JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


Pearl Proves That Modern Women Make Bad Wives


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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

190.31465

Word count

1,496

Sentence count

104

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what women are looking for in a man and why they don t get them. We also talk about what women should be looking for when it comes to a husband and what they should be doing to make them a better man.

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00:00:00.000 have a relationship with some or continue a relationship, especially when you're looking
00:00:03.860 to have those things. Right. And you date at your level and above. You always date at your
00:00:08.520 level and above, right? No, no. So Sione can have a level above. No, not with her. So here's the
00:00:15.240 challenge. Here's the challenge. Inherently, inherently. Okay. And again, I'm going to go
00:00:20.100 back to my data. Okay. Dr. David Buss has a book called The Evolution of Desire. Five years of
00:00:25.820 interviewing 10,000 people all over the world, different religions, ethnic backgrounds,
00:00:30.220 whatever. And the number one response that women look for in a man was resources. So 1.00
00:00:36.620 that's their level and above, right? Because what happens, what happens biologically, you're
00:00:41.540 looking for somebody better than you want a man that's a hero, right? You want a guy that's
00:00:44.620 successful doing what he's doing. When you date down, what happens? You lose respect for
00:00:49.140 that individual. Okay. Look at JLo. Remember when she dated her day? Well, JLo's got a bad
00:00:55.160 record as it is. Right. But she dated her dancer. I'm like, that ain't going to work.
00:00:58.720 He's, she's paying for everything. Yes. Yeah. Right? And if I dated, if I, if I, if I worked
00:01:03.600 it, no, no pun intended, because I can't say UPS. Those guys make 170 now. We're like,
00:01:09.160 we're like, we're going to be, if all the women, all the women are going to be like outside with 0.99
00:01:13.660 the tray of cookies. Hey, when you, when you drive, this is guys, this is guys mentality
00:01:21.720 to a point. When I was young, you're driving up to the, in Seattle, the latte stands, we'll call
00:01:26.320 them bikini baristas. And all the stands in Seattle have the girls with the bikinis on the 1.00
00:01:31.480 lingerie. I would drive up and I'd see a dude and I would just keep going. Why? I didn't go there
00:01:37.800 for the coffee. Right. I went there for the boobs. Right. Yeah. The coconuts. The coconuts 1.00
00:01:42.700 with all the pasties. So, you know, and I, oh, I want to go to, um, Dutch Brothers and
00:01:47.700 have a swirl latte, double frappuccino latte with a twist, pumpkin spice. I'm like, okay,
00:01:53.740 is she hot? Starbucks girls aren't hot. They're wokeies, right? First of all, I've just worked 0.90
00:01:59.760 myself as for seven years. Crazy. I was thinking about this as women. We don't realize as a group 1.00
00:02:14.080 how much we suck. I think that women suck as a group nowadays compared from a historical point 1.00
00:02:20.980 of view, because nowadays, a hundred years ago, a guy would have got a virgin. She would have been
00:02:27.180 in shape. She would have had the mentality of she has to serve him. So she was helping on the farm.
00:02:34.560 She had five plus children. Um, nowadays it's like 90% of us are on birth control. 70% of us are
00:02:41.340 overweight. Um, we don't get married till we're like 31. So as a group, unfortunately, we're just
00:02:49.640 not doing that well from a historical point of view. We all would have been thrown out a hundred years
00:02:53.600 ago. We even had to learn instruments to play for when our husbands, like friends came over.
00:02:58.900 We had these cookbooks from scratch and your husband could actually take you to jail for nagging.
00:03:05.720 If you were nagging too much, you could be prosecuted. Yeah.
00:03:09.480 But on the other, on the other hand, on the other hand, you could prosecute your husband for not
00:03:16.760 paying bills. So back then you would have been like 21, you would have been a virgin,
00:03:25.180 you would have gotten married, you would have been raised to be a wife. But nowadays we have
00:03:29.280 all this like programming that basically tells us to do it on your own and it, and it produces bad
00:03:34.700 wives. Go ahead. I was going to ask you, so you know how much has changed for as far as what women 1.00
00:03:39.580 used to offer men as a wife, but it's changed the same way for us as far as what men have to offer
00:03:44.560 so many. So I disagree. You don't have a bunch of high, I disagree. I disagree. I disagree.
