JustPearlyThings - April 28, 2023


Pearl Gets Introduced to MGT0W Men Going Their Own Way


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258

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In this episode, I react to a video that is the introduction to MGTOW. I discuss the different types of men that make up the male gender spectrum and how they differ from each other in regards to how they deal with women.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to my reaction series.
00:00:05.360 Before I start, don't forget to subscribe to the channel and bring that notification bell,
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00:00:13.860 Let's get started.
00:00:15.100 So today, I am reacting to a video that is the introduction to MGTOW.
00:00:20.860 And it was a channel that I haven't, I might have watched it like a long time ago,
00:00:25.440 but I don't really remember.
00:00:26.720 I think it's called Sandman, is that it? I think it's Sandman.
00:00:29.200 So let's, I think someone recommended this to me on Instagram, which you should DM me if you want me to react.
00:00:36.800 Just Pearly Things One.
00:00:37.960 Hi everyone, Sandman here.
00:00:39.420 Oh, and for those of you that don't know, MGTOW's men going their own way.
00:00:42.680 So basically, they don't deal with women until the laws change, as far as I understand.
00:00:47.980 I'm getting a number of people asking me to do an introduction video for MGTOW.
00:00:51.860 So here it is.
00:00:52.840 I'm going to cover 25 of the most important video topics that I've covered since I've started my channel.
00:00:58.020 And the first thing to remember about MGTOW is that a man that has taken the metaphorical red pill 0.51
00:01:02.760 is a man that has learned the ugly truth about female nature.
00:01:06.300 Women are made out to be harmless, beautiful creatures. 1.00
00:01:09.120 But the truth is many women to- 1.00
00:01:10.480 Hey, beautiful creature here.
00:01:13.080 ...man that has taken the metaphorical red pill is a man that has learned the ugly truth about female nature.
00:01:18.400 Women are made out to be harmless, beautiful creatures, but the truth is many women today will rip out your heart and testicles through your wallet and move on to their next victim. 1.00
00:01:27.640 That's true though. The more I learn about the court system, I can't even, I can't even fault you.
00:01:32.740 With absolutely no second thoughts, and they often have no guilt or remorse in the process.
00:01:37.340 So taking the red pill is making yourself aware of how women operate, and you stop being naive about it. 0.99
00:01:42.920 With regards to becoming a MGTOW, there are four or five different levels to MGTOW.
00:01:46.680 The first level is the purple pill man.
00:01:48.640 This is the man that's aware that women use the government, the courts, and men's desires to reproduce, to take advantage of men. 0.99
00:01:54.900 But the purple pill man believes that the risks of a relationship and marriage are often worth the potential punishment.
00:02:00.660 A level two MGTOW believes,
00:02:02.080 I'm really glad he's breaking this down for me. This is very helpful.
00:02:05.180 Okay, so purple pill is, because I've heard purple pill and I really didn't understand what it meant.
00:02:10.080 So it basically means they're aware of how women are, but I'm still going to deal with these because I want a family. 0.99
00:02:15.320 Dating and short-term relationships, but not marriage, long-term relationships, or cohabitation with women.
00:02:21.480 Okay, so level two is, I'll date the girls, I'll screw them, but that's it. No marriage, no kids. 1.00
00:02:27.900 To him, these often seem very dangerous.
00:02:30.320 A level three MGTOW doesn't believe in dating women at all, and limits his interactions with women as much as possible.
00:02:35.820 A level four MGTOW tries to limit his interactions with the state and everyone else as much as possible too.
00:02:41.160 Three limits his reactions, and I understand why level three would limit their interactions with women, 0.92
00:02:47.280 because they also could get, like, a false allegation. Like, that's, I think, their primary concern.
00:02:53.420 And the fourth one, they don't want to talk to anyone at all.
00:02:56.660 He is what is referred to as a guy that's ghosting or trying to stay invisible to women and the state.
00:03:01.360 All of this is explained, okay, so to women, the state, in greater detail in a video marked number one below in the description called MGTOW Dating.
00:03:09.440 So once you know where you stand with regards to the spectrum, then you either have a choice to stay away from women entirely, 1.00
00:03:14.840 or take varying relationship risks.
00:03:16.920 Then you basically can start to gain true situational awareness.
