Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About DAMAGED Women
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about cheating and why women stay in relationships after being cheated on. We discuss cheating in relationships, how to cheat, cheating in a relationship and what to do if you find yourself cheating in your relationship.
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I guess in a way yes, it's just more socially acceptable with women
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However, there are a lot of guys depending on the spectrum of guy that you're like talking to or dealing with
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They are very they are very physically orientated
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So they do go to the gym whatever it takes to get that buff body
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But they do they do added extras, but it's so subtle and it's not spoken about because it's the focus is mainly on women because the beauty industry is
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Funnel do you genuinely think it's equally common? It's not equally common, but it is common. I think it's close
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I'm not all they want to do is have a hair transplant and they hit that 26 hair transplant. That's enough for a man
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They don't feel comfortable talking about it bar do
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Yeah, before that I want to say something all self-reported data about cheating money or whatever we speak now are unreliable
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You do like social desirability bias. That's it. Yeah, so we cannot really determine. Yes
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I have cheated before and I have been cheated as well. What's cheating to you, man? What's cheating?
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How did you cheat like how did you meet women you wanted to cheat with like I was young like 16 17 I was DJ
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I was just in the club. So every night and it was easy. Okay, so you would meet them in person. Yes
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Did you ever cheat on dating apps? I never had dating apps. Okay, did she ever find out?
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Like she would like entering the house or something
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Or a couple. Okay, and she would come over and what happened? She would kick them out?
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No, I kicked them out and I stayed with you after
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Did you ever have sex with one girl and then have sex with her right after and she knowingly did that?
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And your experience dude like do women stay after they're cheated on?
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Unfortunately, some do but they shouldn't if they respect themselves they should just leave
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Yeah, they stay. Okay, some of them they do. Okay, would you say more stay or more go?
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No, no, no, thank you. Thank you. Did you ask them to stay or did they say I want to stay?
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No, no, they want attention immediately after no one say oh, I want to stay
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But you do you ever do you say I won't do it again. I'm sorry that I love you. You're the one blah blah blah blah blah
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Yeah, I did say that. Yeah, so there you go. Did you buy them a Porsche?
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So I don't understand so just because he said I'm sorry I won't do it again. That's enough
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Are they so desperate to say that they don't need any reassurance?
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They just like I don't care. I'm gonna stay or or are you coercing them into staying perhaps saying like
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No, as in as in sort of saying oh, you've caught me. I'll never do it again
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You're the one I want. I don't know what I was thinking
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That's kind of lying to them to engage in the moment. Maybe he means it in the moment
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Maybe he means it probably that's what most guys
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My point is women don't really care when they get cheated on
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They could say they care, but when I look at actions, they typically stay
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But the reasons behind it there's an evolutionary reason behind it
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There's a reason why women stay like we can try to say biology doesn't matter, but it does and it's because in the old days
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If a guy could take care of other women and was selected by other women that showed that he could take care of you, too
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And so that's why cheating it's different for men and for women women tend to stay
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And in some cultures they have multiple wives which is technically correct and I'm saying there's a reason for that
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And in some cultures there's men who there's women who also have multiple husbands
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There's matriarchal cultures. It's just that we don't learn about them. It doesn't mean that they don't exist
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There's one in asia. There's one. What's it called?
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But here's the thing they don't stand the test of time they don't become big civilizations
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8,000 years ago 17 men or 17 women were reproduced for every one man only 40 percent of men have reproduced historically
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No, 40 percent of men have reproduced historically
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Yeah, 80 percent of women have 40 percent of men. It's always been two women to one man
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That's the thing I feel like in society just because one thing works for someone doesn't mean it works for everyone
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And I think they're different the different tribes and the different
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I have to have a conversation about in generalities
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It's subjective like we have to talk about the rule before we can talk about the exceptions and the rule is women tend
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That means you've been seeing a lot of guys now
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Like four people but real relationship only one person
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So you've done you've done the situationship thing
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So what is a situationship? You're a side chick?
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But like you're getting I was getting to know these people
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The whole point is like you didn't require exclusivity
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Meaning he was proud the reason women stay is because they can't replace the guy
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But again why is that because of financial hardship in society
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It's literally less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship than it is for a man
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It's less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship
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But again, why is it such a high number considering how much they lose in the relationship?
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Does it not show that there's something missing there?
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But I think it's because we've told women wrong
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And so when women are unhappy they leave relationships
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You should be happy with the person that you're with
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You should feel supported by them emotionally, physically
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I think that's unrealistic in a 50-year marriage
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Do you really think that they were happy for 50 years?
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You know the main era of stay-at-home moms and happy families and all of that
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There was like a known thing of those women being extremely unhappy
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Because of the fact that they didn't have an out
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That's like that's kind of the propaganda that they put
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But here's the problem is most of those studies if you follow them back
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It's by these like feminist gender studies professors
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Feminists infiltrated universities in the 1970s and 80s
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So much so that they made it more subjective rather than objective
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It's like we have women running the universities
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And they even talk about how they rewrite history
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If you can't trust anything that we find online
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Where can we actually find data to back the things that we say?
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Between like the right and the left a lot of times
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But in my experience like I see what's in front of my eyes
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Do you know like sometimes they want to give you a study
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And say don't look at what's in front of your eyes
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And I just don't see men being these crazy abusers
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And that's my experience and I feel like just because you haven't seen this
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Like it doesn't delete other people's experiences
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There's hundreds of millions of women on this earth
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Is the majority of abuse claims are not filed in criminal court