JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023


Pearl Logically DEBUNKS Female Voting


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

176.1833

Word count

1,948

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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A high value man is a bachelor in his 40s and 50s, has a vasectomy, travels extensively, swims in the sea every morning in sunshine, and enjoys the very best of life unfettered by the concerns and responsibilities that others have.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 trust um okay so our last story today um is actually about um troy francis so troy francis
00:00:08.460 has been on the show a couple times testosterone drops when you're in a relationship but particularly
00:00:13.140 when you're in a domestic relationship you know it's funny though the one thing that stops your
00:00:16.480 testosterone from dropping in those relationships do you know do you guys know what is it you cheat
00:00:21.680 on your girl sensation i'm just a scientist so troy francis has been on the show a couple times
00:00:27.660 and he had a tweet today um that really made conservative and liberal twitter go crazy okay so
00:00:35.780 troy says a high value man is a bachelor in his 40s and 50s has a vasectomy child free by choice
00:00:44.720 travels extensively uh reads voriciously swims in the sea every morning in sunshine
00:00:51.480 enjoys the very best of life unfettered by the concerns and responsibilities that others have
00:00:58.260 so here's an interesting thing guys okay um i want to just point out how it's so interesting
00:01:05.420 when men get a vasectomy how twitter just gets so triggered and and i want to have an honest
00:01:11.700 conversation about this we know that the reputation of marriage is bad okay we know that women have a 0.98
00:01:19.700 nature okay we know that women's nature when we tend to get power we aren't very nice with it when 1.00
00:01:26.120 we tend to get leverage we aren't very nice with it my evidence for this is in the last hundred years
00:01:31.960 when policymakers have had to cater to women to get elected women have elected politicians that have 0.99
00:01:38.500 passed unfair child support alimony divorce laws child custody laws and really policies that in my eyes
00:01:46.940 only benefit women women's nature is just very selfish i can't tell you why um completely it's this 0.99
00:01:54.060 way but i see no evidence that it's any other way now does that mean every woman acts on her nature no 0.97
00:02:00.560 but the problem is uh we can't have honest conversations about these topics because
00:02:06.680 everybody thinks their woman is special and i've interviewed many men that thought their women was
00:02:12.300 were special when um they got married and then they found out that she was exactly the same
00:02:18.780 and the truth of the matter is that instagram changes women it gives us leverage to the point
00:02:25.920 or at least perceived leverage to the point where we think we are better than the men that are on our
00:02:32.240 level and i don't i don't think this can really be disputed when you see women calling themselves
00:02:37.880 tens and let's look at the media when women have been pandered to in the media um it's often at the 1.00
00:02:45.200 expense of men when women get power over men we're not very nice with it so the the reputation of marriage
00:02:52.620 is bad we can all agree on this so 50 roughly please don't argue with me about five percent okay
00:03:00.060 50 of marriages fail all right now let's look at the other 50 if the reputation of marriage is bad
00:03:07.180 that tells us that at least half of the people that stayed married are not in marriages that most
00:03:13.760 people would deem desirable and when you look at numbers that go through um i don't know sexlessness
00:03:21.080 when you look at numbers that go through marital satisfaction um we're looking at a 75 percent plus
00:03:28.280 failure rate of marriage um yet people can push marriage with no pushback now i i don't say to get
00:03:37.940 married or to not get married what i try to do is explain how these policies affect everything
00:03:43.540 right now the value of women is lower and lower we're offering less kids less purity less youth um 1.00
00:03:50.840 we it's very on it's very rare to see women actually serve men um when uh you when you ask a
00:03:57.520 question to a couple typically you see the woman answering instead of the man um indicating that
00:04:03.740 she's leading the relationship um instead of the guy when you look at more traditional relationships
00:04:09.800 you see the woman looking to the man you see men being publicly disrespected you see wives looking like
00:04:16.460 whores on instagram this is common and not every woman will do it but we don't acknowledge women's 1.00
00:04:22.380 nature and we also see women that were quote unquote good women and that did things the right 0.87
00:04:27.540 way let's let's say the stephen crowder thing they both waited till they were married got married after
00:04:32.620 a couple months um both christians and it seemed like that was the right path and yet women are women 1.00
00:04:38.440 and when women get leverage over men they're just not very nice with it and so what troy does is
00:04:46.600 his version of a high value man right is taking reproductive power into his own hands you know
00:04:53.980 90 of women have been on birth control and i know women personally that are infertile because of it yet you
00:05:02.620 don't see the same visceral reaction to women getting an iud to women taking the depo shot to women on the
00:05:10.960 pill you don't see that but whenever men take fertility into their own hands we can't have an honest 1.00
00:05:17.460 conversation about it and you know trad cons will always sell marriage as kids marriage and kids as the 1.00
