JustPearlyThings - May 29, 2023


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00:00:00.000 you get it i think with dating apps everybody's so looks focused now the women included you know
00:00:05.120 it's just it's literally yes no yes i mean how can you make a decision about your husband by
00:00:09.520 looking at one photograph on it on a dating app you know but they're doing it they're saying no
00:00:14.560 to these guys who are good guys good character because how much can you tell from one picture
00:00:20.080 well you can't but they're making that decision who do you guys who do you guys think is pickier
00:00:23.920 with looks men or women men men 100 no i think women for sure okay okay so would you would you say that
00:00:36.080 dating apps is primarily looks yes agreed i've seen a lot of things about like the captions as well
00:00:43.440 or how they slide into the deals i've never actually had like a conversation with a load of girls and
00:00:49.920 it's about looks not really would you would you say that when people select on dating apps mostly
00:00:55.120 through looks i don't really know because i've never really been on anything well i think men
00:00:58.720 just like kneel off everyone and then they whittle down once they've got all the matches and work out
00:01:02.560 who they want to invest time to get to know what what percent of men do you think women swipe right
00:01:08.320 on all of them five percent five percent women what percentage of men do women swipe on i'm gonna say
00:01:14.720 like ten percent ten percent yeah probably ten percent yeah yeah i'd think that because obviously
00:01:21.360 if you're in person it's the same kind of thing like you get more guys trying to approach women
00:01:26.160 than women trying to approach guys i'm not gonna lie i've never approached a guy like that unless
00:01:30.320 unless i was drunk or something like it was for jokes but um i don't really do that so i feel like
00:01:35.840 if men are doing that anyway why not on a dating app would men not be the ones to approach the women
00:01:40.320 i don't think the men are analyzing the profiles like the women are so what what percent of the
00:01:45.040 time do you think men swipe right on dating apps so wait what do you what do you i was gonna that's
00:01:48.880 what i thought the question was for girls for girls and guys i think girls swipe on men like five
00:01:54.400 percent because we expect men to be dominant dominant and pursue it um pursuers but um men swipe on all the
00:02:00.640 women i think 95 or 85 because i have guy friends and some of them swipe left so i'm just like yeah
00:02:07.200 they don't even look at their phone they're just like so so who's pickier when it comes to looks
00:02:12.400 men or women but that's an unfair that's an unfair thing to say i know guys they will not find a girl
00:02:18.160 attractive and they'll still do what they're doing if that makes sense i feel like i feel like to base
00:02:22.960 it off a dating app is an unfair basis because um when it comes down to it um men want someone who they
00:02:32.080 think is beautiful women are more for um the protection that they can get what the um how they
00:02:38.000 can build a future of the man so on and so forth looks do play um a part however there's a lot more
00:02:42.880 that feeds into it and a man is going to a man okay you don't think on a dating app that's is mostly
00:02:48.720 looks that's right so when we're selecting based on looks who's pickier that's why i said it's unfair
00:02:53.520 because the dating app is unfair because a woman is going to look at a lot more than just looks because
00:02:57.920 for me i can only speak for myself actually but when i'm looking at um someone's profile or whatever
00:03:02.320 i'm not even on dating apps today just to say that sounds really bad i'm not in the dating apps for
00:03:06.480 any reason just sometimes i'm bored but um but um it's just a hobby for you but like but like because
00:03:13.200 you know like at two o'clock in the morning like i don't go through instagram whatever whatever i'm
00:03:16.880 just like i'm about to go to sleep who are you trying to talk to at 2am in the morning this is the thing
00:03:20.960 this is the bad thing i don't talk to anyone i'm just like oh let me look at the weird people about
00:03:25.680 and that's what i that's what i'm saying if i see someone who looks weird or interesting or
00:03:29.360 something like that then i might swipe right on them have like a small conversation see what i can
00:03:33.440 learn from them and then carry on with my day it's not necessarily about looks and all these kind of
00:03:37.040 things and um i do you think women are picky about height oh yeah i don't know yeah would you guys date
00:03:45.520 a guy would you guys would you guys date a guy that is two inches three inches shorter than you
00:03:51.520 no no because if you're already shorter than me what about when i wear heels you're gonna think
00:03:55.840 people don't think you're my child i think i have done yes and i'm quite tall i've dated some of my
00:04:01.200 height no shorter i said not three inches sort of no no shorter no shorter no no no i'm just curious
00:04:08.960 out of the guys would you guys date a girl if she looked good three inches taller than you yeah yeah
00:04:14.880 blessing yeah he's nodding who's pickier men or women when it comes to looks
00:04:20.640 but the height height and looks i feel like height and looks we could do weight even women weigh more
00:04:25.760 than men oh this one though this one is yeah no i actually have like a the thing is with women when
00:04:35.440 women are bigger no it's based on bmi yeah it's based on bmi so women have like a worse bmi than
00:04:43.040 men yeah yeah but that's because we're curvier and we've got more we've got thighs we've got hips
00:04:47.040 and bum and that's just because we eat more okay fine but we do have like the extra weight no um
00:04:53.680 boobs and no but i'm saying like for our height so we we're fatter for our height so they yeah like if
00:05:01.040 you look at bmi of a man and bmi of a woman women are fatter i think women have to be pickier i don't
