JustPearlyThings - Pearl Gives A Heart Warming Speech On Masculinity

00:00:00.000 money you got to look good you got to act good you got to dress good you got to treat women right

00:00:03.500 you got to be a badass like you got to work your way up in society whereas women it's just like 1.00

00:00:08.160 you can just be 20 and pretty and the world's your oyster so by by men's standards starting

00:00:14.900 from nothing doing nothing you've actually become special because you put in the work

00:00:19.220 doesn't work and success and status what is what makes you special uh i mean maybe on the internet

00:00:27.040 i i not really in like it depends from what point of view you're gonna talk about like from dating

00:00:33.980 no i don't think guys really care about that but got it um i would say in work sure but i don't know

00:00:42.640 adam i would even say that most men are more special amazing and awesome than women because

00:00:48.240 when i look at it i look at value added to society men do the infrastructure jobs they pay a hundred

00:00:54.000 thousand dollars more in tax in a lifetime than women men add more value to society than women do 1.00

00:00:59.660 and women are just you know they're given handout after handout after handout and then on top of 1.00

00:01:05.620 that told their special amazing and awesome at the end of it so i'm i'm digesting this yeah because

00:01:10.700 i'm a man yeah i kind of think i'm dope so i want to give you a stat to back this up 45 percent of men

00:01:16.620 do infrastructure jobs these are jobs that we need to run society so a lot of times like what i see in

00:01:22.040 this space is they basically say you need to become a one percent guy in order to get women 0.62

00:01:26.960 you need to build yourself up do all this stuff but we cannot do what we do without the men that

00:01:31.460 build these microphones in the factories we cannot do what we do without the average men that run 1.00

00:01:36.200 society and you know not everybody is going to be a one percent five percent but the truth of the

00:01:42.580 matter is men add value to society by running the infrastructure only seven percent of women do the 0.99

00:01:48.500 same thing um then you could look at value added um in terms of you could look at it in terms of

00:01:56.380 protection right what what percent of women are really protecting society so you're like what so 1.00

00:02:02.500 do you count female cops i don't even count them i hope you don't get pulled over by a female cop 1.00

00:02:07.920 when you leave here i don't even count but i will say this and i'll validate essentially what you're

00:02:11.380 saying for the longest time men the hard-working men that built our society industrial revolution

00:02:17.480 whether it's the you know construction worker the plumber the electrician the warrior the military 0.57

00:02:24.960 the you know hvac guy any guy that's busting his ass in the labor the guy who's working in the garden 0.71

00:02:31.360 the guy who's working in the field the lawnmower like these are tough jobs but as as technology has

00:02:37.620 advanced uh more people have gone from blue-collar jobs to white-collar jobs now more men are like

00:02:44.960 you know we have editors we have graphic designers we have tech guys we have people that sit behind

00:02:49.580 computers all day the the ability to build machines to to you know our ai have basically made some of

00:02:57.720 those jobs obsolete but i will say this to your point um most women because most 60 percent of 1.00

00:03:03.500 college students these days are women it used to be the other way around 60 percent men 40 percent 0.60

00:03:09.040 women and now it's flipped there is sort of a stigma in society you can speak to this whereas a college 1.00

00:03:16.120 educated woman even if she makes less than the plumber than the um hvac guy whatever it is the the the guy 1.00

00:03:25.420 that's working on the toilets whatever it is she will look down on that man because he's not a college

00:03:30.360 degree or college doesn't have a college degree or college graduate and she would basically hypergamy uh 1.00

00:03:36.200 you know deep-seated stuff will look at him as lesser where i think essentially what you're saying

00:03:41.700 is those are the men who have built society they deserve respect you feel like those men are being

00:03:45.820 disrespected and pushed aside and looked over by modern women i think they're disrespected by women 0.98

00:03:51.240 and men to be honest like i i hear a lot of disrespect in this space like towards the average you know

00:03:56.680 calling them broke saying they don't make enough money when it's like really none of the influencers

