JustPearlyThings - November 20, 2023


Pearl Isn't Buying Into Keke Palmer's Story


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22 minutes

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Toxicity

138

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Darius Jackson and Kiki Palmer is fighting for custody of their son. Kiki claims that Darius is an abuser and is filing for full custody of her son. I don t think this is true. In this episode I explain why I don't believe Kiki and why she should get custody.

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00:00:00.000 So last show, guys, I covered Kiki Palmer and Darius Jackson, and I said that Kiki is
00:00:08.720 coming out now and saying that Darius is an abuser and she is filing for full custody
00:00:13.400 of her son.
00:00:14.660 I, on the other hand, do not believe Kiki in the slightest. 0.92
00:00:17.560 Now, the reason being is that women that typically display self-centered behavior are not usually 1.00
00:00:24.180 thinking of the children's best interests.
00:00:26.300 It's usually more of a control and manipulation tactic.
00:00:28.820 Now, guys, as you know, I really just look for patterns in society.
00:00:33.020 What I've found is women that dress super provocatively, wear big hoop earrings, and are twerking on 1.00
00:00:39.180 Usher on stage while in a relationship generally are not known as being the most credible, honest,
00:00:46.780 wholesome people in the world, generally.
00:00:49.000 And I said I don't have any evidence for this.
00:00:51.580 I don't know for sure.
00:00:52.580 But when Kiki came out and said that Darius was abusing her, I didn't really believe it.
00:00:58.820 I think there was more to the story.
00:01:00.960 Now, guys, stats don't lie.
00:01:04.100 In most abusive situations, it's mutually abusive.
00:01:08.140 Meaning, if one party is hitting the other party, they are typically abusing each other.
00:01:12.360 And when I find that women bring out ring footage or video evidence from years ago, typically, 1.00
00:01:20.380 what I see is that these women have been holding this over the men's head for years. 0.98
00:01:25.180 And typically, these chicks are also abusive as well. 0.98
00:01:29.980 So now, there is audio conversation being leaked from Kiki and Darius.
00:01:35.520 Let's pull it up.
00:01:37.180 Like, I'm not going to say, yeah, you said nasty things to me.
00:01:39.740 I didn't need to say them back.
00:01:41.460 That's my bad.
00:01:41.920 I'm on Wiggins.
00:01:42.760 It's my bad to say nasty things to you.
00:01:45.240 Even if you did say nasty things to me.
00:01:47.440 It's my bad to put my hands on you.
00:01:49.760 Even though you did whatever that you did that made you feel that way.
00:01:52.340 Like, I'm going to say response.
00:01:55.580 Class dismissed.
00:01:57.300 I told you guys.
00:01:59.960 I told you.
00:02:01.000 I'm like, I don't even have to see what happened.
00:02:02.780 These chicks that are out here, 304-ing, wilding while they have children,
00:02:08.520 they generally are just as abusive as the men.
00:02:12.580 They say abuse them.
00:02:14.340 And so she said, I'm sorry I put my hands on you after you made me feel that way.
00:02:20.100 Not after you hit me.
00:02:22.340 After you made me feel that way.
00:02:24.920 And now this woman is blocking this man from seeing his kid. 0.98
00:02:28.780 And again, I said, if she was so abused, where are the bruises?
00:02:32.600 That guy's a personal trainer.
00:02:34.100 If he wanted to beat her up, it wouldn't be hard.
00:02:37.920 Okay.
00:02:38.440 Sounds like possibly two abusive people got together and are currently meeting their match with each other.
00:02:43.300 Yeah.
00:02:43.880 So why does the woman get custody? 1.00
00:02:46.040 Why does she get full custody when they're both abusive? 1.00
00:02:49.240 Christiana or Christina.
00:02:51.500 And I haven't even seen real evidence that he's abusive.
00:02:54.140 Okay.
00:02:55.280 Christina Welp. 0.97
00:02:56.420 And again, the internet jumped to conclusion and sided with the woman automatically. 0.99
00:02:59.880 She isn't even taking accountability for her actions. 0.73
00:03:03.500 Basically, I put my hands on you because I didn't like what you said.
