JustPearlyThings - November 16, 2023


Pearl Proofs Modern Women Aren't Wife Material

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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8 minutes

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1,385

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19

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6

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Who qualifies to be a housewife? Is it a woman who can cook, clean, sew, and is good in bed? Who is a good housewife who is willing to stay home with their kids and take care of the kids?

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00:00:00.000 so I saw this study right that talked about what percent of women do you think 0.94
00:00:06.300 get to be housewives don't don't cheat and look what percent do you think I'm
00:00:11.940 gonna say 60 60 percent yeah let's say 30 30 percent 40 okay what do you mean
00:00:19.880 specify housewives as in married or stay get to stay home with their children oh 1.00
00:00:25.760 oh can I change it yeah yeah go ahead 30 30 percent 50 50 percent
00:00:32.120 of women 40 okay 35 okay 35 40 okay 38 38 27 the question is how what percent of 0.76
00:00:46.760 women want to be housewives that means their man can afford for them to be a 1.00
00:00:52.520 housewife maybe 30 30 percent I'd say 22 22 percent Troy 20 percent so I hate to
00:01:03.020 burst your bubble everybody 9.2 percent of women in the UK in the UK I thought we 1.00
00:01:09.440 were like including you know Africa this is Western Western if you said UK I
00:01:17.900 definitely would have said yeah so I thought to myself and I guess we'd have
00:01:22.260 to you know agree on this first I would say that the best position to be in as a
00:01:28.780 woman is to be married to someone that you want to be with the rest of your life 1.00
00:01:32.400 and able to stay home with the kids if if you so want to would you agree if you
00:01:37.820 so want to yeah okay so let's if you want to yes yeah so this is um so a kind of
00:01:42.140 question it brought me to the question who qualifies to be a housewife like if 0.99
00:01:48.320 you were going to apply for a job let's say like the men only 10 percent of men
00:01:52.180 get a housewife they take a housewife and they basically say ladies ladies 0.96
00:01:57.120 ladies here here's the application what should it say on it so I have a power
00:02:02.180 point here um do you deserve to be a housewife so wait and then um number two 1.00
00:02:09.020 go to the second slide I thought it would be fun to put what you guys think
00:02:14.400 house what like what you think you should bring to the table in order to be a
00:02:17.680 housewife and being able to sew 0.98
00:02:20.000 I would do one each
00:02:22.820 yeah one each one each okay you should that's a very nice
00:02:26.440 old-fashioned because back in the day there was you couldn't like buy clothes
00:02:30.900 yeah my girlfriend your wife had to be able to make clothes okay I just want to try
00:02:33.740 this with show of hands who can sew so all right all right you can like you can
00:02:38.680 really sew your own clothes oh yeah I make my own clothes
00:02:41.160 I can customize oh I'm actually impressed okay go ahead
00:02:45.800 a housewife you've already failed 0.88
00:02:51.780 what do you mean just be human what do you mean
00:02:56.600 okay okay okay so women women are human women are human but only 10% get to do it 1.00
00:03:05.980 so there's something special about those 10% right yeah gotta be something 0.96
00:03:11.180 different about them they get it um okay so okay this is gonna be very
00:03:15.400 controversial how many meals okay go ahead
00:03:17.340 so I'd say and don't crucify me for this
00:03:21.980 but I'm gonna say be a actual be a female
00:03:24.860 female you mean be a female a born female you mean anatomically anatomically you mean it's this gendered woman excuse me 0.72
00:03:34.220 so why would anyone crucify you I would think I would think so we said we said we said housewife not house husband so all right all right what about you I would say to be a good housewife you'd have to be very good in bed 0.95
00:03:49.240 to keep your husband all right so good at sex okay
00:03:53.960 I think good with routine and structure so if they're doing like a hard nine to five whatever
00:04:03.960 when they come back they know they've got all the clothes are clean they've got
00:04:08.520 the meals nice massage structure all right close our structure all right close meals massage
00:04:16.040 basically structure you're taking everyone's ulcers in one
00:04:20.760 sorry she did well in school she's an overachiever
00:04:26.040 go ahead I would say to be very supported
00:04:29.880 supporting supportive okay supportive
00:04:35.000 I'm putting them in the google doc just you know
00:04:38.120 go ahead I would say mine is to like be caring like I don't know if you
00:04:42.280 actually need to be the one doing all the sewing cooking cleaning and massaging 1.00
00:04:45.480 but you need to care that somebody's taking care of it
00:04:50.840 that's actually good
00:04:53.960 okay wait let me get this straight
00:04:56.680 10% of women qualify for this and they don't need to cook or clean they just need to care 1.00
00:05:02.520 not necessarily like if there is somebody who can cook and clean you need to make sure they're
00:05:06.600 doing it to the standard that makes everyone in the house happy right okay so so they manage the
00:05:11.320 cookers and the cleaners you make sure it's done okay okay go ahead yeah um be their piece
00:05:17.960 good one that's a very good one what does that mean like can I can I have some specifics because
00:05:22.200 I hear this a lot but I never know what it means yeah um so he comes home and I say I am peace
00:05:28.280 you meditate together unnecessary headache um just when they come home they want a place to relax
00:05:40.280 everyone wants a place to relax and uh retreat so um yeah a lot of women where have you been 1.00
00:05:49.160 what time did you call this unnecessarily okay so not you can't argue no arguing well you can argue but
00:05:56.120 uh within reason yeah unless there's a lot of gray area in that though I know but I'm super chilled
00:06:02.920 you come home yeah I'm so I would just I'm too much I would just be I would just think the piece is
00:06:07.960 no arguing right not nagging no nagging yeah no nagging okay what do you think um a loyal woman 0.99
00:06:17.800 deserves to be a housewife it's all you got to be loyal yeah you have to be damn 0.97
00:06:25.720 I was definitely almost a housewife until just now 0.99
00:06:30.680 okay what do you think uh patience you need patience so much for the damn kids 0.99
00:06:37.640 you got about three kids I've been I've been waiting for someone to say yeah 0.99
00:06:43.640 oh you don't have to do that you need to be patient okay you wait who said you you don't have to
00:06:49.400 yeah I don't think you have to do that to be a housewife you have to be patient you don't have
00:06:53.560 to give them kids yeah not not everyone wants not every man wants kids you can still be a housewife
00:06:58.440 okay do men typically I got I got production cutting me off yeah I think it was like I want 1.00
00:07:05.640 to give this slide I don't know remember remember remember you might already have kids this is only
00:07:10.920 10 percent of women get this so this is cream of the crop the best of the best right so I would 0.89
00:07:17.720 think they would give you kids you know yeah I thought we just said who who qualifies not who's like
00:07:23.240 the best one well the best one ones qualify I mean 50 of them end up not having the job at the
00:07:31.240 end of the day right yeah because they're not the best because none of us they still qualify to
00:07:36.200 initially no no no no no no if you qualify for things you get them so if you don't get it then
00:07:42.840 you don't qualify but if nine percent of women are becoming housewives in the UK and 50 of marriages
00:07:49.960 fail then half of those women didn't quite do a good job right yeah no well I would say I would 1.00
00:07:55.640 say they didn't qualify for the housewife role so there are men that can afford housewives there's 1.00
00:08:01.320 just a very small percentage of them you know prices are going up you know most people need two incomes
00:08:07.560 so you know only 10 percent of women could qualify I think a big push a big part of that percentage is 1.00
00:08:16.200 women that turn a blind eye to a lot of things yeah that's yeah quite right yeah 1.00