JustPearlyThings - Pearl SHUT Her Down With Facts

00:00:00.000 phrase yeah but i do feel like i know we always speak about like how you know we're all saying

00:00:04.620 how like men it's really hard for them and everything and yes it is and nobody's disputing

00:00:09.160 that but i do feel like when it comes to women i know and i don't know if anyone would agree with

00:00:14.360 me but this is how i feel personally i do feel like the women are more willing to improve 0.72

00:00:21.220 themselves and to do the work and to try and get better and to become the best versions of themselves

00:00:26.640 can you tell me i'm just going to cut you who can you tell me how how do women improve so many ways 1.00

00:00:32.360 different ways women are literally trying to work on themselves mentally like women women are more 1.00

00:00:39.680 open to therapy than men are they're open to women getting help do women need therapy more than men do

00:00:45.400 i think i don't think it's the other way around actually because i feel like if a lot of men

00:00:54.360 actually went and worked on themselves they would be able to get the women that they wanted because

00:01:01.120 a lot of these men are walking around with unresolved trauma a lot of issues that they

00:01:06.800 project onto relationships okay so okay so i just want to go through so women go to therapy 1.00

00:01:12.000 yeah what else do we do they do all kinds of stuff you know they're into wellness you know a woman 0.53

00:01:17.520 let me cut let me cut anything false wrong 60 of women here set no 70 64 of women here overweight 1.00

00:01:24.700 false you can't be into wellness if most of us are fat okay next oh wow also also i mean i'm talking

00:01:33.760 about mentally they're trying to fix themselves they're trying to be wrong mentally healthy women 1.00

00:01:39.080 are there's more women on antidepressants now than ever wrong we're not mentally more healthy

00:01:43.180 well men are doing absolutely nothing nothing they're not doing anything to help do you not

00:01:47.340 think that's a societal issue apart from going to the gym okay okay let's what's but they get

00:01:51.400 they get looked down upon for feeling that way so they never want to go to anyone about it no

00:01:55.940 but that's a narrative that they created for themselves because they've told themselves that

00:01:59.960 they have to be really masculine but no woman has ever sat there and laughed at her husband for

00:02:05.760 crying well we talked about women actually want i want you i want you to back up what you're saying

00:02:11.460 you're saying women women they're into self-improvement so first one was wrong second one's wrong what's

00:02:16.500 next wellness is not wrong women are going to yoga classes how is it they are how is it right if we're 1.00

00:02:23.180 fat let's just come on okay weight takes long to to get rid of okay okay so then we could look at

00:02:29.460 a trend they're trying so so we could look at a trend of women over time and we're getting fatter we're not 0.98

00:02:34.040 getting thinner so it's not correct you can you could think what you think but it's not right

00:02:37.940 well i don't know we can look at what kind of food people are eating but i'm the ones that make us fat

00:02:43.080 generally women if you go on social media and you see what everyone's talking about women are always 1.00

00:02:48.680 asking how do we do this how do we do that they are trying to fix themselves because they want to

00:02:53.600 meet that dream man that's why they're on these dating apps that's why they go to these dating agencies

00:02:58.620 i'm not getting anything of substance like nothing like okay they fix themselves so

00:03:04.020 they go to therapy they're trying to help themselves mentally but they're on they're

00:03:08.160 on more antidepressants than ever so they might they might try to do something but the result

00:03:12.780 like we have to look at results here we can we can feel how we feel but we have to look at results

00:03:17.660 so if women are fatter than ever we're on more on more antidepressants than ever before 0.99

00:03:22.840 they try to fix themselves like just they they like they're trying to fix like how they look like

00:03:28.580 their makeup their plastic surgery their bodies women are getting bum lifts so they're going to 1.00

00:03:32.720 turkey getting their teeth done do we do the hard thing and go to the gym or do we go do the easy

00:03:37.580 thing and try to buy it easy thing for sure i agree so so what are the what do the men do do they get

00:03:41.620 ab implants or do they go to the gym some do they go to the gym in general i see i see i think men i see

00:03:48.520 they go to the gym but the gym is not going to fix your shitty attitude but the difference is women 1.00

00:03:54.940 can live in delusion so women can go through life and not like you know how many girls come on here 1.00

00:03:59.720 and genuinely tell me they're tens you know how many girls you don't you just don't have men do that 0.92

00:04:04.300 and they believe it i i have i i say i'm an average chick on my show and girls will look at me like

00:04:09.320 aww and i'm like most people are average i've never had a girl come on here and say she 1.00

00:04:13.480 slide twice maybe twice the girls have come on and said i'm an average girl every girl thinks 0.97

00:04:18.920 they're special i mean the top ones are the ones men can say that about themselves no they don't

00:04:22.860 maybe that's their issue they don't have self-love no no men don't think they're special 0.94

00:04:27.300 because they should no because men men have to face reality in the world if they're if they ain't 0.97

00:04:34.620 shit they're gonna know the world's gonna tell them where women will they'll say 1.00

00:04:37.380 oh you're so beautiful anyway oh you're a ton of women we lie to each other too you'll never tell 1.00

00:04:41.960 your friend that she's fat women tend to lie themselves though yes i don't i wear makeup 1.00

00:04:47.260 don't get me wrong i definitely lie to myself every day but women will perceive themselves as 0.99

00:04:52.640 a person that's wearing the makeup i've done their hair done this men don't do that so they

