JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023


Pearl's Producer Goes SUPER SAIYAN Only Fans Models


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13 minutes

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2,995

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Misogyny

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Toxicity

9

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In this episode, we talk about what it's like being a woman in the 21st century and the pressures of being a single woman in a male-dominated industry like property. We talk about the benefits of getting married, what it means to be a single mum and what to do if you don't want to get married. We also discuss the dangers of sex work and sex trafficking.

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00:00:00.000 i'm curious who you're the only one married right everyone else no okay who here wants to be married 1.00
00:00:06.960 raise your hand okay so undecided okay and i'm curious when would you guys want to be married
00:00:15.280 by so remind them what your age is and when you'd want to be married um yeah so you're all talking
00:00:21.200 about like in the i'm in my 30s 35 so um too late forget it um but um really sort of when i find
00:00:35.520 someone that i that i like so i don't know in the next few years whatever but it has to be someone
00:00:41.240 that i um that we really like each other i don't just want to get married just for the sake of it
00:00:46.140 i'd rather not if it's okay what about kids do you want kids i mean yeah if it's if it's meant
00:00:51.600 to be yeah i would if i if i'm with a partner yeah okay are you okay with not having them yeah
00:00:57.500 whatever will be will be yeah okay well i don't understand that yeah isn't isn't it like what
00:01:04.060 you i've never really i've never really been in a situation where i've had to think about that
00:01:08.360 because i would only think about having a child with someone if i'm really getting married to
00:01:13.140 someone in a situation like that so i'm i've been i haven't had to worry or think about it and it
00:01:18.380 hasn't been something i've grown up like oh i must have kids i must be married by this age i must be
00:01:23.540 that i i've just like if i if i find the one that i'm married to then i would assume and want so if
00:01:30.100 you i'm just curious um how how much roughly do you make a year
00:01:34.920 you don't have to give me like more than more than 60 000 yeah okay more than 70 yeah okay
00:01:43.120 okay so you actually make enough that you could retire by yourself i mean not in london oh my god
00:01:48.240 okay so what's your if the government doesn't bail you out what's your plan if you don't get married
00:01:54.460 um so my plan if i don't get married is basically to have a property which i already do um but and then 0.98
00:02:04.360 just just explore the world and see what's going on and just be happy but no i do i have other things
00:02:10.180 it depends on work well well yeah because like let's say you live to be 90 and like you you can't
00:02:15.580 really work after like 65 70 so it's like what what do you do for that 20 years if you don't get
00:02:21.240 married like most people need two incomes to retire yeah you can get into only funds
00:02:25.180 oh girl no one of only only five percent of only fan it's either prostitutes or only fans are after 1.00
00:02:32.740 like 40 45 you don't really have that option you can still go into it definitely i know a woman that's 1.00
00:02:36.540 like 70 and she doesn't yeah there's there's a lot of milfs on that and stuff also one of they're not
00:02:40.840 making the money you guys are making i promise you that also one um one of my um jobs um they asked
00:02:48.100 me if uh if i'm on only fans because they were not going to give me the job if i was on only fans
00:02:52.940 because it's um yeah negative press and uh so yeah um sex work now i understand that but like
00:03:01.320 actually that's one point that i would like to to point out so um in certain law firms that i've
00:03:06.480 worked at before when we are going through people's um finances say for example if they're buying a
00:03:11.360 property we have to go through the yeah we when we've got when we've had people that they're getting
00:03:17.760 their money through only fans a lot of the time it can preclude them from being able to go through
00:03:21.600 with a property sale because only fans is potentially a high risk um company and there's
00:03:30.340 also ties to child child porn sex trafficking and things like that so a lot of women don't know this
00:03:36.440 but when they go to buy a property and you're asked okay what are your source of funds what are your
00:03:40.320 source of wealth and it turns out that this is where your money is coming from it's highly likely that
00:03:44.960 you may not be it depends on the law firm and it's really up to them but you may not be able to get
00:03:49.360 a property because your money is potentially coming from an illegitimate place so there's the
00:03:54.080 potential for money laundering and you know a law firm does not want to be involved with any
00:03:58.540 illegitimate source of funds so it's something that you have to consider yeah well i was lucky to be
00:04:03.100 able to like buy outright so it wasn't too much of a problem i mean obviously it is like because you
00:04:07.440 can't like easily then snap up like 10 houses but i guess then like buying outright you know you've paid
00:04:14.140 for it so but that's the thing you're right like the people who came to us at that time they they
00:04:19.080 were able to buy the properties outright but we had to turn them away because our firm didn't want
00:04:23.720 to be associated with a company that um promotes uh child exploitation and sex trafficking yeah no it
