Pearl Goes On A Rant On Modern Marriage
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about why men should be extremely cautious when it comes to getting married and why politicians need to stop pushing men to get married if they don t want to have kids. I also talk about a woman who accused her ex of cheating on her on a date.
Transcript
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When I look at divorce rates, it seems to be roughly, at the lowest I've seen, 20%.
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Isn't that a big enough percentage that men should be extremely cautious when it comes to marriage?
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Yet you still see conservative personalities saying to just blindly marry young, go get married.
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You're not a real man if you don't get married.
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And let's see what the comments say when talking about this story.
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So what's the point of getting married if I got to pay for my ex after a divorce?
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And this is the conclusion that many men are going to come to.
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It doesn't matter what any other red pill or conservative commentator says.
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And it's much easier to have a nice sell where you can sound good to everybody and do the marriage and family trope.
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But is it really nice when you're sending at least we can agree 5% to 10% of men onto basically suicide, really a suicide mission?
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You know, all you're doing is sending the next generation of men to the cleaners, which is why it's so important that we change and reform divorce laws.
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This needs to be the number one thing that all political commentators are talking about.
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This needs to be the number one agenda to politicians.
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The truth of the matter is men have more power than they realize and they think.
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Politicians need men to run society and men need to start demanding from politicians that they change some of these policies and make them more fair.
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I don't know if that means eliminating no-fault divorce.
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It could mean giving men automatic custody of children.
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It could mean making some of the alimony and child support payments more fair or even getting rid of them altogether.
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Maybe it's something the right and the left can come together on.
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But the point of the matter is the way that we're doing marriage today is not marriage and it's not fair to men.
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And until we make it more fair, I will never shame a guy for not wanting to sign up.
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In fact, I would say to be extremely cautious when signing up for that system.
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And the pushback I always get is, Pearl, don't you want to get married?
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Well, I think most women have every incentive to want to get married.
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I think marriage is a good thing for women, but it's a terrible thing for men in 2023.
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But until the institutions change, I see no indication that the women are going to get better and do the right thing.
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So knowing that the women are getting worse and there's going to be more and more women that do the wrong thing,
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isn't it a little bit irresponsible to push men into a system that royally fucks them?
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I think that this power has actually made women worse.
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And I always say the media becomes real life soon enough.
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So you might see a clip here or there and think those are just crazy ladies.
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Well, they're crazy ladies until the crazy ladies start coming out to the suburbs.
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Until the crazy ladies start coming out to the country, they go to school with your kids.
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And until these systems change, really, you're just going to keep seeing more and more of the craziness.
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I think this clip is a couple years old, but I wanted to show you something that we can learn from it.
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There's a woman that accuses a man of cheating and the other woman owns up to lying.
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Trusting the person and not paying somebody to see if they would cheat.
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She literally told me that you took her out to eat.
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She's a client and after we were working out, we got food, which was across the street.
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So I pretty much told her that he took me to this really fancy restaurant and afterwards,
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And that he came on to you in the car and you guys were kissing?
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I didn't think that she deserved you, so I lied.
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And look, so this is why I just think that women shouldn't really worry about cheating.
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I think if a guy's going to cheat, he's going to cheat.
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I don't really think if a guy cheats, that means he doesn't love you.
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But what you get with women being told they need to worry about cheating all the time,
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where we're just constantly pandered to and told them men are these dogs, they're always
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going to be up to nonsense, is you have women doing crazier and crazier things to catch men
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And honestly, I think if you bait a guy into cheating, you honestly deserve to get cheated
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And I thought this was especially hilarious because that other girl, she kind of clocked
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It's actually insane to get a girl to try to get your guy to cheat.
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You know, they would rather just stay out of all of that.