JustPearlyThings - August 24, 2023


Pearl Gives Boss Babe A Reality Check


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

181.45985

Word count

2,041

Sentence count

4

Harmful content

Misogyny

32

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss how old is too old to be beautiful and why old people aren t as beautiful as they used to be. We also discuss the age old question of if you should date someone older than you or younger than you.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah I just want to show them like I just want her picture that's all I want
00:00:06.120 on the screen like I'm not gonna play it the one we were watching before it can
00:00:11.880 be the second one too if you want I just want her picture the girl okay you see
00:00:21.300 how old do you guys think she is terrible I'm blushing that's me getting
00:00:26.640 old ladies are actually actually first first I want to say what do you rank that 1.00
00:00:29.760 girl one to ten I think she's really pretty okay I think she'll be like an 0.99
00:00:36.420 eight and yeah ages was hindering her but yeah you tell she's an older lady but 1.00
00:00:41.040 she's very attractive I wanna I want to hear from the guy what do you rate her 0.99
00:00:44.820 one to ten actually I want to hear from you can every guy zoom in okay wait wait
00:00:49.560 actually wait wait mmm I'm gonna have all the girls right here and then I'm gonna 1.00
00:00:52.500 have the guys reader so you said eight does anyone think she's lower than an 0.99
00:00:55.560 eight I still can't see her face can you zoom it in well obviously basing it
00:00:59.520 purely on just her face right yeah you guys saw her earlier right in the other
00:01:04.020 video play it for a second just so they can see your face 50,000 plus comments
00:01:09.300 posted on social I only saw a handful that even considered the possibility of a
00:01:15.180 bus owner being a more aspirational position and recognizing that I am
00:01:19.980 actually speaking and you can pause it okay so one one to ten no I'm gonna I'm
00:01:24.780 gonna say I'm gonna say seven seven okay I'm so sorry I literally cannot see her
00:01:29.800 face yeah can you zoom in King or can you Google her maybe let's see I think it's in
00:01:40.720 the title e e bonnie Williams e bonnie K what I'm sorry if I said that wrong I
00:01:54.040 I don't pronounce names well okay lesson can you move for a sec can you zoom in at all
00:02:15.040 okay oh here we go be able to all right can you guys see her now yeah I'd say seven okay I'd say
00:02:29.320 like a solid seven there okay all right what do you think I would say an eight eight okay what do
00:02:34.600 you think seven okay no no no not guys yet you I said the seven seven I still can't see but I think
00:02:42.880 she's really cute she's got a cute face cute nose yeah I'd say maybe eight yeah eight okay I'll say
00:02:48.340 about eight yeah eight having seven seven okay so that can say I think there's more eight than
00:02:53.860 this like 7.5 is the average okay what do you what do you rate her this just 1.00
00:02:58.920 appearance wise yeah yeah appearance nice seven back in the day she probably was 1.00
00:03:03.620 like a nine okay seven King what do you rate her come on six six okay what do you 1.00
00:03:12.460 guys rate her six six okay so the guy say six they're mostly six six point two so what do you rate her well
00:03:22.960 hmm so how old do you guys think she is I think she's probably about 40 but she looks a bit younger yeah so 0.67
00:03:40.260 she's 39 so because she's 39 I'd say she's like a five yes so what you really think she's a five when
00:03:58.260 you look at her yeah if she was 20 what would you rate her eight but she's not 20 she's 40 that's not based on
00:04:08.920 her looks and that's based on her age but I think purely based on her picture well I think she looks
00:04:13.360 old what's like the younger that you go the higher you'd rate her yeah so basically old people are not
00:04:23.360 cutie old people can't be beautiful oh people can't go above five no no no no no old women 1.00
00:04:32.840 can't go old women are not as cute yeah old men and men age like wine women age like this is like
00:04:40.120 so this is the thing women insert exception this one woman that looks good it's like come on but if 1.00
00:04:59.560 most of the people in the room would rate her a seven into eight and it's only you that's rated her five
00:05:04.540 doesn't make a pretty hot most of the men rated her six so mine's slightly lower than so like six 0.99
00:05:10.120 that's above five so wouldn't she be above average or pretty since most of us if we're speaking on a 0.97
00:05:15.100 general sense yeah I mean you could you could say six but like that's not that different than a five
00:05:19.900 I just think when you're 40 it's like minus a point I think there's like your looks and then you lose a
00:05:23.800 point when you're old that's that's what I think is it something like like as women like we're all pretty
00:05:29.260 similar ages but is it something like as women like we're aware of feeling like less beautiful
00:05:34.120 as we get older like yeah do you guys think you're getting prettier the older you get no
00:05:39.580 39 you probably can't really have children like what can you really like provide as a woman if you 0.99
00:05:48.520 can't make babies yeah but then looks brings an age so when you see what if you're 20 and you look old
00:05:56.260 because I've seen that a lot yeah or if you're 40 and you look yeah yeah because I've seen that just
00:06:02.800 and I look younger as I've got older actually I mean we can we can talk about exceptions or we can talk
00:06:07.240 about the rule like most people look their age you know but yeah so my question is what does a 39 year
00:06:15.920 old single woman why does she feel comfortable shitting on a bus driver I think because when the men say 1.00
00:06:25.600 she's a six roughly and she kids is out the window so I mean because like as a guy I'm assuming right
