JustPearlyThings - August 24, 2023


Pearl Shocks The Panel With This Fact


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In this episode, we discuss the difference between dating a musician and a bus driver, the differences in their salaries and the benefits of being a musician or a driver. We also discuss what it's like dating someone who's not in the music industry, and the pros and cons of the two.

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00:00:00.000 yeah it's actually a very needed role yeah but yeah but like to to equate a bus driver to the 0.95
00:00:06.640 like to bottom like 10 of females yeah but we need porn as well men need porn so that's how i 0.98
00:00:13.120 see you might have survived for most of history without corn sorry corn yeah for me personally 0.97
00:00:19.920 i'm not gonna sit here and lie and be like oh my gosh i would personally i just feel like
00:00:23.840 if he had plans to leave it then yeah because it's just like 15 pounds an hour for the rest
00:00:27.600 of your life isn't really it i'm not gonna lie um would you rather date a
00:00:38.400 musician or a bus driver
00:00:42.320 well my boyfriend's a rapper so i'll say a musician how successful is the musician though um they're
00:00:47.840 both average bus driver average musician so however successful i could look up the average
00:00:53.440 i'd say musician i feel like musician would be more fun i feel like bus drivers like i might
00:00:59.280 get in the music video i might have like a say but with a bus driver's like you're just taking the
00:01:03.200 same route all the time i can't really come with you either um but if it's an average musician then
00:01:09.840 yeah if it's like a big musician and i don't really know because they're a bit here and there
00:01:14.960 you know what about you i'm guessing we're talking about people at the start of their music career
00:01:21.600 that are like you know the guys are like yeah i want to be a i'm an aspiring rapper and they're like
00:01:26.240 starting out and it's like they're going to stay that way could be a country singer i don't know okay
00:01:30.880 but but they're going to stay at average right that's the question forever
00:01:34.480 um i think i'm in this case i think actually rather the bus driver because at least nobody's
00:01:41.920 seeing him all the time all over the place yeah probably yeah i think i'm gonna say bus driver
00:01:49.920 because i understand the industry and i'm just yeah i'm way too jealous of a person to even get with
00:01:54.960 someone who who does music is around women all the time etc it's a lot to take on so yeah bus driver 0.93
00:02:02.480 all right i'm gonna have to say musician otherwise i'm gonna get some really bad texas after this
00:02:10.160 i'll say um a musician you know if it's like an average musician there's like like
00:02:13.760 i'm not saying that people do wedding ones are like um average but do you know i mean it gives you
00:02:17.600 more freedom because i want to just do my stuff and go on holidays and this and that if they're a
00:02:21.440 bus driver they go ask a boss how are you gonna fund the holidays if me can't oh yeah you yeah i'm
00:02:25.760 sorry i'm forgetting that you're a guy answering it um depending are they making the same by the
00:02:32.560 way the average musician and the average bus driver is it the same income salary salary average salary of a
00:02:42.080 musician let's see london i got you you saw that with musicians you don't even make money in the
00:02:50.400 beginning it's 44 000 pounds a year oh that's so hard i don't i feel like this is yeah that's the
00:02:58.400 thing yeah i feel like this is a bit off but if it's like kind of the same salary then i think this
00:03:03.440 one says 29 000 that sounds more right yeah i think if it's the same salary i wouldn't mind i think with
00:03:09.440 a musician i would have more quality time than the bus driver um but i don't mind a bus driver either
00:03:15.840 just at least with the musician i think i would have more quality time in this case i will actually
00:03:21.520 date the bus driver only because i like peace and i feel like musicians let's be real we know what
00:03:27.120 they're about they're out with girl you know they cheat him all the time um the more money a man makes
00:03:32.800 the more likely he is to cheat and me i i i'm too emotional for all of that like i like my mental
00:03:38.400 um health to be steady so yeah it would have to be the bus driver but i still wouldn't
00:03:46.240 okay do you guys think you are above average and why do you think you deserve an above average man
00:03:53.840 if so above average in like what sense like um the things that men want um
00:04:05.600 oh my gosh i don't know honestly like i couldn't really say i don't think i'm like average i don't
00:04:12.560 think i'm above i think i'm like in between but like i don't really so you think you're average
00:04:18.320 or you don't think you're average no i don't think i'm average but i feel like seeing above average i
00:04:23.440 don't really know if i am above average though because it just depends on different stuff okay
00:04:28.560 but like i don't try to go for a guy that's like above average realistically um for me like i'm not too
00:04:34.960 picky when it comes to um materialistic things and stuff like that and your job title and this this
00:04:40.720 is but what i've like learned from like going for guys who have like average jobs and stuff like that
00:04:46.640 which is like the only thing i've been used to is that like i would rather just now like i'd rather
00:04:53.200 have fun with it and go for a musician if he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat because imagine getting
00:04:56.720 cheated on by a guy who drives the 332 like you drive a red bus that's the issue that i have with