00:05:24.100 answer and you know as a woman like i i want it to be but i think when you have a 75 plus failure rate
00:05:32.280 it's disingenuous to say just find a good woman and get married um because women are still women and 1.00
00:05:38.760 even good women when tempted by the law child support alimony the entire media and culture telling 1.00
00:05:46.360 you to leave your marriage a lot of women are gonna take them up on that and unfortunately um we're 1.00
00:05:53.840 we're really gonna keep seeing a lot of divorce in my hand in my in my mind or a lack of marriage 1.00
00:05:59.320 so now what you see is you see the trad cons just getting very pissed and and and we just we need
00:06:07.720 to have an honest conversation about it guys i've interviewed so many men that are absolutely worse
00:06:12.560 off because they got married this idea that marriage and kids those men are are happier than
00:06:18.360 the others i i don't see it i see the opposite i see men that are disrespected in their own home
00:06:23.100 i see men that are in sexless marriages and i see the occasional happy couple but i i see more
00:06:29.620 unhappy than happy and this is just me being honest it's not what i want to see but um again with the
00:06:36.100 reputation of marriage being what it is i don't know how you can argue with it so um this guy says
00:06:42.140 married since my early 20s not snipped two kids with my wife unfortunately unable to have more only
00:06:49.020 really traveled to visit family mostly reading parenting and theology books but not as much as
00:06:53.880 i'd like swim in my pool a couple of times a week tired but fulfilled and you know there's nothing
00:07:00.480 wrong with that either and that that's what like you hope right but hope isn't what the numbers are
00:07:07.300 telling us and unfortunately you know i i think the biggest mistake people make is thinking they're
00:07:14.280 special most people are exactly the same most women are exactly the same now um i would strongly
00:07:21.120 advise against getting a vasectomy i met a bunch of these type of expats in south america the freedom
00:07:27.140 of being a man is you can start a family at any age agreed the vasectomy part is a no no most high
00:07:33.640 value men would delight in having children at some point okay but guys i want you i just want you to like
00:07:38.380 think about this so we know that men getting married young and i'm not saying to get a vasectomy
00:07:44.500 this is what they're going to say pearls pushing for a vasectomy my no my whole point is we can't
00:07:49.180 have an honest conversation about the pros and cons of a decision okay so let's let's think about this
00:07:55.460 we know that men young men have a hard time in dating so a lot of men will come to the conclusion
00:08:00.760 um i want to i want to wait till i'm older to get married so i have a little more leverage
00:08:06.260 now there are guys that just want to make sure they don't ever slip up because the idea of them
00:08:11.680 being abstinent for 15 years if you want to sell that to men good luck okay it's like yeah you have
00:08:18.060 to be abstinent till you're 35 okay um so a lot of guys just don't want to take that risk now it's
00:08:24.020 interesting because the majority of vasectomies are reversible but the majority of marriages fail
00:08:31.200 so why is one so triggering but the other is not and if you say that's a bad idea you're shamed
00:08:40.920 that's what i don't get now um this one guy says what is it with these aging red pill homos he 0.98
00:08:48.640 and this is i'll tell you what's happening there his worldview is collapsing because we've been sold
00:08:53.960 the dream that kids like if you kids are are the passage to happiness and i would agree if they're
00:09:02.160 your kids but in the west the children are not yours men have no legal rights not really with their 0.92
00:09:11.060 children uh women are almost always going to be granted custody women are the ones that are going 1.00
00:09:16.420 to put you on child support and oftentimes women will be in the kids ear if it doesn't work out 1.00
00:09:22.220 telling the kids how awful you are and then now it's like okay you have a 22 year old that hates
00:09:28.420 you is that better uh and i'm not i i'm not saying that you can't have good children but the idea like
00:09:36.660 my question is why is one so triggering but like we can't have an honest conversation about it like
00:09:43.760 why can't you have a conversation about this without um going back to aging red pill homos what is it 1.00
00:09:50.360 with these aging red pill homos trying to meme getting a vasectomy as this great thing um and 1.00
00:09:56.040 again i'm not saying it's a great thing i i think it's really i think the real solution is changing
00:10:01.480 child custody laws i think the real solution is changing marriage law i but i think in the time
00:10:08.200 being a vasectomy is what some guys are going to choose all right guys you know let me know what you
00:10:13.420 think guys get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt you know i i know a lot of you guys
00:10:18.880 are are saying i got other stuff i want to spend my money on blah blah blah but guys guys it helps
00:10:26.600 support the channel right and then we can really start to make waves on repealing the 19th you know
00:10:33.720 what i guys seriously and plus it's actually hilarious all you got to do people come up to you
00:10:38.580 they're like what's with your shirt and you just you just look at them you're like dead serious
00:10:42.780 and i just have the same answer you know we can't pick boyfriend so why should we pick the
00:10:51.900 leader of the free world i don't know it's fun get yourself a t-shirt like the video on your way out
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