JustPearlyThings - November 24, 2023


Pearl Shares This Uncomfortable Truth


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

186.16052

Word count

1,772

Sentence count

139

Harmful content

Misogyny

25

sentences flagged

Hate speech

16

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Summary

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Good men would never cheat on their wives, right? This is a horrible take by a woman named Isabella DeLuca. She says that all good men would cheat, and that women would never do the same with another man.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What I am dedicated to on this channel is I want to know what is true about the world.
00:00:05.840 This conversation does not talk about how I feel about it personally, because my opinions,
00:00:11.580 my morality does not matter.
00:00:13.900 I am looking for what is true.
00:00:15.840 So I saw a video on Twitter posted from an account, Isabella Maria DeLuca, and she said
00:00:20.820 good men would never, ever consider this.
00:00:23.200 This is a horrible take.
00:00:24.680 I found up every man on the planet and you said, hey, listen, I got this red button.
00:00:27.980 Nobody's looking.
00:00:28.800 Nobody's going to judge you.
00:00:29.680 You can sleep with other women and then go home and hold your wife and tuck in your babies 1.00
00:00:32.920 and provide and be a good husband and father.
00:00:34.760 Every man on the planet would look left, they'd look right, and they'd hit.
00:00:37.120 Okay.
00:00:37.740 So again, guys, this is not how I feel about it.
00:00:41.800 This is what is true.
00:00:44.420 Justin Waller said this on my show.
00:00:46.800 And when I think about it, how would we know if men would cheat if given the option?
00:00:51.860 Let's think this through.
00:00:53.880 If I wanted to test the claim, okay, do men with the option to cheat,
00:00:58.220 we could look at the men that are both handsome and successful.
00:01:02.560 Not all successful men have women throwing themselves at them left and right.
00:01:07.920 Some men are a little bit nerdy.
00:01:09.720 Some men are a little bit ugly.
00:01:11.660 Women have higher and higher and higher standards in 2023. 1.00
00:01:15.260 So just because a guy has money, unfortunately, it does not mean he has attractive young women
00:01:22.300 throwing themselves at him left and right.
00:01:24.680 So when I look at the men that have status, money, fame, and looks, do they tend to cheat?
00:01:32.100 Is Brad Pitt faithful?
00:01:34.080 Is Hollywood known for being faithful?
00:01:37.280 Are movie stars known for being faithful?
00:01:39.580 Now, you could argue, you could say, well, Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl.
00:01:44.220 What about businessmen?
00:01:45.680 And you know what?
00:01:46.400 I actually agree.
00:01:47.340 There's a sector of businessmen that don't cheat, but they tend to be the nerdier guys
00:01:51.920 that aren't the best looking that get money. 0.98
00:01:54.460 And then they get a wife.
00:01:55.900 But they're still not typically the guys that women throw themselves at.
00:02:01.200 But any man that has women throwing themselves at him left and right over a long period of
00:02:07.260 time tend to cheat.
00:02:08.480 I'll give you an example.
00:02:10.060 You could be married for 10 years.
00:02:12.380 Let's say there's women trying to sleep with you for 40 years. 1.00
00:02:15.600 You don't think that at some point in the next 40 years, you might slip up.
00:02:21.020 Most men probably will at some point.
00:02:24.340 But now, is that saying, I like it?
00:02:26.720 Is that me encouraging it?
00:02:28.480 No.
00:02:29.280 Now, I know this doesn't win any points with the audience.
00:02:32.220 Nobody wants to hear this.
00:02:33.600 This is an uncomfortable truth, but I care about what is true above all else.
00:02:38.440 So that is my opinion on cheating.
00:02:40.260 No, I don't want to be cheated.
00:02:42.240 I've seen so much stuff where they're like, oh, Pearl wants to be cheated on. 1.00
00:02:45.900 I'm like, who the?
00:02:48.060 But I think this is a more honest take that men naturally want to cheat.