00:04:01.660 could do what we do without the average men that build society and run society and you even said

00:04:06.700 like you know there is still a large percentage of men that do work in factories um i think the number

00:04:12.160 one employment of men in the in the country is truckers yeah that's true that's the number one

00:04:17.440 employment of men and it's like those guys deserve respect and they add more value to society than

00:04:23.220 women do in 2023 i would also argue that there's a bunch of useless jobs that have been put into the 1.00

00:04:28.660 workforce um basically that are subsidized by men's money i'm going to give you an example

00:04:34.040 um the wnba is completely subsidized by the men oh we can talk about this i'm gonna i'm gonna have a

00:04:41.980 point though yeah and basically what happened is the women will cry and whine and say give me more 1.00

00:04:46.580 money give me more money and they keep getting more money more benefits everything right even though

00:04:51.500 they do not offer value i mean no one's really watching the games no one's really going um it would be a

00:04:57.500 net i mean even i i did college sports but all of college sports would operate at a loss right i think

00:05:03.600 that happens in society all the time i think it happens in human resources i think human resources

00:05:08.660 would disappear tomorrow if women were not in the workforce the other thing i think that it would 1.00

00:05:13.060 happen in is a lot of tech companies you saw the before and after of twitter right but what you saw

00:05:20.140 the before have you seen those pictures like before and after like elon fired all those people in

00:05:24.940 twitter you yeah of course when he came in there with the uh all the women all the women were gone

00:05:29.340 because when when when the rubber hit the road and they needed the people that were actually gonna do

00:05:34.240 work it was not majority women there was a couple women that made it but it was not majority women

00:05:39.240 i think that happens everywhere in society so women uh education jobs yeah we had your friend nick

00:05:46.260 fuentes on right um and he was adamant women should not go to college period they do not should not go

00:05:53.580 to college with the maybe the exception of certain people that are going into stem medicine law but he's

00:05:58.480 basically an advocate for that you went to college but what do you think should should women go to 0.97

00:06:02.940 college i mean it didn't really help me with much i i played sports so i really enjoyed college sports

00:06:09.600 um but no i mean it's not it didn't help me in the workforce it didn't really do much for me i would say

00:06:16.700 and i and i studied economics i actually had a real degree so so i guess my the the conversation i'm

00:06:22.020 looking for is college overall has become watered down it's become uh sort of pointless to many extent

00:06:28.880 uh college uh debt is out of control it doesn't offer as much value it used to to offer yeah you're not

00:06:35.440 necessarily unique if you go to the four-year university and you graduate hey i'm college

00:06:39.260 you're not guaranteed a job yeah but should women specifically not go to college i would say most 1.00

00:06:46.060 women shouldn't you know what women would what women would you suggest to go um 1.00

00:06:51.860 i'm engineering is probably a good degree you know i don't think most women want to do it but 1.00

00:06:58.880 this is the stem field that i was talking about science technology engineers you know got it um

00:07:05.020 what about work should women go back to the pre-1950s and just stay at home cook clean mother 1.00

00:07:13.160 raise the kids not go to uh it's so it's so interesting when you look at history and you

00:07:19.100 like it's actually like hilarious i think it's so funny when i hear these chicks talk about oh 1.00

00:07:24.620 i miss the days when we just got to stay home and not work it's like bitch what do you think the 1800s 1.00

00:07:30.140 were like what do you do your life was easier when you were working on a farm um so you know i i think 0.90

00:07:38.100 that women should listen to their husbands you know i i know women that do work and they work for

00:07:43.920 their husbands i i think it depends on every family's financial situation so what i think i think

00:07:49.680 it's better if the women can stay home not every family can afford to do that you know but well look i 1.00

00:07:54.940 can kind of agree with you on the whole listening to the husband thing but that's not the point what

00:07:58.680 happens before they have a husband though like i mean you have to eat like so what should they do

00:08:03.820 for money if they don't work or go to college or anything like that like walk me through the logic

00:08:07.780 like yeah college is useless don't do it but you still need to work but maybe you're well she's 22 0.99

