JustPearlyThings - July 23, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES The Most Toxic Couple On The Internet


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

178.3045

Word count

1,670

Sentence count

133

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

sentences flagged

Toxicity

10

sentences flagged

Hate speech

16

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Summary

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BLAKE WEBBERNARD AND KRYAN ROCK'S BABY CHILDFRIENDS, Jussie Smollett & Blueface's Toxic Relationship, and the Women Who Are Quality Poll.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 So the next story, Blueface and Krishan Rock.
00:00:06.840 No idea if I said her name right.
00:00:08.640 Sorry, guys.
00:00:09.340 You know me.
00:00:10.080 Can't do names.
00:00:11.140 Now, now, as you know, they have had an on-again, off-again toxic relationship.
00:00:16.140 And to be fair, they're both toxic. 1.00
00:00:19.100 They're both kind of crazy. 0.99
00:00:20.600 Like, I've heard them say both some crazy stuff. 0.90
00:00:23.980 But this clip, I think, portrays the way a lot of men feel in society after they have
00:00:31.020 a child with someone.
00:00:32.980 I mean, a child is supposed to be a time of joy and happiness, right?
00:00:37.460 Having children is supposed to be out of love.
00:00:40.160 And women just do get pregnant and have a child, you know, out of love. 1.00
00:00:45.760 And a lot of times, maybe they're manipulated into the child and just, you know, like the
00:00:50.640 evil men are just getting these women pregnant. 1.00
00:00:52.720 You know, let's just show the clip. 0.80
00:00:54.400 So I'm stuck.
00:00:55.240 I'm very much stuck.
00:00:56.600 You're not stuck with you.
00:00:57.880 I'm not stuck with you at all.
00:00:59.940 No.
00:01:01.140 I'm stuck with a child fight. 1.00
00:01:03.640 Shut up. 1.00
00:01:04.360 Stop talking to me. 1.00
00:01:05.800 Because I have business.
00:01:07.000 Can you talk later?
00:01:08.220 Can you stop?
00:01:08.760 Can you stop?
00:01:15.660 I got zero sympathy.
00:01:17.040 Well, when one of these rappers, entertainers, men that clearly do not want to be faithful
00:01:24.580 and clearly are not trying to be a traditional father, get you, you let them get you pregnant 1.00
00:01:30.660 and then whine and cry later and give me a goddamn sob story about how hard your life 1.00
00:01:37.780 is. 0.99
00:01:37.980 I just got no sympathy.
00:01:40.160 I got no sympathy.
00:01:41.560 And then what these women want later is for a nice guy to clean up the mess. 1.00
00:01:46.560 It's like, okay, date who you're going to date.
00:01:48.700 But Jesus, you do not need to have a child by them.
00:01:53.700 Like what happened to, you know, there used to be a stereotype of crazy high school boyfriends.
00:01:59.060 Like we'd all heard that.
00:02:00.380 The dad gets his like shotgun to keep the boy away from the girl.
00:02:04.680 Romeo and Juliet existed for a reason.
00:02:07.160 Like, it's not like this stuff is new.
00:02:09.220 Women liking bad boys is not new. 0.92
00:02:11.840 But what is new is having a child by them. 0.59
00:02:16.400 That is new.
00:02:18.400 Why can't you just date the bad boy and not get pregnant? 1.00
00:02:22.840 Why?
00:02:23.340 And especially, I just got no sympathy in 2023.
00:02:26.320 We have all these forms of birth control.
00:02:28.160 You got birth control.
00:02:29.320 You got plan B.
00:02:30.500 You have abortion that is legal. 0.80
00:02:32.440 So if you're a single mother, it is your own choice.
00:02:36.520 It is your own choice.
00:02:37.860 Like at that point, it's a choice.
00:02:39.380 There's adoption there.
00:02:41.580 And now women will have a kid by a man that does not want them and then put him on child support. 1.00
00:02:49.140 Why?
00:02:49.640 Why do you deserve his money when he has made it clear the whole time he does not want to be with you?
00:02:54.520 Now, a guy quote tweeted this and said,
00:02:56.800 This is how a lot of men feel when they impregnate the wrong women, but most men aren't as honest and blunt about it like blueface. 0.92
00:03:03.280 Guys, this is common.
00:03:05.320 I did a poll on Twitter this week.
00:03:08.660 I said, what percent of women do you think are quality? 1.00
00:03:11.660 And I asked men and women to answer this.
00:03:14.980 Okay?
00:03:15.200 I had 30,000 people respond to the tweet.
00:03:19.600 Now, you could say, oh, Pearl, it's just a bias.
00:03:23.160 You're just, you're just biased.
00:03:24.600 Well, Twitter, Twitter, everyone's on Twitter.
00:03:26.740 Men, women, like I would say half the people that look at my tweets troll me and hate watch me anyway.
00:03:33.940 So let's not pretend that this is like just a biased poll.
00:03:37.240 When 30,000 people took it, 74% of people said that less than 20% of women are quality. 0.98
00:03:44.800 And I didn't give them, that was the lowest option I gave them.
00:03:47.780 So I don't even know how it would pan out if I gave them 5%, 15%.
00:03:52.220 And they say that we're harping on the women, that you're just focusing on the bad women.
00:03:56.800 When 30,000 people said that less than 20% of women are quality. 1.00
00:04:03.060 Now, I will grant that, yes, there are quality women. 1.00
00:04:08.620 There are women that want to be wives, want to be mothers, and want to improve. 1.00
00:04:11.520 There absolutely are.
00:04:13.360 But how can we have a conversation about these problems if we get criticized for talking about 80% of women?
00:04:23.000 It's like we'll talk about 80% of women and you're the bad guy for pointing it out. 1.00
00:04:29.220 So even women will agree that less than 20% of women are quality. 0.99