00:05:06.880 think that i'm not saying it's a bad thing i'm not saying even with looks we're pickier we have to be
00:05:11.280 though because at the end of the day men can go and and do whatever they want with so many different
00:05:15.360 women but we have to think about our future offspring and all these kind of things and i'm
00:05:19.200 sorry i'm not going to pick a man if i think he has bad genetics if he has bad work drive if he has
00:05:23.440 bad all of these different kind of things so i have to be picky what percent of men do you think
00:05:27.840 are sexually active all of them no no no no no like 80 percent of me 80 no no i think 65 i think 99.40
00:05:36.800 40 40 i think there's a lot of pressure on men now looking after themselves yeah what about you
00:05:45.680 oh god i don't like 99.9 no just something very high i don't think anything maybe 80 80 80 something yeah
00:05:55.600 what if i told you one out of every three men under 30 are either virgins or haven't had sex
00:06:00.160 in the past year i i believe that in which country though this country oh america there's a lot of
00:06:06.800 frustrated men out there there's a lot of insults but also like if you consider like you know not
00:06:12.320 every guy is a 10 same like every not every girl is a 10 but there are guys who are socially awkward
00:06:16.880 there are guys that just don't have that game there are a lot of guys that get missed out because they
00:06:20.320 don't have that look that women are looking for or they don't have that alpha that women are looking
00:06:25.760 for and there's people who do it for religious purpose as well what i promise you these guys are
00:06:31.760 not i promise you yeah not even people that want to do it before marriage and that i know there's a
00:06:38.080 couple i guarantee it's not 33 and these are nice guys then you reckon these are the nice guys yeah they
00:06:43.600 won't cheat on you i mean i mean they got no one else to pick but that's what i say we pick instability
00:06:51.600 right we could pick the stable guys that aren't seeing anyone else but we pick the guys that are
00:06:55.680 seeing like that's why you guys think that see all the guys are sexually active because you pick the
00:06:59.520 guys that are what what what percent of guys do you think are over six foot oh there isn't less than
00:07:06.160 10 probably no maybe like 30 30 the guys that are over six foot that are what active or just how
00:07:13.200 many guys are just over six foot yeah there's i mean i'd say like i don't know like 40 50 of men
00:07:18.640 are over six foot no way where are you looking in america no but across the board not just uk right
00:07:23.520 across the board us uk yes i know americans are bad that they're tall they're tall there's only
00:07:28.960 in the water what about what about you i said maybe like 25 percent i think 25 yeah i'll go in
00:07:34.400 20 35 of 15 wow okay fair enough okay and these five foot two women that are demanding a six foot
00:07:41.200 plus man that makes no sense to me that is ridiculous like if i can't like i would get with a guy who's
00:07:46.080 like still in the five fits because i'm only five foot five you can be five foot nine as long as i'm in
00:07:50.720 hills and i'm not over that five seven even is fine for you yeah but i think everyone's allowed to have a
00:07:56.160 preference of height like yeah yeah but there's not enough to go around you can find one i didn't
00:08:02.560 yeah i didn't say it was a bad thing like i mean i mean historically we needed a guy that could protect
00:08:06.800 us that's why stay single or just or wait for the you know the six foot something guys but listen
00:08:12.160 there's only 15 of these men that are over six foot and you're telling me all the five foot twos want to
00:08:15.920 be taking them but is this a lot of the short girls are the ones that go for the extra i like and what
00:08:21.040 percent of those guys have good jobs and what percent of those guys are good looking too so
00:08:25.920 it's like typically if you select a guy um he's had to meet multiple metrics and it's a very small
00:08:30.880 percentage of men that most women are after guys get the raw deal they really do no those guys do yeah
00:08:38.480 yeah those guys the other ones they've got their they've got their pick haven't they they've got their
00:08:41.760 pick yeah those guys do but then you have one out of three men they're either virgins or haven't had
00:08:45.600 sex in the past year i love that i i'm quite surprised where are these men come on get get
00:08:51.040 start a dating site for these go go to tusco look at the guy working behind the counter
00:08:57.760 i mean there's a million you don't really notice it but there's a million men that like we just like
00:09:01.040 don't see they feel invisible then these guys if they're not getting picked for the fact that
00:09:06.160 they're meeting these metrics yeah um i mean you've heard like six foot six figures six six pack i
00:09:13.760 don't think there's many what percentage of men got a six pack not many most have got dad bods even
00:09:18.240 when they're not dads but there's like a thing which a lot of girls like dad bods yeah have you
00:09:23.040 heard that but what man likes a mum bod today oh that's the question when you say mum bod what do
00:09:28.880 you mean like the one that's had a baby yeah you know i've had three i mean but thankfully i'm not too
00:09:35.600 in a state but honestly like you know women have had children men almost expect us to look like we've
00:09:40.800 never had children literally oh you know i don't think they expect that a lot of them do oh they
00:09:45.920 do they want you to keep in shape regardless if you had children i think that that's a pressure that
00:09:50.800 we put on ourselves to do that i think there are a lot that don't expect that actually or i just know
00:09:56.400 some really kind men and really good men i feel like guys expect you to gain like 10 20 pounds what i
00:10:03.680 don't think they expect is for you to blow up like a balloon and look like an entirely different
00:10:07.760 person yeah sure yeah you know i think most guys are forgiving 10 20 pounds but it's just like when
00:10:13.200 you look like a completely different person