and sexual partners, appear to have the most extreme misogynistic views in our samples.
00:06:47.640 Chads, numerous sexual conquests are linked to an objectified view of women that degrades women to game them, or which males compete.
00:06:55.600 So it's interesting because this is also something I witnessed in the shows.
00:06:58.880 The guys that actually pissed the women off the most would have the women hitting on them after. 1.00
00:07:06.500 You know, and you just kind of see more behind the scenes.
00:07:08.900 And I bet you Fresh and Fit, whatever podcast, they could all attest to this.
00:07:13.100 It's like, it's weird.
00:07:14.000 The men that the women, like, hate the most are the ones they show the most attention to. 0.96
00:07:19.880 I think indifferent.