JustPearlyThings - May 05, 2023


Pearl Got Sick And Tired Of This Simp’s Nonsense


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10 minutes

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233.54773

Word count

2,457

Sentence count

307

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Misogyny

32

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Hate speech

36

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In this episode, the guys debate if a woman who has slept with 200 men would be better than a man who s slept with 80 women. The guys also debate if being a virgin is better than being in a relationship with a woman that s not a virgin.

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00:00:00.000 Hold on, hold on. There's a point that, an interesting point that I think that everybody skipped over.
00:00:03.700 Nobody commented on it.
00:00:06.080 She said the fact that if a man slept with 80 people, that you might be the one. 0.81
00:00:11.920 You should think about it.
00:00:12.920 I swear he was agreeing with that, bro.
00:00:14.300 Hold on. What did Pearl say in the beginning? No, I did not agree with that.
00:00:18.440 The beginning of the show, Pearl said, oh, if a guy slept with 200 guys,
00:00:21.980 I wouldn't think that he'd be willing to settle down for me.
00:00:24.580 You see the mentality difference.
00:00:26.200 When a woman slept with 200 bodies, she's looking like, oh, the man should be like, 1.00
00:00:30.000 okay, well, he should believe that I'm ready to settle down because he's that special and he's that one.
00:00:34.540 But the woman's perspective from Pearl was, if a man slept with 200 bodies,
00:00:38.680 I don't think he'd be willing to settle down.
00:00:40.220 So you see the mentality difference and how it matters.
00:00:43.480 Everybody skipped over that fact.
00:00:45.280 That's very true.
00:00:45.940 But it doesn't repulse me.
00:00:47.540 Like the same way, when guys hear a high body count in general, it repulses them.
00:00:52.740 And you all know that innately because most of you said you've lied about it at some point.
00:00:56.920 I think.
00:00:57.500 Wait, wait, wait.
00:00:58.320 And so, but for me, it's like, it doesn't repulse me.
00:01:01.720 I'm just like, the odds are not in my favor.
00:01:03.780 But you don't.
00:01:04.760 But it's the new norm.
00:01:05.740 But pro.
00:01:06.160 Yeah.
00:01:06.480 I'm talking about the expectation.
00:01:08.380 Right.
00:01:08.780 A girl that slept with 80 guys. 1.00
00:01:10.880 Oh, I see what you're saying.
00:01:12.360 Like Bergen's talking about.
00:01:13.160 Yeah, yeah, you're saying.
00:01:13.620 A hundred guys.
00:01:14.200 Because the expectation is he should understand that I'm giving my attention and my loyalty,
00:01:20.760 my sexual exclusivity to him.
00:01:23.120 And by doing that, he should understand that he's the one.
00:01:26.720 But from a woman's perspective, I don't think it would, like you said, from your perspective,
00:01:30.360 I don't think that it's the same.
00:01:31.660 It's a complete difference.
00:01:33.360 Mm-hmm.
00:01:33.900 Mm-hmm.
00:01:34.980 I'm curious.
00:01:35.980 What?
00:01:36.140 My daughter understands what you just said, bro.
00:01:37.800 Do you know what?
00:01:38.240 If I'm with a girl.
00:01:38.940 I do not understand what I just said.
00:01:39.900 If I'm with a girl and she's slept with 200 men and she's, let's say, loose like that. 1.00
00:01:43.840 It could be whatever it is.
00:01:44.580 But when she's with me, it's completely different.
00:01:47.580 Why?
00:01:48.460 But why?
00:01:48.960 Because she would respect the love that she has for me and it'll be different.
00:01:52.520 That's how it works.
00:01:53.460 It's not how it works.