00:03:07.940 And here we go.
00:03:08.720 Y'all are defending this dude like he's your cousin or something.
00:03:11.720 You hear a woman accusing a man as abusive and you're immediately on the defense when you know nothing about this person.
00:03:17.880 Okay.
00:03:18.100 So, I guess another video was released that also gives context to the situation.
00:03:24.680 In an explosive audio obtained by DJ Academics, listeners hear the alleged voices of Kiki Palmer, Darius Jackson, and Kiki's mother having a very intense conversation. 1.00
00:03:35.620 You are a limp dick fucker. 1.00
00:03:39.560 Wow. 1.00
00:03:40.240 All right.
00:03:42.420 That is what your mama raised. 1.00
00:03:44.360 Dick suckers cause your brothers a dick sucker too. 1.00
00:03:48.360 You probably suck dick too. 1.00
00:03:53.080 Keep effing around and I might get somebody to fuck you. 1.00
00:03:57.120 I tried to be nice because I thought you had some mental problem. 1.00
00:04:00.400 Usher is gay. 1.00
00:04:01.160 You and your stupid ass family don't even understand business. 1.00
00:04:07.600 Usher is gay? 1.00
00:04:10.240 It's that fast enough? 0.99
00:04:13.200 Yeah. 1.00
00:04:15.360 You done growing up the shit in me? 1.00
00:04:18.440 Bro, I've seen this like 20 different times, Sharon. 1.00
00:04:21.400 It doesn't phase me anymore.
00:04:23.100 None of what y'all do faze me anymore.
00:04:24.780 Come on now.
00:04:25.400 Where's my son at?
00:04:26.120 Everybody's gonna arrest your mom. 1.00
00:04:29.000 Where's my son at? 0.97
00:04:30.160 Immigrant.
00:04:31.360 Okay.
00:04:32.320 That's what I'm about to do.
00:04:34.000 Okay.
00:04:35.740 Yeah, okay. 1.00
00:04:37.020 You are a dickless. 1.00
00:04:38.920 I'm sure. 1.00
00:04:39.600 I don't know what the fuck my daughter just saw in your limp dick ass. 1.00
00:04:44.820 I'm about to fix it. 1.00
00:04:46.540 I'm about to fix it.
00:04:47.920 That's what you raised.
00:04:49.160 That's what you raised.
00:04:51.020 You are, yeah, and that's what your mama raised. 1.00
00:04:53.380 Dick suckers. 1.00
00:04:54.180 Okay. 1.00
00:04:54.540 Your brother's a dick sucker too. 1.00
00:04:55.940 I'm sure. 1.00
00:04:56.480 Hopefully y'all are dick suckers. 1.00
00:04:57.700 I'm sure. 1.00
00:04:58.240 You probably suck dicks too. 1.00
00:04:59.840 Okay. 1.00
00:05:01.280 Dick suckers. 0.98
00:05:02.920 Yep. 1.00
00:05:03.840 You a dick sucker. 1.00
00:05:05.440 All right, so about a bullet. 1.00
00:05:06.820 If you keep f***ing around, I might get somebody to f*** you. 1.00
00:05:09.780 All right, so about that bullet again. 1.00
00:05:11.780 You keep f***ing with me, you might get a dick in your a**. 1.00
00:05:14.860 Okay. 1.00
00:05:15.480 Keep f***ing with me. 0.99
00:05:17.040 Okay. 0.99
00:05:18.360 I don't know who you dealing with.
00:05:20.140 All right, y'all do.
00:05:20.780 Y'all have no idea who you stepped up in this play with.
00:05:22.460 Let's all go.
00:05:22.840 I tried to be nice to you.
00:05:24.380 Yeah. 0.99
00:05:24.580 I tried to be nice because I thought you had some mental problems. 0.99
00:05:27.160 Nope. 0.82
00:05:27.440 So I tried to be nice because you're going to talk about my daughter.
00:05:31.140 You're going to arrest my daughter.
