JustPearlyThings - April 26, 2023


Pearl Savagely DEBUNKS Roasts Fat Girl


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

204.96646

Word count

2,047

Sentence count

229

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

sentences flagged

Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, the guys talk about a woman who is obsessed with her appearance and wants to know if she should be allowed to be fat because she loves herself. They also talk about the fact that obesity is a minority health condition and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Next, we're going to react to one more thing.
00:00:02.680 We've had a very, you know, I kind of thought we'd get through some more, but it's okay.
00:00:08.020 We'll have one more before we close out the show.
00:00:10.600 Cool.
00:00:10.860 All right.
00:00:13.300 Now, my question is, why does this woman exist? 1.00
00:00:17.200 Like, why does this level of delusion exist?
00:00:20.580 Go on.
00:00:21.140 All right, go ahead.
00:00:22.680 I'm just going to push it.
00:00:26.340 Is it not going?
00:00:27.300 She's going viral on Twitter right now.
00:00:32.240 Hold on, let's hear this.
00:00:35.040 Here we go.
00:00:36.900 We got to make sure the sound's up on the video.
00:00:40.140 On the computer, is it on?
00:00:42.800 Okay.
00:00:44.020 Do you ever get dressed and just be like, damn, I look good.
00:00:49.980 Do you ever get dressed and just be like, confidence on a foul?
00:00:54.500 Go, girl. 0.85
00:00:55.140 Woo, woo. 0.87
00:00:55.900 You do your thing, man.
00:00:58.020 See?
00:00:59.060 All right.
00:00:59.700 Yes, girl.
00:01:00.200 Do you ever get dressed and just be like?
00:01:01.880 I think you guys are liars.
00:01:04.200 Nah, I'm not.
00:01:05.100 You know why I'm not a liar?
00:01:06.300 Yeah, let's be real, yeah?
00:01:07.680 I want to.
00:01:08.040 Self-confidence, self-love is all you need in this world.
00:01:11.880 I don't care what you don't think.
00:01:13.300 I don't care.
00:01:14.000 It's going to be on a personal tree and end up with it.
00:01:16.060 I want to hear answers from you first before I answer the question.
00:01:19.140 Go on.
00:01:19.860 No, no.
00:01:20.240 I just want to hear you.
00:01:20.740 Oh, I think that you're a liar.
00:01:24.700 I think you're a big liar.
00:01:26.080 Yep.
00:01:27.120 And the reason I think that is because you know damn well she don't look good.
00:01:31.260 You know damn well you would not wife her.
00:01:33.120 You know damn well you probably wouldn't even sleep.
00:01:35.200 Sorry to stop you.
00:01:36.300 It's not about the look at all.
00:01:38.480 She's at a very high risk of our health conditions right now.
00:01:42.640 High risk of being obese.
00:01:45.700 Yeah, but who cares?
00:01:46.840 She loves herself.
00:01:48.760 And that's all that matters.
00:01:50.140 Which is understood.
00:01:50.800 But do you love yourself by killing yourself?
00:01:53.160 Some people do.
00:01:53.920 And that doesn't matter.
00:01:54.700 That's your life.
00:01:55.840 If you want to choose to live your life to what you live your life, that's up to you, my friend.
00:01:59.460 Hey, she's great. 0.94
00:02:01.480 I would say liar.
00:02:03.140 Okay, self, I think one, it's selfish to be fat.
00:02:07.260 Everybody's got to look at you.
00:02:09.360 No, no, no.
00:02:10.460 No, no, I'm serious.
00:02:11.760 I'm serious.
00:02:12.220 No, let me, let me, let me, let me, let me, let me, let me, let me finish.
00:02:16.140 Okay, because one, she goes on an airplane, what happens?
00:02:19.020 The flubber goes over the seats and everyone has to, she should have to, but a lot of times
00:02:24.880 I have, I had a friend that went viral actually because she was stuck between two fat people.
00:02:30.180 Is that the one who wanted two seats? 0.66
00:02:31.920 What?
00:02:32.280 Is that the one who requested two seats from the airline?
00:02:35.280 I don't know if she, I don't know if she ended up doing that.
00:02:37.780 It was Sydney Watson.
00:02:39.040 I did like a vice panel with her. 1.00
00:02:40.740 She went viral.
00:02:41.400 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:42.180 Because she, because the blubber. 0.99
00:02:43.840 And then on top of that, if you make those choices, someone's got to take care of you.
00:02:47.560 So if she is fat, either the healthcare system, so all, you're making the nurses all take care of you. 1.00
00:02:52.480 But sometimes it's a health condition though.
00:02:54.200 Your family.
00:02:55.500 Occasionally it is a health condition.
00:02:57.020 Okay, can we, I just need, I need for this conversation for us not to talk about exceptions.
00:03:03.040 Let's talk about the rule.
00:03:04.100 The average person's fat because they eat too much.
00:03:06.380 Would you, personal trainer, would you agree with that?
00:03:09.100 100%.
00:03:09.640 Okay.
00:03:10.200 I used to be a personal trainer.
