JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About Modern Women

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Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake Chris Angie Jenny
Her Entire LOGIC Destroyed with THIS Question You Won't BELIEVE What Her BODY COUNT

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11 minutes

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2,237

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In this episode, we talk about what we would do if we were in a relationship with someone who was a virgin, whether or not we would be interested in them, and how old would we date someone who is a virgin.

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00:00:00.000 For me, if a guy's body count is like the three figures, I'd be just as disgusted.
00:00:04.640 Don't matter if he's Drake, Chris, but I don't care.
00:00:06.600 I'd be repulsed, to be honest.
00:00:08.620 What if he's 50?
00:00:09.940 If he's 50, depending on how old he is, again, I'd still feel a bit icky.
00:00:14.460 It's a...
00:00:15.200 Ugh, yeah, no.
00:00:16.420 You've got to be icky for... 0.99
00:00:17.640 Would you want to marry a virgin? 1.00
00:00:19.640 I wouldn't mind.
00:00:21.000 You wouldn't mind marrying a virgin? 0.69
00:00:22.340 You'd want to, like, tell him what to do?
00:00:24.120 I wouldn't mind because it's not...
00:00:26.400 It's not an issue for me.
00:00:28.300 If he ticks every single box and then it turns out he's a virgin, to me, I wouldn't be fussed.
00:00:35.020 Could you name five of your boxes?
00:00:39.280 Name five of my boxes?
00:00:40.460 Yeah.
00:00:41.380 So, ambitious, God-fearing, like, prayerful, loyal as well, funny sort of sense of humor, and...
00:00:54.300 I can't think of a fifth one.
00:00:55.960 When you say ambitious, is there a dollar amount?
00:00:58.300 No, ambitious, like, driven, wanting something for himself, and not just...
00:01:02.100 So, if he's making...
00:01:02.940 How old are you?
00:01:03.820 So, you're 31?
00:01:04.780 35.
00:01:05.340 35.
00:01:05.900 How old would you date?
00:01:07.500 The oldest I would date?
00:01:08.700 Yeah.
00:01:09.580 Probably 40.
00:01:10.640 So, if he's 40 and he still makes 30,000...
00:01:13.440 I don't know the conversion, like, 30,000 US dollars, which would be like...
00:01:16.940 20,000...
00:01:17.740 20,000...
00:01:18.740 20,000 pounds.
00:01:21.240 Would you be cool with that?
00:01:21.980 He's 40, he's had time to get there.
00:01:24.460 If he's trying to get somewhere, and he's not just complacent...
00:01:28.680 What if he gets nowhere?
00:01:30.060 Well, I'd sense that he's not ambitious, and it would put me off, so...
00:01:35.860 Right, but I think, like, a lot of times it's kind of disingenuous to guys, because girls 0.96
00:01:39.360 will say there's no price, but you have one in your head, and there is a price.
00:01:43.320 He either has to be working towards that, like, towards it, or there.
00:01:47.060 But if he doesn't get there within a certain amount of time, you're ghost, you're gone.
00:01:50.060 No, but you can't really put a time frame on, I'm giving you a time to become successful,
00:01:55.140 but no, I'm saying ambitious and driven to want to get there, and actively trying to
00:02:00.880 get there.
00:02:01.520 Does that make sense?
00:02:02.040 Right, you might not know it, like, you might not have thought about it, but, like, in some
00:02:06.700 level, you're not going to date a bum forever. 0.88
00:02:08.820 So, if he's...
00:02:09.780 But I wouldn't have...
00:02:11.580 If he's a bum, and he's not ambitious, I wouldn't be attracted to him. 0.67
00:02:14.980 Yeah, but I'm saying there's a dollar, there's a minimum dollar.
00:02:18.180 So, like, okay, would you date a guy that's homeless with no job?
00:02:22.660 I wouldn't meet a guy that's homeless with no job.
00:02:24.540 Where would I meet him?
00:02:25.380 You pass him every day.
00:02:26.620 But why would I approach...
00:02:28.300 You're probably going to even ask to...
00:02:29.700 If he's approached me, how would that work?
00:02:31.160 Right, but I'm saying there's a minimum requirement you have.
00:02:34.380 But it's not just related to, like, money.
00:02:36.960 Is that a bad thing?
00:02:38.140 No, it's not a bad thing.
00:02:39.320 I don't think we should date bums. 1.00
00:02:41.100 But I'm saying, like, you're avoiding the question.
00:02:42.860 What was the question?
00:02:44.480 What's the minimum amount of money you need a guy to make? 0.96
00:02:48.180 I don't know.
00:02:49.020 More than me?
00:02:49.840 I don't know.
00:02:51.020 It's the same as me or more.
00:02:52.380 Okay, what's roughly?