00:04:35.280 Now, I don't say this to harp on women, but I really just want to wake us up out of this trance.
00:04:41.780 Because honestly, we have been lied to and propagated that there are quality wives and mothers on the market.
00:04:48.840 I'm sorry, there just really aren't.
00:04:50.780 There are few and far between.
00:04:52.160 And if you find one, there is a line out the door for her, which honestly kind of ruins us because we don't do well with a lot of choice.
00:04:59.820 So even if a woman is quality, let's just say she has the wife and mother skills. 1.00
00:05:03.500 The problem is there's 20 million men lining up to date her, which kind of ruins our egos too.
00:05:10.140 You know what I mean?
00:05:10.640 Like then we get kind of narcissistic because we're like, oh, all these men want to date me.
00:05:15.540 Then our ego gets high.
00:05:17.000 Then we're ruined.
00:05:17.720 You know what I mean?
00:05:18.260 So it's frustrating because the trad cons, whenever we talk about this problem, we'll just say, oh, you're just focusing on the bad women.
00:05:26.660 But really, the trad cons are equally as feminist as the non-trad cons.
00:05:31.180 And I don't say this to be mean.
00:05:32.480 I don't mean bad people.
00:05:34.080 But what I mean is we have lived a life in accordance to what feminist wants from us. 0.65
00:05:38.980 It's me too.
00:05:40.220 This is what society has produced.
00:05:42.400 So another lie that they have sold us women is that we have unlimited time to have children and you can just freeze your eggs. 0.99
00:05:51.340 So there is a woman that was on the cover of Business Week.
00:05:56.860 Freeze your eggs.
00:05:58.040 Freeze your career.
00:05:59.900 A new fertility procedure gives women more choice than ever to have it all. 1.00
00:06:04.920 This is a lie that feminism has taught us, that we can, in fact, have it all. 1.00
00:06:10.080 We, yes, you can have a career.
00:06:12.640 You can have children.
00:06:13.760 Now, are there women that have had it all? 1.00
00:06:17.320 Sure.
00:06:17.700 I mean, there's probably a couple women in history that have had a family and a crazy good career. 1.00
00:06:24.040 One that comes to my mind is, like, that Supreme Court justice.
00:06:27.620 She had the two kids.
00:06:29.380 Do you know what I'm talking about?
00:06:30.300 There's some lady. 1.00
00:06:31.140 She's on the Supreme Court now. 1.00
00:06:32.400 Had two kids.
00:06:33.200 She's married.
00:06:34.300 Okay, there are exceptions, but exceptions do not make the rule.
00:06:39.080 And the rule is that women cannot have it all. 1.00
00:06:41.640 Now, what is the kicker?
00:06:42.700 This woman that has been telling women for decades, yes, you can have it all.
00:06:46.640 You can have a family and a career.
00:06:48.260 What's come out?
00:06:49.060 The cruel twist of fate for single women who froze her eggs in her 30s to free her career. 0.81
00:06:54.720 She says, she says, Bridget Adams caused the sensation four years ago when she appeared on the cover of Bloomberg Business Week under the headline,
00:07:03.240 Freeze your eggs, freeze your career.
00:07:04.820 She was single and blonde, a Vassar graduate who spoke fluent Italian and working in the tech market for a number of prestigious companies.
00:07:13.220 Her story was one of empowerment, how a new fertility procedure was giving women more choices, as the magazine noted provocatively, in the quest to have it all. 0.79
00:07:23.980 Adams remembers feeling a wonderful sense of freedom after she froze her eggs in her late 30s, despite the $19,000 cost.
00:07:31.760 Her plan was to work a few more years, find a great guy to marry, and still have a house full of her own children. 1.00
00:07:38.020 But it didn't turn out the way she hoped.
00:07:41.580 Shocker.
00:07:42.580 Shocker.
00:07:43.240 In early 2017, with her 45th birthday looming and no signs of Mr. Right, she decided to start a family on her own.
00:07:51.600 She excitedly unfroze the 11 eggs she had stored and selected a sperm donor. 0.99
00:07:57.320 Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process.
00:08:01.820 Three more failed to fertilize.
00:08:03.320 The last six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal, the last one was implanted in her uterus.
00:08:09.380 On the morning of March 7th, she got the devastating news that it too had failed.
00:08:13.820 Adams was not pregnant, and her chance of carrying her child had just dropped to near zero.
00:08:18.860 She remembers screaming like a wild animal, throwing books, her laptops, and collapsing to the ground.
00:08:24.580 So this woman has been selling women the dream that you can have it all and have kids in your late 40s. 1.00
00:08:31.000 And you know what I noticed too?
00:08:33.120 She worked in tech.
00:08:34.660 And what did they do in the tech industry?
00:08:36.980 It's all like a system.
00:08:38.620 They basically give us these jobs that make us feel like we're doing more than we are and more important than we are.
00:08:44.960 In all honesty, what do I do?
00:08:46.280 I add commentary to society.
00:08:47.900 Now, I'm not saying this isn't important work, and I don't like it, but at the end of the day, it is not as important as the men building the buildings.
00:08:55.320 It is not as important as the men running the infrastructure of society.
00:08:59.780 But women will get these high-paying jobs that are really subsidized by the men. 1.00
00:09:05.400 They basically, in these industries, they have quotas and they have money that is funded by these billionaires out there,
00:09:13.020 these evil people that give them money to increase their diversity score.
00:09:18.940 And if they hire more women, they get a higher diversity score. 0.70