00:05:33.020 You're going to talk about Usher. 0.99
00:05:34.580 Usher is gay. 1.00
00:05:36.120 You and your stupid f***ing family don't even understand the business. 1.00
00:05:40.460 Usher is gay, guys. 1.00
00:05:41.940 Tell her to put some clothes on. 1.00
00:05:43.300 Tell her to put some clothes on. 1.00
00:05:44.340 Don't get me into Usher. 1.00
00:05:45.780 You stupid motherf***er. 1.00
00:05:47.100 Tell her to put some clothes on. 1.00
00:05:48.240 You are stupid. 1.00
00:05:49.160 Tell her to put some clothes on. 1.00
00:05:50.120 You are stupid, man. 1.00
00:05:51.280 She's a mom. 1.00
00:05:51.920 She has to put some clothes on.
00:05:53.620 She's a mom.
00:05:54.160 She has to put some clothes on. 0.98
00:05:54.960 His family are crazy, chaotic, harassing people. 0.92
00:06:00.780 So what's my son doing? 0.99
00:06:01.420 They are harassing my family.
00:06:03.680 They are harassing my daughter.
00:06:06.000 Where's my son at? 1.00
00:06:07.500 Even Marcus Johnson, the n***a that your brother's named after, his kids told me y'all are crazy. 0.99
00:06:14.320 He was the one in the video. 1.00
00:06:17.220 They told me that you and your brother's crazy.
00:06:18.820 And it's crazy because your brother's named after, after their dad. 0.84
00:06:21.900 Right. 0.99
00:06:22.320 And they said y'all are nuts. 0.99
00:06:24.000 I'm sure. 0.99
00:06:25.940 I'm sure.
00:06:26.300 You got to go.
00:06:27.040 Can he still hear me?
00:06:28.140 Oh, yeah, he hears me.
00:06:28.860 I'm just waiting for my son.
00:06:29.960 Where's my son at?
00:06:30.560 It's football Sunday.
00:06:31.200 He used to be with his family. 1.00
00:06:32.540 F*** you. 1.00
00:06:34.380 You ain't got a family. 1.00
00:06:35.800 You f***ing family. 0.99
00:06:37.300 You did something, brother. 0.99
00:06:38.520 You sister that you chose. 0.98
00:06:40.080 You immigrant f***ing normal. 1.00
00:06:41.860 F***ing please. 1.00
00:06:42.700 They have, they have nothing to do with this. 0.99
00:06:45.100 They have nothing to do with this.
00:06:46.000 You're the Jerry Springer family.
00:06:47.160 They have nothing to do with this.
00:06:48.200 Yeah, they do.
00:06:49.580 No, they don't. 0.99
00:06:50.140 And your f***ing mama do. 1.00
00:06:51.460 She f***ing what? 1.00
00:06:52.580 She one guy, she's thinking you can go out and harass women. 1.00
00:06:56.220 Because your daddy harassed her.
00:06:57.900 And your grandma told me.
00:06:59.640 Your grandma told me. 0.98
00:07:00.860 His mama's crazy. 1.00
00:07:02.320 We've never been able to do anything with her. 0.60
00:07:04.660 I don't know why my son stayed with her. 0.99
00:07:07.160 But yeah, she's crazy. 0.96
00:07:08.720 And if Barrius is listening to her, he should be ashamed of himself. 1.00
00:07:12.480 That's what your damn grandmama told me. 1.00
00:07:14.400 That's what his dad said. 1.00
00:07:15.040 Your grandma told me your mama was crazy. 0.95
00:07:17.760 And that if you wanted to listen to your mama. 0.99
00:07:19.980 She's kids and fratting and so is he. 0.88
00:07:22.040 You both need medical, medical, medicine.
00:07:24.420 Your grandma said.
00:07:25.300 The grandmama said.
00:07:26.140 That if you wanted to keep listening to your mama.
00:07:29.420 That Kiki needed to let you go. 1.00
00:07:31.480 Because Kiki is a brilliant person.