00:06:33.940 and you guys can tell me if I'm wrong you're gonna go down a point in terms of marketability to you
00:06:37.900 because she can't have kids yeah yeah I thought um and the relationship because the person was a few 0.98
00:06:43.420 years older than me and I knew that there was gonna be a future there by time I was ready she
00:06:47.360 wasn't gonna be ready yeah I mean so it's definitely a factor yeah so why why are we in a society where an
00:06:52.960 average chick is shitting on average men because we're making more I think the reason why she can say that 1.00
00:06:58.300 is because obviously she's in an established position so hence why like you said women always go for men that 1.00
00:07:03.520 are doing better than them so definitely a bus driver would be her down downgrading herself 0.99
00:07:08.800 yeah I understand the age factor but at the end of the day she's successful so she should deserve to go for 0.98
00:07:13.880 someone that's more successful than her yeah she's allowed to say that see I disagree I think it's like what
00:07:19.420 what is your marketability to men so so you can you can go after the men that make more than you but I 0.65
00:07:24.600 think that's a recipe to die alone if you can't get the men that make more than you then you have to
00:07:28.200 go down and you have to respect him but then the relationship's not gonna work because she's with 1.00
00:07:32.760 someone that's broker than her like any guy who is broker than you broke men are so sad and depressed
00:07:38.820 and dangerous like she's gonna be in an unhappy relationship an average like a bus driver like
00:07:43.700 he's broke he's not broke but my point but see this this is the problem with our mentality as
00:07:50.400 women we care more about the lifestyle than the family because all we're thinking about is the 1.00
00:07:55.240 money well he's broker than me but I feel like we are what percent what percent of women are gonna 0.99
00:07:59.280 give up their careers for a family what percent of women are gonna give up their lifestyles for a 1.00
00:08:03.800 family I think him being a bus driver sorry I think him being a bus driver that will contribute to the
00:08:09.440 the family aspect because if a man is making less than the girl and can't provide he's gonna feel
00:08:15.260 inferior so therefore the marriage is eventually gonna break down I don't think that I think it's
00:08:20.240 more that the woman makes me honestly like I've gone for guys that make less than me but it's like if
00:08:29.660 you don't treat them like they do they like they don't feel it yeah and it's like if you're not
00:08:35.520 super snotty and asking for like all these crazy shit as entitled to their preference of like what 0.68
00:08:41.120 they want and like correct everyone's entitled for what they want but it's a recipe to die alone
00:08:46.020 like this is what would you rather be have a bunch of money and be by yourself or have a family but what
00:08:51.400 does she do like is she just to present all the shows like a newscaster and it's and it's funny because
00:08:56.140 her job is completely like you don't society doesn't need it to run so it's like I don't
00:09:00.560 understand as women why we come off thinking we're so much better than the men when our jobs aren't
00:09:05.140 even needed in society to run like a bus driver the society needs to run I think with hers maybe 1.00
00:09:10.840 hers like desire for like not even desire sorry maybe her like disregard for a bus driver probably 0.93
00:09:17.900 just stems from the fact that maybe this was her ambition like you know how you said your end goal is
00:09:21.620 to like marriage and kids I think that's maybe most girls is end goal maybe she her dream was 1.00
00:09:26.300 to be a presenter or a news report or something like that and she's clearly 39 no kids no man
00:09:32.180 like I think she's sacrificed she's made sacrifices to be in a position like if this was her end goal
00:09:38.360 then she's clearly sacrificed a lot like 40 years of work maybe like to get into this position so I 1.00
00:09:43.620 wouldn't blame like if that was really the angle I wouldn't blame her for disregarding a bus driver 1.00
00:09:48.140 because it's like she's 40 with no kids like why would she go back I think if you're a woman and 0.99
00:09:53.580 like that's the position you choose to put yourself in you have to date down and be happy with it I
00:09:58.640 don't think like because otherwise don't put yourself in that position because what what percent of men
00:10:03.320 like make six figures so maybe I'm so sorry maybe she's not um like shitting on the the salary I think
00:10:14.580 just in the word itself bus driver sounds like manual labor it sounds like I don't want to date
00:10:20.100 what's wrong with manual labor no but that's the thing is like bus drivers like this is what I'm
00:10:24.160 saying is like I've seen a bus so many times like I 15 pounds like if I went on indeed and saw 15 pound
00:10:30.880 an hour job I would not mind but it's something about driving a big red bus for me personally I just
00:10:36.540 find it I wouldn't even say embarrassing because there's people who drive buses but if I'm a news
00:10:41.340 reporter and you'll hop like there's people like tap in the oyster car the school kids at 3 p.m. on
00:10:46.720 your bus and I'm here reporting globally like oh my gosh the king's been coronated and my man is
00:10:51.400 driving kids from school so like what it's like get off your high horse you talk I talk for a living
00:10:56.600 you're just talking but this is what I'm saying I don't think I don't think it's actually like the
00:11:01.200 way I personally think is just the position because if you said it's 15 an hour like a musician maybe
00:11:05.920 it might I know and I think that's the problem is average women like shit on average men and we act 1.00
00:11:12.900 like we're better than them when we're not