00:03:52.700 You know why you don't see them? Because you don't know what they're looking for. So the issue,
00:03:55.860 you don't know what fucking women have to call it. So I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you 1.00
00:04:01.240 why I disagree. Okay. I'll tell you why I disagree because typically like what do women typically 1.00
00:04:07.260 bring to the table? Like, like from a marriage contract, you're usually, you're supposed to
00:04:11.620 traditionally be a virgin. You're supposed to traditionally be able to cook, clean. You're
00:04:16.080 supposed to traditionally have a lot of children, right? How old are you? I'm 28. Not really.
00:04:23.300 But I can. I mean, I have my career. I mean, I know how to cook. My sister doesn't have 20
00:04:27.060 years yesterday. She's 39. My grandma had 13 children. You can't have 13 kids.
00:04:33.240 Not even 13 kids. Who wants that? I don't know. She's 39. Okay. So, so, so. Oh my God.
00:04:39.680 For you, right. But I'm saying from a historical point of view, if a guy wanted to get 10 kids
00:04:44.760 from a chick, it wouldn't be that hard to do it. That's damn near impossible unless he 0.95
00:04:48.980 has multiple baby mamas today. Do you do? Okay. Just question. Do any of you want to have 0.55
00:04:53.320 10 kids? Hell no. Okay. Okay. Okay. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. Wait, wait, wait now from the men's 0.68
00:04:59.620 point of view from the men's point of view they still offer like they still offer protection and
00:05:06.740 provisioning because we live in a society where men will protect us you can walk alone at night
00:05:12.400 in a major city and men you're not even married and men will still protect you you can call the
00:05:17.800 police you can we have the military protecting us so they're still protecting us they can buy a gun
00:05:23.960 and protect you um provisioning you know women are a net tax loss meaning we spend more than we make 1.00
00:05:30.720 that's so yeah so so we already get we even get provisioning just from men as a whole from the
00:05:36.620 society we have all these jobs we're either monetizing beauty or we're working for a man
00:05:41.240 that employs us so we're getting protection and provisioning even without a husband but if you go
00:05:47.000 to a husband men still make more they spend less they're better with money so you still get 0.55
00:05:51.580 provisioning and protection they're still stronger than us and if they're if they're not you know
00:05:56.700 super strong they can go buy a gun i think in vegas right they can here so so i think you can so wait
00:06:03.880 from the exchange point of view we're not bringing purity we're not bringing youth and we're not even
00:06:10.080 in shape where the men are still giving a bare minimum protection and provisioning your argument
00:06:16.040 is so flawed because back in the day 100 years ago people were farming they needed to have kids to put
00:06:20.700 them to work and most of them some of them didn't even survive so they needed to have 10 just to
00:06:24.900 hope five of them were going to live from the fields now times have changed that's not you
00:06:29.600 well that's not necessarily true okay we're out of school in the summer because of harvest season
00:06:34.960 i need you to talk about like what time period you're talking about so 1800 no okay okay so you don't even
00:06:44.460 know the time period no i don't give a fuck either all i know is right now you don't give a fuck about 0.99
00:06:48.660 you don't need to have you don't need to have 10 kids i know the time period who the fuck wants 10 0.97
00:06:52.800 kids now they had 10 kids for labor so they had 10 kids great to put them to work because they needed
00:06:56.780 the family to be able to thrive so like factories came in the late 1800s and still people still had
00:07:02.380 five plus kids early 1900s because they were just used to what was traditional but here now the
00:07:07.760 tradition is having two or three you don't have to have fucking 10 kids and whose choice is that 0.87
00:07:12.520 it's ours as a whole we're overpopulated whose choice is that matter we're overpopulated also just in
00:07:17.440 general like you can't really afford 10 kids right they cost a lot more poor people have more kids than rich
00:07:22.380 people who controls access to sex men or women women it's the women's fault not the men unless 0.65
00:07:38.040 you're a rapist which happens a lot which is very that doesn't happen a lot it doesn't happen a lot
00:07:42.360 if i pull the stats up when she's talking and i tell you stats you're gonna say facts don't matter
00:07:48.960 what's been reported yeah exactly