Pearl's Producer Goes SUPER SAIYAN Only Fans Models
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what it's like being a woman in the 21st century and the pressures of being a single woman in a male-dominated industry like property. We talk about the benefits of getting married, what it means to be a single mum and what to do if you don't want to get married. We also discuss the dangers of sex work and sex trafficking.
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i'm curious who you're the only one married right everyone else no okay who here wants to be married
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raise your hand okay so undecided okay and i'm curious when would you guys want to be married
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by so remind them what your age is and when you'd want to be married um yeah so you're all talking
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about like in the i'm in my 30s 35 so um too late forget it um but um really sort of when i find
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someone that i that i like so i don't know in the next few years whatever but it has to be someone
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that i um that we really like each other i don't just want to get married just for the sake of it
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i'd rather not if it's okay what about kids do you want kids i mean yeah if it's if it's meant
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to be yeah i would if i if i'm with a partner yeah okay are you okay with not having them yeah
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whatever will be will be yeah okay well i don't understand that yeah isn't isn't it like what
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you i've never really i've never really been in a situation where i've had to think about that
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because i would only think about having a child with someone if i'm really getting married to
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someone in a situation like that so i'm i've been i haven't had to worry or think about it and it
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hasn't been something i've grown up like oh i must have kids i must be married by this age i must be
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that i i've just like if i if i find the one that i'm married to then i would assume and want so if
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you i'm just curious um how how much roughly do you make a year
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you don't have to give me like more than more than 60 000 yeah okay more than 70 yeah okay
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okay so you actually make enough that you could retire by yourself i mean not in london oh my god
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okay so what's your if the government doesn't bail you out what's your plan if you don't get married
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um so my plan if i don't get married is basically to have a property which i already do um but and then
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just just explore the world and see what's going on and just be happy but no i do i have other things
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it depends on work well well yeah because like let's say you live to be 90 and like you you can't
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really work after like 65 70 so it's like what what do you do for that 20 years if you don't get
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married like most people need two incomes to retire yeah you can get into only funds
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oh girl no one of only only five percent of only fan it's either prostitutes or only fans are after
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like 40 45 you don't really have that option you can still go into it definitely i know a woman that's
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like 70 and she doesn't yeah there's there's a lot of milfs on that and stuff also one of they're not
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making the money you guys are making i promise you that also one um one of my um jobs um they asked
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me if uh if i'm on only fans because they were not going to give me the job if i was on only fans
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because it's um yeah negative press and uh so yeah um sex work now i understand that but like
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actually that's one point that i would like to to point out so um in certain law firms that i've
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worked at before when we are going through people's um finances say for example if they're buying a
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property we have to go through the yeah we when we've got when we've had people that they're getting
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their money through only fans a lot of the time it can preclude them from being able to go through
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with a property sale because only fans is potentially a high risk um company and there's
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also ties to child child porn sex trafficking and things like that so a lot of women don't know this
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but when they go to buy a property and you're asked okay what are your source of funds what are your
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source of wealth and it turns out that this is where your money is coming from it's highly likely that
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you may not be it depends on the law firm and it's really up to them but you may not be able to get
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a property because your money is potentially coming from an illegitimate place so there's the
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potential for money laundering and you know a law firm does not want to be involved with any
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illegitimate source of funds so it's something that you have to consider yeah well i was lucky to be
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able to like buy outright so it wasn't too much of a problem i mean obviously it is like because you
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can't like easily then snap up like 10 houses but i guess then like buying outright you know you've paid
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for it so but that's the thing you're right like the people who came to us at that time they they
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were able to buy the properties outright but we had to turn them away because our firm didn't want
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to be associated with a company that um promotes uh child exploitation and sex trafficking yeah no it
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does come with a lot of problems but you know i recognize that and that's something i'm willing to
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do and i just think i mean it's it's good that you know that that you're aware but i think a lot of
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girls aren't aware and they don't think about the future consequences of what could happen to them
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yeah and i think that it's sad because it's like fast money fast attention but it could really
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preclude you from getting property in the future and then possibly no no include you from getting
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married as well because men potentially don't want to sleep well they probably want to sleep with you
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but they probably don't want to marry yeah no i agree there's a lot of repercussions to doing only
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funds and that's why i always stress if someone wants to start it they should think for it like
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thoroughly i thought of like for like a year before i actually did it and stuff like that but i know
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obviously a lot of girls these days are just kind of going into it because they think it's going to
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be quick easy money but you know it it can be but it you know later on in life then they come up with
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a lot of problems yeah exactly um so how old are you 22 okay and you said you wanted to be married
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around 30 yeah well it depends obviously like you said like i'm not going to just settle like um you
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can get married at any age and at the end of the day like so you know i'm only 22 so i've got a long
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life to live to spend that with someone so i don't want to get married too early what is what is
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settling um being with someone that um you don't necessarily like i don't know how to explain it
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you're not necessarily like really in love with or um you know there's problems already in the
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relationship okay so if there are problems you're settling yeah i don't know what the right answer is
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do you think do you think marriage comes with problems yeah yeah no definitely but i mean as
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in like um you know if you find a guy and you're you know you kind of like them but you know you've
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had issues or something like that do you think in marriage you're always going to be madly in love
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no no no no i think i think marriage takes a lot of hard work my parents went through counsel
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so why is it settling if if we have problems and you aren't madly in love isn't that just normal
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no i i think you should always be in love with someone before you get married to them
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do you do you think there's not ups and downs in a relationship no i don't disagree but i mean as
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in like you know if there's red flags from the start and um is that there's little bits that
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already like annoy you i wouldn't then want to get into a relationship with someone for the next
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50 years of your life do you think you're annoying at all yeah yeah i don't disagree so so isn't it
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kind of like no but i think you're going to annoy each other no but i think i can find that person