00:05:02.160 men is that it doesn't actually matter their title like if they want to play you they'll play you so
00:05:08.240 like i said i don't usually go for above average guys but i might try i don't know but it's still
00:05:14.000 personally for me i feel like it's still the same end game okay but my question is do you think you're
00:05:17.760 above average so you said yes i think i think i'm like in between but i'm just gonna say yeah i'm
00:05:23.600 just gonna rate myself okay okay that's that's fine there's nothing wrong with saying that um
00:05:27.520 so you think you're above average so and why do you think um like what do you bring to the table
00:05:31.600 to an above average guy what do i bring to an above average guy yeah like i'm asking like what because
00:05:39.760 um i'm a sweetheart like i just feel like i'm quite nice i can drive i'm
00:05:44.400 fun you know like that's why i said i don't really know in what sense you mean above average because it
00:05:48.400 could be like above average like financially or like ambitiously or like physically and stuff
00:05:52.080 like that's the thing they care mostly i feel like men mostly care about looks wise and looks
00:05:57.840 wise i'm never going to sit here and say that i'm not above average because i rate myself
00:06:01.760 but in terms of what i just like there's other things that men look for that's the thing but
00:06:06.160 in terms of what i what makes me above average for an above average guy i couldn't really answer
00:06:11.680 that yet just because i haven't actually experienced an above average guy if that makes sense
00:06:16.560 so i feel like how tall was your ex-boyfriend um six foot one i think okay so that's top 15
00:06:24.080 probably 10 percent of men yeah so that's above average how much did he make roughly i don't know
00:06:30.080 i never asked you don't have any guess i actually don't know were you the one that said banker he was
00:06:35.920 a banker no that was what did you say he did football and um some oh the gym the gym yeah okay
00:06:43.200 so that's so i i genuinely couldn't tell you how much he was making plus i don't know but at least
00:06:47.440 in looks he was probably above average if he works at a gym and he's six one yeah so okay if we're
00:06:52.880 talking about looks yeah yeah so i don't think you're going for average man but i thought you meant
00:06:59.040 above average like you know wears a suit drives a maserati to work like that's what i think when i think
00:07:04.880 above my average i feel like the guy that i was talking to is my norm i feel like he's very much
00:07:10.480 on my level because your height and stuff like that you just happen to be taller than me but like
00:07:15.920 if you own a business or if you have like all of these things for me personally that's like above my
00:07:20.240 average yeah i mean there's a couple things that girls look for so it's like you know there's looks
00:07:25.040 which height goes into and then there's money um status so um i would say most girls the guys they 1.00
00:07:31.120 go for are above average in some way but i feel like because you know only like 20 percent of men
00:07:36.800 are sexually active huh what yeah like are you sure are you sure is that one out of well sort of
00:07:47.840 you'd have to but but essentially like 20 percent of men are sleeping with like 80 percent of women
00:07:53.280 because the number one way the number one way people are meeting nowadays is dating apps and that's
00:07:57.120 five and women only swipe right five percent of the time that's crazy yeah and like women find 80 1.00
00:08:02.400 percent of men is unattractive like not not okay not they think they're ugly so i mean i guess it's
00:08:09.840 not to say that like the other ones don't ever get in the door but for the most part women go for 20 1.00
00:08:14.640 percent of men oh that's interesting i didn't know that yeah and they did the studies in person because
00:08:20.160 i know a lot of people will say oh well we don't find 80 of men is ugly but yeah they did the studies
00:08:24.480 like in person and on dating apps and like literally 80 percent of men ugly i wonder what
00:08:29.200 why that is though is it purely based on looks those dads because it's swiping so it's purely based on
00:08:34.320 looks right because i feel like women looks when it comes to men women don't really care that much
00:08:40.800 about looks as long as you're well put together we're more concerned with height height is like i'm
00:08:45.760 not concerned about but usually men don't look taller than me usually men don't look as good in pictures
00:08:50.400 as well so if it's just date and apps then you can't really go just off no but it's not just
00:08:54.800 going off of that it's in person too like they raided the men in person and they also thought they
00:08:58.960 were ugly well that's so interesting maybe because women have way more beautiful features there's way 1.00
00:09:04.560 more like different attributes well women wear makeup so we got boobs and like we got we got things that 1.00
00:09:10.480 like sexually no but like for like towards a man like but he could do he could do a top of this photo
00:09:15.680 i think women just have higher standards like they actually say that women um judge like men heart 1.00
00:09:20.480 more harsh on appearance than men judge women i think i wouldn't have thought that yeah men swipe
00:09:27.280 right around 50 percent of the time women swipe right five so even if let's just say we tripled it 1.00
00:09:31.600 like in person she finds three times as many people attractive it's still only 15 i think that's
00:09:36.240 contributing to why women are just single and uh yeah you know rates are going up for why women are not
00:09:41.120 really married and single by 25 and 30 because yeah the standards are there