JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Pearl's Solution To Better Marriages

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chyna Ben Shapiro Matt Walsh Pearl
Pearl DESTROYS Fat Models Pearl Challenges Matt Walsh To A Debate!

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

183.78

Word count

1,502

Sentence count

121

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

sentences flagged

Toxicity

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

9

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Summary

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On today's episode of RHONJ, we have a special guest on the show to talk about why men should be incentivized to get back in the game. We also discuss why women should not be required to gain weight in order to get married, and why men shouldn't get fat to be eligible for marriage.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Hmm. What reforms could we have to incentivize men to get married again? 0.80
00:00:05.220 Now, I have a couple ideas. I'm just throwing shit at the wall. I want to see what hits. One, 0.99
00:00:11.180 women have to be below a certain percent body fat to qualify for marriage. 1.00
00:00:19.820 Right? Right? You can't gain too much weight. If you gain 50 pounds, he can legally divorce you.
00:00:27.380 I think a lot of men would say, hey, that's okay. But in all seriousness, I think if we eliminated
00:00:34.380 no-fault divorce or at least gave 50-50 custody off the bat, that's a starting point. I'm willing
00:00:42.920 to compromise, guys. I'm a compromiser. I'm an ideas gal. Personally, if it was up in Pearl's,
00:00:49.320 let's do Pearl's World, okay? Now, I'd like to say this is Pearl's World. I have no political
00:00:54.780 power right now, so nothing I say will actually happen. But this is all the things I would do.
00:00:59.460 I would ban birth control. I'd ban no-fault divorce. I'd take away women's right to vote. 1.00
00:01:04.720 Oh, I would also say that women have to be a certain percent body fat. They can't be overweight 1.00
00:01:10.180 in order to get married. Yes. If you gain too much weight, that's considered fraud. Yes, ladies, fraud. 1.00
00:01:18.620 Imagine, okay, if a man lies about his money. You don't think you could go and be like, look,
00:01:26.100 he told me he had a job. It turns out he's scamming everybody. But you guys will gain
00:01:32.060 a hundred pounds. All right, if he buys you fat, fine. Maybe he just likes the fatties. But
00:01:39.180 it's like, this is getting ridiculous. And then you guys want to, you go, okay. And then you guys
00:01:45.260 will say, oh, Pearl's the bad guy because she points out that you shouldn't get fat when you're
00:01:50.760 married. They'll be like, oh, well, she had a bunch of kids. Okay, I'll give you like 20 pounds, 0.99
00:02:00.480 ladies. But you guys are gaining a hundred pounds and expecting men to be okay with that. Men expect a 1.00
00:02:07.040 little bit. But I know women that have had seven children and they're hot. They look, they're 1.00
00:02:14.680 skinny. Well, hot under 30. Sorry. Sorry, guys. Okay. Anyways. But my point is we need to start
00:02:24.280 giving men incentives to get married. That means we have to lower the risks and raise the value they
00:02:30.840 get out of it. They're not going to, they're not going to sign up by you saying you're not a real man
00:02:36.740 and you need to be responsible for women's bad decisions. I'd love to chat with the Daily Wire. 0.92
00:02:42.300 I think we have two options for this. I could discuss it one-on-one with Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro,
00:02:48.260 some of the people that have come at me. Or I also think it would be really interesting to have a
00:02:52.760 conversation about the risks versus rewards of marriage with myself and some other experts in
00:02:58.240 the manosphere. I would love to have like a, I was thinking about this. I'm like, I would love to
00:03:02.360 have a divorce attorney on, me on, a man that's been wrecked and divorced, a happily married. Like
00:03:08.840 we, there's a million ways we could do this panel, but I really just want to push the conversation
00:03:13.920 forward and have a real honest conversation about the risks versus the rewards of marriage.
00:03:20.140 And we need to answer this stuff. Honestly, I understand we have religious beliefs, but just
00:03:26.400 because we have a religious belief, you know, I'm Catholic, but as a Catholic, I understand that
00:03:31.600 most men today, the reward does not outweigh the risks. And until we fix that, you are not going
00:03:38.700 to see men return. It's just not going to happen no matter what I say, or no matter what you say.
00:03:43.860 So our next story, I wanted to talk about a moment that happened on the show. So as you guys know,