00:07:34.260 And Darius should be lucky to have her. 0.99
00:07:36.260 So if you think he's a you think he's a whore. 1.00
00:07:39.760 Then why don't you take your limp dick. 1.00
00:07:41.480 And find the woman that you want to find. 1.00
00:07:44.340 Why you open my daughter's house.
00:07:46.140 Why you always ride her. 1.00
00:07:47.540 Why you always call her cause bitches. 1.00
00:07:48.800 My son. 1.00
00:07:49.980 My son.
00:07:50.900 My son.
00:07:50.920 Why harass me though.
00:07:52.480 My son.
00:07:53.200 Why harass me?
00:07:54.040 You don't have to harass me.
00:07:55.080 But for my son.
00:07:55.880 But you don't have to harass me.
00:07:56.660 My son.
00:07:57.280 Where's my son?
00:07:58.000 Where's my son?
00:07:59.140 You need to stop harassing me.
00:08:00.340 Where's my son?
00:08:01.200 That's all I'm just asking for.
00:08:02.180 I'm not here for her.
00:08:02.940 That you put it through?
00:08:06.480 That you put it through?
00:08:08.820 That you put it through?
00:08:13.500 Can you speak English?
00:08:14.940 That's part of the reason why you can't get no acting job.
00:08:16.940 I'm sure.
00:08:17.340 Your articulation is poor.
00:08:18.880 I'm sure. 0.99
00:08:19.480 What the are you fake? 0.92
00:08:20.880 I'm sure.
00:08:23.520 If only you actually like.
00:08:26.160 Put it through?
00:08:27.120 What does that mean?
00:08:28.480 Can you put it through?
00:08:29.480 He's trying to say.
00:08:30.660 He's trying to do the whole.
00:08:32.080 Child actor.
00:08:33.860 Parents.
00:08:35.020 Sacrifice.
00:08:35.540 They childhood gag.
00:08:37.440 Oh.
00:08:37.920 Okay.
00:08:38.480 Well.
00:08:38.780 We got.
00:08:39.160 Look at her.
00:08:39.600 $30 million.
00:08:40.500 Look at her.
00:08:41.400 That's fine.
00:08:41.780 Yeah.
00:08:42.020 I sacrificed her.
00:08:43.080 I guess.
00:08:43.640 Okay.
00:08:44.000 That's what you want to say.
00:08:45.140 But what does your mama do to you? 1.00
00:08:46.700 Huh? 0.99
00:08:47.080 She **** you up. 0.99
00:08:48.120 My mom's fine. 1.00
00:08:48.920 You should have been a child. 1.00
00:08:49.980 It's a gay one. 1.00
00:08:50.900 I'm good. 0.98
00:08:51.300 If you should have been one.
00:08:52.280 Maybe you would have more gumption.
00:08:54.320 Maybe you would have more.
00:08:55.680 Get cooked through it. 1.00
00:08:56.860 Cause your mama **** you up. 0.99
00:08:58.080 She's trying to do it to a punk **** mama's boy who harasses a woman. 1.00
00:09:03.020 What kind of **** is that? 1.00
00:09:04.900 Your mama should be ashamed of herself. 1.00
00:09:07.040 She should be telling you, why are you harassing this girl, Jerry? 1.00
00:09:09.880 Because you're nuts. 0.99
00:09:11.360 There's no reason for you to say that. 0.99
00:09:12.880 I'm sorry.
00:09:13.760 Jezebel.
00:09:14.380 Calling me Hades.
00:09:15.380 That's all necessary.
00:09:16.820 You do all of that unnecessarily because something's wrong with your mind.
00:09:20.460 It's not normal. 0.99
00:09:21.240 You sound like you have a broken brain and you need to go to see somebody because you're 0.99
00:09:25.440 chemically imbalanced. 0.99
00:09:26.220 There's nothing that I've done for you to stay on that page.
00:09:29.220 People have endured more.
00:09:30.620 I've endured more from you and I don't do that to you.
00:09:32.700 I don't sit up there and call y'all kinds of names and do stuff like that.
00:09:35.940 You randomly have an episode and then you harass me for an hour straight.
00:09:41.060 That's what you do.
00:09:42.960 It's not normal.