00:02:53.980 Is more honest than saying, let me, let me get this straight.
00:02:57.480 I was thinking about this.
00:02:58.440 Let me get this straight.
00:02:59.240 Okay.
00:03:00.280 If a guy, if you told the guy, look it, you get to have a wife and kids and they'll love
00:03:04.760 you.
00:03:04.920 There'll be no problems that come with it.
00:03:07.380 And you get to sleep with hot women forever. 0.91
00:03:10.460 Are the men going to say, oh, no, no, no, no.
00:03:13.840 Please keep those hot chicks away from me. 1.00
00:03:17.120 Oh my gosh.
00:03:18.620 Leave them. 0.92
00:03:19.760 Leave them. 0.92
00:03:20.340 And my opinion is that it should be worked through.
00:03:23.600 I'll give you guys something similar.
00:03:25.520 Most men would work through a woman flirting with another guy. 0.77
00:03:29.640 A girl receiving attention from another man is the same thing as a guy receiving sex from 1.00
00:03:35.980 another woman. 0.96
00:03:37.260 Now, why do I think this?
00:03:39.020 This sounds really far-fetched.
00:03:40.520 And I know when I heard this at first, I thought, well, that doesn't really make sense.
00:03:46.300 But I'll tell you why it does.
00:03:47.540 Most women would pick attention over sex. 1.00
00:03:50.260 If you ask a woman, you could have sex with the hottest guys alive, or you could be the
00:03:54.640 most beautiful woman alive, but you never have sex again and you look young forever.
00:03:58.960 Most women would pick the youth over the sex. 1.00
00:04:01.940 Most men don't really care what they look like.
00:04:04.640 They would say, oh, I'll take sex with the hot models. 1.00
00:04:07.460 Going by this logic, most men would pick sex with hot women. 0.96
00:04:12.580 Most women would pick beauty, which is men being attracted to me, which is attention from 0.98
00:04:20.000 attractive men.
00:04:21.160 Most men would work through flirting. 0.96
00:04:23.600 They would never work through sex with another guy.
00:04:26.520 Most women would work through casual sex with another woman. 1.00
00:04:30.900 They would not work through a man giving relationship attention to another woman.
00:04:35.520 They're different.
00:04:37.000 And unfortunately, I don't say this in a happy way.
00:04:39.220 I would love, I think all women would love for men to just want to be with one woman 1.00
00:04:44.500 for a lifetime.
00:04:45.360 But that isn't, that isn't reality.
00:04:47.580 Okay.
00:04:48.160 So Tim and Myron start going back and forth on this.
00:04:51.340 So Tim responds to this video and he says, this is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
00:04:57.440 This dude is just saying that he's a shithead.
00:05:00.580 So everyone else must be too.
00:05:01.960 So again, the only way we can test this, the guy has to have all three.
00:05:07.800 You have to have looks, money, and status.
00:05:10.300 If you do not have all three, you cannot say you have that level of option.
00:05:15.360 You just can't.
00:05:16.620 You cannot say that, oh, I would turn down cheating if you have never been in the situation
00:05:22.600 where you are the top 5% of men.
00:05:24.860 No, money alone will not just get you there.
00:05:27.180 Women are crazy nowadays and most men have never been in the position where 8s, 9s, and 1.00
00:05:32.560 10s are chasing after them.
00:05:35.100 So Myron responds and he says, Tim, he's 100% correct.
00:05:39.580 Men are only as faithful as their options. 0.98
00:05:41.660 The only difference between a rich and handsome dude and a regular dude is the former can typically
00:05:46.040 be honest about it.
00:05:48.000 Yes, yes.
00:05:49.220 Tim Poole says, and it's interesting because I had a similar point of view to this because
00:05:53.780 again, I came from a wealthy area, okay?
00:05:57.860 And so in my head, I thought, what?
00:05:59.640 This wasn't normal, okay?
00:06:01.740 So I had a similar mindset to Tim until I figured out what was true.
00:06:06.520 That is all I'm after.
00:06:07.700 What is true?
00:06:08.420 I look for patterns.
00:06:09.600 So he said, it's crazy that you do not realize that not all people think the way that you
