JustPearlyThings - Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About DAMAGED Women

00:00:00.000 I guess in a way yes, it's just more socially acceptable with women 1.00

00:00:04.440 However, there are a lot of guys depending on the spectrum of guy that you're like talking to or dealing with

00:00:10.480 They are very they are very physically orientated

00:00:14.120 So they do go to the gym whatever it takes to get that buff body 0.80

00:00:18.240 They do have like both girls

00:00:30.000 But they do they do added extras, but it's so subtle and it's not spoken about because it's the focus is mainly on women because the beauty industry is

00:00:41.340 Funnel do you genuinely think it's equally common? It's not equally common, but it is common. I think it's close

00:00:47.220 Like the amount of filters Botox. It's close

00:00:49.760 I'll tell you something

00:00:55.760 I'm not all they want to do is have a hair transplant and they hit that 26 hair transplant. That's enough for a man

00:01:01.460 They don't feel comfortable talking about it bar do

00:01:11.320 Yeah, before that I want to say something all self-reported data about cheating money or whatever we speak now are unreliable

00:01:18.700 You do like social desirability bias. That's it. Yeah, so we cannot really determine. Yes

00:01:25.460 I have cheated before and I have been cheated as well. What's cheating to you, man? What's cheating?

00:01:31.000 Well, let's talk about the physical

00:01:37.000 How did you cheat like how did you meet women you wanted to cheat with like I was young like 16 17 I was DJ

00:01:43.900 I was just in the club. So every night and it was easy. Okay, so you would meet them in person. Yes

00:01:50.660 Did you ever cheat on dating apps? I never had dating apps. Okay, did she ever find out?

00:01:55.780 Yeah, all the times

00:01:56.780 She caught me many times as well

00:02:01.540 Like a red-handed 0.72

00:02:03.540 And what happened there, man?

00:02:05.540 Did you get a kick from that?

00:02:06.540 Many times. Did you get a kick from that?

00:02:07.540 So how did she catch you?

00:02:08.660 Like she would like entering the house or something

00:02:12.540 Like you would have a girl over? 0.76

00:02:13.540 Yeah

00:02:14.540 No, no

00:02:15.540 Or a couple. Okay, and she would come over and what happened? She would kick them out? 0.99

00:02:20.540 No, I kicked them out and I stayed with you after

00:02:23.300 Oh 0.99

00:02:24.300 Did you ever have sex with one girl and then have sex with her right after and she knowingly did that? 0.98

00:02:42.300 Yes 0.70

00:02:44.300 And your experience dude like do women stay after they're cheated on?

00:02:51.020 Unfortunately, some do but they shouldn't if they respect themselves they should just leave

00:02:55.100 Yeah, not should I'm asking what they do

00:02:58.780 Yeah, they stay. Okay, some of them they do. Okay, would you say more stay or more go?

00:03:04.940 That depends

00:03:05.900 No, no, no, thank you. Thank you. Did you ask them to stay or did they say I want to stay?

00:03:11.020 No, because there's a difference

00:03:12.860 No, no, they want attention immediately after no one say oh, I want to stay

00:03:17.100 But you do you ever do you say I won't do it again. I'm sorry that I love you. You're the one blah blah blah blah blah

00:03:21.660 Yeah, I did say that. Yeah, so there you go. Did you buy them a Porsche?

00:03:24.140 Yeah, but I said

00:03:24.940 You buy them a nice penthouse

00:03:34.060 So I don't understand so just because he said I'm sorry I won't do it again. That's enough

00:03:37.820 No, no, no, just just curious as to what?

00:03:41.020 Are they so desperate to say that they don't need any reassurance?

00:03:44.780 They just like I don't care. I'm gonna stay or or are you coercing them into staying perhaps saying like

00:03:50.940 I will never coercing as in what is course

00:03:53.820 Rehearsing but coercing

00:03:55.020 No, as in as in sort of saying oh, you've caught me. I'll never do it again

00:03:58.620 You're the one I want. I don't know what I was thinking

00:04:00.540 That's kind of lying to them to engage in the moment. Maybe he means it in the moment

00:04:06.060 Maybe he means it probably that's what most guys

00:04:08.700 My point is women don't really care when they get cheated on 1.00

00:04:11.420 They don't and I say this because they do

00:04:13.420 If you look at if you look at their look at

00:04:15.420 They do and I'm telling you like

00:04:17.180 I've seen my friends

00:04:19.180 They could say they care, but when I look at actions, they typically stay

00:04:22.140 But why do they stay? That's the question

00:04:24.140 Have you stayed before?

00:04:26.140 Hell yeah

00:04:30.140 Was he rich?

00:04:38.140 But the reasons behind it there's an evolutionary reason behind it

00:04:41.260 There's a reason why women stay like we can try to say biology doesn't matter, but it does and it's because in the old days 1.00

00:04:46.780 If a guy could take care of other women and was selected by other women that showed that he could take care of you, too

00:04:52.860 And so that's why cheating it's different for men and for women women tend to stay 0.98

00:04:58.620 And in some cultures they have multiple wives which is technically correct and I'm saying there's a reason for that 1.00

00:05:04.140 And in some cultures there's men who there's women who also have multiple husbands 0.97

00:05:11.500 There's matriarchal cultures. It's just that we don't learn about them. It doesn't mean that they don't exist 1.00

00:05:15.820 There's one in asia. There's one. What's it called?

00:05:18.940 I need to know about this

00:05:26.220 But here's the thing they don't stand the test of time they don't become big civilizations

00:05:30.540 But what's a big civilization?

00:05:32.540 8,000 years ago 17 men or 17 women were reproduced for every one man only 40 percent of men have reproduced historically

00:05:41.820 How many? 70 percent?