00:04:57.080 look at themselves and they may feel shit about themselves but they're going that's who i am

00:05:01.560 women will look at themselves with makeup on and go i'm a 10 the minute that makeup comes off 1.00

00:05:05.960 i feel so insecure and that's why we are more like but that proves my point that we are trying

00:05:12.860 to help ourselves we are trying to improve ourselves we'll do anything i would change 0.98

00:05:16.540 negative to me but i do it anyway we'll do anything but the hard shit 0.97

00:05:22.260 losing weight yeah i agree like they won't like lose weight and things like that i would i push back 0.93

00:05:27.200 on it on the notion that guys aren't doing anything for self-improvement though because like i'm part of

00:05:31.000 you know this whole space you know these these guys are i mean maybe it's not the biggest space

00:05:34.460 it's a small percentage though but but but yeah i would agree with that but maybe you're in an

00:05:39.240 echo chamber you know who you're looking at on instagram you're looking a lot of girls maybe 0.98

00:05:42.260 they're into the self-improvement the wellness stuff fine but i'm also i also know a lot of guys who are

00:05:46.920 also working hard i mean what do guys have to work on you know money muscles game frame basically so

00:05:51.020 you know are you leveling up financially are you working on your career are you on your mission are you

00:05:55.720 going to the gym uh you know are you looking after your fashion are you looking after

00:05:59.240 so guys do need to do a lot and and the truth is if you are a reasonably attractive

00:06:04.800 girl in her say 20s okay we're not even talking about a 10 we're talking about like a girl who's

00:06:10.140 a six or seven or whatever fine um you don't have to do very much to get validation from the dating

00:06:17.500 market or you don't have to do very much you have to be kind of cute wear a summer dress walk down

00:06:23.120 the street and you're going to get guys you know who are who are sort of like complimenting you or

00:06:26.340 whatever except that's illegal now but you know back when we used to be allowed to talk to each

00:06:31.520 other that would you know you would get that positive validation whereas dudes actually for

00:06:35.540 the most part are invisible to women unless they've really worked on themselves unless they've done the

00:06:40.540 necessary things and i think if men aren't self-improving it's women's fault because men

00:06:44.660 have to be motivated by something i agree so what do they what again what do they get at the end of it

00:06:50.000 they get that women that think it's okay to leave 1.00

00:06:52.640 so what what kind of wife are they getting at the end of it yeah or you get like the one meal a day 1.00

00:06:58.300 yeah yeah two of you lucky or you get this whole bunch of guys who have sort of dropped out of the

00:07:02.560 system because they think the dating is completely unfair because they think they're invisible

00:07:05.400 20 80 percent of guys are invisible to women so they think well why should i bother incels or

00:07:09.640 something we did it on the last episode they're they're dangerous that that category i didn't even

00:07:15.260 know that word well they're very small yeah small percent they're very angry people they're they're

00:07:22.920 angry but they're angry i would say there's a much deeper psychological issue okay we won't

00:07:27.500 um i would say that

00:07:32.560 again it's the fault of women because again if if there's incels why is that it's because women are 1.00

00:07:41.900 all sleeping with the same men i i think though just based on psychological evidence there's there's

00:07:47.840 a lot going on there that's deeper than just societal means but i get what you're saying about

00:07:53.220 like in retrospect but incels themselves there's much deeper psychological issues i also don't agree

00:08:00.360 with that because what you just said i would say but they all want us to be virgins so yeah we are

00:08:05.620 sleeping with the same person or whatever like yeah but why aren't we virgins because we chose to 1.00

00:08:10.140 have sex outside of marriage and two guys do not expect a virgin that is the most bullshit shit i've 1.00

00:08:15.280 ever heard in my life no what do you expect do you expect a virgin no i don't know i have never seen 1.00

00:08:22.280 a single guy that says he expects a virgin i think that's an immature mindset i mean i think that's the

00:08:27.440 ideal but they don't i think that's much younger people immature mindset yeah yeah it's it's much

00:08:33.440 younger i don't think it's immature i think men are realistic no no no i mean like younger actual

00:08:38.680 age-wise the younger oh you're like teen guys who are stuff like that yeah who technically are

00:08:44.860 virgins themselves i'm so over the i'm so over the hill i'm just going to take what i can get really

00:08:48.640 to be honest 100 body count fine no worries no worries i'll take it but i think i think the

00:08:55.760 whole thing is quite nuanced though because because because to counter what i've just said

00:08:59.640 you are right there's a lot of guys who are very very lazy and they don't want to do the work they 0.56

00:09:04.020 don't want to fucking do anything they sit there and this is we complain about this a lot you know 0.97

00:09:08.100 they sit there on the computer going oh it's really unfair if i'm not a six foot if i'm not a 0.98

00:09:11.880 seven foot five chad with you know blah blah blah then i'm not then it's over for me they don't do

00:09:16.620 anything they just sit there complaining and you know that that is on them because also they need

00:09:22.000 to be going out and they need to be they need to be working on themselves you know so i think human

00:09:25.480 beings human beings in general are inherently lazy most most people but if again if you are a 0.97

00:09:32.400 reasonably cute you know young woman i think you get more breaks in society than than a dude of the

00:09:37.200 same level yeah i hear that okay okay i'm gonna take a second to read you know i was just banned on

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JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2023

Pearl SHUT Her Down With Facts

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