00:01:54.760 That's how it works.
00:01:54.800 All right, man.
00:01:55.100 If you're going to judge a girl because of my... 0.87
00:01:58.220 Tell me what kind of people you want to get married.
00:01:59.840 Let's see how it work out if you don't get divorced. 1.00
00:02:01.080 I'll be surprised.
00:02:02.140 I'll be surprised if you don't get a divorce, bro.
00:02:04.540 I'm just being real.
00:02:05.480 Go with a girl that has 200 bodies, bro. 1.00
00:02:07.100 Be with a girl that's a virgin and we will see what happens. 0.99
00:02:10.060 I'm just being real.
00:02:11.420 What's going to possibly happen if I'm a virgin, bro?
00:02:12.900 What's going to possibly happen?
00:02:13.820 There's a few things...
00:02:14.560 What could possibly happen if I get married to a virgin?
00:02:16.580 It doesn't make a person, though.
00:02:18.820 Whether a girl's a virgin or not makes who they are. 0.76
00:02:21.040 That's completely false.
00:02:23.160 That's completely false.
00:02:24.440 That makes who they are.
00:02:25.500 That's what you are saying.
00:02:26.800 That's what you're saying, though.
00:02:27.800 Do you know what baffles me about you?
00:02:28.940 It's like I could give you numbers on it.
00:02:31.780 Wait.
00:02:32.680 Wait.
00:02:33.140 You, you, wait.
00:02:34.200 It's like I could give you numbers on it that say virgins are better choices for wives. 1.00
00:02:40.340 Virgins have worse outcomes. 1.00
00:02:42.980 And there are multiple studies from different places around the world.
00:02:47.160 And you still have the same opinion.
00:02:48.820 It's like weird to me.
00:02:50.280 No, I think you could find statistics anywhere, personally.
00:02:53.640 And I think at the end of the day, when it comes to real life, every situation is different.
00:02:59.380 And we can all agree on that.
00:03:01.300 Stop.
00:03:01.820 Just anecdotally.
00:03:02.960 You know that the women that sleep with more people, you know they don't have happy relationships. 1.00
00:03:09.780 I don't think you can say that.
00:03:11.200 And this is why I think like men like you, to be honest, like respectfully, but it's like you lie to women.
00:03:17.580 How?
00:03:17.740 And you act like because, because you guys always do this.
00:03:21.100 You say you don't care, but the woman you guys pick is never that.
00:03:24.640 You guys don't pick whores. 1.00
00:03:25.800 You guys don't pick whores. 1.00
00:03:26.640 That's you just assuming.
00:03:28.180 No, because I see it happen.
00:03:29.720 It is you just assuming.
00:03:30.660 I see it happen in real life.
00:03:31.720 It's you assuming.
00:03:32.520 Let my man here pick a skirt, get married to have kids of her, and let's see how it ends up. 1.00
00:03:37.500 I think the fact that he's using the term of skirt is already, it's already your class with your answer.
00:03:42.420 Listen, listen, listen.
00:03:43.000 So I think.
00:03:43.740 Is that a British term?
00:03:44.540 I don't actually know what that means.
00:03:45.500 It means someone's a hoe. 1.00
00:03:46.560 It means someone's a hoe. 1.00
00:03:46.820 He said I should pick a hoe. 1.00
00:03:48.860 Listen, bro.
00:03:49.540 Listen for one time, bro.
00:03:50.840 No.
00:03:51.420 When I say skirt, I mean a hoe. 1.00
00:03:54.120 Do you understand?
00:03:54.880 So you're basically saying that I'm a hoe.
00:03:57.520 Pretty much.
00:03:58.280 Pretty much.
00:03:58.980 He is.
00:03:59.460 But you are.
00:04:00.180 No, no, no.
00:04:00.600 You just want to say it.
00:04:01.640 And that's what I don't agree with.
00:04:02.420 You're right in the face.
00:04:03.400 Say it.
00:04:04.000 Listen, bro.
00:04:05.400 Listen.
00:04:05.800 Listen, what I mean by a skirt is, yeah, a girl, a guy that sleeps with a lot of girls. 0.97