00:03:20.620 This is where you start to identify different types of female behavior, 1.00
00:03:23.960 and begin to understand what motivates women to act in such ways. 0.99
00:03:27.180 One very important thing to remember is that many more women today, in their 20s, than in past generations, are riding the cock carousel. 0.95
00:03:34.400 This means they are having no-strings-attached sex with, in some cases, dozens of men before they decide to settle down with a single guy.
00:03:40.960 Dozens? Jesus Christ.
00:03:42.380 If they decide to settle down at all.
00:03:44.020 I'm linking to my video called The Cock Carousel, which is number two, down below.
00:03:48.640 I'm surprised you can say this on YouTube. Are you surprised?
00:03:52.360 I'm like, I'm surprised YouTube hasn't blacked that yet.
00:03:55.440 From now on, each and every topic that I bring up, I will put a link to it below.
00:04:00.180 And at this point, I'm going to stop mentioning it, and let you explore these particular topics on your own,
00:04:04.800 and explore the description on your own as well.
00:04:06.980 Women look to settle down with a beta male provider, 1.00
00:04:09.640 a blue pill man with little to no understanding about female nature.
00:04:13.120 If he's ignorant about the way women operate, then he's more easily manipulated. 0.99
00:04:16.580 A man aware of how women function in society and manipulate men in covert ways, 1.00
00:04:21.180 are harder to guilt and shame into doing the things that she wants. 0.99
00:04:24.280 He knows the game, so he's harder to trick into marriage, protection, and resource extraction.
00:04:29.280 Shame is the name of many women's game, and in this case, it doesn't work. 1.00
00:04:32.740 After a woman convinces her beta male blue pill man that marriage is a good idea for him, 0.86
00:04:36.920 then she has a child or two which, at some point, allow her to leave that relationship
00:04:40.860 and use those children as a way to get child support from her husband. 1.00
00:04:44.800 People wonder why men go their own way, and one of the biggest reasons is that they have been burned by women through the divorce courts, 1.00
00:04:51.120 and are often paying lifetime alimony as well as child support to their ex-wives.
00:04:55.040 In many cases, the family courts also award the full value of the family home to wives,
00:04:59.780 and the majority of men visiting this YouTube channel are often in their 30s, 40s, and 50s.
00:05:04.600 Men that have been taken to the cleaner, so to speak, and have had their eyes opened a little too late.
00:05:08.920 They are here to become MGTOWs because they are shocked at the way women took advantage of them. 0.99
00:05:12.980 As well, they're here to understand how women use their beauty and behavior to trick men. 1.00
00:05:17.640 Another important thing to remember is that women age like milk, while men age like wine. 0.99
00:05:22.020 And I'm putting a link to a video called Women in the Wall down below.
00:05:25.740 Many women's looks... 1.00
00:05:26.800 Oh, for those of you that don't know, the wall is like when we hit...
00:05:29.620 I don't know, I've heard different ages for the wall.
00:05:31.460 The earliest age I've heard is 26.
00:05:33.840 The latest age I've heard is 30.
00:05:36.420 You know, I have had guys say up to 35, but I think those guys are like capping a little, like we know.
00:05:42.980 It's basically when your looks like fade, is the best way to say it.
00:05:47.560 It's like, it doesn't mean that your looks are gone, but the way that I understand it,
00:05:51.740 it's like at 18 you look one way, and at 28 you realize you don't look the same way you did at 18,
00:05:57.300 and your options are significantly less.
00:05:59.220 Or you could do 20 and 30 if you think 18 is weird.
00:06:01.580 The ability to attract a wealthy, attractive mate declined rapidly as they hit the age of 30.
00:06:06.420 Men's attractiveness often increases with age because they tend to make more money as they age
00:06:10.540 and often have larger bank accounts and savings.
00:06:13.060 While generally women's earnings potential withers with their looks, especially if they've had children. 1.00
00:06:17.520 The age of 30 is roughly where male and female values intersect and then go... 0.86
00:06:21.700 That's so interesting because, oh that's so true, because they say that men or women out earn men under the age of 30 in major cities.
00:06:31.160 But I guess the idea is that some of that comes from the money they make off of their beauty.
00:06:36.200 I'm guessing, anyway.
00:06:37.080 The opposite direction.
00:06:37.920 If a man doesn't get married by the age of 35 or 40, then there's only roughly a 12% chance that he's going to get married from that point forward.
00:06:45.240 Wait, wow.
00:06:47.200 If a guy hasn't got married by the time he's 35 or 40, there's a 12% chance he'll get married.
