JustPearlyThings - May 05, 2023


Pearl KICKS OUT Male Feminist


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10 minutes

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25

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35

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In this episode, we talk about when a girl comes back to your place after a night out and if she wants to come back at a certain time, what should she do? Is it after a certain hour? What are the expectations you have for your girl when she comes back?

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00:00:00.000 I think it's about comfortability because if a girl comes back to your place, 1.00
00:00:04.340 I think it's kind of a mutual understanding of what's expected
00:00:07.740 or what's possibly going to happen.
00:00:10.000 I think if a girl comes back to your place and you're vibing 1.00
00:00:12.840 and you're doing whatever you're doing and she says no,
00:00:15.840 I think it's a point of, like, comfortability.
00:00:19.360 She doesn't feel comfortable with you.
00:00:21.840 She walks in, she takes her shoes off, let her know right there, 0.95
00:00:24.820 get comfortable in her dress.
00:00:26.560 Well, I just don't understand, like, what were you doing there in the first place?
00:00:30.400 Because if a girl, if you feel pressured or whatever, it's like, why'd you go back?
00:00:34.020 Exactly, because there's the comfortability factor.
00:00:36.620 Does it have to be sex?
00:00:37.980 If a girl comes back, she's going to be. 1.00
00:00:40.400 After a certain hour, yeah, I just assume.
00:00:43.540 That's assumption.
00:00:44.720 That's assumption.
00:00:45.540 That's not assumption.
00:00:46.420 Listen, any one of you, if I invited you back to my place,
00:00:50.540 in your mind.
00:00:52.580 I do think that straight away.
00:00:54.080 What's the expectation?
00:00:54.940 What do you think I'm expecting?
00:00:56.900 What are we doing?
00:00:58.700 What are we doing?
00:00:59.400 Yeah, what are we doing?
00:01:00.220 But you know what.
00:01:00.860 Are we just chilling, chatting, having some food?
00:01:03.760 If you go back to a man's place after you've been drinking out,
00:01:06.420 night out in the club with your girls and I'm out with my boys or whatever,
00:01:09.820 and you come back, we know what it is.
00:01:13.060 Oh, I'm delusional enough to actually think that you want to be my friend.
00:01:17.440 I think I'm not going to have fun.
00:01:19.400 But you know what it is.
00:01:20.040 If you're coming back, then you know what the expectation is.
00:01:23.060 Why am I inviting you back to my place and we're not going to go there?
00:01:25.060 I'm not going to lie, bro.
00:01:26.000 I think that's your own expectation.
00:01:27.920 I feel like whatever girl that I go back with, 0.97
00:01:30.400 I know whether we're going to just chat and talk 0.53
00:01:33.160 or whether we're going to have sex. 0.98
00:01:34.240 At 2 a.m., you want to chat, bro? 0.97
00:01:35.800 We're going to do this.
00:01:36.580 I know what the situation is.
00:01:38.040 I think you automatically assume,
00:01:40.100 oh, if you're back at my place at this time, 1.00
00:01:42.220 we have to fuck. 1.00
00:01:43.000 What? 1.00
00:01:43.260 I think that's just your expectation, bro.
00:01:44.740 Cool, cool.
00:01:45.100 Listen, bro.
00:01:45.540 Listen.
00:01:45.860 Chill out.
00:01:46.120 Chill out.
00:01:46.280 Chill out.
00:01:46.620 Chill out.
00:01:47.160 Chill out.
00:01:47.520 If a girl comes back to your place, 1.00
00:01:48.760 she's not there to talk.
00:01:49.560 What world do you live in?
00:01:53.440 I live in the 21st century in London.
00:01:55.580 Do you know what I mean?
00:01:56.660 So you bring girls back to your place? 1.00
00:01:58.800 Wait.
00:01:59.600 Wait.
00:02:00.160 I'm asking.
00:02:00.720 Wait.
00:02:01.360 Wait.
00:02:02.160 I'm going to ask you a question.
00:02:03.720 So you bring girls black to your place at 2 a.m. 1.00
00:02:07.480 And are you waiting?
00:02:10.120 Yeah.
00:02:10.320 Yeah.
00:02:10.640 Yeah.
