Pearl Isn't Buying Into Keke Palmer's Story
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Summary
Darius Jackson and Kiki Palmer is fighting for custody of their son. Kiki claims that Darius is an abuser and is filing for full custody of her son. I don t think this is true. In this episode I explain why I don't believe Kiki and why she should get custody.
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So last show, guys, I covered Kiki Palmer and Darius Jackson, and I said that Kiki is
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coming out now and saying that Darius is an abuser and she is filing for full custody
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I, on the other hand, do not believe Kiki in the slightest.
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Now, the reason being is that women that typically display self-centered behavior are not usually
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It's usually more of a control and manipulation tactic.
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Now, guys, as you know, I really just look for patterns in society.
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What I've found is women that dress super provocatively, wear big hoop earrings, and are twerking on
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Usher on stage while in a relationship generally are not known as being the most credible, honest,
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But when Kiki came out and said that Darius was abusing her, I didn't really believe it.
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In most abusive situations, it's mutually abusive.
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Meaning, if one party is hitting the other party, they are typically abusing each other.
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And when I find that women bring out ring footage or video evidence from years ago, typically,
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what I see is that these women have been holding this over the men's head for years.
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And typically, these chicks are also abusive as well.
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So now, there is audio conversation being leaked from Kiki and Darius.
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Like, I'm not going to say, yeah, you said nasty things to me.
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Even though you did whatever that you did that made you feel that way.
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I'm like, I don't even have to see what happened.
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These chicks that are out here, 304-ing, wilding while they have children,
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And so she said, I'm sorry I put my hands on you after you made me feel that way.
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And now this woman is blocking this man from seeing his kid.
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And again, I said, if she was so abused, where are the bruises?
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If he wanted to beat her up, it wouldn't be hard.
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Sounds like possibly two abusive people got together and are currently meeting their match with each other.
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Why does she get full custody when they're both abusive?
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And I haven't even seen real evidence that he's abusive.
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And again, the internet jumped to conclusion and sided with the woman automatically.
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She isn't even taking accountability for her actions.
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Basically, I put my hands on you because I didn't like what you said.
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Y'all are defending this dude like he's your cousin or something.
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You hear a woman accusing a man as abusive and you're immediately on the defense when you know nothing about this person.
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So, I guess another video was released that also gives context to the situation.
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In an explosive audio obtained by DJ Academics, listeners hear the alleged voices of Kiki Palmer, Darius Jackson, and Kiki's mother having a very intense conversation.
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Dick suckers cause your brothers a dick sucker too.
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Keep effing around and I might get somebody to fuck you.
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I tried to be nice because I thought you had some mental problem.
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You and your stupid ass family don't even understand business.
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Bro, I've seen this like 20 different times, Sharon.
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I don't know what the fuck my daughter just saw in your limp dick ass.
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You are, yeah, and that's what your mama raised.
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If you keep f***ing around, I might get somebody to f*** you.
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You keep f***ing with me, you might get a dick in your a**.
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Y'all have no idea who you stepped up in this play with.
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I tried to be nice because I thought you had some mental problems.
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So I tried to be nice because you're going to talk about my daughter.
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You and your stupid f***ing family don't even understand the business.
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His family are crazy, chaotic, harassing people.
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Even Marcus Johnson, the n***a that your brother's named after, his kids told me y'all are crazy.
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They told me that you and your brother's crazy.
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And it's crazy because your brother's named after, after their dad.
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She one guy, she's thinking you can go out and harass women.
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And if Barrius is listening to her, he should be ashamed of himself.
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That if you wanted to keep listening to your mama.
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That's part of the reason why you can't get no acting job.
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She's trying to do it to a punk **** mama's boy who harasses a woman.
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She should be telling you, why are you harassing this girl, Jerry?
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You do all of that unnecessarily because something's wrong with your mind.
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You sound like you have a broken brain and you need to go to see somebody because you're
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There's nothing that I've done for you to stay on that page.
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I've endured more from you and I don't do that to you.
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I don't sit up there and call y'all kinds of names and do stuff like that.
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You randomly have an episode and then you harass me for an hour straight.
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Upswich bisexual, he sleeps with me and you stupid ****.
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You should know you still watch out my girlfriend.
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And then you let your family, you let your brother talk you into, hey man, look, your brother's
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What I'm tasting in Hollywood is he's a **** boy and he's a **** and nobody really likes him.
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You have abusive mothers and she even said herself that she sacrificed her daughter for money
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This is really a general trend I found in my conversations with women that they seem to
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think everything will be all right as long as they have money.
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If we have money, everything is great and fine and dandy.
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And typically the more the ghetto mom is verbally abusive.
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And this is why a lot of men just stop fighting because imagine having to do this once a week.
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Imagine if you want to see your kid on Sundays.
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Every Sunday you got to go up and get your son and deal with this.
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A lot of men walk away from situations like this because they just don't want to deal with it.
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If she tries to get you in trouble, you have these pictures to prove your innocence.
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Take all the pictures because she is the celebrity.
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On a separate occasion, an alleged exchange between the pair reveals Kiki apologizing.
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And that turning into me acting out of fear and desperation.
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And so this man's been, this man's had this woman trying to get dirt on him for years and
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The other thing I wanted to say is they kept saying, Oh, you're harassing me.
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When they were harassing him, give the man his son.
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This is him texting his mom saying, Hey mom, Kiki turned off my phone.
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His mom says, Hey, he says, Kiki took the phone.
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He says, I don't have my phone or any communication.