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that like isn't always annoyed at me i mean like doesn't it just seems like this is based a lot
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on feelings which like come and go is that not what marriage no no i think it's based on values
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i think and you know character very feelings so what like being in love is very feelings obviously i
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think that's what they tell us i think it's a choice personally i think it's an action i think you
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should definitely have the same views on things because obviously um you know you you want to make sure
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that you're going to cooperate like later on in life like you should always have that conversation
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before like how many kids you want or like this or not and you don't want kids no so why would a guy
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get married to you if he's not going to get kids out of the deal because he wants to live a long happy
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life with me yeah but can he do that without the marriage no but i i just believe in marriage like
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um that you're then like bonded to the person oh okay so but marriage is traditionally like a virgin
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yeah so you don't think it's like like i'm just long gone yeah right right but but i'm saying like
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if you believe in marriage you know you don't think you have to be a virgin my parents weren't a bloody
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virgin so i don't think well if we're going to go to traditional marriage no i'm not but i'm asking
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that means you can't get married because you're not a virgin i'm asking i'm asking what he would
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get out of marriage because you know you know with most women most women you'll get kids right
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so i'm asking like with you like what some men don't not everyone wants kids like men not all men
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want kids i'm not saying all men want kids but usually men get married for kids yeah and not all of
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them do as well but that's why we see more men not getting married they have 60 or 70 percent of men
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under 30 aren't even looking for relationships i mean that's calm with them but i want to get
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married and not have kids and i think i can find what there's like billions of people well i just i
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think you might underestimate how difficult it's going to be to find a guy you actually no no that
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you actually like it's not it's easy to find anyone but that you actually like to to get married
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because the guys you like are going to have options and they don't typically want to marry women
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i think there'll be one one person she's really young yet she's not old enough to know what she
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wants in the long in the grand right i'm not saying she's not quite patronizing i'm not i'm not saying
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she's not but my point is i'm asking like what he would get out of marriage that he wouldn't get out
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of a girlfriend why does it matter you keep saying like you need to get like you talk strongly about
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marriage i don't understand why you're trying to ask her that like no i'm asking because she wants
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to get married yeah because she wants to like i know but i just want a nice fucking wedding
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it's so interesting it's so interesting because it's like you're kind of showing your hand because
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i keep asking about what the guy gets and you keep switching it to what you want
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and i keep asking because i'm asking you to think about things maybe he just wants to get married
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i'm asking i'm asking and i i'm i'm saying men can be with you without being married yeah and
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yeah so i'm just trying to do a thought exercise where we think of things from the men's point of
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view this is just a clear example that shows that women actually don't know what men want and they
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don't care they want a tight pussy it shouldn't always be conditional like oh i only marry her because
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i want to have kids out of her like you should actually have a connection with her
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it shouldn't be conditional until it's your conditions that's what you want to say
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but it's it should be about connection this is why a lot of marriages don't work it's not just because
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of the woman it's because the man doesn't care about connection they care more about
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oh what's her reputation how many bodies has she got it's ridiculous like that's why sneaker's
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never getting married because he's got that mindset sneaker will probably and neither will andrew tate
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even i like them the point you just keep proving the point you don't know men you don't know what
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men want even the men that you said what they want but they ain't gonna get married still are they
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i'm telling you and you you i'm trying to even communicate to you you're not even interested
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in listening you don't care the way you're sitting like you just don't care and that's the fact
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it's the fact i know what you want and the reality is the reality is this is the problem that that
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the western and i say it specifically the western world is plagued with women one don't have values
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they don't understand what men want they don't care what men want no you don't yes i do i study politics
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it's not even a dig at you it's just reality i'm just observing facts so women don't understand
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values they don't understand realities of life because even when the other lady at the back was
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trying to explain to you about what um the realities of prenup and what um things that could come up when
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you do only you you kept bringing it back to yourself because you actually are very selfish and you
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think about only yourself you don't even care about the other women and i wanted to raise a point this is
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this is a clear example when men do things that are quote unquote illegal or quote unquote bad for
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society you would never see a man come out in on a public platform to promote it to other men
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but you will always see women come on platforms to promote silly things promiscuous behaviors
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if you had to see a man that was selling drugs and was probably making any funds and selling drugs
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isn't the same thing i'm trying to make a point because if you had to see a man that was probably
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selling drugs or was into fraud or whatever that makes his money like that even if he promotes
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it as his lifestyle you would never hear him say like oh yeah i would advise my son to do that or
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i advise my brother to that men don't do that because we understand that as a man you're responsible
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for yourself and you're responsible for your actions and your actions have a direct repercussion
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on you and the people that surround you so you would always like to keep that to yourself
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but i know this is a trend among women that you actually don't care maybe you don't care
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maybe you don't know she did say earlier that she she said that if she was a girl and she was
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thinking about doing it to think about it properly and for a long time she never promoted okay that's
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like saying i would think think long and hard before you sell drugs you both said that you would
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want your daughters to do only no we didn't say that i did you did yeah it's not illegal it's not harming
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anyone like it's honestly it's better than prostitution yeah it's hard why would you still
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like promote her to do that though like if she wants to she can people can do what they want
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we're not begging her to do it or like saying oh do only fans are you gonna say that like your life
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like mentally is better yes i have a good life like i enjoy my life i didn't say i said mentally you're
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not listening yes i i'm i'm very mentally stable i've got great mental health yes 100 i i honestly
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you might say that but i beg to differ you might not show it but and i can't get into your body
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your brain i can't depict it but like truthfully like i did only fan so i can speak on this like
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that's your perspective though it's not i think everyone has issues and everyone has down it's quite
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normal i personally have great mental health and i think a lot of girls who actually enjoy it don't have