00:02:11.480 I'm waiting.
00:02:12.440 I'm waiting.
00:02:13.620 And what?
00:02:14.360 They just curve you? 1.00
00:02:17.260 Sometimes they have sex with me. 0.99
00:02:18.820 Sometimes we eat. 0.98
00:02:19.960 Sometimes we do this.
00:02:20.840 Sometimes we do that.
00:02:21.820 I think it depends.
00:02:23.040 It depends on the girl.
00:02:24.360 It depends on you.
00:02:24.860 Do you see what I'm saying?
00:02:25.760 I think if you're going to be like my man
00:02:27.300 and assume that every girl you come back with, 1.00
00:02:29.200 you're going to fuck, 1.00
00:02:30.480 you're a waste, man. 1.00
00:02:31.380 I'm just being real. 1.00
00:02:32.200 I agree.
00:02:32.840 Bro, this guy here,
00:02:33.920 I don't know what you're saying.
00:02:34.600 How old are you, my bro?
00:02:35.300 You're 20.
00:02:35.960 Yeah?
00:02:36.340 I'm 28.
00:02:37.380 So I've got eight more years of understanding
00:02:39.180 of what it is.
00:02:40.460 And you're still a feminist, bro. 1.00
00:02:41.460 You're yours, bro.
00:02:42.220 It's not about being a feminist. 1.00
00:02:43.660 You're a feminist, bro. 1.00
00:02:44.800 Brother, it's not about being a label.
00:02:46.480 Listen, when a girl comes to me, listen, bro.
00:02:47.560 You're labelling, bro.
00:02:48.560 It's a young ting.
00:02:49.380 Listen, bro.
00:02:49.700 Labelling people in a bracket is a young ting, bro.
00:02:51.740 Listen, bro.
00:02:52.080 Listen.
00:02:52.800 So you're telling me when a girl comes to your house 1.00
00:02:54.680 at 2 a.m.,
00:02:55.540 2 a.m., 1.00
00:02:56.200 you're going to eat fucking pizza 1.00
00:02:57.240 and watch Netflix. 1.00
00:02:58.320 Bro.
00:02:58.600 That's not a girl. 1.00
00:02:59.280 Bro, brother, brother.
00:02:59.880 But sometimes it's like that.
00:03:01.740 Why can't it be like that?
00:03:02.680 Shall I tell you something?
00:03:03.280 Shall I tell you something?
00:03:04.060 You might have a girl come back to your yard 1.00
00:03:05.560 at 2 a.m., yeah?
00:03:07.300 And do you know what? 1.00
00:03:07.940 You might try to fuck her 1.00
00:03:08.880 and she don't want to fuck you 1.00
00:03:09.740 and do you know what? 1.00
00:03:10.120 You'll never see her again.
00:03:11.240 When some people might just wait,
00:03:13.880 chill, get to know the girl
00:03:14.980 and in the future, 1.00
00:03:16.080 they still will fuck her. 1.00
00:03:17.120 Do you get what I'm saying? 1.00
00:03:18.000 What do you mean if she don't want to fuck me 1.00
00:03:19.220 and I'll fuck her again? 1.00
00:03:20.400 Maybe, cool, I'll say, cool. 1.00
00:03:21.900 No problem, darling.
00:03:23.060 That's no problem. 1.00
00:03:23.960 What do you mean I'm never going to fuck her again? 1.00
00:03:25.360 I'm not going to force myself onto her. 1.00
00:03:26.880 So then why are you asking me a question
00:03:28.020 if a girl comes to your yard at 2 a.m.,
00:03:29.480 you're going to do what?
00:03:30.240 What do you expect to do, bro?
00:03:31.480 Exactly.
00:03:31.940 You have an expectation.
00:03:33.680 What do you expect it?
00:03:34.380 You have an expectation in your head.
00:03:36.100 It's 2 a.m.
00:03:36.500 Because it's 2 a.m.
00:03:40.120 This isn't reality.
00:03:41.100 Come on.
00:03:42.020 What should we call on, bro?
00:03:43.380 That's basic.
00:03:44.420 Wait, wait.
00:03:44.800 This is so...
00:03:45.480 Wait, wait.
00:03:46.720 That's basic.
