JustPearlyThings - October 14, 2023


Pearl Shuts Down Deluded Feminist

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
What Every Man Want From Their Woman Deluded Modern Gets Defensive After Pearl Said This

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

191.85

Word count

1,809

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Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why women should obey their husbands and why they should not. Should women submit to a boss but not their husband? Why is it so important for women to submit to their husband but not to their boss? Why do women cheat on their husbands? Is cheating a bad thing? And what does it mean to be in a healthy relationship?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 should you obey your husband point blank period no no no what about you
00:00:06.720 can we define obey i was about to say that as well it depends obey oh you don't know what obey i mean
00:00:17.860 i can get the definition you don't you you can't infer what it means okay i'll get you guys you
00:00:23.560 mean just say yes to everything they say basically the yes girl yes yes yes submit to the authority 0.55
00:00:30.360 of someone or comply with should you obey your husband point blank period so you say no what do
00:00:38.860 you say no no okay what do you think yes yes she's torn i see it i am she's like i want to i know that
00:00:48.840 i know the right answer but i don't want to say it yeah i think it's a bit of both i think there's
00:00:55.380 certain things you should just completely how agree with and other things that you just how do you that
00:01:01.220 is no be able to because really and truly i agree with you there's certain things yes but you will
00:01:08.400 say no to something so that is a no you won't always obey okay um that's a tricky one i would say
00:01:17.260 yes you should obey but only obey if he himself um moves with godly principles then you should
00:01:24.720 obey because i mean me personally i obey god alone so if he moves with godly principles then yeah
00:01:29.680 i think you should obey because it will lead you both into an unselfish route we both can then um
00:01:35.720 just reap the benefits of that so yeah he's got godly principles and yeah you should obey
00:01:40.640 um i agree with the last bit what he just said and um i believe yes so long as it's not detrimental
00:01:50.060 to the home okay i would say if it's beneficial to both parties yes how do you determine what's
00:01:57.860 beneficial to both parties when your boss asks you to do something do you say if it's beneficial to
00:02:05.340 both parties to a boss it will be beneficial to do it because if not you'd be fired then you have
00:02:12.380 to look at the consequences of being fired or having the consequences of you having a rocky
00:02:16.500 relationship with your boss now saying that you don't want to comply so why will women submit to 0.98
00:02:20.900 a boss but not their husband because that's not what you're not getting paid that's different i mean
00:02:27.100 do you want it do you want a guy that provides true when you think of it like yeah so like my question
00:02:33.560 is why will we submit to a boss but we have to say oh well what's in it for me when it's our husband
00:02:38.880 work is work we shouldn't be at home thinking that this is work no right but it's the same dynamic it's
00:02:43.940 an authority dynamic right i mean it depends what you believe marriage is like because you seem to
00:02:50.700 have more of an egalitarian model of marriage which is really common where it's like 50 50 we have an
00:02:55.540 equal say i don't believe in that like i think that you should listen to the men is that you you have
00:03:01.380 you a partner no um but i i just think you can look at what works in history and it's literally
00:03:13.200 like the egalitarian model has never worked
00:03:15.520 would you care to elaborate on that a bit all right let's let's look at so basically feminism 1.00
00:03:24.820 when did it start like the early 1900s and and that's when you start seeing in the media that men
00:03:30.700 are abusers you start seeing these propaganda campaigns where it's like we're 50 50 we both
00:03:35.800 have an equal say right and so it's it's like the the further the more closer it's been to an
00:03:42.680 egalitarian model it then the less from a submissive like authority structure the more divorce rates 1.00
00:03:48.840 have gone up the less children we've had the less relationships have formed it was just really
00:03:53.220 hard to get a divorce before wasn't it that's related i mean yeah because i think today what we have
00:03:59.260 it's not marriage you know it's it's like basically be in a relationship i i think divorce should be
00:04:05.380 illegal yeah yeah i don't believe in that yeah i yeah i don't i don't think i think once you're
00:04:10.660 married that's it yeah unless it's again the whole abuse word then i don't think there's anything even
00:04:18.300 with cheating i think that can be worked out wow based very based i do feel like if that's your
00:04:25.680 husband and that's who you've married i think work it out i mean i think women cheat every day 1.00
00:04:30.880 yeah i mean women women are the biggest cheaters in 2023 how many women we see have ass pictures on 1.00
00:04:38.100 instagram being in happy healthy relationship it's like cheating women yeah yes is that cheating for you 1.00
