JustPearlyThings - Pearl SAVAGELY DESTROYS Hakimi’s EX WIFE

00:00:00.000 today um we are talking about a couple that is in the news all right there's a famous soccer player

00:00:09.200 who recently was divorced and he his you know soon ex-wife had a very big surprise in the divorce

00:00:19.680 play the video blessing um also shout out to chisha zed we're going to react to his video today

00:00:24.960 welcome to the coffee pod my name is chishi said drink the coffee it'll make you feel better

00:00:33.600 professional footballer ashraf akime's wife filed for divorce and demanded half of his property

00:00:41.840 we've heard this story before but this one's a little bit different she was informed by the court

00:00:47.200 that her millionaire husband owns nothing how could that be how could that be she was shocked i'm sure

00:00:58.800 the whole courtroom was shocked to find out that her plan to get half of everything he owns was 1.00

00:01:06.640 immediately disrupted why well because all his property is registered under his mother's name

00:01:15.280 wow this is definitely some bitter coffee for that ex-wife or soon to be ex-wife she's drinking black 1.00

00:01:22.720 coffee we're drinking uh some coffee with with a little bit of creamer in it today because you know

00:01:29.680 this is good news yeah man i got the dms from you guys a bunch of you wanted me to talk about this so

00:01:36.080 it's trending everywhere but there's more to the store than just this trending headline we're gonna

00:01:41.040 look at what exactly might be going on in the background what led to this situation possibly

00:01:46.080 and also what the people have to say about everything that's going on so for those of you

00:01:50.480 who may not know ashraf hakime is a professional footballer who plays for league one club paris saint

00:01:57.920 germain and morocco national team but a lot of people probably don't know and i personally didn't know

00:02:04.400 because i just don't follow soccer that closely about the story is that on march 3rd ashraf had been

00:02:11.840 indicted by paris police over allegations of grape the man was recently metooed and placed under

00:02:18.640 judicial supervision on march 3rd last month now three weeks later on march 27th his wife

00:02:27.040 filed for divorce or at least she went online to announce that she was divorcing and leaving

00:02:32.160 her husband and they were awaiting divorce proceedings now two weeks later after that

00:02:37.520 everything took a shocking turn when this news was released in court it was found that the 24 year

00:02:45.200 old famous soccer player had no assets under his name she took him to court so that she could take 0.98

00:02:52.320 away his assets right we're not surprised

00:02:54.320 it was reported that all his properties jewelry and cars were all under his mom's name real quick

00:03:04.160 shout out to that mom man who came through for her son because i have never heard of this before in

00:03:12.320 my life usually especially as young as this professional athlete is a lot of professional athletes

00:03:19.280 end up broke majority of them do and that's because they don't take the initiative to protect their

00:03:25.200 wealth understand money and how to grow wealth outside of the sport but just protecting your wealth

00:03:31.760 after divorce is usually very difficult for a lot of these athletes to do they don't take it seriously

00:03:36.880 not only were the properties jewelry and cars underneath mom's name but she also received 80 percent of

00:03:43.200 his 15.7 million dollar wage therefore it meant that ashraf had no assets to split with his wife from

00:03:55.760 what i know and where it stands now she gets nothing so they do have two children two sons in specific

00:04:02.080 and a lot of people are speculating that the reason for her initiating that divorce was based on him

00:04:09.440 inviting some chick over while his wife and kids were off on vacation and then that chick who came 1.00

00:04:16.400 over to his place claiming that he forced himself on her what do you guys think of that right curious

00:04:24.000 to know what you guys think of that as always we're going to check out some of these comments

00:04:26.720 see what the people have to say this is an obvious win of course for

00:04:30.160 this man as far as his assets go but this post came from wealth they commented and this is an

00:04:40.320 instagram page they commented he said ma hold the bag coming in 19 000 likes another commenter here

00:04:47.040 none other than francis and ganu uh added and said that's how you do it 5 000 likes shout out to francis

00:04:53.600 man another person here a woman chimed in and says y'all clapping for him but this is kind of disturbing

00:04:59.600 okay so she disagrees we have a woman here who doesn't like what's going on she goes on to say 1.00

00:05:03.520 because maybe the reason for the divorce is due to his inability to make moves without his mom

00:05:10.160 smart for sure but strange

00:05:15.200 what do you guys think of that do you guys think that's the reason for the divorce i mean with the

00:05:20.080 data we know now and these women initiating divorces over anything um i think she probably thought 1.00

00:05:26.640 of reason found it and decided it was worth initiating for that divorce in her eyes but let's

00:05:31.280 see what the people have to say because people responded back to that chick for example this man

