JustPearlyThings - Pearl SCHOOLS Born Again Virgin

00:00:00.000 what do you guys think about the phrase i'm a woman that makes you wait for sex isn't worth the

00:00:05.000 wait that's only true if you're that's only true if you're not if she's not a real virgin which i

00:00:13.980 know you can't really you know you can't really tell but that's that's what i think at least but

00:00:19.260 i think you guys have to be mindful when it comes to sex it's not just sex it's a spiritual energy

00:00:26.040 exchange i don't care you guys i have to say this stuff like like honestly it's not it's a big thing

00:00:33.400 so do you really want to just be having sex with anyone and letting any kind of energy into your

00:00:38.980 energy like it's not worth it is it i don't think it's worth it and that's kind of can i just say

00:00:43.560 that for us it is always a spiritual exchange for them it might just be sex and you might be thinking

00:00:50.320 oh this is a spiritual exchange but it's not and that's why i probably could only date spiritual

00:00:54.560 men now now at this point like i think if you thought it was a spiritual exchange you would

00:00:58.800 wait until you were married like that's why that's what i mean like why like like men hear the things

00:01:04.240 we say and it doesn't match up with what we do because it's like okay you're 32 you've been dating

00:01:08.060 since you're 18 was every guy you slept with in the last 12 years a spiritual but since 28 because i

00:01:13.380 only stand spirit when i'm 28 so eric my mindset completely okay do you do you realize there's like a

00:01:17.840 pattern wait wait wait so there's like a pattern so this is this is like guys when they've dated

00:01:22.620 enough women they start to see like patterns in our behavior and like one thing that they found 0.96

00:01:27.140 was like women tend to like find god around the age of 28 so they kind of like start to rebrand

00:01:31.440 so basically like like basically it's kind of like a red flag when you say around 28 i like found god

00:01:35.980 or found the spiritual journey because it's kind of like okay i spent the first half of my 20s being a

00:01:40.560 hoe and then now i'm not i'm not saying a hoe but like okay a hoe what is a hoe statistically more 0.99

00:01:47.320 than five partners okay so okay i look i don't i don't need to know but but what i'm saying like

00:01:54.320 so a lot of times like women sort of try to rebrand it just doesn't really seem like genuine 0.98

00:01:58.400 it's not really rebranding it's growth like at the end of the day if you're gonna be the same

00:02:01.820 first of your life you're never gonna get anywhere it might be but i'm just telling you how like men

00:02:05.620 see it it's kind of like that's not the men for me okay okay okay listen listen but this is this

00:02:10.480 isn't this isn't the men for me i'm telling you this is how like men see it where it's like

00:02:13.940 before the men um i gave this away for free now you pay a premium price and so what that says to

00:02:21.500 the men is you're not genuinely attracted to them because you were genuinely attracted to the first guy

00:02:26.780 because you had sex with him right away but you're not that attracted to the second because you're

00:02:30.680 making him wait and pearl i would even i would even say that like like again going back to like

00:02:35.260 your body's a temple it's not even just like your body's temple it's also like what food you eat you

00:02:39.740 know how you treat your body like are you working out like are you taking care of yourself like

00:02:43.720 these things are part of that and i think if you're doing all of those things then yeah that

00:02:48.680 both people should wait because that means you're actually you love yourself in a in an authentic

00:02:53.340 truthful way and you actually care about your body and your beliefs so that that's to me that would show

00:02:59.760 that what would show like eating right eating right taking care of your body and also not like

00:03:04.640 having a bunch of tattoos and not and not sleeping with a bunch of people oh okay i see i see so being

00:03:08.320 pure being you know yeah so do you think that um majority of men think that let's say for example

00:03:13.940 before you're 28 you slept around and then after 28 you found god reborn again no i think that's

00:03:19.460 terrible that's just like that's just like a cover-up but who who is that though huh who like is that

00:03:25.500 i don't think everyone's like that but not everyone's like that i'm saying but let's say there's a