00:04:45.500 yes yes i think that is absolutely cheating what do you need to post a picture of your butt on 0.99
00:04:51.040 instagram for when you have a husband what kind of butt like you know just 0.99
00:04:54.540 i agree i think a selfie is cheating crazy really what do they need to see your beauty for you got a 0.96
00:05:03.720 man girl we're gonna be walking on the roads everyone's gonna see the faces what do you i mean
00:05:08.440 yeah outside but like what are you posting it online how is that cheating also let's talk about let's talk
00:05:14.880 about women it's like we're like oh cheating is the worst thing that could ever happen to us
00:05:19.060 well i mean are you a virgin on your wedding day no so it's like maybe we should get off our high
00:05:25.380 horses it's like a man cheats once 50 to 70 of the time it's a one-time thing so meaning he'll never do
00:05:33.400 it again most guys don't really get offered like that so then the women are like oh cheating is the 1.00
00:05:39.080 worst thing ever like when men are programmed to just screw random chicks so your man's screwing 1.00
00:05:44.640 random chicks no no look look i mean i don't i don't wish to be cheated on i do not want to be 0.94
00:05:51.980 cheated on you would accept it i i i think that it's silly to throw away a marriage when you have
00:05:57.960 children for your own personal feelings because i think once you have a child it's not about you
00:06:04.040 anymore yeah well one cheat i get that everyone no one is perfect i'm not saying i'll be happy with
00:06:10.300 it you're going to ride because there's kids involved what if it's consistently the man don't
00:06:14.960 respect you at all and he's giving his good fresh pee we need all right how do all right all i want
00:06:22.380 how did women how did women how did women reproduce historically we got the attention of high value men
00:06:28.620 right the highest the the best guy in the tribe we'd pull up our skirts and be like look take me in
00:06:34.920 right right that's how we survive how did women or how did men survive they'd become big get resources 0.99
00:06:41.700 right they'd get get strong and what would they do they would screw a bunch of chicks that's how they 1.00
00:06:47.900 survived so i think that sex is to men like attention is to women that that's my belief and i think if we're 0.95
00:06:53.900 going to go off this logic we've never cheated we none of us have flirted with another guy in a
00:06:59.400 relationship another none of us have posted a provocative picture we're all virgins on our
00:07:04.320 wedding days i just think like maybe we should come with a little bit of humility that it's not like
00:07:09.960 the end of the world if he sleeps with another person and it can be worked through yeah but what if
00:07:15.380 it's consistently wouldn't you feel a bit upset what about all that loyalty that you've given that man
00:07:21.060 that love that energy and then they're just giving that good good body to someone else
00:07:25.380 well why did you why did you do that before marriage
00:07:27.920 no but that's not no but marriage is marriage no but you were supposed to what are you supposed to
00:07:35.080 be what are what are you supposed to be okay did you want to be married did most women want to be 1.00
00:07:40.420 married yes did we know that on our wedding night we were supposed to be virgins most people knew that
00:07:45.940 no no most of us are not and that's my point it's not it's not to say it's okay but
00:07:50.880 it's like where is the humility yeah but you gotta throw all that virgin talk in the bin right now
00:07:55.380 we need to get back to the fact that when you're married are you saying it's all right to just
00:07:59.020 completely keep getting consistently cheated on without you feeling affected by it you know not
00:08:03.800 wait hold on i wanted her to answer that because i'm not asking questions for no reason now
00:08:07.780 wouldn't you feel a little bit upset like he's been sorry i'm just gonna finish my what i'm saying
00:08:12.920 because i was just saying something i wanted to know wouldn't you feel like that's a little bit
00:08:17.020 sorry oh am i getting caught oh it was a valid point it's not it's not the valid point it's that
00:08:23.120 my producer was talking first i was talking no no no no i know but he's allowed to do it's not
00:08:27.860 your show he's allowed to do that i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna let him go and then you
00:08:32.440 can go okay i'm gonna let him go then you can go go ahead yeah yeah so here's the thing about it
00:08:37.560 yeah you can laugh what you want but here's the thing about it the reality is a man that is going
00:08:43.040 to be cheating on you consistently is one of two things either he has always been a cheat and you
00:08:48.180 knew and you decided to get married to him which is entirely your fault or let's do what the women 1.00
00:08:55.260 usually do if he just started cheating out of the blue and he does it consistently maybe you should
00:09:00.480 ask yourself why is he cheating what are you doing wrong because that's what we always ask when a woman 1.00
00:09:05.600 cheat or what did the man do so maybe you should ask yourself i 100 agree cheat i agree yeah i agree
00:09:12.280 with him as well i'm just putting other points boy okay what is your question oh i forgot now
00:09:18.700 that's it oh no finish that's i'm those type of people all right you cut me up again all right
00:09:24.840 all right