00:02:53.380 You don't have to...
00:02:54.720 I don't want to say how much I make, but the same as me or more.
00:02:58.620 He can't make less than you, right?
00:03:00.200 Basically, yeah.
00:03:01.040 Okay, why not?
00:03:02.120 Well, I'm not saying he can't, but I would prefer...
00:03:04.180 I'm saying what I prefer is if he was the same level as me or make him more.
00:03:08.460 If he's making less, a bit less, and actively trying to progress within his career,
00:03:14.180 then there's nothing wrong with that.
00:03:15.260 Can I just ask something?
00:03:17.260 He said about the boxes.
00:03:19.800 What are your boxes?
00:03:21.100 And it was the virgin.
00:03:22.820 And he said you'd take on a virgin.
00:03:24.420 Virgin wasn't the... 0.95
00:03:25.600 No.
00:03:26.600 She said God.
00:03:27.180 She said God.
00:03:27.920 He asked what are your boxes when he said about...
00:03:30.160 Yeah, she... 1.00
00:03:30.920 No woman ever says sex. 0.99
00:03:33.480 About...
00:03:33.740 If it was a man, wouldn't that be one of your boxes? 0.99
00:03:36.240 What good sex?
00:03:36.840 You know, you said that if he was ever...
00:03:38.280 And he ticked your boxes.
00:03:39.540 Yeah. 0.71
00:03:40.020 As a man, wouldn't sex be one of your top boxes? 0.94
00:03:42.720 I'm just asking. 0.99
00:03:43.860 As in, would I marry a virgin? 1.00
00:03:46.420 No, are you getting sex with him? 1.00
00:03:47.740 Your boxes. 0.99
00:03:48.420 You know, you said if a woman ticks all your boxes... 1.00
00:03:50.980 Right.
00:03:51.180 Isn't sex one of your boxes? 0.62
00:03:54.540 You think it's a matter of...
00:03:56.080 Could you have a happy relationship without having that box ticks? 0.92
00:04:00.320 Without having sex or without having good sex? 0.99
00:04:02.780 Good sex. 0.99
00:04:04.380 Yeah. 0.95
00:04:04.780 I could still have a pretty successful relationship.
00:04:08.460 Not me.
00:04:09.340 Yeah.
00:04:09.680 So you're cheating.
00:04:10.520 You're hesitating.
00:04:11.700 I don't believe you.
00:04:12.760 I mean, look.
00:04:13.820 I know.
00:04:14.380 That's one of my main boxes.
00:04:15.860 I don't...
00:04:16.160 No, no, no.
00:04:16.860 Because I'm saying...
00:04:17.420 Everybody's talking about...
00:04:18.300 Oh, I want to be nice and compatible. 0.98
00:04:21.020 But you won't know that until you have sex with him. 0.99
00:04:23.380 That's why I wouldn't have a virgin. 0.99
00:04:24.860 That's why when women say they want to have a virgin, to me... 1.00
00:04:27.600 I ain't teaching a man nothing.
00:04:29.780 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:30.280 Because I ain't got time.
00:04:31.780 If I'm a virgin and he's a virgin, fine.
00:04:34.180 But I'm not going to go and pick up a virgin. 0.99
00:04:37.040 If sex is one of my boxes. 0.99
00:04:39.680 And sex is one of my boxes. 0.99
00:04:41.380 It should be a man's box too. 1.00
00:04:42.540 Because if you're not getting good sex from your woman, go elsewhere. 0.99
00:04:45.780 Same thing for women. 1.00
00:04:47.040 I'm sorry, but that's why they've got sexless marriages out there. 1.00
00:04:50.260 Yes.
00:04:50.620 How can you be having...
00:04:52.060 Like, you be...
00:04:52.680 Oh, yeah, I'm happy. 0.57
00:04:53.520 Well, sex is not one of my boxes. 0.96
00:04:55.200 She knows that sex ain't one of your boxes. 1.00
00:04:56.860 Then when the sex is gone, what are you going to do then? 0.89
00:04:58.680 Say, oh, but I like her personality. 0.54
00:05:01.100 I like... 1.00
00:05:01.700 Shit, I have a question. 1.00
00:05:04.380 Do you think it's fair for women to expect monogamy from men 1.00
00:05:07.540 if they gave their best years to another man?
00:05:10.380 Oh.
00:05:14.360 Who, me?
00:05:15.420 Yeah.
00:05:15.660 Okay, I start.
00:05:17.960 Angie, you want to start?
00:05:19.200 He's a little nervous.
00:05:21.240 I want to start.
00:05:23.440 No.
00:05:23.980 Give your best to the one you got.
00:05:25.540 And if you can't give him your best and he's going elsewhere,
00:05:28.400 then you can't blame him.
