Pearl Proofs Modern Women Aren't Wife Material
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Summary
Who qualifies to be a housewife? Is it a woman who can cook, clean, sew, and is good in bed? Who is a good housewife who is willing to stay home with their kids and take care of the kids?
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so I saw this study right that talked about what percent of women do you think
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get to be housewives don't don't cheat and look what percent do you think I'm
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gonna say 60 60 percent yeah let's say 30 30 percent 40 okay what do you mean
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specify housewives as in married or stay get to stay home with their children oh
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oh can I change it yeah yeah go ahead 30 30 percent 50 50 percent
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of women 40 okay 35 okay 35 40 okay 38 38 27 the question is how what percent of
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women want to be housewives that means their man can afford for them to be a
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housewife maybe 30 30 percent I'd say 22 22 percent Troy 20 percent so I hate to
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burst your bubble everybody 9.2 percent of women in the UK in the UK I thought we
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were like including you know Africa this is Western Western if you said UK I
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definitely would have said yeah so I thought to myself and I guess we'd have
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to you know agree on this first I would say that the best position to be in as a
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woman is to be married to someone that you want to be with the rest of your life
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and able to stay home with the kids if if you so want to would you agree if you
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so want to yeah okay so let's if you want to yes yeah so this is um so a kind of
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question it brought me to the question who qualifies to be a housewife like if
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you were going to apply for a job let's say like the men only 10 percent of men
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get a housewife they take a housewife and they basically say ladies ladies
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ladies here here's the application what should it say on it so I have a power
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point here um do you deserve to be a housewife so wait and then um number two
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go to the second slide I thought it would be fun to put what you guys think
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house what like what you think you should bring to the table in order to be a
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yeah one each one each okay you should that's a very nice
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old-fashioned because back in the day there was you couldn't like buy clothes
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yeah my girlfriend your wife had to be able to make clothes okay I just want to try
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this with show of hands who can sew so all right all right you can like you can
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really sew your own clothes oh yeah I make my own clothes
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I can customize oh I'm actually impressed okay go ahead
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what do you mean just be human what do you mean
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okay okay okay so women women are human women are human but only 10% get to do it
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so there's something special about those 10% right yeah gotta be something
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different about them they get it um okay so okay this is gonna be very
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female you mean be a female a born female you mean anatomically anatomically you mean it's this gendered woman excuse me
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so why would anyone crucify you I would think I would think so we said we said we said housewife not house husband so all right all right what about you I would say to be a good housewife you'd have to be very good in bed
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to keep your husband all right so good at sex okay
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I think good with routine and structure so if they're doing like a hard nine to five whatever
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when they come back they know they've got all the clothes are clean they've got
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the meals nice massage structure all right close our structure all right close meals massage
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basically structure you're taking everyone's ulcers in one
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sorry she did well in school she's an overachiever
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I'm putting them in the google doc just you know
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go ahead I would say mine is to like be caring like I don't know if you
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actually need to be the one doing all the sewing cooking cleaning and massaging
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but you need to care that somebody's taking care of it
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10% of women qualify for this and they don't need to cook or clean they just need to care
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not necessarily like if there is somebody who can cook and clean you need to make sure they're
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doing it to the standard that makes everyone in the house happy right okay so so they manage the
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cookers and the cleaners you make sure it's done okay okay go ahead yeah um be their piece
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good one that's a very good one what does that mean like can I can I have some specifics because
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I hear this a lot but I never know what it means yeah um so he comes home and I say I am peace
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you meditate together unnecessary headache um just when they come home they want a place to relax
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everyone wants a place to relax and uh retreat so um yeah a lot of women where have you been
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what time did you call this unnecessarily okay so not you can't argue no arguing well you can argue but
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uh within reason yeah unless there's a lot of gray area in that though I know but I'm super chilled
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you come home yeah I'm so I would just I'm too much I would just be I would just think the piece is
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no arguing right not nagging no nagging yeah no nagging okay what do you think um a loyal woman
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deserves to be a housewife it's all you got to be loyal yeah you have to be damn
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I was definitely almost a housewife until just now
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okay what do you think uh patience you need patience so much for the damn kids
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you got about three kids I've been I've been waiting for someone to say yeah
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oh you don't have to do that you need to be patient okay you wait who said you you don't have to
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yeah I don't think you have to do that to be a housewife you have to be patient you don't have
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to give them kids yeah not not everyone wants not every man wants kids you can still be a housewife
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okay do men typically I got I got production cutting me off yeah I think it was like I want
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to give this slide I don't know remember remember remember you might already have kids this is only
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10 percent of women get this so this is cream of the crop the best of the best right so I would
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think they would give you kids you know yeah I thought we just said who who qualifies not who's like
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the best one well the best one ones qualify I mean 50 of them end up not having the job at the
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end of the day right yeah because they're not the best because none of us they still qualify to
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initially no no no no no no if you qualify for things you get them so if you don't get it then
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you don't qualify but if nine percent of women are becoming housewives in the UK and 50 of marriages
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fail then half of those women didn't quite do a good job right yeah no well I would say I would
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say they didn't qualify for the housewife role so there are men that can afford housewives there's
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just a very small percentage of them you know prices are going up you know most people need two incomes
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so you know only 10 percent of women could qualify I think a big push a big part of that percentage is
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women that turn a blind eye to a lot of things yeah that's yeah quite right yeah