00:09:44.500 It's not necessary.
00:09:45.540 You can just not talk to me.
00:09:46.720 I'm going to ask you. 1.00
00:09:48.580 Upswich bisexual, he sleeps with me and you stupid ****. 1.00
00:09:52.620 You the stupidest **** on earth. 1.00
00:09:55.260 You should know you still watch out my girlfriend. 1.00
00:09:57.000 You the fucker. 1.00
00:09:58.080 You the dumb ****. 1.00
00:09:59.580 And then you let your family, you let your brother talk you into, hey man, look, your brother's 1.00
00:10:06.000 a pussy too. 1.00
00:10:06.920 What I'm tasting in Hollywood is he's a **** boy and he's a **** and nobody really likes him. 1.00
00:10:13.860 Wow. 0.99
00:10:17.840 I can call these things.
00:10:19.780 So we have the ghetto mother. 0.99
00:10:21.480 We talked about this last time.
00:10:23.240 You have abusive mothers and she even said herself that she sacrificed her daughter for money
00:10:28.500 and that we're okay because we have money.
00:10:32.440 We have $30 million now.
00:10:34.200 This is really a general trend I found in my conversations with women that they seem to 1.00
00:10:39.900 think everything will be all right as long as they have money.
00:10:42.360 They don't need dads.
00:10:43.240 They don't need a strong family unit.
00:10:45.580 If we have money, everything is great and fine and dandy.
00:10:49.520 And typically the more the ghetto mom is verbally abusive. 1.00
00:10:55.540 And that's what we saw in this clip.
00:10:57.360 And they're calling this guy schizophrenic.
00:11:00.080 They're saying he has mental issues.
00:11:01.360 All he's there to do is get his son.
00:11:03.660 And this is why a lot of men just stop fighting because imagine having to do this once a week.
00:11:08.380 Imagine if you want to see your kid on Sundays.
00:11:11.060 Every Sunday you got to go up and get your son and deal with this.
00:11:17.300 A lot of men walk away from situations like this because they just don't want to deal with it.
00:11:23.100 And messages dated January 15, 2022.
00:11:27.160 Darius allegedly tells his mother,
00:11:29.180 Hey mom, Kiki turned off my phone.
00:11:30.800 If she tries to get you in trouble, you have these pictures to prove your innocence.
00:11:34.420 Take all the pictures because she is the celebrity. 0.98
00:11:37.360 On a separate occasion, an alleged exchange between the pair reveals Kiki apologizing.
00:11:42.040 I'm sorry for hitting you.
00:11:42.900 I'm sorry for being afraid to lose you.
00:11:45.060 And that turning into me acting out of fear and desperation.
00:11:50.700 Wow.
00:11:51.780 Yeah.
00:11:52.020 And so this man's been, this man's had this woman trying to get dirt on him for years and
00:11:57.760 just holding it over his head.
00:11:59.700 I've seen this happen firsthand.
00:12:02.220 The other thing I wanted to say is they kept saying, Oh, you're harassing me.
00:12:06.300 You're harassing me.
00:12:07.640 When they were harassing him, give the man his son.
00:12:11.300 It's 50% his DNA.
00:12:13.000 Give the man his son.
00:12:14.180 So DJ academics reacts in this clip.
00:12:17.520 Let's pull it up.
00:12:20.280 Apparently this is text messages between them.
00:12:24.440 This is him texting his mom saying, Hey mom, Kiki turned off my phone.
00:12:28.560 So I'm on my laptop.
00:12:29.960 Please book my flight.
00:12:31.980 Hey, I'm on my laptop.
00:12:33.300 His mom says, Hey, he says, Kiki took the phone.
00:12:37.200 Her mom says, Are you okay?
00:12:38.820 Where are you at?
00:12:39.580 He says in the bathroom, she says, Whoa.
00:12:43.420 He says, I don't have my phone or any communication.
00:12:46.120 I want to go home.
00:12:48.240 His mom says she can't cancel your reservation.
00:12:51.720 Do you have a flight number?
00:12:53.300 So I could call United and tell him what's going on.
00:12:55.600 Need information.
