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In this episode, we discuss dating apps, looks and who is pickier when it comes to looks. Who do you think is more pickier with looks men or women? Do you think women swipe more than men on dating apps?
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you get it i think with dating apps everybody's so looks focused now the women included you know
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it's just it's literally yes no yes i mean how can you make a decision about your husband by
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looking at one photograph on it on a dating app you know but they're doing it they're saying no
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to these guys who are good guys good character because how much can you tell from one picture
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well you can't but they're making that decision who do you guys who do you guys think is pickier
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with looks men or women men men 100 no i think women for sure okay okay so would you would you say that
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dating apps is primarily looks yes agreed i've seen a lot of things about like the captions as well
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or how they slide into the deals i've never actually had like a conversation with a load of girls and
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it's about looks not really would you would you say that when people select on dating apps mostly
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through looks i don't really know because i've never really been on anything well i think men
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just like kneel off everyone and then they whittle down once they've got all the matches and work out
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who they want to invest time to get to know what what percent of men do you think women swipe right
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on all of them five percent five percent women what percentage of men do women swipe on i'm gonna say
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like ten percent ten percent yeah probably ten percent yeah yeah i'd think that because obviously
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if you're in person it's the same kind of thing like you get more guys trying to approach women
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than women trying to approach guys i'm not gonna lie i've never approached a guy like that unless
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unless i was drunk or something like it was for jokes but um i don't really do that so i feel like
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if men are doing that anyway why not on a dating app would men not be the ones to approach the women
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i don't think the men are analyzing the profiles like the women are so what what percent of the
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time do you think men swipe right on dating apps so wait what do you what do you i was gonna that's
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what i thought the question was for girls for girls and guys i think girls swipe on men like five
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percent because we expect men to be dominant dominant and pursue it um pursuers but um men swipe on all the
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women i think 95 or 85 because i have guy friends and some of them swipe left so i'm just like yeah
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they don't even look at their phone they're just like so so who's pickier when it comes to looks
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men or women but that's an unfair that's an unfair thing to say i know guys they will not find a girl
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attractive and they'll still do what they're doing if that makes sense i feel like i feel like to base
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it off a dating app is an unfair basis because um when it comes down to it um men want someone who they
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think is beautiful women are more for um the protection that they can get what the um how they
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can build a future of the man so on and so forth looks do play um a part however there's a lot more
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that feeds into it and a man is going to a man okay you don't think on a dating app that's is mostly
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looks that's right so when we're selecting based on looks who's pickier that's why i said it's unfair
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because the dating app is unfair because a woman is going to look at a lot more than just looks because
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for me i can only speak for myself actually but when i'm looking at um someone's profile or whatever
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i'm not even on dating apps today just to say that sounds really bad i'm not in the dating apps for
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any reason just sometimes i'm bored but um but um it's just a hobby for you but like but like because
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you know like at two o'clock in the morning like i don't go through instagram whatever whatever i'm
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just like i'm about to go to sleep who are you trying to talk to at 2am in the morning this is the thing
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this is the bad thing i don't talk to anyone i'm just like oh let me look at the weird people about
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and that's what i that's what i'm saying if i see someone who looks weird or interesting or
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something like that then i might swipe right on them have like a small conversation see what i can
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learn from them and then carry on with my day it's not necessarily about looks and all these kind of
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things and um i do you think women are picky about height oh yeah i don't know yeah would you guys date
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a guy would you guys would you guys date a guy that is two inches three inches shorter than you
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no no because if you're already shorter than me what about when i wear heels you're gonna think
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people don't think you're my child i think i have done yes and i'm quite tall i've dated some of my
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height no shorter i said not three inches sort of no no shorter no shorter no no no i'm just curious
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out of the guys would you guys date a girl if she looked good three inches taller than you yeah yeah
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blessing yeah he's nodding who's pickier men or women when it comes to looks
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but the height height and looks i feel like height and looks we could do weight even women weigh more
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than men oh this one though this one is yeah no i actually have like a the thing is with women when
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women are bigger no it's based on bmi yeah it's based on bmi so women have like a worse bmi than
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men yeah yeah but that's because we're curvier and we've got more we've got thighs we've got hips
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and bum and that's just because we eat more okay fine but we do have like the extra weight no um
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boobs and no but i'm saying like for our height so we we're fatter for our height so they yeah like if
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you look at bmi of a man and bmi of a woman women are fatter i think women have to be pickier i don't