00:08:13.740 years old she's smart ready to get married she's smart or stupid well what are most women well 1.00

00:08:18.860 um okay well if i was gonna tell like a 22 year old i mean i would get a job where where you would 1.00

00:08:26.540 want to meet your husband that's what i would say so if you want to date a doctor you know you work as

00:08:31.480 an assistant at like a medical clinic so you should go to i mean i'm not saying you should i would say

00:08:37.500 it really depends on the person so i'm not really into like broad advice but no but this is important

00:08:43.360 because i have a lot of conversations with women about this because i actually have a very unique

00:08:47.780 perspective on this pearl because you know in my old age of 40 plus 42 uh i see women that have 1.00

00:08:55.060 focused on their careers so much right and have done all the high body count travel living it up

00:09:01.240 beautiful women yeah who are now 38 40 42 44 still single and my advice to them is yeah you probably 1.00

00:09:09.400 should have prioritized a man marriage if that's what you want which many women do right um but at the 1.00

00:09:16.320 same time i also give that advice to a 22 year old and what's their what's their first thing they

00:09:21.800 say i don't want to get married right now i want to live my life i want to do these things so how do

00:09:26.380 you give this knowledge to a young 22 year old girl who's like what are you telling my mom told me

00:09:32.140 i should not rely on a man i need to make my own money i need to get a degree i don't care what you

00:09:37.420 say pearl i'm listening to my mom i'm not trying to get married at 22 years old like if you were having

00:09:43.060 that conversation what you do with plenty of women how would you basically get on their level to 1.00

00:09:47.040 basically see what you're saying oh i don't i say if you want to do that go do it have fun

00:09:51.800 okay like i'm not yeah do you warn them of what the future would look like well yeah i mean i can

00:09:58.240 go through the antidepressant stats like the women over the age of 45 that are on antidepressants um you

00:10:04.060 can go through the single childless women statistics but you know i'm not in the business of forcing

00:10:10.560 people to live one way or another got it you know you know i can't speak in more general i can't

00:10:15.920 really like put a gun to her head well let's let's have some fun let's put a gun okay to natalia's 1.00

00:10:22.720 head natalia is 26 years old okay she's an attractive girl okay you guys are similar age she went to 0.99

00:10:31.500 college uh she comes from a good family um she works she works at value attainment she's moving up

00:10:38.860 uh for someone like her specifically you know if you could if dr pearl put on her medical hat 0.98

00:10:46.320 what would you tell us what would you tell nat well what what outcome do you want

00:10:51.400 um this is a place that i'm gonna find my career and i probably will meet somebody along the way

00:10:58.100 and i probably have met someone so but yeah okay she seems yeah she's good that's it that's how this

00:11:04.860 works that just nat whispers an answer and you agree with it yeah sure that that did not sound

00:11:09.940 convincing by either of you right now now the men are fighting with the women so now what are you

00:11:14.140 solving for i mean long term this is a company that i want to build you know it's a company of

00:11:18.920 opportunity um and i know along the way there'll be a lot of people i will meet and i will probably

00:11:25.400 find who i'm looking for along the way so i am working for so i think this is important because you

00:11:30.360 you you know in in you know some people say you know this isn't advice but it kind of is but it's

00:11:36.600 you know kind of i don't know but at the end of the day we're all kind of giving opinions which could

00:11:40.380 be perceived as advice if you met a guy that you really liked would you prioritize that um yeah that

00:11:46.500 would be have to be my priority that's going to be my next chapter in my personal life so that's an

00:11:50.600 area that i do have to give time and attention okay so knowing female nature you're a woman you know 1.00

00:11:56.920 you know female nature what age you think most women even start thinking about actually settling 1.00

00:12:03.220 down having kids getting married all that stuff i would say after 25 in modern day yeah i think

00:12:08.960 that's fair i think that's fair i see a lot of women that get the 30 itch and then oh my god 1.00

JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023

Pearl Gives A Heart Warming Speech On Masculinity

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