00:05:30.360 I'm sorry, but like I said before,
00:05:32.260 no man, no man, no woman should put up with bad sex. 0.79
00:05:35.160 And if a man is having bad sex, it's the woman's fault. 0.97
00:05:37.840 It's the woman's fault. 1.00
00:05:40.640 Because if you get a man, a male virgin and a woman, 0.99
00:05:45.440 he's going to have bad sex anyway. 1.00
00:05:46.960 She's going to teach him rubbish just to keep him down there. 1.00
00:05:49.820 But if you get a man who's had lots of sex and a virgin, 0.99
00:05:53.400 he's going to teach everything he knows to make sure that she can perform properly. 0.66
00:05:57.180 So as far as I'm concerned,
00:05:58.740 if you're with somebody and you're not getting good sex from them, 0.53
00:06:02.160 and I'm talking about making love, 0.82
00:06:03.200 because we're in the audience is making love, making love.
00:06:05.000 That's the little Christmas birthdays, whatever. 0.99
00:06:06.640 Men just want to have sex. 1.00
00:06:08.020 If the sex ain't good, get rid. 1.00
00:06:10.340 Because I'm sorry, 0.98
00:06:10.900 but there's too many men that are not having sexless relationships.
00:06:13.840 And it's wrong.
00:06:15.120 All these feelings about,
00:06:16.220 oh, I want their personality.
00:06:17.520 I want this and that.
00:06:18.100 Why doesn't that work the other way? 0.61
00:06:19.580 You said that the man can teach the virgin woman how to have good sex, 1.00
00:06:24.260 but why can't the woman who's had a lot of sex teach the virgin how to have good sex? 1.00
00:06:28.660 Why is it not? 0.90
00:06:29.180 Well, I just think if women were lined up for virgins, 1.00
00:06:31.740 then one out of three men wouldn't be virgins.
00:06:34.940 Wait, say again.
00:06:35.760 If women were lined up to date virgins, 1.00
00:06:37.920 if that was true,
00:06:39.580 then one out of three men wouldn't be virgins.
00:06:43.000 I don't get it.
00:06:44.180 Because the male virgins are out there.
00:06:46.300 Oh, okay. 0.95
00:06:46.720 One out of three men under 30 haven't had sex in the past year or are virgins.
00:06:51.040 One out of every three men.
00:06:52.560 So like if women wanted virgins, they're there. 1.00
00:06:56.960 But how would you know?
00:06:59.280 I still think that.
00:06:59.940 And that falls into that confidence.
00:07:02.040 Sorry.
00:07:03.000 That she was talking about earlier with a man approaching you.
00:07:05.640 Nobody was talking earlier and you mentioned confidence.
00:07:08.140 That confidence comes from experience with women over time.
00:07:12.480 So that same confident guy you want to approach you,
00:07:14.700 he's not going to get that confidence unless he's had that previous experience,
00:07:17.540 including sexual.
00:07:18.860 So you want this guy with this low body count.
00:07:21.640 That's not the same sort of guy.
00:07:24.080 Confidence, like, I don't think it's like just related to sex.
00:07:27.160 Obviously, yeah.
00:07:28.000 If you had, you know, multiple women, 0.83
00:07:30.540 like you had a lot of experience,
00:07:32.000 you're probably going to be a tiny bit more confident.
00:07:34.680 But I think, like, you know,
00:07:36.140 how do you act in bed is kind of even,
00:07:39.060 you know, inside you or you have it or not.
00:07:41.240 Like, it's not really about how many.
00:07:43.900 The men can bring it out of you.
00:07:45.460 The men can bring it out of you.
00:07:46.740 A man can bring it out of a woman. 1.00
00:07:48.120 But how often does a woman bring it out of a man? 1.00
00:07:50.340 Is that because you're speaking from a woman's perspective,
00:07:52.240 so you wouldn't know.
00:07:53.200 I'm a woman, so I can only speak from,
00:07:54.440 I had a man with men, so I got male friends.
00:07:57.700 Most, I'd say 99% of my friend are male. 0.91
00:08:01.320 They're not getting enough sex. 0.99
00:08:02.920 And they're not getting enough sex how they want it, 0.88
00:08:04.920 where they want it, whenever they want it. 0.79
00:08:06.620 And it's the women that are, like, 1.00
00:08:08.120 holding these keys to sex. 0.58
00:08:10.740 Like, that's why I can speak from a woman, 0.88
00:08:13.560 because there's men out there,
00:08:15.060 you can, as a woman that's had ex-partners,
00:08:17.000 you can look at your partners
00:08:18.040 and see where the women have done them wrong. 1.00
00:08:19.480 You can know, because the women are teaching, 1.00
00:08:21.860 the women are so quick to open their legs, 1.00
00:08:23.400 but not their mouth to say, 0.86
00:08:24.320 excuse me, but mate,
00:08:25.060 but what are you doing down there?