00:04:11.800 Do you understand?
00:04:13.300 No, a girl that sleeps with a lot of guys, that's a skirt. 1.00
00:04:15.560 Do you understand?
00:04:15.680 So what if the guy, so say it's the other way around then, and the guy sleeps over with
00:04:20.160 over a hundred.
00:04:20.940 He's a hoe maker. 1.00
00:04:21.500 Okay, it's not the same thing.
00:04:22.140 It's not the same thing.
00:04:22.820 He's a hoe maker. 1.00
00:04:23.080 So a guy can never be a hoe. 1.00
00:04:24.100 Why is it not the same thing?
00:04:24.980 It's not the same thing.
00:04:25.300 A guy can never be a hoe. 1.00
00:04:26.280 Because this is...
00:04:27.000 A guy can never be a hoe. 1.00
00:04:28.280 They're praised.
00:04:28.760 It's a yes or no, bro.
00:04:29.380 It's a yes or no, bro.
00:04:29.980 Let him finish.
00:04:31.280 I'm mad who's a decent guy that would marry a virgin like a normal guy. 0.99
00:04:41.200 I'm not living in the 19th century.
00:04:44.000 I'm not living in the 19th century.
00:04:45.280 Okay, okay.
00:04:46.260 Let him finish.
00:04:47.280 Go ahead.
00:04:47.820 All right, cool.
00:04:48.220 Listen, bro.
00:04:49.200 Cool.
00:04:49.740 So a guy, yeah?
00:04:51.080 When we think about guys, we think about them cool.
00:04:53.420 They're a bit like...
00:04:54.460 They look at other girls, this and that.
00:04:56.300 When you think about a girl from the Asian times, she stays to one man. 0.98
00:04:59.640 Why is it always about girls, though? 0.79
00:05:00.840 Why can't we aim it on men? 0.79
00:05:02.540 Because the world doesn't care if you do what's easy.
00:05:07.060 It is easy as a woman to get sex. 1.00
00:05:08.980 I could walk down the street and say, have sex with me, and there would be 10 takers. 0.81
00:05:12.820 It's not that hard.
00:05:13.440 What matters?
00:05:13.740 What matters?
00:05:14.060 But a man, it's hard for him to get sex.
00:05:16.520 Exactly.
00:05:16.760 So the world...
00:05:17.660 Wait.
00:05:18.120 The world looks up to what's hard.
00:05:20.680 It doesn't reward what's easy.
00:05:22.640 And because it's easy for a guy to get sex, yeah?
00:05:25.000 Like, it's not valued if he has sex or not, because it's easy. 0.53
00:05:27.540 But for a girl, if she protects her energy, protects her, like, having sex with other guys,
00:05:31.960 that makes them more valuable.
00:05:32.920 Do you understand?
00:05:33.780 Because everyone wants you, and when you, like, disappear from that, then you're going to be more valuable.
00:05:38.680 Because everyone wants you, but you're not having it.
00:05:40.160 I agree, I agree with that.
00:05:41.160 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:41.820 But when a guy, like, not everyone wants him, do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:45.020 But if he can get into the circles that can get him to have a lot of pussy, then he's valuable as well. 0.99
00:05:49.240 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:49.940 It's not the opposite.
00:05:50.860 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:51.420 You said that you don't agree with us calling women hoes. 1.00
00:05:55.520 But if a hoe is someone that's slept with a lot of people, what else would you call it? 1.00
00:05:59.040 No, because it's only referred to the female.
00:06:01.400 Like, it's cool.
00:06:02.060 If that's what a hoe is, then call men hoes as well. 1.00
00:06:04.980 Simple as.
00:06:05.720 A man can't be a hoe. 1.00
00:06:07.060 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:07.780 But why?
00:06:08.840 Did you not listen to what they was talking about?
00:06:11.020 I'm going to stop.
00:06:12.440 Wait.
00:06:12.580 Yeah, we have $50 super chat.
00:06:14.120 Oh, $50 super chat.
00:06:15.440 Okay.