00:06:52.320 Another reason men should go their own way is because of tests. 0.94
00:06:55.660 Women often test men's ability to be providers and tolerate their horrible behavior. 1.00
00:06:59.760 The idea is to turn a man into an obedient broken shell of his former self that walks around saying, yes dear, all of the time.
00:07:07.140 His spirit has to be broken in many cases so his resources become more easily extracted and he is more malleable.
00:07:13.040 He becomes silly putty in her hands.
00:07:15.000 A woman asking a man to do something over the top is not her being loving or showing love.
00:07:19.500 But instead, she's testing him to see if he can be manipulated.
00:07:22.860 In the ironic...
00:07:23.640 Huh.
00:07:24.380 So if a girl says that I need you to do something over the top, 0.99
00:07:28.140 she's trying to see how well that she can control him.
00:07:31.500 You know what?
00:07:32.300 I don't think I've ever asked for anything over the top like crazy.
00:07:36.020 I think everything over the top that's happened like that I've been given,
00:07:39.980 like he just gave it to me like I never asked.
00:07:41.980 But I'm thinking about it and I'm thinking about those guys that do the rose petals and do like the full like Valentine's Day stuff.
00:07:49.360 And they always are a little bit simpy.
00:07:51.580 Thing is that women want to manipulate men, but when the manipulation works, they tend to lose interest. 1.00
00:07:56.700 With regards to love, there are often questions as to...
00:07:59.340 So we're always trying to manipulate men, and if it doesn't work, we lose interest.
00:08:03.040 ...women are even capable of loving men the way that men love women.
00:08:06.720 Men scale mountains because they love women. 0.82
00:08:09.080 They cross seas, invent things, write poetry, and revolutionize the world.
00:08:13.540 It's my own opinion, as well as the opinion of many other MGTOWs, 1.00
00:08:16.360 that women are not hardwired for the same level of love that men are.
00:08:19.860 This is partially to do with the fact that women need to look after children and need to divert those resources elsewhere. 1.00
00:08:25.340 Anyways, MGTOW men want North America and Europe to turn into Japan. 0.93
00:08:29.420 We want men refusing to provide love and resources to women on a civilization-wide scale until society crumbles. 1.00
00:08:35.860 Women are selfish, yet... 1.00
00:08:37.200 Okay, is that what's happening in Japan?
00:08:39.320 I know I've seen that like single women, that's really bad in Japan. 1.00
00:08:43.940 Pull to man up and take responsibility.
00:08:45.800 And we don't want to take responsibility for childlike women that have given up on their own responsibilities, 0.98
00:08:51.340 but continue to demand that we men provide them entitlements because they have a golden vagina. 1.00
00:08:56.420 When a man tries to live for himself, women... 1.00
00:08:58.760 He's kind of funny, this dude.
00:09:01.140 ...a midlife crisis and try to shame him back into submission.
00:09:04.300 Yet when a woman goes through menopause, men are supposed to just tolerate her hot flashes, as well as mood swings, 1.00
00:09:09.820 but a man in a midlife crisis needs therapy, according to women.
00:09:13.820 Oh, that's so true.
00:09:15.180 That's so true!
00:09:16.660 They never send women in menopause to therapy,
00:09:19.040 but they always talk about how men that are in midlife crisis is.
00:09:22.480 The guy we MGTOWs look up to the most is Nikola Tesla,
00:09:25.580 a lifelong bachelor that invented many of the technologies that we use today.
00:09:29.280 He registered hundreds of patents and invented the 20th century by many accounts.
00:09:33.160 Do you think that he could have invented all the things that he did if he had a wife and children to support?
00:09:37.560 Most MGTOWs also avoid long-term relationships because women have multiple male friends that they use for different functions. 0.86
00:09:44.140 Effectively, women have the equivalent of a male harem. 1.00
00:09:47.540 One man to sleep with, one to bankroll her, another one to use as an emotional tampon. 0.99
00:09:53.300 Okay, one man to sleep with, one to pay for everything, and one to use as an emotional tampon.
00:09:58.780 What else?
00:09:59.140 And other men for all kinds of functions.
00:10:01.260 One man simply can't satisfy the modern woman. 1.00
00:10:03.620 And the sooner men realize this, the sooner they can go their own way.
00:10:06.500 A traditional marriage and family is a great...
00:10:08.640 Male friends are really common nowadays.