00:05:34.320 who said doubt it and another commenter who added obviously the mother is the only one that won't

00:05:40.320 leave him and take half of his money 951 likes another person who says best comment in response to

00:05:46.320 that guy i have seen on internet another man here says how is that strange in response to that chick

00:05:53.760 especially in a world we live in and after seeing so many cases i'll say that was very smart for him

00:06:00.960 why should your wife be automatically eligible to get half your just because you don't want to be with 1.00

00:06:06.960 him no more this turned into a thread and a lot of people chimed in this next person said she probably

00:06:12.080 paid someone to accuse of grape oh so she can file a divorce and get half of his money what do you guys

00:06:18.880 think of that i don't know you know i think those are um far out speculations but hey who knows

00:06:26.560 other person here says so for that she deserves to split half of the man's wealth okay and finally 1.00

00:06:32.640 another comment here to end the thread says men okay so what is you guys reaction to that story who's

00:06:39.440 right who's wrong was it smart was it wrong okay she she's got i could see i could see you during the

00:06:46.320 reaction on the edge of your seat i think he's a smart guy because especially with marriages and

00:06:52.560 when you have a lot of money people will do anything to get a piece of your pie and i'm i'm coming from a

00:06:59.680 place where i've had people take a piece of my pie like i have been scammed over 10 grand of my money

00:07:07.840 because how'd you get scammed for scammed for 10 grand i'm sorry sorry i can't talk

00:07:15.760 it was from a very i'm not going to say the name of the company but basically

00:07:22.560 why not beat them up i know because i don't want to get sued and then they take more money

00:07:27.040 no no no no so um this company promised my company to advertise market and promote my business

00:07:38.240 and obviously this um business was uh pakistani and the reason why they didn't follow with all

00:07:46.400 the agreements and the proposal fee at the end of my performance at wembley arena last year in august

00:07:53.280 they go the reason why we didn't do all those things is because you're not pakistani

00:07:59.280 so they took my money i did a free performance in front of 12 500 people and 10 grand just went

00:08:05.760 woof wow so when it comes to that i think he's very smart for giving his assets to his mom so people

00:08:12.640 don't take it because anyone will take that opportunity just to take something for me

00:08:16.080 what do you think i mean i feel like i do think it was a smart move i think

00:08:29.040 like it was obviously very calculated however i don't necessarily think that when you're divorcing

00:08:36.480 someone i don't think it's scamming to like take some of their money or whatever when you divorce

00:08:46.640 someone do you think you're entitled to a man's money in divorce but he made um entitled not necessarily 1.00

00:08:55.360 but i think for example in some situations where you might have given up your career to raise children

00:09:02.240 or whatever like you decided to put the money that you're making on hold to put effort into

00:09:09.600 growing three out of three out of four women work so most women most women work when they have 1.00

00:09:16.240 children yeah it says three out of four mothers in the uk work but also it's her choice to have

00:09:21.760 those children with him and those children surely are going to still be looked after by their father

00:09:26.240 so like financially i'm sure he's his mother's not going to be like bye couldn't you argue it's an

00:09:31.360 even trade because she gets time with the kids that he doesn't get so wouldn't you say that's an even

00:09:36.160 trade not necessarily you don't think time with your kids is more valuable then that's not what i'm

00:09:41.760 saying i feel as though if a father wants to have time with his children i feel like you know legally

00:09:49.120 he has the right to fight to have more time with his children if that's what he knows if that's what

00:09:54.000 no but i was saying i was saying during the marriage you don't think that's an equal exchange

00:09:58.320 so she gets time with the children and she has to put her career on hold but he he gets to do the

00:10:03.360 career thing but he doesn't get the time with his kids so you don't think that's a fair exchange i

00:10:08.400 don't think that's an equal exchange i don't think those two things are equal like i'm not a better deal

00:10:14.800 in that that's not me saying that necessarily working on your career is better than spending time with

00:10:20.720 your children but i feel as though when if you guys are to split up or have a divorce it does put

00:10:26.560 you at an advantage if you have spent time furthering your career and but then shouldn't you stay

00:10:34.320 shouldn't you not get divorced then so you just think that women should put up with anything and 1.00

00:10:39.440 stay in the relationship that most things yeah i think pretty much everything yeah

00:10:43.600 can i can i i think yeah i think i think otherwise stay in a relationship why get married

00:10:49.840 isn't like what happened for better for worse for sickness and health for richer or for poorer

00:10:53.920 aren't those your vows don't they matter till death to us part but being cheated on isn't part of the