00:03:11.580 Okay.
00:03:12.060 So I can also elaborate on that.
00:03:13.740 All right.
00:03:14.180 We could, we could.
00:03:15.040 I don't mind.
00:03:15.360 No, I understand what you're saying.
00:03:17.120 I just feel like for me, yeah.
00:03:19.460 Like a lot of the times, like it's health conditions as well.
00:03:23.820 Because obesity, you know, and there's certain health conditions that, that allow you to,
00:03:28.980 to put on weight or certain medications.
00:03:32.060 You may be on medication or something and I'm allowed, you know, it makes you put on weight.
00:03:36.320 Unfortunately, it's not your fault.
00:03:37.880 It doesn't mean you're eating all day.
00:03:39.320 Can we just be real?
00:03:40.520 That much weight?
00:03:41.700 But do you know her situation?
00:03:43.620 Okay.
00:03:43.920 But do we know her situation?
00:03:45.460 It's the minority thing.
00:03:46.200 Can we, can we, can we, again, we're trying to talk about the rule.
00:03:49.320 We're going to go back and forth all day if we say, but that accepts it.
00:03:52.120 It's very, it's a bit frustrating.
00:03:53.800 Sorry, I had a question actually, because when we were doing the delusion calculator,
00:03:57.360 a lot of people excluded obesity.
00:03:59.280 So I don't know.
00:04:00.900 Yeah.
00:04:01.400 Yeah, but just because we wouldn't necessarily want to be with someone that's obese doesn't
00:04:05.580 necessarily mean I'm, I'm fit to sit here and judge someone's lifestyle change, decisions.
00:04:10.340 That's like, exactly.
00:04:11.660 That's like, look, why would you want to be with someone obese?
00:04:14.600 Because it's not my preference.
00:04:15.580 I don't, I personally don't find that attractive.
00:04:18.440 Okay.
00:04:19.520 Then why are you supporting it?
00:04:20.800 I'm not, I'm not supporting it, but I'm definitely not going to sit here and be rude,
00:04:29.100 say mean comments for the sake of it.
00:04:31.500 Like, if she has self-love and confidence, that's crazy.
00:04:37.040 That's an inspiration.
00:04:38.660 Exactly.
00:04:39.220 That's an inspiration.
00:04:40.440 That's what I'm rating.
00:04:41.740 It's not an insult.
00:04:42.860 It's not delusion.
00:04:44.140 It's not, it's not a lie.
00:04:46.500 No, but the thing is, I don't think the topic is about her confidence or her emotion.
00:04:52.280 The topic was about her weight.
00:04:53.940 But that's nothing to do with me.
00:04:55.480 Okay.
00:04:55.960 So I personally wouldn't want to get to that way.
00:04:58.460 But yeah, how can I judge her if she doesn't mind?
00:05:00.940 The only thing I do is the strain on the health care system is a point.
00:05:05.440 Yeah.
00:05:05.640 I think it's selfish to be that fat.
00:05:07.360 Well, what is your question is what I want to know.
00:05:09.240 My question is why do we allow women to live in this level of delusion where we parade them 1.00
00:05:15.280 on social media for being chronically obese and clearly, like if a girl was anorexic
00:05:20.060 and she, she came forward and said, oh, I look so good today.
00:05:23.440 We would say, no, that's not healthy.
00:05:25.160 But when an obese woman does it, you guys cheer it on. 1.00
00:05:28.400 Back in the day though, like a lot of the super ones were anorexic.
00:05:30.760 But we're not, we're not talking about back in the day.
00:05:32.340 We're talking about now.
00:05:33.000 All right.
00:05:33.280 So I think personally, you know, we live in this world now where a lot of things are
00:05:40.560 accepted without our control.
00:05:42.660 And for me, it's a thing.
00:05:44.240 But you control yourself.
00:05:45.000 Yeah, I control myself.
00:05:46.020 We're talking about right now.
00:05:46.920 Right.
00:05:47.080 But we're not talking about if I'm attracted or not.
00:05:49.800 I'm looking at a video of a person that is extremely happy with herself and is actually
00:05:55.260 looking at herself and thinking, I look good.
00:05:57.500 And so you should feel that way because I'm not going to accept from anybody telling me,
00:06:02.760 I'm a fat piece of shit or I'm this and that.
00:06:05.280 Because at the end of the day, that's your opinion.
00:06:07.100 Yeah, but it's not.
00:06:07.860 I am as good as I feel.
00:06:09.080 And that's how it is.
00:06:10.300 It's not an opinion to say that you need to lose weight.
00:06:12.080 It's not good for your health.
00:06:13.580 Yeah, but that's her choices. 1.00
00:06:15.260 You know, we can't.
00:06:16.020 You know what I mean?
00:06:16.420 Yeah, but her choices affect everybody else. 1.00
00:06:18.540 And it also shows like what we see in the media.
00:06:21.700 Like why are we pushing fat women as models? 1.00
00:06:24.120 Why are we pushing fat women on the covers of magazines? 1.00
00:06:26.500 No, no, no.
00:06:27.220 Because we shouldn't be pushing that in a society.
00:06:29.960 We should.
00:06:30.380 Like you can't.
00:06:31.100 It depends how big they're at.