00:03:49.840 Chyna has been a regular guest on our show for about a year now, and he came on and there was a
00:03:56.340 woman that had OnlyFans and had a child. And she got especially triggered when Chyna asked the
00:04:02.900 question about her having a kid and having OnlyFans. Let's play the clip. 0.91
00:04:07.380 Chyna said to me, whoa, you've got a daughter and you do OnlyFans. Of course, because how can you 1.00
00:04:12.340 have a daughter and you'd be selling your body online? It's crazy. Yeah, I agree with you,
00:04:15.520 which is why I want to get out of it. It's the way that you spoke to her and said, oh, whoa,
00:04:19.660 you have a daughter. Like, so she has a daughter. Okay, so what? She's trying to put money on her table. 1.00
00:04:25.300 She can't work in Tesco's. That's nine pounds an hour. Wait, hold on a second. So how about all the 1.00
00:04:30.560 other people that are nine pounds an hour putting their kids through school? Okay, cool.
00:04:33.560 So these women got so upset that they left because a guy said, you have OnlyFans and a child. Now I
00:04:45.020 want to put myself in this situation. I'm on YouTube. And if someone said, you're on YouTube and you have
00:04:51.400 a kid, I would just say, yes. Ladies, nobody can make you feel shame. And we need to stop blaming men 0.98
00:04:58.500 for how the truth makes us feel. If you feel shame, that comes from within. Nobody can make
00:05:04.820 you feel anything. And the thing is telling men to watch their tone when they tell you the harsh
00:05:09.560 realities of the world just leads us to living in delusion. And that's why men feel like they can't
00:05:14.700 be honest with us. And this woman, it's really interesting because she said, I agree. I want to
00:05:21.340 quit. But, you know, this is why men don't really trust what we say, because if you wanted to quit,
00:05:28.200 you would have quit. So you don't want to do the hard thing and get a real job. You want to do the
00:05:33.760 easy thing, which is not get a real job. The censored man tweets this and says, as a mom wanting to
00:05:39.480 provide for kids a justification for having OnlyFans, I would say no. I don't think there's any
00:05:44.800 justification. I think it's very selfish. And I think it's putting yourself before your children,
00:05:50.520 which is what we are going to continue to see with modern women. They care about the money more 1.00
00:05:56.000 than raising their children. And they will often scoff and laugh at women and men that work hard
00:06:01.400 and do work at Tesco's and live average lives with average jobs and have to raise up their kids poor.
00:06:07.980 They think that material things are more important than having good parents that love them and show them
00:06:13.840 how to do the right thing. How on earth will the next generation of kids know how to do the right
00:06:19.040 thing if we are raised by a generation of people that continually do the wrong thing and parade about
00:06:23.820 it on social media? I see a very grim future for humanity if these are the people that are raising
00:06:31.040 our children, which again, my question is, where is the dad and why can't he get custody? Now, I don't
00:06:37.560 know her personal situation, but typically they'll say that the dad is a deadbeat in some way,
00:06:42.200 which my question is, why would you make a child with a deadbeat? And I actually think at some
00:06:48.300 point, you know, honestly, this is a controversial opinion. I think it's better for those kids to be
00:06:56.200 adopted by two loving parents that want kids than be raised with an OnlyFans mom. I know, I know maybe
00:07:04.160 you guys will think that's crazy, but I've been on both sides of it. And, or my mom and dad like got
00:07:10.400 pregnant super young and they didn't think they could take care of it. So one of my brothers was
00:07:13.960 given up for adoption. And then we also adopted kids. We adopted three kids that were like teenagers
00:07:20.100 and really they were just in like bad situations. And the thing is guys, in 2023, we have so many
00:07:26.000 fertility issues that the line to adopt children is so long. It is, there is a waiting list to adopt
00:07:32.900 kids. I don't think OnlyFans models are fit parents. I think it's wrong. I think it's bad for the 1.00
00:07:39.060 children. I don't think you can give your kid a stable life. Um, I, I think they're going to be
00:07:44.460 bullied in schools. I, yeah, I don't think OnlyFans mothers, I think women that have OnlyFans have 1.00
00:07:51.980 already shown that they care more about attention and money rather than raising their kids to be good
00:07:57.680 people. Um, so what do you expect from the kids? I say, give the children to the dad or put them up for
00:08:04.300 adoption. I think if you can't, if you're going to use money as an excuse to do OnlyFans, then you
00:08:09.660 shouldn't have a child. 0.75