00:04:31.240 does come with a lot of problems but you know i recognize that and that's something i'm willing to
00:04:35.600 do and i just think i mean it's it's good that you know that that you're aware but i think a lot of
00:04:40.640 girls aren't aware and they don't think about the future consequences of what could happen to them 1.00
00:04:44.560 yeah and i think that it's sad because it's like fast money fast attention but it could really
00:04:48.900 preclude you from getting property in the future and then possibly no no include you from getting
00:04:52.820 married as well because men potentially don't want to sleep well they probably want to sleep with you 1.00
00:04:57.920 but they probably don't want to marry yeah no i agree there's a lot of repercussions to doing only
00:05:01.860 funds and that's why i always stress if someone wants to start it they should think for it like
00:05:05.160 thoroughly i thought of like for like a year before i actually did it and stuff like that but i know
00:05:09.160 obviously a lot of girls these days are just kind of going into it because they think it's going to 1.00
00:05:12.580 be quick easy money but you know it it can be but it you know later on in life then they come up with
00:05:18.320 a lot of problems yeah exactly um so how old are you 22 okay and you said you wanted to be married
00:05:24.300 around 30 yeah well it depends obviously like you said like i'm not going to just settle like um you
00:05:30.040 can get married at any age and at the end of the day like so you know i'm only 22 so i've got a long
00:05:34.780 life to live to spend that with someone so i don't want to get married too early what is what is
00:05:39.020 settling um being with someone that um you don't necessarily like i don't know how to explain it
00:05:46.820 you're not necessarily like really in love with or um you know there's problems already in the
00:05:51.900 relationship okay so if there are problems you're settling yeah i don't know what the right answer is
00:05:59.020 do you think do you think marriage comes with problems yeah yeah no definitely but i mean as
00:06:04.540 in like um you know if you find a guy and you're you know you kind of like them but you know you've
00:06:10.720 had issues or something like that do you think in marriage you're always going to be madly in love
00:06:14.700 no no no no i think i think marriage takes a lot of hard work my parents went through counsel
00:06:19.280 so why is it settling if if we have problems and you aren't madly in love isn't that just normal
00:06:27.440 no i i think you should always be in love with someone before you get married to them
00:06:32.300 do you do you think there's not ups and downs in a relationship no i don't disagree but i mean as
00:06:37.920 in like you know if there's red flags from the start and um is that there's little bits that
00:06:42.860 already like annoy you i wouldn't then want to get into a relationship with someone for the next
00:06:46.820 50 years of your life do you think you're annoying at all yeah yeah i don't disagree so so isn't it
00:06:52.340 kind of like no but i think you're going to annoy each other no but i think i can find that person
00:06:56.080 that like isn't always annoyed at me i mean like doesn't it just seems like this is based a lot
00:07:01.300 on feelings which like come and go is that not what marriage no no i think it's based on values
00:07:07.720 i think and you know character very feelings so what like being in love is very feelings obviously i
00:07:13.620 think that's what they tell us i think it's a choice personally i think it's an action i think you
00:07:17.860 should definitely have the same views on things because obviously um you know you you want to make sure
00:07:24.600 that you're going to cooperate like later on in life like you should always have that conversation
00:07:28.740 before like how many kids you want or like this or not and you don't want kids no so why would a guy
00:07:34.280 get married to you if he's not going to get kids out of the deal because he wants to live a long happy
00:07:39.400 life with me yeah but can he do that without the marriage no but i i just believe in marriage like
00:07:44.660 um that you're then like bonded to the person oh okay so but marriage is traditionally like a virgin
00:07:51.840 yeah so you don't think it's like like i'm just long gone yeah right right but but i'm saying like
00:07:57.480 if you believe in marriage you know you don't think you have to be a virgin my parents weren't a bloody
00:08:02.020 virgin so i don't think well if we're going to go to traditional marriage no i'm not but i'm asking
00:08:07.020 that means you can't get married because you're not a virgin i'm asking i'm asking what he would
00:08:13.000 get out of marriage because you know you know with most women most women you'll get kids right 1.00
00:08:18.980 so i'm asking like with you like what some men don't not everyone wants kids like men not all men
00:08:23.180 want kids i'm not saying all men want kids but usually men get married for kids yeah and not all of
00:08:29.800 them do as well but that's why we see more men not getting married they have 60 or 70 percent of men
00:08:35.940 under 30 aren't even looking for relationships i mean that's calm with them but i want to get
00:08:40.640 married and not have kids and i think i can find what there's like billions of people well i just i
00:08:45.300 think you might underestimate how difficult it's going to be to find a guy you actually no no that
00:08:51.840 you actually like it's not it's easy to find anyone but that you actually like to to get married
00:08:58.160 because the guys you like are going to have options and they don't typically want to marry women
00:09:03.300 i think there'll be one one person she's really young yet she's not old enough to know what she
00:09:08.880 wants in the long in the grand right i'm not saying she's not quite patronizing i'm not i'm not saying
