JustPearlyThings - October 11, 2023


Pearl HUMBLES Post Wall Models With This Fact


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

183.92473

Word count

1,479

Sentence count

141

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the concept of aging, and why 35 year old women aren t as hot as they used to be. We also talk about how the modeling industry is changing the way we see women in their late 20s and 30s.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 My grandma, she passed away, but before she died, my grandpa died like 15 years before her.
00:00:06.080 And when I was in high school, I went to, she took me to something with all her like friends, right?
00:00:12.120 And it was so funny because listening to them talking about dating, it sounded like teenagers.
00:00:18.460 You know what I mean?
00:00:19.120 Where I was like, why are they like, I'm like, but it was kind of the same stuff where it's like, there's only a couple guys that go around.
00:00:25.760 They date a guy for like, one of them was talking about a guy she was dating.
00:00:29.220 And she's like, yeah, he died.
00:00:31.320 So it's like, what do you think's on the other side of this?
00:00:34.940 Yeah, it's a good point.
00:00:37.140 Yeah.
00:00:37.920 You know, when you're in your 20s and 30s, it's like every year invincible.
00:00:41.600 You think it's like life goes on forever.
00:00:44.100 But in reality, you know, you do get older.
00:00:46.960 Yeah.
00:00:47.340 Like age is undefeated.
00:00:49.040 It's really interesting.
00:00:50.920 I like to look at like case studies of people like that were kind of in the spotlight in the media.
00:00:56.400 And it's interesting to see like some of the younger celebrity women kind of age out like Madonna, Britney Spears.
00:01:05.480 Well, when you see like the level of attention they got and they kind of went crazy when they went older.
00:01:11.240 It's like the women of my generation.
00:01:13.860 Oh, my.
00:01:14.160 Like with Instagram, it's going to be interesting to see like where we are in 20 years.
00:01:20.960 Yeah.
00:01:21.600 Speaking of aging.
00:01:22.800 Right.
00:01:23.180 Yeah.
00:01:23.500 All right.
00:01:24.320 So this is my tweet.
00:01:25.480 No.
00:01:26.180 35 year old.
00:01:27.200 And I want to explain it to you before because people people tend to get triggered before they kind of see my mindset.
00:01:33.260 So I had a tweet.
00:01:34.120 I said, no, 35 year old women aren't that hot. 1.00
00:01:38.280 None will compete with the average in shape.
00:01:40.720 21 year old.
00:01:41.660 Don't shoot the messenger.
00:01:42.780 Now, the reason I had this thought was because I would see top 35 year old women that were just really, really attractive. 1.00
00:01:51.160 Right.
00:01:51.360 The models, the whatever.
00:01:53.080 And I would think to myself, on an average college campus, you could probably find like 10 chicks that are equally as good looking as them, if not more. 1.00
00:02:02.600 Now, it's not to say that there's no women that are attractive at 35 or pretty, but we live in this delusion where we tell women they're going to be hot forever.
00:02:11.800 And at 35, most women would aim to have a family and kids and really have more of an identity in their character over their looks. 1.00
00:02:19.020 But every time I make a broad, generalized statement where I know there's exceptions, but we're talking about the rule, right?
00:02:27.600 Everyone gets mad and the wives just start arguing with me about their hotness. 1.00
00:02:32.580 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:33.640 And so Ashley Sinclair says, Pearl has started adding the qualifier in shape now because it's not that 22 year old is hotter than 32.
00:02:42.860 It's just by 33, many women get fat and let themselves go. 1.00
00:02:46.220 At 22, it's less likely.
00:02:47.440 That was my argument months ago.
00:02:48.900 Seems I convinced her.
00:02:50.520 Now, I'd like to say to this Ashley chick, no, you did not convince me.
00:02:53.980 I would say that if you have a 22 year old chick that is not fat in general, they're hotter than a 32 year old chick. 1.00
00:03:01.360 And that same chick is in general going to be hotter at 22 than 32. 1.00
00:03:05.880 And I think you see this in the modeling industry where women age out pretty quickly.
00:03:10.300 You said you worked with models in New York.
00:03:12.700 Yeah, I worked with fashion models in New York City for about 10 years.
00:03:15.680 Okay.
00:03:16.040 And I would bring them out to the nightclub and I would charge a fee.
00:03:19.200 And I remember that a lot of the models, they come in at 17, 18, full of life, full of energy, full of optimism.
00:03:26.520 Then maybe about three, four years later, if they're still even in New York, they're beaten down.
00:03:32.380 They're destroyed.
00:03:33.500 Yeah.
00:03:33.580 You know, age is undefeated again.
00:03:36.440 And you're constantly competing with women that are 17, 18, 19.
00:03:41.440 And back then, you know, fashion models was much more prestigious than, you know, the weird stuff you see in 2023.
00:03:48.660 The Instagram models.