00:10:11.120 I mean, I don't know girls with straight up like sugar daddies or anything. 1.00
00:10:15.620 I said, well, well, I should say, well, it's not uncommon.
00:10:19.720 Okay, okay.
00:10:20.660 For men in this day and age, if a man wants a child of his own, 0.84
00:10:24.200 I would suggest that he go to either Mexico or Thailand and have a surrogate mother give birth to his own child. 1.00
00:10:29.620 That way his child can never be taken away by the mother.
00:10:32.020 That's true.
00:10:32.940 That is true.
00:10:33.580 That's the only...
00:10:35.160 That's the one thing.
00:10:36.280 The more I'm learning about the court system, the more I realize when men have kids, those kids aren't theirs anyway. 1.00
00:10:40.900 It's the moms. 1.00
00:10:41.740 Because if she doesn't want him to see the kid, there ain't really shit he can do about it.
00:10:46.600 And that's why I talked to a girl the other day that was like, oh, well, why doesn't he just keep fighting for his kid?
00:10:51.140 And I used to think like that too.
00:10:52.940 Oh my gosh, I totally did.
00:10:54.620 I was like, why wouldn't you go to court?
00:10:56.280 Like, it didn't make any sense to me.
00:10:57.520 Like, if you're a good dad, you go to court until I realized how bad the court system is.
00:11:01.380 I really...
00:11:02.040 It's not really known to people, honestly, in day-to-day life.
00:11:06.160 And so then he looks like a deadbeat.
00:11:08.020 But the more...
00:11:08.940 Honestly, the more I learn about the court system, the more I think that deadbeat dads are a myth.
00:11:13.660 And that...
00:11:14.320 And I don't know.
00:11:15.060 This is just me thinking out loud.
00:11:16.600 But I think that deadbeat dads are a myth because I think that it's not the men not wanting to be a part of their kids' lives.
00:11:23.360 It's more the women not letting the dads be a part of their lives, more so than men not wanting to.
00:11:29.320 And he often pays $30,000 to $40,000 to have his own child, free and clear, that he can raise in any which way he wants.
00:11:36.360 What's also really unfortunate today is that many men get married.
00:11:39.760 And now that they're married, just now do they realize that they've gotten married and have kids and are effectively MGTOWs. 0.92
00:11:45.700 They see the benefit to it, but they're stuck in the relationship.
00:11:48.620 This issue of being a closeted MGTOW is one that many of my listeners face.
00:11:52.640 Other men get married because they like to play a game called Captain Save-A-Ho.
00:11:56.880 They want to rescue women... 1.00
00:11:58.040 Oh, that's funny.
00:12:00.660 Okay.
00:12:01.060 ...by paying off their student loans, buying them a nice home and furnishing it, as well as spoiling them rotten like princesses. 0.95
00:12:06.820 Yet many of the women they tend to rescue are used up slugs that have been riding the carousel for most of their lives. 1.00
00:12:12.580 He's kind of funny, isn't he?
00:12:15.280 ...to date bad boys and jerks instead of good, loving, supportive, and good-hearted men.
00:12:20.020 Many men can't even get dates or relationships these days because they seem to be unattractive to women, and women have no interest in dating them and having sex with them. 0.54
00:12:27.760 But it's much harder for unattractive men than it is for unattractive women.
00:12:30.960 And men that are incapable of getting dates and getting into relationships are often called TFLers or True Force Loneliness type of guys.
00:12:38.260 Many of them are bitter because they cannot get female attention, and many of them focus on conspiracy theories instead, as a hobby.
00:12:45.060 Some men go overseas and look for foreign brides to marry, and this too is a bad idea because female nature is the same everywhere around the world. 0.99
00:12:52.600 Bringing a foreign bride back to a Western country ensures that in many cases that she will leave you. 1.00
00:12:57.040 Many times foreign women are marrying foreign men just to get a new passport, and once they enter this new country, they find more attractive males.
00:13:04.000 If she left the country of her own origin behind, what makes you think that she won't leave you behind? 0.95
00:13:08.720 Was that a good point? Like, that was kind of a good point.
00:13:12.900 I mean, most of the time, passport bros leave their wives there. 0.99
00:13:15.740 No, I've seen a couple that brought them back. If she'll leave her country behind. I never thought about it that way. That's kind of a good point. That's kind of a good point. 0.73
00:13:22.980 Another possible solution for men looking for love are synthetic lovers. In Japan, people pay for affection, conversation, sex, and often each of their needs are met in a service type of setting. 0.84
00:13:34.380 But some men are not content doing this and choose to search for NWALT. NWALT stands for Not All Women Are Like That. And apparently there's a...