00:12:56.340 How she get you a phone.
00:12:58.740 I'm afraid she will create a problem for you in Mexico. 0.99
00:13:01.840 Darius.
00:13:02.320 I need to know the hotel number.
00:13:03.680 Okay.
00:13:03.980 Whatever, man.
00:13:05.740 Then apparently this is him sending pictures to his mom.
00:13:10.060 His mom says, Make sure your dad get all that stuff.
00:13:13.260 I'm glad you're out of it.
00:13:14.640 And don't look bad.
00:13:15.960 Don't look back.
00:13:16.960 He sends this picture.
00:13:18.660 Then his mom says, If she tries to get you in trouble, you've got these pictures to prove
00:13:22.760 your innocence, take all the pictures because she's the celebrity. 1.00
00:13:27.480 He says, I know, making sure I have some saved.
00:13:31.440 There are so many men with albums in their phone that they keep proving that they are 0.92
00:13:38.480 not the abusers because women throw this around. 1.00
00:13:40.880 They say harassment.
00:13:41.940 They say abuse.
00:13:43.520 When a lot of times it's projection.
00:13:45.780 A lot of times women will say what the other person is. 1.00
00:13:50.660 It really is actually a reflection of them.
00:13:53.340 I'm sorry for hitting you.
00:13:54.760 I'm sorry for being afraid to lose you and that turning me into acting out of fear and
00:14:03.240 desperation.
00:14:04.060 That was not the best me that you received and I'm sorry for that.
00:14:07.440 I'm mad at the situation.
00:14:08.980 I'm mad at myself.
00:14:10.420 I'm deeply affected and afraid because it's such a deep heaviness that I don't want to feel
00:14:18.160 anymore.
00:14:18.740 It's not your fault nor job to alleviate them from me.
00:14:21.680 I honestly need to pray on it.
00:14:23.100 I just hate how exposed I can feel.
00:14:26.000 I'm just sad and sorry to be texting so much.
00:14:29.020 That's why I truly hate when things go down.
00:14:32.100 I gotta be here at work.
00:14:33.820 I have no time of the day just to sleep and heal.
00:14:36.180 I was up all night. 0.99
00:14:37.520 I forgot all the shit at home. 0.99
00:14:39.440 I'm in every single scene yet. 0.99
00:14:42.220 I did this to myself.
00:14:43.720 I'm sorry.
00:14:44.260 My texts are coming out of order.
00:14:46.600 He responds by saying, have the night to yourself, Kiki.
00:14:50.120 Only you.
00:14:50.720 When you wake up tomorrow, let me know what you want to do.
00:14:54.000 He says, I don't want to lose you, but I also don't want to lose myself, which is why
00:14:58.740 I try and hold myself in those situations to the point where I may be looking like I'm
00:15:03.420 ignoring or turning my back on you.
00:15:05.680 So then we have an email from Kiki to Darius.
00:15:09.460 Hey, I understand if you don't want to meet anymore.
00:15:12.380 Not sure if you're getting my messages or not, but I am available today at 8 p.m. if you want
00:15:16.400 to meet at the Garland.
00:15:18.560 Lauren P.
00:15:19.440 If you delete the footage from last Sunday, it'll only confirm how much of a manipulator
00:15:24.520 you are.
00:15:25.440 I talked amongst my people.
00:15:27.740 You decided to look through my messages.
00:15:29.660 I never threatened to speak out in public, only to the ones who should have been telling
00:15:33.800 all throughout.
00:15:35.060 Leave me alone.
00:15:35.760 My evidence is just a reminder to never speak to you again.
00:15:38.780 Goodbye.
00:15:39.080 And then he sends another message saying, is this a joke?
00:15:44.160 Leave my family.
00:15:45.080 Out of this, leave us alone. 1.00
00:15:46.620 Y'all are mad, abusive, and controlling. 0.97
00:15:48.500 I'm getting a new number today. 0.99
00:15:49.940 You're done forever.
00:15:52.080 She hit me.