00:05:44.380 No, 40 percent of men have reproduced historically

00:05:46.780 Oh wow

00:05:47.340 Yeah, 80 percent of women have 40 percent of men. It's always been two women to one man 1.00

00:05:50.700 Oh wow

00:05:51.660 That's the thing

00:05:53.660 That's the thing I feel like in society just because one thing works for someone doesn't mean it works for everyone

00:05:58.940 And I think they're different the different tribes and the different

00:06:01.500 I have to have a conversation about in generalities

00:06:04.540 Like if we this is why I say it depends

00:06:06.540 It's subjective like we have to talk about the rule before we can talk about the exceptions and the rule is women tend 1.00

00:06:11.820 To stay but why do they stay they stay?

00:06:14.220 Especially now in this society

00:06:16.220 Have you stayed before?

00:06:18.220 How many boyfriends have you had?

00:06:19.500 I've never been cheated on

00:06:20.700 How many boyfriends have you had?

00:06:22.220 I'll say only one

00:06:23.740 Oh, you would say only one

00:06:25.260 Only one

00:06:25.660 That means you've been seeing a lot of guys now

00:06:27.420 But why are you single now?

00:06:28.380 I'd say I've dated four

00:06:29.260 Like four people but real relationship only one person

00:06:33.100 Wait, so I have a question

00:06:35.260 So you've done you've done the situationship thing

00:06:37.580 Yeah

00:06:37.980 Yeah

00:06:38.220 So what is a situationship? You're a side chick? 0.98

00:06:40.220 If he has a mane then yeah

00:06:44.620 I'm saying when you're in a situation

00:06:46.620 I wouldn't say situationship

00:06:48.700 But like you're getting I was getting to know these people

00:06:50.860 But then it wasn't you know

00:06:52.220 The whole point is like you didn't require exclusivity

00:06:55.260 Meaning he was proud the reason women stay is because they can't replace the guy 1.00

00:06:59.340 But again why is that because of financial hardship in society

00:07:03.900 It's literally less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship than it is for a man 0.97

00:07:09.180 But yeah

00:07:10.300 Say that again 0.67

00:07:10.780 It's less beneficial for a woman to leave a relationship 1.00

00:07:14.220 But more women leave relationships 1.00

00:07:16.380 Even like you say all the time

00:07:17.980 70% of divorces are by women

00:07:20.460 But again, why is it such a high number considering how much they lose in the relationship?

00:07:26.220 Does it not show that there's something missing there?

00:07:30.620 But I think it's because we've told women wrong 0.98

00:07:33.260 Like we're told that it's about our happiness

00:07:35.100 Life isn't about happiness

00:07:36.380 It's about duty

00:07:37.100 It's about community

00:07:38.060 And so when women are unhappy they leave relationships 1.00

00:07:41.420 Even when there's children involved

00:07:42.940 But it should be about happiness

00:07:45.660 You should be happy with the person that you're with

00:07:47.660 You should feel supported by them emotionally, physically

00:07:50.780 I think that's unrealistic in a 50-year marriage

00:07:54.220 Like people used to be married for 50 years

00:07:56.460 Do you really think that they were happy for 50 years?

00:07:59.660 Did you know that in the 1950s?

00:08:00.940 They definitely had a little thing on the side

00:08:02.300 I do believe that

00:08:03.500 I think that in the 1950s

00:08:07.460 You know the main era of stay-at-home moms and happy families and all of that 0.50

00:08:12.460 There was like a known thing of those women being extremely unhappy 1.00

00:08:18.300 Because of the fact that they didn't have an out 0.98

00:08:21.180 Like they kind of felt stuck

00:08:22.540 That's like that's kind of the propaganda that they put

00:08:29.020 Most girls I meet

00:08:31.020 I never say things unless I research it

00:08:33.820 But here's the problem is most of those studies if you follow them back

00:08:37.820 It's by these like feminist gender studies professors 1.00

00:08:40.140 This universities I only ever do

00:08:42.460 I know that's the problem

00:08:43.580 Feminists infiltrated universities in the 1970s and 80s 1.00

00:08:47.100 So much so that they made it more subjective rather than objective

00:08:49.980 And so the difference is now

00:08:52.380 It's like we have women running the universities 1.00

00:08:54.220 And they even talk about how they rewrite history

00:08:56.780 But what about the facts that you get

00:08:58.700 If you can't trust anything that we find online

00:09:01.260 Where can we actually find data to back the things that we say?

00:09:07.260 And I think this is the difference

00:09:08.780 Between like the right and the left a lot of times

00:09:10.780 Like I think you learn over time

00:09:13.980 Like which sources tend to be more credible

00:09:15.980 But in my experience like I see what's in front of my eyes

00:09:19.100 Yeah

00:09:19.420 Do you know like sometimes they want to give you a study

00:09:21.820 And say don't look at what's in front of your eyes 0.97

00:09:24.060 And I just don't see men being these crazy abusers 1.00

00:09:26.860 That are just making women miserable 1.00

00:09:28.300 But that's your experience

00:09:29.100 It depends on where you are

00:09:30.220 And that's my experience and I feel like just because you haven't seen this

00:09:42.380 Doesn't make it not true

00:09:44.220 Like it doesn't delete other people's experiences

00:09:46.540 There's hundreds of millions of women on this earth 1.00

00:09:49.420 But I guess if we're going to go off of abuse

00:09:52.460 Then I want to see police reports

00:09:54.220 And that's the issue

00:09:55.100 Is the majority of abuse claims are not filed in criminal court

00:09:59.020 This is actually true

00:10:00.460 This is true

00:10:01.420 But why?

00:10:02.460 I love what

00:10:03.100 I'm the first private

JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023

Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About DAMAGED Women

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