00:03:49.780 Yeah, like the New York Fashion Week.
00:03:52.120 Yeah.
00:03:52.540 Paris Fashion Week.
00:03:53.500 It wasn't that.
00:03:54.560 It was even back then it was sort of like odd, but now it's just become next tier of odd.
00:04:00.340 Yeah.
00:04:00.540 Back then it was actually prestigious to work with fashion models.
00:04:03.980 Yeah.
00:04:04.260 But the idea that women, they fall off because you're constantly competing with, you know, young women.
00:04:13.280 And my thought is when I said that hot, that to me, when you say you're that hot, by 35, you should be beautiful because your character, in my opinion, your character should be developed to the point where you're beautiful.
00:04:26.980 You're not hot anymore.
00:04:27.780 You're a wife. 0.76
00:04:28.360 You're a mother.
00:04:29.040 Yeah.
00:04:29.560 But it's like, how hot do you want to be as a mom?
00:04:32.200 Don't you want to be beautiful?
00:04:33.140 You know, when I said that hot, I'm like, isn't that like top 10% of beauty?
00:04:38.980 I look at Margot Robbie, right?
00:04:40.780 She was a smoke show. 1.00
00:04:42.540 God, and Wolf of Wall Street, all the men loved her.
00:04:45.220 Now, you know, and it's interesting.
00:04:46.940 You see this happen to the women when they're younger. 1.00
00:04:48.860 They're in the they're in the movies that market to men.
00:04:51.560 So Wolf of Wall Street, Megan Fox, Transformers, they get older, they start being cast in women and movies that are for women.
00:04:58.600 Wow.
00:04:59.180 You notice that?
00:04:59.920 So like Margot Robbie, Barbie, that's like women watch that. 1.00
00:05:02.760 Wow.
00:05:03.600 And I think it's because women don't like to see women that hot on TV. 1.00
00:05:07.240 Wow.
00:05:07.860 But men do.
00:05:08.820 So like in the man movies, you'll see like the hottest.
00:05:10.880 I mean, all the hottest chicks are in the man movies, you know? 1.00
00:05:14.380 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:15.680 Okay.
00:05:16.300 So I responded to this chick because I said, no, by 33, you're less hot than 23. 0.99
00:05:22.160 The only exception is if you were obese, you know, because I was like, all right, the 23 year old was fat.
00:05:26.780 That's not really the same territory.
00:05:28.860 But you get less hot as you get older.
00:05:31.420 By 35, most chicks have wrinkles, sag a bit and have other indicators of aging. 0.92
00:05:36.780 Do not shoot the messenger.
00:05:38.480 Is this untrue?
00:05:40.140 I think you nailed it.
00:05:41.220 I think she hates you because you nailed it.
00:05:44.220 It's like, it's okay.
00:05:46.040 I didn't say you're a bad person.
00:05:47.720 So I have this thing where I talk about simping.
00:05:52.000 Yeah.
00:05:52.300 And I think that simps are equally as bad as the modern women. 1.00
00:05:56.340 Yeah.
00:05:56.780 Because they allow us to live in delusion.
00:05:59.480 And a lot of times what I notice is when men process information, their first reaction in general is if it's true.
00:06:06.220 Yeah.
00:06:06.820 Unless they're simping.
00:06:08.240 Yeah.
00:06:08.440 Then, because women process information, like, individually. 0.98
00:06:11.920 So they'll say, like, how does this apply to me?
00:06:14.140 Like, if I say, nope, a 22 year old is hotter than a 32 year old.
00:06:18.780 You know, they'll say, well, but I, they're like, their reaction is, well, but I was, but I'm hotter now than I was at 22.
00:06:25.480 Do you know, which it's usually a coat, but you know what I'm saying?
00:06:28.540 Yeah.
00:06:28.780 So where men will think more in general.
00:06:31.540 Yeah.
00:06:31.920 Except for the simps.
00:06:33.040 So now Dr. Interracial says, my wife is 63 and hotter than Pearl. 1.00
00:06:39.240 And it's funny because I was never talking about his wife.
00:06:42.300 I was never talking about my looks.
00:06:44.760 Yet they feel the need to insult me or, you know, by tweeting me pictures of his wife.
00:06:50.220 Like, well, this is weird.
00:06:51.440 This is weird behavior.
00:06:52.800 Yeah.
00:06:53.880 The idea that you're going to use your wife, an image of your wife, and then attack someone's daughter. 0.51
00:07:00.580 That's just a poor way, poor taste of showing his point.
00:07:04.660 Like, I understand he's simping for his wife, but he's also degrading another man's daughter.
00:07:12.100 So I don't really look at him as a guy of high moral authority.
00:07:15.800 Like, he could have proved his point without, because at the end of the day, you're actually another man's daughter.
00:07:21.840 I have a daughter as a man.
00:07:24.320 You'll never know what that feels like, bro.
00:07:26.460 You know what I mean?
00:07:27.460 Yeah.
00:07:27.700 So the fact that he degraded you to make an example is disgusting.
00:07:32.960 Who does he think he is?
00:07:34.120 I mean, he's no moral authority.
00:07:36.260 This is, he probably votes for Kamala.
00:07:38.460 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:40.020 Right?
00:07:40.320 Actually, I think he's a conservative, but yeah, I don't understand.
00:07:43.500 Probably a closet liberal.
00:07:44.700 Yeah.
00:07:45.060 Yeah.
00:07:46.500 Well, yeah.