00:09:14.560 she's not but my point is i'm asking like what he would get out of marriage that he wouldn't get out
00:09:19.640 of a girlfriend why does it matter you keep saying like you need to get like you talk strongly about
00:09:25.280 marriage i don't understand why you're trying to ask her that like no i'm asking because she wants 0.99
00:09:29.540 to get married yeah because she wants to like i know but i just want a nice fucking wedding 1.00
00:09:34.680 it's so interesting it's so interesting because it's like you're kind of showing your hand because 0.97
00:09:40.840 i keep asking about what the guy gets and you keep switching it to what you want
00:09:44.640 and i keep asking because i'm asking you to think about things maybe he just wants to get married
00:09:49.040 i'm asking i'm asking and i i'm i'm saying men can be with you without being married yeah and
00:09:56.080 yeah so i'm just trying to do a thought exercise where we think of things from the men's point of
00:10:01.480 view this is just a clear example that shows that women actually don't know what men want and they 0.99
00:10:06.640 don't care they want a tight pussy it shouldn't always be conditional like oh i only marry her because 1.00
00:10:12.620 i want to have kids out of her like you should actually have a connection with her 0.99
00:10:15.080 it shouldn't be conditional until it's your conditions that's what you want to say
00:10:18.600 but it's it should be about connection this is why a lot of marriages don't work it's not just because 1.00
00:10:22.120 of the woman it's because the man doesn't care about connection they care more about
00:10:24.440 oh what's her reputation how many bodies has she got it's ridiculous like that's why sneaker's 1.00
00:10:28.580 never getting married because he's got that mindset sneaker will probably and neither will andrew tate
00:10:33.620 even i like them the point you just keep proving the point you don't know men you don't know what
00:10:37.660 men want even the men that you said what they want but they ain't gonna get married still are they
00:10:41.340 i'm telling you and you you i'm trying to even communicate to you you're not even interested
00:10:45.520 in listening you don't care the way you're sitting like you just don't care and that's the fact
00:10:49.680 it's the fact i know what you want and the reality is the reality is this is the problem that that
00:10:54.020 the western and i say it specifically the western world is plagued with women one don't have values 1.00
00:11:00.540 they don't understand what men want they don't care what men want no you don't yes i do i study politics
00:11:05.660 it's not even a dig at you it's just reality i'm just observing facts so women don't understand 0.86
00:11:10.460 values they don't understand realities of life because even when the other lady at the back was 1.00
00:11:15.420 trying to explain to you about what um the realities of prenup and what um things that could come up when
00:11:22.140 you do only you you kept bringing it back to yourself because you actually are very selfish and you
00:11:26.460 think about only yourself you don't even care about the other women and i wanted to raise a point this is
00:11:31.100 this is a clear example when men do things that are quote unquote illegal or quote unquote bad for
00:11:37.900 society you would never see a man come out in on a public platform to promote it to other men 0.91
00:11:42.860 but you will always see women come on platforms to promote silly things promiscuous behaviors 1.00
00:11:52.300 if you had to see a man that was selling drugs and was probably making any funds and selling drugs 0.69
00:11:56.300 isn't the same thing i'm trying to make a point because if you had to see a man that was probably
00:12:00.860 selling drugs or was into fraud or whatever that makes his money like that even if he promotes
00:12:06.460 it as his lifestyle you would never hear him say like oh yeah i would advise my son to do that or
00:12:11.020 i advise my brother to that men don't do that because we understand that as a man you're responsible
00:12:17.580 for yourself and you're responsible for your actions and your actions have a direct repercussion
00:12:22.860 on you and the people that surround you so you would always like to keep that to yourself
00:12:26.860 but i know this is a trend among women that you actually don't care maybe you don't care 1.00
00:12:30.140 maybe you don't know she did say earlier that she she said that if she was a girl and she was 0.99
00:12:34.380 thinking about doing it to think about it properly and for a long time she never promoted okay that's
00:12:38.220 like saying i would think think long and hard before you sell drugs you both said that you would
00:12:43.180 want your daughters to do only no we didn't say that i did you did yeah it's not illegal it's not harming
00:12:50.620 anyone like it's honestly it's better than prostitution yeah it's hard why would you still
00:12:56.700 like promote her to do that though like if she wants to she can people can do what they want 0.99
00:13:00.860 we're not begging her to do it or like saying oh do only fans are you gonna say that like your life
00:13:05.980 like mentally is better yes i have a good life like i enjoy my life i didn't say i said mentally you're
00:13:10.780 not listening yes i i'm i'm very mentally stable i've got great mental health yes 100 i i honestly
00:13:16.060 you might say that but i beg to differ you might not show it but and i can't get into your body
00:13:21.340 your brain i can't depict it but like truthfully like i did only fan so i can speak on this like
00:13:26.940 that's your perspective though it's not i think everyone has issues and everyone has down it's quite
00:13:32.460 normal i personally have great mental health and i think a lot of girls who actually enjoy it don't have
00:13:39.100 them honest