00:10:59.040 all right can i interject though how why are we assuming that the kids are going to go to her

00:11:03.680 we're not it's yeah you are i i didn't assume anything no but i'm saying the way how the direction of

00:11:09.280 the conversation is going it's like we know that the kids are are going to her like he's a footballer

00:11:14.560 right trains a couple hours a day she was on about whilst he was well they're married not separation

00:11:20.000 we haven't even got to no no no we have got to the separation no we didn't yeah you could you could

00:11:24.400 rewind the podcast we actually did get to that part when we're talking about after when he when he's

00:11:28.640 leaving after they've left this lady was talking about whilst they're in the relationship still

00:11:34.000 is it a fair exchange i was saying is it a fair exchange that he she gets to stay at home

00:11:39.200 and the value that she gets from that and him working they're still married i understand that

00:11:44.320 point and then after we talked about leaving and where the children should go no i said that when

00:11:50.400 they when they separate he has an advantage there we go no but i never said it wasn't

00:11:56.240 but couldn't she couldn't she have an advantage to getting remarried and being a stay-at-home wife 1.00

00:12:00.800 then she has an advantage she has more wife skills no like if you were a stay-at-home wife then you'd 1.00

00:12:07.680 have stay-at-home wife skills so wouldn't you have an advantage if you wanted to get remarried 1.00

00:12:13.680 you've got children now though so you automatically devalued

00:12:19.920 that's what i'm trying to say you devalue what do you mean like how do you know the kids are going

00:12:23.040 to go to her we're not saying hold on hold on let me let me let me let me try and nuance my point

00:12:28.240 yeah if she has no kids because the kids are with him then there's no responsibility

00:12:33.440 she's still pushed out two children so she's still automatically in the eyes of a man 0.91

00:12:37.920 when he's looking at that woman no is a woman not devalued because i'm i'm looking at i have to pay

00:12:42.480 for the kids if the kids are not at the house then what i'm not paying that catch up we're talking

00:12:46.240 about something wait no amiri i think she's saying that she like the mom is less valuable when she has

00:12:51.040 kids i know i know what she's saying yeah that's like am i talking like no no sorry i just didn't

00:12:56.640 understand i'm saying literally the reason why it's a problem if a woman has kids is because i have to look

00:13:01.840 after them but if the kids are with the man then i don't have to look after them but she'll still 0.98

00:13:05.680 have them at some point there'll still be moments where they come over and that is like yeah but

00:13:09.280 that's not why men are like saying to um to stay away from women with kids it's because i'm gonna 0.69

00:13:16.560 have to look after the kids i'm gonna get so if i send my children to my son's dad am i then more valuable

00:13:22.720 say that again if i send my son to his dad am i now like high market yeah but then you gotta listen

00:13:27.680 be higher market yeah because because like think about it if the if you're the dad had primary

00:13:32.000 custody you'd only have the kids what three days six days a month wouldn't the question then be like

00:13:36.720 why what's wrong like what why does your why do you not have 50 share like if that if the father's

00:13:42.240 willing to do like a big portion of it why wouldn't it be 50 like are you asking me also do you think

00:13:48.800 like society values women that don't look after their children no no no i don't what do you what do you 1.00

00:13:55.920 mean say that again because i mean you guys are saying that a woman's higher value if the children

00:14:02.160 sorry sorry sorry you guys are saying that a woman's higher value if um her children are with

00:14:07.680 their their dad or not with them primarily so like do you guys think that society respects women who

00:14:15.920 she was speculating she was speculating that i think she i don't think she said it definitively

00:14:20.480 yet she was just sort of floating the idea i mean i think in some ways uh a guy might prefer to

00:14:25.760 meet a woman who's less encumbered with children you know because some guys do have a you know an

00:14:30.560 issue with she's got three kids he's like do i want to take that on if she if they're not around

00:14:35.120 potentially you you might say well maybe that's going to be more of an attractive proposition

00:14:38.720 but you are right on the other hand if the other way of looking at it is well you know she couldn't

00:14:43.600 look after her kids so if if he's looking for somebody to produce more kids with then maybe she's not 0.99

00:14:48.880 such a good bet but i think but just to just to the point of this guy the footballer and what he

00:14:53.520 did did he do the right thing 100 man this has got to be this is this has got to be the blueprint

00:15:01.200 this is the smartest thing i've ever heard this has got to be the blueprint for every single man

00:15:04.720 now for the for the rest of eternity sign all your money over to your mom that's it that's it guys

00:15:09.360 i've been like yes it's over it was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - April 17, 2023

Pearl SAVAGELY DESTROYS Hakimi’s EX WIFE

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