00:06:16.040 Guys, stop interrupting.
00:06:18.840 Okay.
00:06:19.400 Thank you.
00:06:21.280 I forgot even what I was asking.
00:06:24.140 Yeah, so wait.
00:06:24.840 Why do you find that offensive?
00:06:26.340 Because I think you were the one.
00:06:27.180 I was actually wasn't talking.
00:06:28.480 I was talking.
00:06:29.140 Wait, I wasn't talking to you.
00:06:30.160 I was talking to her.
00:06:30.840 Because you were the one that said it.
00:06:31.900 Yeah.
00:06:32.020 Sorry, what did you say?
00:06:33.360 You said that you think it's like offensive when men call women hoes.
00:06:36.680 So I'm asking why.
00:06:38.120 Because why should we have a name for what we do?
00:06:41.200 But when men say men sleep with a hundred.
00:06:44.340 If a guy's a plumber, you call him a plumber, right?
00:06:46.240 Yeah, I know.
00:06:47.320 But because I've mentioned that I've slept, I've got a high count, and I'm sitting right
00:06:51.860 next to you, it feels like it's aimed at me.
00:06:54.560 It's not, though.
00:06:55.060 But it feels like that, though, because of my choices.
00:06:58.380 What's your preference, guys?
00:06:59.760 What's your preference?
00:07:00.400 Like rich, tall, handsome, strong.
00:07:02.480 Their personality.
00:07:03.500 They've got, yeah, strong.
00:07:04.380 Yeah, be realistic.
00:07:04.960 Let's say he's like a waiter, yeah?
00:07:06.340 He's a broke boy waiter.
00:07:07.820 Someone that's powerful.
00:07:08.620 He's got a personality.
00:07:09.880 He's not powerful.
00:07:10.520 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:10.960 He's nobody.
00:07:11.900 No one knows him.
00:07:12.880 No one respects him.
00:07:14.020 You don't go for him, right?
00:07:15.180 No, you're right.
00:07:15.400 You go for the strong guy.
00:07:16.720 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:17.220 Of course.
00:07:17.640 That has experience, that guy's rich, he's strong.
00:07:20.460 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:21.200 Same with us.
00:07:21.940 We go for girls that are inexperienced, that have no body count, except from us. 1.00
00:07:26.420 It's the opposite.
00:07:26.860 And you can't blame us for that.
00:07:27.780 It's the opposite, yeah.
00:07:28.760 You can't blame us for that.
00:07:29.860 I've just never looked at it in that way.
00:07:32.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:32.600 Yeah.
00:07:32.700 Because you have preferences, we have preferences.
00:07:34.580 And then when we call you a hoe, like the same way as you calling the guy, oh, I want 1.00
00:07:37.540 to go.
00:07:38.040 I want to go.
00:07:38.660 Yeah.
00:07:38.940 He's a broke boy.
00:07:39.600 Whatever.
00:07:39.900 But you might find that offensive.
00:07:41.700 Same with us.
00:07:42.240 Same with us.
00:07:42.860 Same with us.
00:07:42.960 In a different way.
00:07:43.660 Same with us.
00:07:44.280 We'll say it.
00:07:44.480 I mean, they put it in the media.
00:07:45.960 I don't want no scrub.
00:07:47.360 You can call a guy broke in the media.
00:07:49.580 Exactly.
00:07:50.160 Nice guy.
00:07:50.660 A girl wants a man that other girls... 1.00
00:07:52.180 Listen, bro.
00:07:52.740 Javani, listen.
00:07:53.540 Javani, I'm talking.
00:07:56.240 Listen, bro.
00:07:56.700 Why are you shouting?
00:07:57.320 Why are you shouting?
00:07:59.300 I'm talking, bro.
00:08:02.120 All right, cool.
00:08:02.880 These guys...
00:08:03.800 All right, cool.
00:08:04.320 Let's say...
00:08:04.620 You stop talking, bro.
00:08:05.220 Listen, bro.
00:08:05.940 Listen.
00:08:06.380 Let him talk.
00:08:06.940 All right, Javani, listen.
00:08:07.780 You stop talking, so I...
00:08:08.900 Bro, I'm talking, bro.
00:08:10.580 You have to talk over me, bro.
