JustPearlyThings - November 15, 2023


Pearl's Thoughts On The Keke Palmer Situation


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Kiki Palmer has been granted a temporary restraining order against her ex-boyfriend Darius. She has also gained sole custody of her 8 month old son, who Darius must now be distanced from. She claims that Darius has been abusing her in a variety of ways.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, so I wanted to talk about an update on the Kiki Palmer story.
00:00:04.000 So Kiki Palmer was recently granted a temporary restraining order against her ex-boyfriend 0.98
00:00:09.780 Darius.
00:00:10.720 She has also gained sole custody of her eight-month-old son, which Darius must also be distanced
00:00:17.340 from.
00:00:18.260 Okay, so this is Kiki Palmer and Darius.
00:00:20.920 And a couple of months ago, Kiki Palmer got into some trouble because she was publicly 0.98
00:00:26.100 disrespecting her guy.
00:00:27.800 She was at an Usher concert, dressed half-naked to the nines, a mother, a mother, where it's 1.00
00:00:34.140 like at some point as a mother, I think it's time to put the boobs away. 0.99
00:00:37.820 I think it's time to put the butt away. 0.99
00:00:39.720 It is time to dress a little more modest. 0.98
00:00:42.680 I do.
00:00:43.100 I really do think at some age, it's time to just put it away.
00:00:47.860 All right.
00:00:48.240 And she's like grinding on Usher. 1.00
00:00:50.500 They're like doing the stuff.
00:00:52.280 She even goes so far to go into one of his music videos.
00:00:55.460 Now, when I see behavior like this, I see the typical modern woman. 1.00
00:00:59.980 It's heavy makeup, poop earrings, sexual clothing. 0.98
00:01:03.440 You can't tell me nothing. 0.61
00:01:04.520 And part of the modern woman playbook is to accuse men of abuse after the fact. 1.00
00:01:09.020 Now, I'm not saying that she was not abused, but typically part of their strategy is they
00:01:14.700 don't file a police report.
00:01:16.320 They only go to family court because family court, you need significantly less evidence
00:01:20.840 than you do in criminal court.
00:01:22.620 The other thing they tend to do is they tend to have some ring footage ready to go for
00:01:28.100 when they go to court.
00:01:28.960 A lot of times women have been planning this. 1.00
00:01:31.340 A lot of times what they'll do is they'll rile the guy up, maybe attack him first, maybe
00:01:36.140 taunt him, maybe do something to get a rise out of him to the point where maybe he attacks
00:01:42.260 her or restrains her.
00:01:43.680 But typically what happens is, or he says something like we saw in the Crowder situation where he 0.98
00:01:49.460 said, I will fuck you up, but she doesn't put the context of him saying, oh, I'm sorry 0.95
00:01:54.260 right after it. 0.99
00:01:55.160 That's not really the same thing of it as the abusive monster that Candace Owens painted
00:01:59.820 Crowder as.
00:02:00.800 She does owe him an apology.
00:02:02.900 And really, I do think that they need to issue a retraction on the Crowder case because
00:02:07.500 that was the worst journalism I have ever seen in my life.
00:02:10.620 It shows me that she has no idea the games that women will play in order to get custody 1.00
00:02:15.840 and control a situation.
00:02:17.200 But anyways, back to Kiki Palmer.
00:02:20.740 So now we're seeing pictures come out of her guy, Darius, abusing her, allegedly.
00:02:28.160 Let's pull it up.
00:02:30.680 Here's the proof that you guys were asking for.
00:02:33.700 A lot of you guys said Kiki Palmer might be lying about having video camera footage, but
00:02:37.540 she was not.
00:02:39.280 The radar has gotten stills of the security footage.
00:02:43.040 The stills is basically like they got the capture moment of the video camera footage
00:02:47.680 and posted it online for everybody to see.
00:02:50.460 And bro, this man actually did John Cena hurt.
00:02:54.360 I'll post the remainder photos on Instagram because I know TikTok will remove them if I
00:02:58.560 post them here.
00:02:59.920 But yeah, that man looking mad guilty, bro.
00:03:02.840 They got camera footage of him grabbing up.
00:03:05.900 You feel me?
00:03:06.560 Him putting over here.
00:03:08.160 Him throwing them fists.
00:03:09.600 Man, bro, bro.
00:03:10.440 Giving the beats.
00:03:11.100 They got the footage.
00:03:12.460 They got the footage, bro.
00:03:14.120 So you guys can say that you want to see the video in live action.
00:03:19.020 But as of right now, this is all that has come out and it's not looking too good for
00:03:24.260 bro, especially in front of a court.
00:03:26.360 Now, I see a lot of you arguing about why she took so long to come out about it, et cetera,
00:03:29.820 et cetera.
00:03:30.560 That's a whole nother argument that you guys can have.