00:03:29.520 born again woman at 28 and hold on i'm gonna read this some of them i mean let's give them credit

00:03:35.520 some of them could be you can like you can find god at the end of the day okay okay this is this is

00:03:40.880 this is from the rational male um i previously described this phase as parallels um all right

00:03:47.520 this this time the epiphany phase this is a precarious time for women usually between the ages of 28 and 30

00:03:53.340 where she attempts to reassess the last decade of her life women's um psyche psychological rational

00:03:59.500 rationalization engine begins a furious effort to account for and explain her reasonings for not 1.00

00:04:04.840 having successfully secured a long-term monogamous commitment from an alpha a man a man her

00:04:10.220 attractiveness could attain for her even women married prior to this phase will go through some 1.00

00:04:14.640 self-doubt or self-pity dealing with the un are the hyper hypergamic uncertainty of her choice is this

00:04:22.200 really the best i can do it is during this phase that women will make radical shifts in their prior 1.00

00:04:27.500 prioritization of what uh traits qualify as attractive in a man an attempt to turn over a

00:04:33.520 new leaf by changing up their behaviors to allowing to with this new persona they created themselves for

00:04:38.660 themselves since the physicality sexual prowess and the alpha dominance that made her formal arousal

00:04:44.940 it's like so more looks a formal arousal cues in men aren't as forthcoming from men when she was in 0.99

00:04:50.580 her sexual prime she reprioritizes them with preferences for more intrinsic male attributes that 1.00

00:04:56.220 stress dependability provisioning capacity humor intellect and esoteric definitions of compatibility

00:05:04.340 and intimacy for the spiritually inclined women this may manifest in a convenient return to the 1.00

00:05:10.940 convictions she disregarded since her adolescence for others it may be a forced celibacy a refusal to

00:05:17.760 have sex under the hype hypergamic i'm like what do you use these big words ossip peas of her party 0.52

00:05:25.060 years in hopes that a well provisioning male will appreciate her for her prudence so unlike herself and 0.87

00:05:30.960 all the other girls who rejected him the last decade so it's essentially like a rebrand yeah

00:05:35.780 exactly but it said even for married women it said right no that had been married oh well actually maybe

00:05:43.780 wait let me rewrite because i i understood it as even married women go through some sort of shift 1.00

00:05:52.020 you might be right you might be right i'm just trying to find it i understood that too and i think

00:05:55.940 i experienced that as well i didn't divorce until i was 34 but i think that goes back to like emotions

00:06:02.020 how like women act out of emotions and like i feel like women need to find better ways to deal with 0.97

00:06:05.860 their emotions they're usually stuffing them down that's why there's so much obesity i know or smearing them

00:06:11.060 out like pushing them out uh unsmearing them other people through projection it's it's pretty

00:06:16.020 destructive it's like oh that's fine you can just be born again you can just do that you can just do

00:06:20.420 that and it's like that's not that's not still not truthful and authentic who taught us what who taught

00:06:25.940 us who taught us how to deal with our emotions maybe our parents didn't it's a natural thing no it's not

00:06:31.060 what i think women naturally are emotional no but we don't naturally know how to deal not everyone knows 0.99

00:06:37.300 you don't have to deal with it but you're naturally emotional and it's like so whether you know how

00:06:41.380 to deal with it when we say who taught us it's almost like a way for women like for us to like 1.00

00:06:46.980 because i've noticed in our language we like take accountability off of women where it's like we 1.00

00:06:51.700 blame our choices over who taught us where it's like if a guy's in jail they don't say who taught you

00:06:56.820 that they just say he's you ever noticed that for sure no absolutely like i don't think it's like

00:07:01.460 intentional i just think i feel like there's like these little things in conversation where we like take

00:07:05.940 accountability off of women and like put it onto someone else yeah thanks for shining light on

00:07:10.100 that it's our responsibility as adults that's what yeah definitely as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - May 22, 2023

Pearl SCHOOLS Born Again Virgin

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