00:08:12.000 I don't talk over you, do I?
00:08:13.420 You stop talking, so that's when I started talking.
00:08:15.220 I didn't talk to him, bro.
00:08:15.940 I'll keep doing my thing.
00:08:16.800 You guys actually both keep interrupting him.
00:08:19.000 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:19.840 Go ahead.
00:08:19.940 Exactly, fam.
00:08:20.880 Anyway, you made me forget what I was going to say, Javani.
00:08:22.880 I'm going to go.
00:08:23.900 Anyway, yeah?
00:08:25.680 A girl with a skirt, we can call them a skirt in peace. 1.00
00:08:28.220 Just like a girl can call a broke boy broke,
00:08:31.200 and a guy that works in Madonna's, like,
00:08:32.560 ah, fucking fuck that guy.
00:08:34.180 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:35.040 Easy as...
00:08:36.400 Now, don't start talking about girls with 100-plus body count now. 1.00
00:08:38.980 I can't be asked for it.
00:08:40.300 Because the thing is, whenever guys have a standard,
00:08:43.360 it's like women shame them for it. 1.00
00:08:44.840 I mean, once you see this, it's kind of hard to see it.
00:08:47.020 It's like, because if a guy says he wants a girl that's thin,
00:08:48.900 what do we call him?
00:08:50.780 Fatphobic?
00:08:51.880 I've never heard of that.
00:08:52.640 You've never heard of fatphobic?
00:08:54.340 No, it's the first time I've heard it.
00:08:56.900 Oh, okay, okay.
00:08:57.600 But if a guy wants a girl that he says isn't a hoe, 1.00
00:09:02.000 it's like, then we shame him for saying that she's a hoe. 0.89
00:09:04.380 If a guy says he wants a girl that's...
00:09:07.240 Like, whenever guys say they have a standard,
00:09:09.560 it's like women always shame him for it.
00:09:12.360 I think it's perfectly acceptable for a guy to be like,
00:09:15.300 do you know what?
00:09:15.640 You slept with bare girls? 1.00
00:09:16.660 That's kind of hoe-ish. 1.00
00:09:17.820 But we have to be, as men, understand that it's the same back.
00:09:21.800 If you slept with 300 or 400,
00:09:23.020 she sucked that many of this, bro. 0.82
00:09:24.500 Okay, I'll address that.
00:09:25.580 Simple.
00:09:25.980 Wait, but that's not...
00:09:26.800 Of course you're saying it's not equal.
00:09:28.100 You're not saying it's equal between men and women.
00:09:29.620 That's what you're saying.
00:09:30.240 Because it's not.
00:09:31.360 Why is it not equal between men and women?
00:09:33.260 Wait, Jesus Christ.
00:09:34.860 Do not let me finish.
00:09:35.440 I understand what you mean.
00:09:36.740 Do not let me finish.
00:09:37.780 Okay, you're going to have to go if you keep doing that.
00:09:40.000 Okay.
00:09:40.420 Okay?
00:09:41.940 No, because it's not the same.
00:09:43.420 It's like what women want from men 1.00
00:09:44.960 and what men want from women is not the same.
00:09:46.840 So you can say, oh, it should be equal, but it's not.
00:09:50.140 And no girl is sliding into Drake's DM saying,
00:09:53.000 oh, I wonder what his body count is.
00:09:54.200 They don't give a shit.
00:09:55.820 But no guy is either.
00:09:58.760 No guy is messaging Beyonce going,
00:10:01.220 what's your body count?
00:10:02.060 No one's saying that.
00:10:02.700 Men aren't doing that either. 1.00
00:10:05.180 Yes, they do.
00:10:06.100 Men do care when it comes to relationships.
00:10:07.960 There's just a study that came out
00:10:09.340 from girls that have been on OnlyFans
00:10:11.060 saying that 75% of them have had issues
00:10:13.620 from doing OnlyFans.
00:10:14.880 Men do care about purity. 0.88
00:10:16.040 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:18.760 And we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:10:21.120 on this platform.
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