00:08:25.960 That's wrong.
00:08:27.000 Fix up, or this is how you're supposed to do it.
00:08:29.140 But there's too many men out there,
00:08:30.420 there's too many women out there now 1.00
00:08:31.620 having bad sex 0.69
00:08:32.560 because of the men's previous partner 0.94
00:08:34.740 who's not teaching them properly.
00:08:38.000 Interesting.
00:08:38.940 Well, I guess as a girl,
00:08:40.420 how do you know it's bad?
00:08:42.360 You must have a lot to compare it.
00:08:43.680 You know it's bad.
00:08:44.500 You know it's bad.
00:08:45.120 Listen, right, if the bed's not rocking
00:08:46.520 and I'm not shivering,
00:08:47.300 then maybe she said about the earthquake.
00:08:48.180 No, no, no, so you have to have a lot
00:08:49.300 to compare it to you to know it's bad.
00:08:51.240 No, you can just know how you feel
00:08:53.960 because if you go and you relax yourself
00:08:56.340 and you free up
00:08:57.340 and you trust the man that he knows
00:08:58.620 what you're doing,
00:08:59.200 you're going to have good sex all the time. 0.95
00:09:02.660 Okay, you want to answer the question? 0.95
00:09:05.220 I mean, I personally,
00:09:07.100 so like this might sound controversial,
00:09:09.780 but I feel it's unrealistic
00:09:12.100 to believe a man should be with one woman. 0.69
00:09:14.880 Okay.
00:09:15.200 So, I agree that, you know,
00:09:18.300 they shouldn't expect it from a man.
00:09:20.140 But I feel like everything comes down to control.
00:09:22.980 Okay.
00:09:23.140 So, as a man,
00:09:24.400 if you decide you're going to go into a relationship,
00:09:27.000 you have to decide to control yourself
00:09:29.440 and choose to be faithful. 0.95
00:09:30.980 What if your woman's a freak? 1.00
00:09:34.860 What would that, 0.76
00:09:35.720 what would that do?
00:09:36.420 Like she's up for anything with you sexually.
00:09:38.300 That doesn't really,
00:09:38.940 you're still going to go elsewhere.
00:09:39.420 It doesn't matter.
00:09:40.400 You're still going to go elsewhere.
00:09:41.440 If you want to go elsewhere,
00:09:42.560 you're going to go.
00:09:43.140 You can have the perfect woman in the world.
00:09:45.580 If you want to cheat,
00:09:46.960 you will cheat.
00:09:47.840 It doesn't matter.
00:09:48.580 There's,
00:09:49.100 I do not believe there is anything
00:09:50.940 a woman can do 1.00
00:09:52.060 to stop a man from cheating
00:09:53.520 if he wants to cheat.
00:09:54.580 I don't believe that all men cheat.
00:09:57.660 Do you agree that not all men cheat?
00:09:59.140 Auntie Jenny.
00:10:00.120 Sorry,
00:10:00.540 do you agree that not all men cheat?
00:10:03.720 Hold it down, bro.
00:10:05.120 Do you agree that not all men cheat?
00:10:06.640 Speak your truth.
00:10:07.840 Some men don't.
00:10:10.220 No, I'm saying not all men cheat.
00:10:12.060 Yeah, not all men cheat.
00:10:12.700 That's fine then.
00:10:14.560 One thing I,
00:10:15.420 can I add?
00:10:16.060 Go ahead, yeah.
00:10:16.520 So, one thing I will say is
00:10:17.860 I think men exercise their options.
00:10:20.300 Right.
00:10:20.540 And so,
00:10:21.060 most men,
00:10:23.160 women don't find them 1.00
00:10:24.300 attractive
00:10:24.660 and therefore
00:10:25.440 they don't have
00:10:26.160 options to exercise
00:10:27.840 and therefore
00:10:28.940 they cannot cheat
00:10:29.800 whereas the top
00:10:30.620 percentile of men
00:10:32.080 have options
00:10:33.420 to exercise
00:10:34.180 therefore
00:10:34.840 they can cheat
00:10:36.440 and if
00:10:37.340 the woman 0.98
00:10:38.120 that is with them
00:10:39.240 feels a type of way
00:10:41.020 wants to leave
00:10:42.180 he's like
00:10:43.100 okay
00:10:43.460 I'll just add a new girl 1.00
00:10:45.100 to the rotation
00:10:45.700 and he's able to get
00:10:47.520 a plethora of girls
00:10:48.400 because he's got
00:10:49.760 the option
00:10:50.600 to exercise
00:10:52.080 his
00:10:53.000 and
00:10:54.180 and