Pearl SHUT Her Down With Facts
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
216.63547
Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between women and men when it comes to self improvement and why women are more willing to work on themselves mentally, physically, emotionally, physically and emotionally. We also discuss the societal issue of women being overweight and fat compared to men and why this is such a problem.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
phrase yeah but i do feel like i know we always speak about like how you know we're all saying
00:00:04.620
how like men it's really hard for them and everything and yes it is and nobody's disputing
00:00:09.160
that but i do feel like when it comes to women i know and i don't know if anyone would agree with
00:00:14.360
me but this is how i feel personally i do feel like the women are more willing to improve
00:00:21.220
themselves and to do the work and to try and get better and to become the best versions of themselves
00:00:26.640
can you tell me i'm just going to cut you who can you tell me how how do women improve so many ways
00:00:32.360
different ways women are literally trying to work on themselves mentally like women women are more
00:00:39.680
open to therapy than men are they're open to women getting help do women need therapy more than men do
00:00:45.400
i think i don't think it's the other way around actually because i feel like if a lot of men
00:00:54.360
actually went and worked on themselves they would be able to get the women that they wanted because
00:01:01.120
a lot of these men are walking around with unresolved trauma a lot of issues that they
00:01:06.800
project onto relationships okay so okay so i just want to go through so women go to therapy
00:01:12.000
yeah what else do we do they do all kinds of stuff you know they're into wellness you know a woman
00:01:17.520
let me cut let me cut anything false wrong 60 of women here set no 70 64 of women here overweight
00:01:24.700
false you can't be into wellness if most of us are fat okay next oh wow also also i mean i'm talking
00:01:33.760
about mentally they're trying to fix themselves they're trying to be wrong mentally healthy women
00:01:39.080
are there's more women on antidepressants now than ever wrong we're not mentally more healthy
00:01:43.180
well men are doing absolutely nothing nothing they're not doing anything to help do you not
00:01:47.340
think that's a societal issue apart from going to the gym okay okay let's what's but they get
00:01:51.400
they get looked down upon for feeling that way so they never want to go to anyone about it no
00:01:55.940
but that's a narrative that they created for themselves because they've told themselves that
00:01:59.960
they have to be really masculine but no woman has ever sat there and laughed at her husband for
00:02:05.760
crying well we talked about women actually want i want you i want you to back up what you're saying
00:02:11.460
you're saying women women they're into self-improvement so first one was wrong second one's wrong what's
00:02:16.500
next wellness is not wrong women are going to yoga classes how is it they are how is it right if we're
00:02:23.180
fat let's just come on okay weight takes long to to get rid of okay okay so then we could look at
00:02:29.460
a trend they're trying so so we could look at a trend of women over time and we're getting fatter we're not
00:02:34.040
getting thinner so it's not correct you can you could think what you think but it's not right
00:02:37.940
well i don't know we can look at what kind of food people are eating but i'm the ones that make us fat
00:02:43.080
generally women if you go on social media and you see what everyone's talking about women are always
00:02:48.680
asking how do we do this how do we do that they are trying to fix themselves because they want to
00:02:53.600
meet that dream man that's why they're on these dating apps that's why they go to these dating agencies
00:02:58.620
i'm not getting anything of substance like nothing like okay they fix themselves so
00:03:04.020
they go to therapy they're trying to help themselves mentally but they're on they're
00:03:08.160
on more antidepressants than ever so they might they might try to do something but the result
00:03:12.780
like we have to look at results here we can we can feel how we feel but we have to look at results
00:03:17.660
so if women are fatter than ever we're on more on more antidepressants than ever before
00:03:22.840
they try to fix themselves like just they they like they're trying to fix like how they look like
00:03:28.580
their makeup their plastic surgery their bodies women are getting bum lifts so they're going to
00:03:32.720
turkey getting their teeth done do we do the hard thing and go to the gym or do we go do the easy
00:03:37.580
thing and try to buy it easy thing for sure i agree so so what are the what do the men do do they get
00:03:41.620
ab implants or do they go to the gym some do they go to the gym in general i see i see i think men i see
00:03:48.520
they go to the gym but the gym is not going to fix your shitty attitude but the difference is women
00:03:54.940
can live in delusion so women can go through life and not like you know how many girls come on here
00:03:59.720
and genuinely tell me they're tens you know how many girls you don't you just don't have men do that
00:04:04.300
and they believe it i i have i i say i'm an average chick on my show and girls will look at me like
00:04:09.320
aww and i'm like most people are average i've never had a girl come on here and say she
00:04:13.480
slide twice maybe twice the girls have come on and said i'm an average girl every girl thinks
00:04:18.920
they're special i mean the top ones are the ones men can say that about themselves no they don't
00:04:22.860
maybe that's their issue they don't have self-love no no men don't think they're special
00:04:27.300
because they should no because men men have to face reality in the world if they're if they ain't
00:04:34.620
shit they're gonna know the world's gonna tell them where women will they'll say
00:04:37.380
oh you're so beautiful anyway oh you're a ton of women we lie to each other too you'll never tell
00:04:41.960
your friend that she's fat women tend to lie themselves though yes i don't i wear makeup
00:04:47.260
