JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About DAMAGED Women


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

174.74763

Word Count

1,760

Sentence Count

32

Misogynist Sentences

23

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I guess in a way yes, it's just more socially acceptable with women
00:00:04.440 However, there are a lot of guys depending on the spectrum of guy that you're like talking to or dealing with
00:00:10.480 They are very they are very physically orientated
00:00:14.120 So they do go to the gym whatever it takes to get that buff body
00:00:18.240 They do have like both girls
00:00:30.000 But they do they do added extras, but it's so subtle and it's not spoken about because it's the focus is mainly on women because the beauty industry is
00:00:41.340 Funnel do you genuinely think it's equally common? It's not equally common, but it is common. I think it's close
00:00:47.220 Like the amount of filters Botox. It's close
00:00:49.760 I'll tell you something
00:00:55.760 I'm not all they want to do is have a hair transplant and they hit that 26 hair transplant. That's enough for a man
00:01:01.460 They don't feel comfortable talking about it bar do
00:01:11.320 Yeah, before that I want to say something all self-reported data about cheating money or whatever we speak now are unreliable
00:01:18.700 You do like social desirability bias. That's it. Yeah, so we cannot really determine. Yes
00:01:25.460 I have cheated before and I have been cheated as well. What's cheating to you, man? What's cheating?
00:01:31.000 Well, let's talk about the physical
00:01:37.000 How did you cheat like how did you meet women you wanted to cheat with like I was young like 16 17 I was DJ
00:01:43.900 I was just in the club. So every night and it was easy. Okay, so you would meet them in person. Yes
00:01:50.660 Did you ever cheat on dating apps? I never had dating apps. Okay, did she ever find out?
00:01:55.780 Yeah, all the times
00:01:56.780 She caught me many times as well
00:02:01.540 Like a red-handed
00:02:03.540 And what happened there, man?
00:02:05.540 Did you get a kick from that?
00:02:06.540 Many times. Did you get a kick from that?
00:02:07.540 So how did she catch you?
00:02:08.660 Like she would like entering the house or something
00:02:12.540 Like you would have a girl over?
00:02:13.540 Yeah
00:02:14.540 No, no
00:02:15.540 Or a couple. Okay, and she would come over and what happened? She would kick them out?
00:02:20.540 No, I kicked them out and I stayed with you after
00:02:23.300 Oh
00:02:24.300 Did you ever have sex with one girl and then have sex with her right after and she knowingly did that?
00:02:42.300 Yes
00:02:44.300 And your experience dude like do women stay after they're cheated on?
00:02:51.020 Unfortunately, some do but they shouldn't if they respect themselves they should just leave
00:02:55.100 Yeah, not should I'm asking what they do
00:02:58.780 Yeah, they stay. Okay, some of them they do. Okay, would you say more stay or more go?
00:03:04.940 That depends
00:03:05.900 No, no, no, thank you. Thank you. Did you ask them to stay or did they say I want to stay?
00:03:11.020 No, because there's a difference
00:03:12.860 No, no, they want attention immediately after no one say oh, I want to stay
00:03:17.100 But you do you ever do you say I won't do it again. I'm sorry that I love you. You're the one blah blah blah blah blah
00:03:21.660 Yeah, I did say that. Yeah, so there you go. Did you buy them a Porsche?
00:03:24.140 Yeah, but I said
00:03:24.940 You buy them a nice penthouse
00:03:34.060 So I don't understand so just because he said I'm sorry I won't do it again. That's enough
00:03:37.820 No, no, no, just just curious as to what?
00:03:41.020 Are they so desperate to say that they don't need any reassurance?
00:03:44.780 They just like I don't care. I'm gonna stay or or are you coercing them into staying perhaps saying like
00:03:50.940 I will never coercing as in what is course
00:03:53.820 Rehearsing but coercing
00:03:55.020 No, as in as in sort of saying oh, you've caught me. I'll never do it again
00:03:58.620 You're the one I want. I don't know what I was thinking
00:04:00.540 That's kind of lying to them to engage in the moment. Maybe he means it in the moment
00:04:06.060 Maybe he means it probably that's what most guys
00:04:08.700 My point is women don't really care when they get cheated on
00:04:11.420 They don't and I say this because they do
00:04:13.420 If you look at if you look at their look at
00:04:15.420 They do and I'm telling you like
00:04:17.180 I've seen my friends
00:04:19.180 They could say they care, but when I look at actions, they typically stay
00:04:22.140 But why do they stay? That's the question
00:04:24.140 Have you stayed before?
00:04:26.140 Hell yeah
00:04:30.140 Was he rich?
00:04:38.140 But the reasons behind it there's an evolutionary reason behind it
00:04:41.260 There's a reason why women stay like we can try to say biology doesn't matter, but it does and it's because in the old days
00:04:46.780 If a guy could take care of other women and was selected by other women that showed that he could take care of you, too
00:04:52.860 And so that's why cheating it's different for men and for women women tend to stay
00:04:58.620 And in some cultures they have multiple wives which is technically correct and I'm saying there's a reason for that
00:05:04.140 And in some cultures there's men who there's women who also have multiple husbands
00:05:11.500 There's matriarchal cultures. It's just that we don't learn about them. It doesn't mean that they don't exist
00:05:15.820 There's one in asia. There's one. What's it called?
00:05:18.940 I need to know about this
00:05:26.220 But here's the thing they don't stand the test of time they don't become big civilizations
00:05:30.540 But what's a big civilization?