00:03:47.480 Wait.
00:03:47.940 This is your last warning.
00:03:49.240 This is your last warning.
00:03:50.140 It might have to be.
00:03:50.400 It might have to be.
00:03:50.900 It might have to be.
00:03:52.200 All right, go.
00:03:52.820 Go.
00:03:53.160 Bye.
00:03:53.540 Thank you.
00:03:54.020 All right.
00:03:54.560 All right.
00:03:55.640 Say no more of them.
00:03:57.680 Finally, bro.
00:03:58.960 Finally, bro.
00:04:00.580 Talk in peace, bro. 1.00
00:04:01.620 You're a feminist bitch boy. 1.00
00:04:03.160 I'm going to read the super chat. 1.00
00:04:05.880 Okay, guys.
00:04:06.580 Make sure you like the video.
00:04:08.400 Chat.
00:04:08.640 And ring the notification bell.
00:04:14.060 Clint Torres.
00:04:16.060 I'm getting simp vibes in the back.
00:04:18.220 Amina.
00:04:19.440 I am a Muslim girl.
00:04:22.820 And my cue is from the girls.
00:04:25.120 Do you think you being used by many men is something you can be proud of because of how happy about it?
00:04:31.460 And girl, why do you have a Chris Christ symbol on your neck if you don't follow his teachings?
00:04:37.720 Clint, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry.
00:04:39.720 Is that to me?
00:04:41.160 They're coming for her neck now.
00:04:42.840 It's because it's snitchy.
00:04:44.060 You can respond after.
00:04:45.680 I'm just going to read them all.
00:04:46.980 Ninety Frito Pie.
00:04:48.060 Your mom is not a female dog to you, but she is to someone else. 1.00
00:04:52.420 If you can't see, if you can't see that, then why can't women, then why can't you call women a 304? 0.93
00:05:00.600 I'm Francisco.
00:05:02.060 R, to the younger brother.
00:05:04.020 I understand, I believe you're very young, but life will teach you differently.
00:05:07.960 Why a virgin is valuable 10 to 15 years from now. 0.59
00:05:17.560 Jordan, purity and virginity is important to a high-value man.
00:05:21.680 It's not in security and standards. 0.99
00:05:24.280 Bryant, dude, guys, shut up. 0.99
00:05:27.260 Please, you need to stop. 0.99
00:05:28.840 Ninety Frito Pie for the women. 1.00
00:05:30.720 What is he not leaving?
00:05:31.600 He's not leaving.
00:05:37.960 For the women on the panel, you have girlfriends, right? 0.96
00:05:44.260 How would you feel if you're a perfect man that slept with every one of your friends?
00:05:47.400 That's how men feel.
00:05:49.580 Bryant, men, get out of your feelings.
00:05:51.540 Stop interrupting.
00:05:57.960 Francisco, men are scared of losing their phone more than, or women are scared of losing their phone more than their virginity.
00:06:04.160 YouTube has lied, has me edited this message multiple times for no reason.
00:06:11.780 If she can have a body count, she will not.
00:06:16.320 She's new TV per, oh, wait, that's the wrong, that's another stream.
00:06:19.900 Let me refresh it really quick and make sure there's no new one.
00:06:26.740 Okay.
00:06:29.720 Jesus, okay.
00:06:30.880 Um, all right.
00:06:35.360 Let me talk about, okay, how many bodies do you guys think it takes for a girl to become a hoe? 1.00
00:06:41.200 Does it exist?
00:06:42.920 I don't really have one, obviously, because it doesn't affect me, but I think guys say about five.
00:06:48.080 Five.
00:06:48.620 Really?
00:06:49.560 I hear guys say ten.
00:06:51.160 That's like the most popular, yeah, like ten to fifteen, that's what I hear.
00:06:54.700 What age are you talking about, parents?
00:06:56.480 Because I think it depends on the age, right?
00:06:57.780 Um, I don't know, I just, that's, whenever I ask this question on the street a lot, and
00:07:03.760 that's just the most common answer I get, ten.
00:07:05.880 I think you can only be called up.
00:07:07.100 Regardless of age.
00:07:08.440 Um, I'm trying to think, when I've asked guys about ten, it seems like ten at thirty
00:07:12.660 is not too bad.