00:13:41.380 Okay. Okay. I swear. I swear. I used to... I feel like I've probably said that at some point, but it's the most annoying complaint to me.
00:13:51.860 Well, not all women, but okay. And I was looking at the virginity rates from a hundred years ago.
00:13:56.700 Like what percent of women admitted to having premarital sex? And it was only like, I think 15. It was less than 30%.
00:14:04.560 Because I think I said it was 15%. And let's say women lie, right? Women lie. So let's double it. Let's say we're going to double it. 30%. 1.00
00:14:11.100 That means two out of three women, I mean slightly more, were virgins of their wedding night. So you could say, well, not all women are like that. Not all women have OnlyFans.
00:14:19.020 That's true. But it's like you're taking away from the point, which is to be honest, ladies, we don't really bring a lot to the table nowadays.
00:14:26.480 Just as a group. Like you can, you could say, well, I'm the best player on my team, but you're still on the losing team.
00:14:35.460 You're still on the team that's bringing down society.
00:14:38.800 A whole number of women that are not into marrying men for their money and resources as their primary motivator. 0.97
00:14:44.260 But they genuinely care about men. Such a woman is rare and often like a purple squirrel or a unicorn. 1.00
00:14:50.000 But sometimes a man that goes after women constantly gets friendzoned.
00:14:52.940 The friendzone is a place where a man becomes a utility for a woman, but gains no sexual favors, pleasures, or a relationship in return for the friendship that he provides a woman.
00:15:02.560 And even if he does marry her, she will tire of him almost certainly in her 30s.
00:15:06.760 And she will say things like, not tonight, honey, and deny him sexual release and possibly use that as a way to control him. 0.99
00:15:13.000 But the truth of the matter is that what is happening today has ultimately been caused by men's ingenuity.
00:15:17.800 Without the oil to run our economy, women would not have all of the benefits of cheap food and tons of leisure time. 1.00
00:15:23.960 Men have released the oil genie out of the bottle, and some male functions have become obsolete because of it. 0.52
00:15:29.140 Women are also using new communications technologies like smartphones and computers to increase their pool of available men. 0.91
00:15:35.740 So in turn, they're getting...
00:15:36.800 That guy's smart.
00:15:37.640 So he's basically saying that men created this society and invented all this stuff for women to have a better life.
00:15:45.820 And basically, okay, okay.
00:15:47.660 Hear about the types of men that they date.
00:15:49.600 Modern technology means that women can keep searching for a better man, even when they have one at home. 0.98
00:15:54.220 It's just good enough for now.
00:15:55.720 And I want to close this video by talking about the true nature of women. 0.99
00:15:58.840 Women cower and hide under their beds in a real emergency. 1.00
00:16:01.840 And last Christmas, the power in my city went out for a few days due to a giant ice storm.
00:16:06.300 And most of the women were inside of their homes or at the shopping mall, while the men were out in the cold working to restore power.
00:16:12.660 Without men, civilization would collapse. 0.68
00:16:14.880 Yet somehow, women think that they no longer need men and that men are obsolete. 0.99
00:16:18.720 That is true.
00:16:20.420 That is so true.
00:16:22.080 When I hate women's empowerment, I hate it. 1.00
00:16:25.080 It's the stupid...
00:16:25.800 If you want to go...
00:16:26.660 Okay, let's talk real women's empowerment. 1.00
00:16:29.180 Go be an electrician.
00:16:30.760 That's empowering.
00:16:31.840 Oh, no, I don't want to do that.
00:16:33.020 I just want my boss babe CEO position because I've watched all these movies and these girls have these boss babe and it's just so... 1.00
00:16:38.780 Diana.
00:16:39.540 But, but, that's true.
00:16:41.320 Men have built up society for women to shit on them as a thank you, in a way. 0.94
00:16:45.920 Well, that does it for my introduction to MGTOW.
00:16:48.380 I've added about 25 videos in the description below.
00:16:51.140 That's so interesting.
00:16:51.940 He was kind of making points, wasn't he?
00:16:53.560 A little bit.
00:16:54.080 The passport bros thing. 0.91
00:16:55.560 If she'll leave her country, what makes her think, makes you think that she wouldn't leave you?
00:17:01.060 Let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:17:03.180 Like the video on your way out.
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