00:03:33.160 You feel me?
00:03:34.220 I'm just here to report, you know, what you guys wanted.
00:03:36.740 No hate to this person that, um, I guess commented this because I don't want to take
00:03:40.800 out and saying that I'm bullying because I'm not bullying.
00:03:43.340 I'm just providing what you asked for.
00:03:45.600 Again, the rest of the photos will be on my IG.
00:03:48.340 And here's the thing.
00:03:49.620 Obviously, these pictures, they look bad.
00:03:52.020 But you never know the context in which what happened leading up to it.
00:03:57.120 And typically, the modern woman playbook is rile the guy up and keep this as ammo for 1.00
00:04:02.680 a later date where I can throw this in their face later or I can take this to family court
00:04:07.920 or take this to the police.
00:04:09.080 What if she hit him first and now he's just restraining her?
00:04:13.340 He might have been abusive.
00:04:14.780 I don't know.
00:04:15.300 But the problem is when you have so many women crying abuse over everything, it drains the 1.00
00:04:20.480 credibility of actual witnesses.
00:04:22.740 And typically, victims, actual victims of abuse do not have ring footage just ready,
00:04:29.980 waiting to go, you know, for the second they want sole custody of her son. 0.85
00:04:34.140 So I don't believe this.
00:04:36.100 I don't believe this for a couple things.
00:04:37.720 We already see that she's disagreeable.
00:04:40.080 You can see she does a lot of the things that women that tend to falsely accuse men of 1.00
00:04:44.500 abuse typically do, which is they're typically very narcissistic, which you could see nothing
00:04:49.880 nothing she could do, would be wrong.
00:04:53.020 They typically bring this stuff out when they want to control a situation.
00:04:56.740 So I don't know.
00:04:58.240 I will wait for the facts to come out.
00:04:59.880 But I would be much more likely to believe this if I saw an actual criminal case up against
00:05:05.780 him.
00:05:06.040 The comment section weighs in.
00:05:08.480 She has also gained sole custody for her eight-month-old son, of which Darius must also
00:05:13.820 be distanced from.
00:05:15.340 This is what I want to hear judges doing a good job.
00:05:17.360 Here's the thing, why should she be able to distance him immediately without proof?
00:05:22.260 Guys, guys, we need to start requiring women to go to criminal court before there is any 1.00
00:05:28.380 restraining order placed.
00:05:29.600 It is not fair that a woman can show some ring footage and get an emergency restraining order 1.00
00:05:34.900 and not put any of the context into the situation.
00:05:38.720 Again, we don't know.
00:05:40.060 We know.
00:05:40.600 I have interviewed abuse experts on this.
00:05:42.920 And we know that typically in abusive relationships, it is more likely than it is not likely that
00:05:48.720 the victims were abusing each other.
00:05:50.960 Typically, it is much more common that both people were abusing each other just based on
00:05:56.520 stats alone.
00:05:57.440 And I would argue it's actually even more common for the woman to hit the man and it 0.96
00:06:01.360 not be reciprocated.
00:06:02.720 You know, my question is, if he really wanted to abuse her, why doesn't she have a black 0.82
00:06:06.100 eye?
00:06:06.520 And again, this is another one.
00:06:08.020 The women will always say, oh, he put his hands on me.
00:06:10.280 He restrained me.
00:06:11.320 But a lot of times the reason that the guys restrained the girls is because the girls 1.00
00:06:16.760 were hitting them first.
00:06:17.640 And my thing is, we don't know.
00:06:19.280 And we can't just deny a man access to his son because the woman feels like she was abused
00:06:25.440 today.
00:06:26.280 Now, was she abused? 0.59
00:06:27.240 I don't know.
00:06:28.220 And I will not know until more evidence comes out.
00:06:30.440 But right now, I have not seen enough that would convince me.
00:06:34.000 And women just automatically back women without questioning any of the facts. 1.00
00:06:37.880 Like, why now?
00:06:38.740 Why didn't you go to the police before?
00:06:40.480 Where are the brute?
00:06:41.580 Like, this guy's an in-shape man. 0.99
00:06:44.120 If he wanted to beat the shit out of her, where are the black eyes? 0.99
00:06:46.880 Where are the bruises? 1.00
00:06:47.800 Where?
00:06:48.100 I have a hard time believing it.
00:06:50.100 Rhee says, also put him in jail because he doesn't deserve to roam around freely.
00:06:54.240 And it's so funny because women just automatically defend women without asking any questions. 1.00
00:06:58.980 Abia Dunn says, it's actually unfortunate how culture is deteriorating to the extent where
00:07:05.320 a father is legally asked to distance himself from his child.
00:07:09.880 Yes.
00:07:10.340 And men can see through this a little bit more because they've been on the other end of it.
00:07:14.280 You know, there are so many guys that have literal albums in their phone protecting themselves.