00:15:53.160 Darius allegedly tells his mother. 0.99
00:15:56.280 Yeah, so this woman's crazy. 1.00
00:15:58.800 This woman's crazy. 1.00
00:16:00.320 Sharon Palmer says, you cannot leave her. 1.00
00:16:02.260 She is drunk.
00:16:03.120 She hit me.
00:16:03.800 You cannot leave her.
00:16:04.860 Never thought she would.
00:16:06.100 Her friends are with her.
00:16:07.200 She is under the influence.
00:16:08.380 She's with them.
00:16:08.880 I love y'all.
00:16:09.500 Thanks for getting me closer to God.
00:16:11.300 I will take this lesson and move forward with it.
00:16:14.080 Please meet me at this address.
00:16:16.100 I want to speak to you.
00:16:17.260 Then there's audio here.
00:16:21.500 Then he says, thank you for everything.
00:16:23.560 It was a delight that you stopped by last night.
00:16:25.900 The language of love is rarely spoken, and it is an absolute blessing that you look out
00:16:29.860 for us because hardly anybody in that environment we are in is rooting for Kiki and I.
00:16:36.040 So these spirits and evil consumes us more than we thought it would be better people and surround
00:16:41.860 ourselves with people that can speak the language we speak and relate to what we feel.
00:16:46.480 We will continue to practice our faith.
00:16:48.360 Thank you.
00:16:51.440 And this is to the mother.
00:16:53.340 Amen.
00:16:54.220 My humble advice.
00:16:55.760 And I know neither of you have asked me for it, but I will give it for what is worth. 0.98
00:16:59.860 The black industry parties are worse, I have to say. 1.00
00:17:02.920 But they sure breed chaos and jealousy, just like crabs in a barrel. 0.98
00:17:07.380 No one wants to see the other succeed.
00:17:09.460 Kiki is very successful early on, so she became the one targeted and whispered about.
00:17:14.440 She was the phenomenal kid that kept booking jobs, yet worked so much she never had any 0.71
00:17:18.680 real friends, and all she ever wanted was genuine friends, not fame.
00:17:23.200 Wow.
00:17:25.960 So they're saying basically that because she was booked out so much as a kid.
00:17:30.760 Yeah.
00:17:31.220 Extreme fame, guys.
00:17:33.320 Sorry, I'm leaning forward.
00:17:34.400 I'm trying to read it.
00:17:35.500 Extreme fame has a lot of negative effects.
00:17:38.520 I can't imagine being extremely famous as a kid.
00:17:40.920 That would ruin any kid.
00:17:42.920 The language of love is a unique one, and we have to customize it to fit yours.
00:17:48.020 I wanted to speak with you last night and tell you that Kiki often has to walk a type 1.00
00:17:53.060 rope, a rope from the black Hollywood with white Hollywood, and she can never slip up or 1.00
00:17:57.900 else.
00:17:58.280 Can you imagine the stress, the anxiety trying to be accepted in black culture and represented
00:18:02.520 by both worlds?
00:18:03.400 I do not condone her hitting you or anyone, and I told her that, but I hope you guys can
00:18:07.960 try and make it work.
00:18:09.120 Try not to make a bad night turn into forever you might one day regret.
00:18:12.540 Darius, I think you are awesome.
00:18:13.760 I know that Kiki loves you.
00:18:15.180 Sending prayers, hoping you guys can get over this bump and find your mojo again.
00:18:20.260 Much love.
00:18:21.680 Okay, so they're actually admitting that.
00:18:24.460 Her mom's admitting that she's the abusive one. 0.99
00:18:27.460 And the thing is, guys, you guys think I'm harping on Kiki or like women or whatever.
00:18:32.040 How will she improve if we always accept her delusion?
00:18:37.600 So let's say she said today, I want to be a better person.
00:18:41.500 How can she do that if everyone is saying, blame the evil, awful men?
00:18:45.980 Seriously, how can we improve if we can't even say, this is wrong?
00:18:53.280 I don't believe her.
00:18:55.140 Women have a tendency to just blow everything out of proportion. 1.00
00:18:59.120 We're very controlling. 0.96
00:19:00.140 We're very manipulative.