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His mom says she can't cancel your reservation.
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So I could call United and tell him what's going on.
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I'm afraid she will create a problem for you in Mexico.
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Then apparently this is him sending pictures to his mom.
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His mom says, Make sure your dad get all that stuff.
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Then his mom says, If she tries to get you in trouble, you've got these pictures to prove
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your innocence, take all the pictures because she's the celebrity.
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He says, I know, making sure I have some saved.
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There are so many men with albums in their phone that they keep proving that they are
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not the abusers because women throw this around.
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A lot of times women will say what the other person is.
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I'm sorry for being afraid to lose you and that turning me into acting out of fear and
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That was not the best me that you received and I'm sorry for that.
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I'm deeply affected and afraid because it's such a deep heaviness that I don't want to feel
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It's not your fault nor job to alleviate them from me.
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I have no time of the day just to sleep and heal.
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He responds by saying, have the night to yourself, Kiki.
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When you wake up tomorrow, let me know what you want to do.
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He says, I don't want to lose you, but I also don't want to lose myself, which is why
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I try and hold myself in those situations to the point where I may be looking like I'm
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Hey, I understand if you don't want to meet anymore.
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Not sure if you're getting my messages or not, but I am available today at 8 p.m. if you want
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If you delete the footage from last Sunday, it'll only confirm how much of a manipulator
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I never threatened to speak out in public, only to the ones who should have been telling
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My evidence is just a reminder to never speak to you again.
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And then he sends another message saying, is this a joke?
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I will take this lesson and move forward with it.
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It was a delight that you stopped by last night.
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The language of love is rarely spoken, and it is an absolute blessing that you look out
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for us because hardly anybody in that environment we are in is rooting for Kiki and I.
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So these spirits and evil consumes us more than we thought it would be better people and surround
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ourselves with people that can speak the language we speak and relate to what we feel.
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And I know neither of you have asked me for it, but I will give it for what is worth.
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The black industry parties are worse, I have to say.
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But they sure breed chaos and jealousy, just like crabs in a barrel.
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Kiki is very successful early on, so she became the one targeted and whispered about.
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She was the phenomenal kid that kept booking jobs, yet worked so much she never had any
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real friends, and all she ever wanted was genuine friends, not fame.
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So they're saying basically that because she was booked out so much as a kid.
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I can't imagine being extremely famous as a kid.
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The language of love is a unique one, and we have to customize it to fit yours.
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I wanted to speak with you last night and tell you that Kiki often has to walk a type
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rope, a rope from the black Hollywood with white Hollywood, and she can never slip up or
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Can you imagine the stress, the anxiety trying to be accepted in black culture and represented
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I do not condone her hitting you or anyone, and I told her that, but I hope you guys can
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Try not to make a bad night turn into forever you might one day regret.
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Sending prayers, hoping you guys can get over this bump and find your mojo again.
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Her mom's admitting that she's the abusive one.
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And the thing is, guys, you guys think I'm harping on Kiki or like women or whatever.
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How will she improve if we always accept her delusion?
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So let's say she said today, I want to be a better person.
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How can she do that if everyone is saying, blame the evil, awful men?
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Seriously, how can we improve if we can't even say, this is wrong?
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Women have a tendency to just blow everything out of proportion.
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How do we improve if we're always fueling the delusion?
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In an excerpt from Kiki's book, I Don't Belong to You, unearthed by blogger Armin Wiggins,
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the actress details a volatile and physically abusive relationship that she was in prior
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Sometimes I went off on him just to get a rise out of him.
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And just like that, our relationship became physically and emotionally abusive, mostly
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And you guys just wanted me to believe it when the pictures came out of him like choking
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So the excerpt says, as my resentment grew, my darkness started showing up, old bad habits
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and defense mechanisms, hurt people, hurt people.
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Sometimes I went off on him just to get a rise out of him.
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And the fact that he couldn't see I was hurting caused me, I think, to subconsciously show him
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And just like that, our relationship became physically and emotionally abusive and mostly
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Sometimes we think only guys can be abusive, and it's not true.
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Things can get out of hand for anyone when you have feelings you haven't dealt with.
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There was one time in the middle of the night that we got into a crazy fight.
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I should say morning because it was like 3 a.m. and I wanted him to leave.
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I was texting my best friend Jamie the whole time, and like in a movie, she hopped out of
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He left when he'd realized I'd called her to come, but when she dropped me off the next
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morning, he somehow managed to get right on the couch.
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He never hit me, but we fought for the first two years of living together.
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I started to feel so ashamed, as if I was turning into the monster that I promised myself
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By the third year, I told myself I couldn't be that person anymore.
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If this is what relationships brought out of me, I didn't want it.
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I was tired of feeling like he was my responsibility and of the fact of our relationship had become
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So now we know that she has a history of being abusive in relationships.
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She antagonized him a lot and they were both toxic, but Kiki was not as innocent as she
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Kay Keem says, well, she has a history of being abusive to her partner's SMH.
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Females know exactly what triggers their partners most of the time.
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Yeah, that's why a lot of these volatile, crazy fights, guys, it takes two to tango.
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Women, when women say they were abused, we are not these innocent creatures that just
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did nothing and contributed nothing to the situation.
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So I really just think we need to start waiting for the evidence and the facts to come out
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And my question is, why was she just awarded full custody of her son?
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This is why men should be given custody, because when women get power over men, they're just
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And it messes up the natural order of the world.
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And when women get power over men, they're just not good with it.