Pearl Shares This Uncomfortable Truth
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Summary
Good men would never cheat on their wives, right? This is a horrible take by a woman named Isabella DeLuca. She says that all good men would cheat, and that women would never do the same with another man.
Transcript
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What I am dedicated to on this channel is I want to know what is true about the world.
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This conversation does not talk about how I feel about it personally, because my opinions,
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So I saw a video on Twitter posted from an account, Isabella Maria DeLuca, and she said
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I found up every man on the planet and you said, hey, listen, I got this red button.
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You can sleep with other women and then go home and hold your wife and tuck in your babies
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Every man on the planet would look left, they'd look right, and they'd hit.
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So again, guys, this is not how I feel about it.
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And when I think about it, how would we know if men would cheat if given the option?
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If I wanted to test the claim, okay, do men with the option to cheat,
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we could look at the men that are both handsome and successful.
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Not all successful men have women throwing themselves at them left and right.
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Women have higher and higher and higher standards in 2023.
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So just because a guy has money, unfortunately, it does not mean he has attractive young women
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So when I look at the men that have status, money, fame, and looks, do they tend to cheat?
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Now, you could argue, you could say, well, Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl.
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There's a sector of businessmen that don't cheat, but they tend to be the nerdier guys
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But they're still not typically the guys that women throw themselves at.
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But any man that has women throwing themselves at him left and right over a long period of
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Let's say there's women trying to sleep with you for 40 years.
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You don't think that at some point in the next 40 years, you might slip up.
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Now, I know this doesn't win any points with the audience.
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This is an uncomfortable truth, but I care about what is true above all else.
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I've seen so much stuff where they're like, oh, Pearl wants to be cheated on.
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But I think this is a more honest take that men naturally want to cheat.
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Is more honest than saying, let me, let me get this straight.
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If a guy, if you told the guy, look it, you get to have a wife and kids and they'll love
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And my opinion is that it should be worked through.
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Most men would work through a woman flirting with another guy.
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A girl receiving attention from another man is the same thing as a guy receiving sex from
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And I know when I heard this at first, I thought, well, that doesn't really make sense.
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If you ask a woman, you could have sex with the hottest guys alive, or you could be the
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most beautiful woman alive, but you never have sex again and you look young forever.
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Most men don't really care what they look like.
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They would say, oh, I'll take sex with the hot models.
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Going by this logic, most men would pick sex with hot women.
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Most women would pick beauty, which is men being attracted to me, which is attention from
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They would never work through sex with another guy.
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Most women would work through casual sex with another woman.
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They would not work through a man giving relationship attention to another woman.
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And unfortunately, I don't say this in a happy way.
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I would love, I think all women would love for men to just want to be with one woman
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So Tim and Myron start going back and forth on this.
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So Tim responds to this video and he says, this is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
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So again, the only way we can test this, the guy has to have all three.
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If you do not have all three, you cannot say you have that level of option.
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You cannot say that, oh, I would turn down cheating if you have never been in the situation
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Women are crazy nowadays and most men have never been in the position where 8s, 9s, and
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So Myron responds and he says, Tim, he's 100% correct.
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The only difference between a rich and handsome dude and a regular dude is the former can typically
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Tim Poole says, and it's interesting because I had a similar point of view to this because
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So I had a similar mindset to Tim until I figured out what was true.
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So he said, it's crazy that you do not realize that not all people think the way that you
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It's so crazy how you're like, I'm so disloyal.
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It's crazy how y'all assume men who reject this must be lying.
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It tends to be the men that max out on money, that that's their big thing.
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So what they offer to women is the money and the loyalty.
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And the second thing is that it's interesting because I've had so many guys argue for loyalty.
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I get to see like both sides of content creators, okay?
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A lot of guys that argue for loyalty are not loyal.
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I'm just saying I've noticed this trend where in their personal lives, they're in situationships,
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they're in, they're sleeping with multiple women.
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Half the time, the guys that are saying this, ladies, they're not being honest with us.
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And the other thing is men over the age of 40 are in a little bit of a different world.
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There's a little bit of a crossover between men between the ages of 25 and 35 too,
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But social media completely changes the game where women now have access to a higher and
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A lot of times the men that argue for this stuff just are not in that percentage.
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And by the way, please don't take this as I don't know who he dates or whatever.
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But I look for these patterns where I realize that most men that argue for monogamy, A, are
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not married, B, have dated multiple women in their lifetime, and C, have never been in
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the position where they have eights, nines, and tens chasing them, okay?
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And so Myron responds and he says, I'd be happy to have this discussion with you on your show,
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but if I lined up 100 men, 85 or better, would prefer to have more than one woman.
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And mind you guys, that's a very feminine way to argue.
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When you're arguing for the exception, if I say most people have two legs, or if I say
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humans have two legs, are you going to come out and say, hey, hey, there are amputees out
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Most men, when given the option, have sex with their wife and a bunch of hot chicks.
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Men are hardwired and designed to procreate and be promiscuous.
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This is where we can disagree, but biology is biology.
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We are talking about cheating, not whether you think men want more than one woman, the question
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But again, no, this goes back to the original point.
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There's a reason high-end businessmen are known for having escorts and cheating.
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Would any man break their word if given a chance?
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Okay, but then we can go back to, that's like saying, does every man have two legs?
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Obviously, there are exceptions, but exceptions do not make the rule.