00:19:01.780 How do we improve if we're always fueling the delusion?
00:19:05.220 In an excerpt from Kiki's book, I Don't Belong to You, unearthed by blogger Armin Wiggins,
00:19:10.840 the actress details a volatile and physically abusive relationship that she was in prior
00:19:15.380 to Darius Jackson.
00:19:16.860 Sometimes I went off on him just to get a rise out of him.
00:19:20.120 And just like that, our relationship became physically and emotionally abusive, mostly
00:19:24.740 on my part.
00:19:26.420 And you guys just wanted me to believe it when the pictures came out of him like choking
00:19:31.080 her or whatever. 0.80
00:19:31.800 So the excerpt says, as my resentment grew, my darkness started showing up, old bad habits
00:19:40.180 and defense mechanisms, hurt people, hurt people.
00:19:44.120 Sometimes I went off on him just to get a rise out of him.
00:19:47.620 I couldn't express my pain.
00:19:49.520 And the fact that he couldn't see I was hurting caused me, I think, to subconsciously show him
00:19:54.600 through making him feel that same hurt.
00:19:57.060 And just like that, our relationship became physically and emotionally abusive and mostly
00:20:02.680 on my part.
00:20:04.000 Sometimes we think only guys can be abusive, and it's not true.
00:20:07.580 Things can get out of hand for anyone when you have feelings you haven't dealt with.
00:20:12.100 There was one time in the middle of the night that we got into a crazy fight.
00:20:15.980 I should say morning because it was like 3 a.m. and I wanted him to leave.
00:20:20.220 He wouldn't and wouldn't let me leave.
00:20:22.240 I was texting my best friend Jamie the whole time, and like in a movie, she hopped out of
00:20:27.180 her bed without question to come pick me up.
00:20:29.860 He left when he'd realized I'd called her to come, but when she dropped me off the next
00:20:33.380 morning, he somehow managed to get right on the couch.
00:20:36.720 He never hit me, but we fought for the first two years of living together.
00:20:40.920 I started to feel so ashamed, as if I was turning into the monster that I promised myself
00:20:45.420 I would never become.
00:20:46.800 This wasn't me.
00:20:47.980 Who was this?
00:20:49.200 How did I end up on this end of it?
00:20:50.880 How, I thought to myself.
00:20:52.560 By the third year, I told myself I couldn't be that person anymore.
00:20:56.460 If this is what relationships brought out of me, I didn't want it.
00:20:59.700 I was tired of feeling like he was my responsibility and of the fact of our relationship had become
00:21:04.900 codependent in every area.
00:21:07.440 So now we know that she has a history of being abusive in relationships. 1.00
00:21:14.020 Hiddizzle says, exactly.
00:21:15.580 She antagonized him a lot and they were both toxic, but Kiki was not as innocent as she 0.84
00:21:22.460 says.
00:21:23.380 Yes, that's my point.
00:21:24.800 Like, it takes two to tango.
00:21:27.060 It takes two to tango.
00:21:28.940 Kay Keem says, well, she has a history of being abusive to her partner's SMH. 0.93
00:21:35.820 Females know exactly what triggers their partners most of the time. 1.00
00:21:39.020 Yeah, that's why a lot of these volatile, crazy fights, guys, it takes two to tango.
00:21:46.340 Women, when women say they were abused, we are not these innocent creatures that just 0.90
00:21:51.360 did nothing and contributed nothing to the situation.
00:21:55.420 Genuinely.
00:21:56.240 All right.
00:21:56.540 So I really just think we need to start waiting for the evidence and the facts to come out
00:22:01.900 before we come to a conclusion.
00:22:04.300 And my question is, why was she just awarded full custody of her son?
00:22:07.880 This is why men should be given custody, because when women get power over men, they're just 1.00
00:22:11.980 evil with it.
00:22:13.260 Women should not have any leverage over men. 1.00
00:22:16.440 And it messes up the natural order of the world.
00:22:18.540 It's supposed to go God, men, women, children. 0.97
00:22:21.140 And when women get power over men, they're just not good with it. 1.00