00:05:32.540 8,000 years ago 17 men or 17 women were reproduced for every one man only 40 percent of men have reproduced historically
00:05:41.820 How many? 70 percent?
00:05:44.380 No, 40 percent of men have reproduced historically
00:05:46.780 Oh wow
00:05:47.340 Yeah, 80 percent of women have 40 percent of men. It's always been two women to one man
00:05:50.700 Oh wow
00:05:51.660 That's the thing
00:05:53.660 That's the thing I feel like in society just because one thing works for someone doesn't mean it works for everyone
00:05:58.940 And I think they're different the different tribes and the different
00:06:01.500 I have to have a conversation about in generalities
00:06:04.540 Like if we this is why I say it depends
00:06:06.540 It's subjective like we have to talk about the rule before we can talk about the exceptions and the rule is women tend
00:06:11.820 To stay but why do they stay they stay?
00:06:14.220 Especially now in this society
00:06:16.220 Have you stayed before?
00:06:18.220 How many boyfriends have you had?
00:06:19.500 I've never been cheated on
00:06:20.700 How many boyfriends have you had?
00:06:22.220 I'll say only one
00:06:23.740 Oh, you would say only one
00:06:25.260 Only one
00:06:25.660 That means you've been seeing a lot of guys now
00:06:27.420 But why are you single now?
00:06:28.380 I'd say I've dated four
00:06:29.260 Like four people but real relationship only one person
00:06:33.100 Wait, so I have a question
00:06:35.260 So you've done you've done the situationship thing
00:06:37.580 Yeah
00:06:37.980 Yeah
00:06:38.220 So what is a situationship? You're a side chick?
00:06:40.220 If he has a mane then yeah
00:06:44.620 I'm saying when you're in a situation
00:06:46.620 I wouldn't say situationship
00:06:48.700 But like you're getting I was getting to know these people
00:06:50.860 But then it wasn't you know
00:06:52.220 The whole point is like you didn't require exclusivity
00:06:55.260 Meaning he was proud the reason women stay is because they can't replace the guy
00:06:59.340 But again why is that because of financial hardship in society
00:07:03.900 It's literally less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship than it is for a man
00:07:09.180 But yeah
00:07:10.300 Say that again
00:07:10.780 It's less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship
00:07:14.220 But more women leave relationships
00:07:16.380 Even like you say all the time
00:07:17.980 70% of divorces are by women
00:07:20.460 But again, why is it such a high number considering how much they lose in the relationship?
00:07:26.220 Does it not show that there's something missing there?
00:07:30.620 But I think it's because we've told women wrong
00:07:33.260 Like we're told that it's about our happiness
00:07:35.100 Life isn't about happiness
00:07:36.380 It's about duty
00:07:37.100 It's about community
00:07:38.060 And so when women are unhappy they leave relationships
00:07:41.420 Even when there's children involved
00:07:42.940 But it should be about happiness
00:07:45.660 You should be happy with the person that you're with
00:07:47.660 You should feel supported by them emotionally, physically
00:07:50.780 I think that's unrealistic in a 50-year marriage
00:07:54.220 Like people used to be married for 50 years
00:07:56.460 Do you really think that they were happy for 50 years?
00:07:59.660 Did you know that in the 1950s?
00:08:00.940 They definitely had a little thing on the side
00:08:02.300 I do believe that
00:08:03.500 I think that in the 1950s
00:08:07.460 You know the main era of stay-at-home moms and happy families and all of that
00:08:12.460 There was like a known thing of those women being extremely unhappy
00:08:18.300 Because of the fact that they didn't have an out
00:08:21.180 Like they kind of felt stuck
00:08:22.540 That's like that's kind of the propaganda that they put
00:08:29.020 Most girls I meet
00:08:31.020 I never say things unless I research it
00:08:33.820 But here's the problem is most of those studies if you follow them back
00:08:37.820 It's by these like feminist gender studies professors
00:08:40.140 This universities I only ever do
00:08:42.460 I know that's the problem
00:08:43.580 Feminists infiltrated universities in the 1970s and 80s
00:08:47.100 So much so that they made it more subjective rather than objective
00:08:49.980 And so the difference is now
00:08:52.380 It's like we have women running the universities
00:08:54.220 And they even talk about how they rewrite history
00:08:56.780 But what about the facts that you get
00:08:58.700 If you can't trust anything that we find online
00:09:01.260 Where can we actually find data to back the things that we say?
00:09:07.260 And I think this is the difference
00:09:08.780 Between like the right and the left a lot of times
00:09:10.780 Like I think you learn over time
00:09:13.980 Like which sources tend to be more credible
00:09:15.980 But in my experience like I see what's in front of my eyes
00:09:19.100 Yeah
00:09:19.420 Do you know like sometimes they want to give you a study
00:09:21.820 And say don't look at what's in front of your eyes
00:09:24.060 And I just don't see men being these crazy abusers
00:09:26.860 That are just making women miserable
00:09:28.300 But that's your experience
00:09:29.100 It depends on where you are
00:09:30.220 And that's my experience and I feel like just because you haven't seen this
00:09:42.380 Doesn't make it not true
00:09:44.220 Like it doesn't delete other people's experiences
00:09:46.540 There's hundreds of millions of women on this earth
00:09:49.420 But I guess if we're going to go off of abuse
00:09:52.460 Then I want to see police reports
00:09:54.220 And that's the issue
00:09:55.100 Is the majority of abuse claims are not filed in criminal court
00:09:59.020 This is actually true
00:10:00.460 This is true
00:10:01.420 But why?
00:10:02.460 I love what
00:10:03.100 I'm the first private