00:06:14.080 do.
00:06:14.320 It's so crazy how you're like, I'm so disloyal.
00:06:16.600 So I assume everyone else must be too.
00:06:19.100 It's crazy how y'all assume men who reject this must be lying.
00:06:22.460 So I've noticed trends with men that say this.
00:06:25.980 It tends to be the men that max out on money, that that's their big thing.
00:06:29.700 So what they offer to women is the money and the loyalty. 1.00
00:06:31.920 They offer women the long term.
00:06:33.800 And the second thing is that it's interesting because I've had so many guys argue for loyalty.
00:06:41.120 It's so interesting on the show.
00:06:42.440 I get to see like both sides of content creators, okay?
00:06:45.880 Or just regular people.
00:06:47.420 I see what goes on behind the scenes.
00:06:49.320 A lot of guys that argue for loyalty are not loyal.
00:06:53.820 Now, I'm not even saying Tim Poole, okay?
00:06:55.620 I'm just saying I've noticed this trend where in their personal lives, they're in situationships,
00:07:02.360 they're in, they're sleeping with multiple women.
00:07:05.320 Half the time, the guys that are saying this, ladies, they're not being honest with us.
00:07:09.320 They're not telling us the truth.
00:07:10.760 And the other thing is men over the age of 40 are in a little bit of a different world.
00:07:16.000 There's a little bit of a crossover between men between the ages of 25 and 35 too,
00:07:21.260 depending on how much they're on social media.
00:07:23.420 But social media completely changes the game where women now have access to a higher and 0.99
00:07:29.740 higher percentage of men.
00:07:30.880 A lot of times the men that argue for this stuff just are not in that percentage.
00:07:35.960 I'm not.
00:07:36.500 And by the way, please don't take this as I don't know who he dates or whatever.
00:07:40.200 It's not about Tim.
00:07:42.240 But I look for these patterns where I realize that most men that argue for monogamy, A, are
00:07:49.680 not married, B, have dated multiple women in their lifetime, and C, have never been in
00:07:55.540 the position where they have eights, nines, and tens chasing them, okay?
00:08:00.180 And so Myron responds and he says, I'd be happy to have this discussion with you on your show,
00:08:04.620 but if I lined up 100 men, 85 or better, would prefer to have more than one woman. 0.98
00:08:08.820 The exception does not make the rule.
00:08:11.560 And mind you guys, that's a very feminine way to argue. 1.00
00:08:14.040 When you're arguing for the exception, if I say most people have two legs, or if I say
00:08:18.860 humans have two legs, are you going to come out and say, hey, hey, there are amputees out 0.98
00:08:24.900 there?
00:08:25.240 No.
00:08:26.000 No, that's a feminine way of arguing. 1.00
00:08:28.040 Exceptions do not make the rule.
00:08:29.540 Most men, when given the option, have sex with their wife and a bunch of hot chicks. 1.00
00:08:34.960 Like, think about this.
00:08:36.300 You think they're turning that down?
00:08:38.200 They're like, oh, no.
00:08:39.440 Oh, no.
00:08:40.900 Please, that sounds terrible.
00:08:43.240 Come on, come on. 0.99
00:08:44.260 Men are hardwired and designed to procreate and be promiscuous.
00:08:47.280 This is where we can disagree, but biology is biology.
00:08:49.800 I don't make the rules.
00:08:50.600 I just report on it.
00:08:51.700 Tim Pool responds, moving the goalpost.
00:08:54.340 We are talking about cheating, not whether you think men want more than one woman, the question
00:08:59.200 is.
00:08:59.840 But again, no, this goes back to the original point.
00:09:03.040 Men that have looks, money, and status cheat.
00:09:07.320 It is so, there's a reason NBA players cheat.
00:09:10.700 There's a reason high-end businessmen are known for having escorts and cheating.
00:09:15.600 Are men inherently disloyal?
00:09:17.880 Would any man break their word if given a chance?
00:09:20.660 Okay, but then we can go back to, that's like saying, does every man have two legs?
00:09:25.760 Obviously, there are exceptions, but exceptions do not make the rule.