00:07:18.980 If a woman ever one day decides that she was abused, great. 0.97
00:07:22.700 Men should record everything. 1.00
00:07:25.200 Everything.
00:07:25.480 There are so many men that have been saved by a video recording, by just some sort of
00:07:31.380 technology recording their interaction to show that they were not, in fact, abused.
00:07:36.280 So another woman that I actually came to the same conclusion with, when Brad Pitt and Angelina 0.85
00:07:41.300 Jolie got divorced, I knew Angelina was crazy. 0.97
00:07:44.320 The same way I knew Jada Pickett was crazy. 0.99
00:07:47.040 Everyone said, Pearl, you're just a hater. 0.99
00:07:48.760 No, no, no, no.
00:07:50.060 I know the signs.
00:07:50.760 The signs about Angelina, everyone was like, oh, she does all this humanitarian work. 0.99
00:07:56.480 She adopts the children.
00:07:59.100 Amazing.
00:07:59.640 Awesome.
00:08:00.100 She has all these kids that dress like the opposite gender. 1.00
00:08:02.820 Typically, that's pushed onto women. 1.00
00:08:04.740 Typically, the women pushes it onto the kids. 1.00
00:08:06.880 Typically, you have a household that's out of order when you have these kids doing these
00:08:10.300 wacky things.
00:08:11.740 So I called this.
00:08:13.500 I wish I tweeted something about it, but I had this thought a couple of years ago.
00:08:17.440 And during the divorce, Angelina trashed Brad Pitt's name, said he was an abuser, all of 0.96
00:08:23.040 this stuff.
00:08:23.620 Now, now, the nanny's actually coming out and saying that Angelina Jolie was lying. 0.99
00:08:29.760 Angelina Jolie's childhood nanny claims the actress is unfairly demonizing Brad Pitt and 0.81
00:08:34.780 using her children as a weapon against him, just as her mother did with her father, John
00:08:39.720 Voight.
00:08:40.600 Angelina Jolie's former nanny, Crisan Morrell, has spoke out urging Jolie to end her conflict
00:08:46.160 with ex-husband, Brad Pitt.
00:08:48.200 Morrell, who cared for Jolie during her formative years, draws parallels between Jolie's current
00:08:52.680 actions and her own troubled childhood with her mother, Marceline Bertard, cut off contact
00:08:59.480 with Jolie's father, John Voight.
00:09:01.820 Morrell expresses concern that Jolie may be repeating the mistakes of the past by using their
00:09:07.380 six children as weapons in the divorce and demonizing Brad Pitt.
00:09:11.440 Morrell emphasizes with the loneliness and troubled upbringing Jolie experience, revealing
00:09:17.440 details of Bertrand's struggle to bond with Jolie during due to her resemblance to Voight.
00:09:23.080 Oh, this is something that Jesse Lee Peterson talks about, where if the daughter or the son
00:09:27.940 looks too much like the dad, the mom doesn't like the kid.
00:09:31.140 The former nanny suggests that Jolie's current actions echo the painful dynamics of her parents'
00:09:36.620 divorce.
00:09:36.920 First, Morrell points out that Pitt is facing a smear campaign, echoing the challenges Voight
00:09:41.600 faced in maintaining a relationship with his children.
00:09:44.480 She urges Jolie to not deprive their children of stable relationships with their father, emphasizing
00:09:51.040 the importance of a stability for the well-being of the child.
00:09:55.320 So again, this is all speculation.
00:09:57.420 We don't know.
00:09:58.060 But there's just, guys, you just notice patterns.
00:10:00.760 And that's like the first thing I look for is like a pattern recognition.
00:10:03.700 So typically, the single mothers in these situations are very concerned with the lifestyle. 0.99
00:10:10.660 They're not so much concerned with their children.
00:10:12.480 You'll see them out.
00:10:13.420 You'll see them dating all of these guys.
00:10:15.240 You'll see them very much concerned with themselves first.
00:10:18.200 They're not thinking of the kid.
00:10:19.400 And it reflects in their relationship.
00:10:21.420 Again, men just tend to be a little bit better people, guys.
00:10:23.860 I don't know what to tell you.
00:10:24.920 They're much more concerned with the actual well-being of the child.
00:10:28.100 Because if women were actually concerned with the well-being of children, many more would 1.00
00:10:32.340 actually give fathers custody.
00:10:34.380 And that's why I'm just not so quick to believe a lot of these stories anymore.
00:10:38.540 I used to.
00:10:39.380 You start to get red-pilled when you realize how few women actually file police reports. 0.97
00:10:44.500 It is the exception.
00:10:46.340 It is not the rule nowadays.
00:10:47.780 And I'm really going to have to start seeing real police reports, real evidence before I
00:10:52.020 just believe this stuff.