00:07:14.360 Mm-hmm.
00:07:14.740 Ten at twenty-five.
00:07:16.060 Well, and to be honest, the guys say ten, they'll usually, like, I see who they date,
00:07:22.020 you know, and so, they really deal with about twenty, like, to be honest, they just won't,
00:07:27.060 like, tell you, and I just know, because, like, you know.
00:07:30.600 I think the ideal would be, like, four, five, six, seven max.
00:07:34.560 That's what, that's what guys, like, they want below five, that's ideal.
00:07:38.460 Ten, like, ten, they feel like you're a hoe. 1.00
00:07:41.540 Fifteen to twenty, they'll deal with, but that's not preferred, and then after twenty,
00:07:46.020 it's like...
00:07:46.460 I've got no hope then, basically.
00:07:48.400 Yeah, no, it's really sad.
00:07:50.880 No, it actually, no, it actually makes me kind of sad for you, because you're a pretty
00:07:54.960 girl, and you're actually very pleasant, but it's like, because you've made those choices,
00:07:58.820 I think it's going to be hard for you.
00:08:00.320 But, babe, you'll find someone who doesn't care about that.
00:08:02.540 Exactly.
00:08:02.820 Like, not everyone actually cares about that.
00:08:05.000 Yeah, and I think that, you know, did you know, like, fifty percent of women are projected
00:08:09.780 to be single and childless?
00:08:11.620 Really?
00:08:12.180 What if they've slept with a lot of people?
00:08:14.320 Just in general.
00:08:15.440 I mean, I don't think it's just women that have slept with a lot of people, but they're 1.00
00:08:18.120 predicting half of our generation is going to be single and childless, because we don't
00:08:21.340 know how to be wives.
00:08:22.200 I think you can only, I think a hoe is when you're still doing the same things. 1.00
00:08:27.480 So, like, I wouldn't say, like, let's just say a girl is a hoe, she's slept with, let's 1.00
00:08:34.500 just say thirty people, right?
00:08:35.900 But she hasn't slept with a lot of people for three years.
00:08:39.940 Let's say she hasn't slept with people for three years.
00:08:42.240 Anyone?
00:08:43.400 Is she still a hoe? 1.00
00:08:44.680 Yeah.
00:08:45.360 Why?
00:08:46.260 Because I think, is someone, if someone that's been to prison, are they still a criminal?
00:08:51.780 No.
00:08:53.020 Yes, they are.
00:08:53.780 You've got me thinking.
00:08:54.540 You've got me thinking.
00:08:56.440 Be honest.
00:08:56.900 You know, you can't.
00:08:57.440 If you can learn from things, that's the thing.
00:08:59.860 So, like, if a girl is, you know, they've grown and they've learned that's immature, I'm 0.99
00:09:05.700 valuable, and I actually want someone to love me for me, and they don't sleep with anyone
00:09:10.640 and they wait for the right person to come, I feel like you've grown and you've matured
00:09:15.060 and it shouldn't matter.
00:09:16.540 Have you ever switched a habit?
00:09:18.300 What do you mean?
00:09:18.840 Like, have you ever had a habit and, like, you switched it?
00:09:21.120 So, like, maybe you didn't work out and you started working out, or maybe you ate bad food
00:09:25.160 and then you stopped.
00:09:25.720 Yeah.
00:09:26.400 You know how difficult it was for you to switch that habit?
00:09:29.860 Yeah.
00:09:30.400 Like, it wasn't easy.
00:09:31.680 And that's the thing.
00:09:32.440 It's just, like, if you've done that for so long, it's not saying you can't change.
00:09:35.700 Some people do.
00:09:36.520 But it's just on a balance of probabilities.
00:09:38.900 Why would a guy deal with a girl that has more bad habits than a girl who doesn't? 0.85
00:09:43.260 Because she's used to going out all the time.
00:09:44.760 She's used to going on all these dates.
00:09:46.620 If you've slept with a lot of guys, I'm sure you've been on, like, super nice dates at some,
00:09:50.440 you know, like, and so now if you meet the average Joe, you know, which maybe would have
00:09:55.800 been your husband, how is he going to impress you?
00:09:58.320 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:01.120 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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