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think that i'm not saying it's a bad thing i'm not saying even with looks we're pickier we have to be
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though because at the end of the day men can go and and do whatever they want with so many different
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women but we have to think about our future offspring and all these kind of things and i'm
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sorry i'm not going to pick a man if i think he has bad genetics if he has bad work drive if he has
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bad all of these different kind of things so i have to be picky what percent of men do you think
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are sexually active all of them no no no no no like 80 percent of me 80 no no i think 65 i think 99.40
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40 40 i think there's a lot of pressure on men now looking after themselves yeah what about you
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oh god i don't like 99.9 no just something very high i don't think anything maybe 80 80 80 something yeah
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what if i told you one out of every three men under 30 are either virgins or haven't had sex
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in the past year i i believe that in which country though this country oh america there's a lot of
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frustrated men out there there's a lot of insults but also like if you consider like you know not
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every guy is a 10 same like every not every girl is a 10 but there are guys who are socially awkward
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there are guys that just don't have that game there are a lot of guys that get missed out because they
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don't have that look that women are looking for or they don't have that alpha that women are looking
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for and there's people who do it for religious purpose as well what i promise you these guys are
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not i promise you yeah not even people that want to do it before marriage and that i know there's a
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couple i guarantee it's not 33 and these are nice guys then you reckon these are the nice guys yeah they
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won't cheat on you i mean i mean they got no one else to pick but that's what i say we pick instability
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right we could pick the stable guys that aren't seeing anyone else but we pick the guys that are
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seeing like that's why you guys think that see all the guys are sexually active because you pick the
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guys that are what what what percent of guys do you think are over six foot oh there isn't less than
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10 probably no maybe like 30 30 the guys that are over six foot that are what active or just how
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many guys are just over six foot yeah there's i mean i'd say like i don't know like 40 50 of men
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are over six foot no way where are you looking in america no but across the board not just uk right
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across the board us uk yes i know americans are bad that they're tall they're tall there's only
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in the water what about what about you i said maybe like 25 percent i think 25 yeah i'll go in
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20 35 of 15 wow okay fair enough okay and these five foot two women that are demanding a six foot
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plus man that makes no sense to me that is ridiculous like if i can't like i would get with a guy who's
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like still in the five fits because i'm only five foot five you can be five foot nine as long as i'm in
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hills and i'm not over that five seven even is fine for you yeah but i think everyone's allowed to have a
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preference of height like yeah yeah but there's not enough to go around you can find one i didn't
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yeah i didn't say it was a bad thing like i mean i mean historically we needed a guy that could protect
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us that's why stay single or just or wait for the you know the six foot something guys but listen
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there's only 15 of these men that are over six foot and you're telling me all the five foot twos want to
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be taking them but is this a lot of the short girls are the ones that go for the extra i like and what
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percent of those guys have good jobs and what percent of those guys are good looking too so
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it's like typically if you select a guy um he's had to meet multiple metrics and it's a very small
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percentage of men that most women are after guys get the raw deal they really do no those guys do yeah
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yeah those guys the other ones they've got their they've got their pick haven't they they've got their
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pick yeah those guys do but then you have one out of three men they're either virgins or haven't had
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sex in the past year i love that i i'm quite surprised where are these men come on get get
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start a dating site for these go go to tusco look at the guy working behind the counter
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i mean there's a million you don't really notice it but there's a million men that like we just like
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don't see they feel invisible then these guys if they're not getting picked for the fact that
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they're meeting these metrics yeah um i mean you've heard like six foot six figures six six pack i
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don't think there's many what percentage of men got a six pack not many most have got dad bods even
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when they're not dads but there's like a thing which a lot of girls like dad bods yeah have you
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heard that but what man likes a mum bod today oh that's the question when you say mum bod what do
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you mean like the one that's had a baby yeah you know i've had three i mean but thankfully i'm not too
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in a state but honestly like you know women have had children men almost expect us to look like we've
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never had children literally oh you know i don't think they expect that a lot of them do oh they
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do they want you to keep in shape regardless if you had children i think that that's a pressure that
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we put on ourselves to do that i think there are a lot that don't expect that actually or i just know
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some really kind men and really good men i feel like guys expect you to gain like 10 20 pounds what i
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don't think they expect is for you to blow up like a balloon and look like an entirely different
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person yeah sure yeah you know i think most guys are forgiving 10 20 pounds but it's just like when