00:06:32.060 That's not.
00:06:32.920 Yeah, but she was obese and you guys cheered it on. 1.00
00:06:35.820 Like that is morbid obesity.
00:06:38.100 It wasn't the weight that we were cheering on.
00:06:40.100 It was the confidence and the self-love that she had regardless of her situation.
00:06:44.640 But that's like, that's narcissism.
00:06:46.360 That's narcissism.
00:06:47.240 Let's not forget that obesity is an actual problem.
00:06:50.800 It is a problem.
00:06:51.560 I said it could be underlying health issues.
00:06:53.560 I said that.
00:06:54.220 And if, according to what she said, if we support people like that, then we're only
00:06:58.100 encouraging them to maintain the way they are and that's how they feel.
00:07:03.380 No, but you can't help certain people that gain that weight.
00:07:07.760 Like I said, it could be X amount of reasons why.
00:07:09.780 You can't help them.
00:07:10.460 Come on.
00:07:10.940 You know better than that.
00:07:11.860 No, no, but I'm saying.
00:07:13.160 Some people take medications that make them put on weight.
00:07:17.720 Steroids.
00:07:18.820 No, not just steroids.
00:07:19.900 Just other things.
00:07:21.060 Like what?
00:07:21.680 I don't know, but I'm saying.
00:07:22.940 Okay, so you're speaking on something you don't even know.
00:07:25.400 Okay, fair enough.
00:07:26.220 But I'm saying, I'm saying, but it's not just eating.
00:07:29.200 I know someone with no thyroid that's in shape.
00:07:31.600 She literally doesn't have one.
00:07:34.120 So what health conditions?
00:07:35.580 It wouldn't be just eating though.
00:07:37.800 No, no, but I'm asking you.
00:07:39.140 You don't even know.
00:07:40.220 So I'm asking you, name them.
00:07:42.240 Name the medication.
00:07:43.400 I'm not a doctor, so I can't name the medication.
00:07:45.300 The thing is as well, it could be a backlash to that era where supermodels were, a lot of them were anorexic.
00:07:50.800 It could just be like, we're going through that and then it will balance out again, maybe.
00:07:55.360 No, no, no.
00:07:56.720 Come on.
00:07:57.380 I mean, let's just be real.
00:07:58.640 So you think people are obese because they just eat?
00:08:01.240 Yes.
00:08:01.440 Is my question.
00:08:01.980 Yes.
00:08:02.180 90 or 95 percent, yes, is a bad, dire choice.
00:08:07.860 Okay.
00:08:08.140 95 percent.
00:08:09.080 Others is health conditions where, you know, there's steroids involved because of their health condition.
00:08:16.000 And the steroids cause them to gain more weight or eat more.
00:08:18.980 The last time I researched it, it was the minority that had to have problems.
00:08:23.060 Yeah, actually, and I have a question.
00:08:24.200 You said you're only as good as you feel, but aren't you only as good as you are?
00:08:30.240 But that's, that's, but this is what I'm saying.
00:08:32.680 Because like, otherwise it's delusional.
00:08:34.200 So if I go around, wait, wait.
00:08:35.540 So if I go around and I say, I'm a millionaire.
00:08:37.940 Oh, I'm a millionaire.
00:08:39.180 I'm a millionaire.
00:08:39.880 I'm a millionaire, but I have zero dollars in my bank account.
00:08:42.240 How am I not delusional?
00:08:43.500 But women will go around saying, I'm beautiful. 0.94
00:08:45.920 I look great.
00:08:46.740 This, this, and this.
00:08:47.700 When it's clearly not true.
00:08:49.300 Everyone in this room knows it's not true.
00:08:51.040 Everyone in the room, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:53.080 Everyone in the room knows she's delusional.
00:08:55.280 Everyone in the room knows that you would not want to look like her, but we cheer it on.
00:08:59.040 Why?
00:08:59.580 Because, because like, you got to be happy for someone accepting who they are.
00:09:05.100 And if you're encouraging somebody to, to be like, oh, well, you're fat, you're undesirable.
00:09:10.540 What are you doing to their mental health?
00:09:12.200 You know, I'm going to tell you.
00:09:12.860 What are you doing to their mental health?
00:09:14.200 Mental health.
00:09:14.580 But it's, it's all about, wait, wait.
00:09:16.440 So it's all about you as a person.
00:09:17.840 So I, I've been pretty overweight.
00:09:19.620 I was over 200 pounds at one point and literally, do you know what made me switch was all the
00:09:24.560 guys laughing at work, how they wouldn't date a girl over 200 pounds.
00:09:27.600 And I was like, oh my God, that's their opinion.
00:09:29.800 No, no, no.
00:09:30.540 But I was good.
00:09:31.860 I was so glad I heard that because I made a change, but everybody lying.
00:09:36.000 That's why I said liars and cheering her on. 0.97
00:09:38.460 It's like, you're not telling them the truth.
00:09:40.200 And sometimes the truth hurts, but you make better decisions because of it.
00:09:43.280 Like, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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