don't get me wrong i definitely lie to myself every day but women will perceive themselves as
00:04:52.640
a person that's wearing the makeup i've done their hair done this men don't do that so they
00:04:57.080
look at themselves and they may feel shit about themselves but they're going that's who i am
00:05:01.560
women will look at themselves with makeup on and go i'm a 10 the minute that makeup comes off
00:05:05.960
i feel so insecure and that's why we are more like but that proves my point that we are trying
00:05:12.860
to help ourselves we are trying to improve ourselves we'll do anything i would change
00:05:16.540
negative to me but i do it anyway we'll do anything but the hard shit
00:05:22.260
losing weight yeah i agree like they won't like lose weight and things like that i would i push back
00:05:27.200
on it on the notion that guys aren't doing anything for self-improvement though because like i'm part of
00:05:31.000
you know this whole space you know these these guys are i mean maybe it's not the biggest space
00:05:34.460
it's a small percentage though but but but yeah i would agree with that but maybe you're in an
00:05:39.240
echo chamber you know who you're looking at on instagram you're looking a lot of girls maybe
00:05:42.260
they're into the self-improvement the wellness stuff fine but i'm also i also know a lot of guys who are
00:05:46.920
also working hard i mean what do guys have to work on you know money muscles game frame basically so
00:05:51.020
you know are you leveling up financially are you working on your career are you on your mission are you
00:05:55.720
going to the gym uh you know are you looking after your fashion are you looking after
00:05:59.240
so guys do need to do a lot and and the truth is if you are a reasonably attractive
00:06:04.800
girl in her say 20s okay we're not even talking about a 10 we're talking about like a girl who's
00:06:10.140
a six or seven or whatever fine um you don't have to do very much to get validation from the dating
00:06:17.500
market or you don't have to do very much you have to be kind of cute wear a summer dress walk down
00:06:23.120
the street and you're going to get guys you know who are who are sort of like complimenting you or
00:06:26.340
whatever except that's illegal now but you know back when we used to be allowed to talk to each
00:06:31.520
other that would you know you would get that positive validation whereas dudes actually for
00:06:35.540
the most part are invisible to women unless they've really worked on themselves unless they've done the
00:06:40.540
necessary things and i think if men aren't self-improving it's women's fault because men
00:06:44.660
have to be motivated by something i agree so what do they what again what do they get at the end of it
00:06:50.000
they get that women that think it's okay to leave
00:06:52.640
so what what kind of wife are they getting at the end of it yeah or you get like the one meal a day
00:06:58.300
yeah yeah two of you lucky or you get this whole bunch of guys who have sort of dropped out of the
00:07:02.560
system because they think the dating is completely unfair because they think they're invisible
00:07:05.400
20 80 percent of guys are invisible to women so they think well why should i bother incels or
00:07:09.640
something we did it on the last episode they're they're dangerous that that category i didn't even
00:07:15.260
know that word well they're very small yeah small percent they're very angry people they're they're
00:07:22.920
angry but they're angry i would say there's a much deeper psychological issue okay we won't
00:07:32.560
again it's the fault of women because again if if there's incels why is that it's because women are
00:07:41.900
all sleeping with the same men i i think though just based on psychological evidence there's there's
00:07:47.840
a lot going on there that's deeper than just societal means but i get what you're saying about
00:07:53.220
like in retrospect but incels themselves there's much deeper psychological issues i also don't agree
00:08:00.360
with that because what you just said i would say but they all want us to be virgins so yeah we are
00:08:05.620
sleeping with the same person or whatever like yeah but why aren't we virgins because we chose to
00:08:10.140
have sex outside of marriage and two guys do not expect a virgin that is the most bullshit shit i've
00:08:15.280
ever heard in my life no what do you expect do you expect a virgin no i don't know i have never seen
00:08:22.280
a single guy that says he expects a virgin i think that's an immature mindset i mean i think that's the
00:08:27.440
ideal but they don't i think that's much younger people immature mindset yeah yeah it's it's much
00:08:33.440
younger i don't think it's immature i think men are realistic no no no i mean like younger actual
00:08:38.680
age-wise the younger oh you're like teen guys who are stuff like that yeah who technically are
00:08:44.860
virgins themselves i'm so over the i'm so over the hill i'm just going to take what i can get really
00:08:48.640
to be honest 100 body count fine no worries no worries i'll take it but i think i think the
00:08:55.760
whole thing is quite nuanced though because because because to counter what i've just said
00:08:59.640
you are right there's a lot of guys who are very very lazy and they don't want to do the work they
00:09:04.020
don't want to fucking do anything they sit there and this is we complain about this a lot you know
00:09:08.100
they sit there on the computer going oh it's really unfair if i'm not a six foot if i'm not a
00:09:11.880
seven foot five chad with you know blah blah blah then i'm not then it's over for me they don't do
00:09:16.620
anything they just sit there complaining and you know that that is on them because also they need
00:09:22.000
to be going out and they need to be they need to be working on themselves you know so i think human
00:09:25.480
beings human beings in general are inherently lazy most most people but if again if you are a
00:09:32.400
reasonably cute you know young woman i think you get more breaks in society than than a dude of the
00:09:37.200
same level yeah i hear that okay okay i'm gonna take a second to read you know i was just banned on
00:09:44.720
tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to help please consider
00:09:52.100
sending a super thanks below every donation helps and it helps make what we do possible