JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


Pearl Shuts Down Deluded Modern


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10 minutes

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172.94229

Word count

1,828

Sentence count

183

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Misogyny

31

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

21

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In this episode, we talk about why men are attracted to younger women, why women like younger men and why men like women who are younger than men who are older. We also discuss why women in their 20s and 30s are the most attractive to men.

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00:00:00.000 What does a 40-year-old woman bring that a 20-year-old can't? 1.00
00:00:04.340 So men don't care about sexual experience.
00:00:06.540 Okay, well, better conversation, more life experience,
00:00:09.080 more money, potentially, better career, more education.
00:00:11.380 Do men care about your career and education? 0.70
00:00:13.680 Oh, I hope so.
00:00:14.640 Yeah, again, the interesting ones would, I'm sure.
00:00:17.220 So the interesting men care about your career?
00:00:20.020 What is a career to a guy that has one?
00:00:22.420 It's more like the broke men care about your career.
00:00:26.020 I think it'd be more important to a man with a career
00:00:27.900 because then you'd have something to talk about
00:00:29.020 and the points you can relate to each other.
00:00:31.560 Do you think, you're nodding, you think that's true? 1.00
00:00:34.100 No, yeah, it's very true.
00:00:35.520 It's not true.
00:00:36.520 Maybe not in your world, love.
00:00:39.860 There is a lot of things going on
00:00:42.000 that you might not have experienced
00:00:43.640 to really be able to comment on.
00:00:46.200 Okay, then why do the richest men
00:00:48.500 not care about a woman's career?
00:00:51.100 Why do they go for young, attractive women? 1.00
00:00:53.220 Why do they go for models? 0.99
00:00:54.380 The more naive ones.
00:00:55.940 The more, why do you think they're naive?
00:00:58.240 There's a lot of them that are naive.
00:00:59.580 Some of them don't even know what they want.
00:01:00.780 They just see what's on social media,
00:01:02.620 what's out on, you know, on the internet.
00:01:05.420 All the flash, the bling.
00:01:07.320 Give me the car.
00:01:08.280 Give me the clothes.
00:01:10.120 Give me the jewels.
00:01:11.520 That's what a lot of young girls are like. 1.00
00:01:13.360 How is that different from the older women? 1.00
00:01:16.120 The older women are doing the same thing. 0.99
00:01:17.460 No, but some women grow out of it 1.00
00:01:19.720 and they realize that there's more about a man
00:01:22.200 than just his money.
00:01:23.600 You can be stable if you're on the same level.
00:01:26.100 That's nice.
00:01:26.900 Have your money, but all of the extra stuff.
00:01:29.640 Oh, do you want me to finish?
00:01:31.280 Yeah.
00:01:31.780 Yeah.
00:01:32.940 So all the extra stuff, it's been there, done that.
00:01:36.180 When you grow up, you grow out of it.
00:01:37.580 Then you start more focusing on the man's mentality,
00:01:40.280 their mental health, how to become better,
00:01:43.820 not be a nuisance, kind of become a team.
00:01:47.860 You then start becoming best friends.
00:01:50.160 It's not really about the jewels
00:01:51.820 and all the extra stuff, like, that's a young mentality.
00:01:55.660 That's fine, but why do a lot of them
00:01:58.100 still end up single with all the knowledge
00:01:59.900 they have about men and how to be better,
00:02:03.040 they still end up single?
00:02:04.000 I don't know, boy.
00:02:04.780 I've got married parents.
00:02:06.300 They've been together from 20 to now,
00:02:08.320 and they're 57, so I don't know.
00:02:10.440 Maybe I haven't experienced.
00:02:11.920 No, I'm not talking about them.
00:02:12.920 We're talking about this generation of women that are single. 0.99
00:02:15.460 I can't say.
00:02:17.600 I don't know, I don't know.
00:02:19.220 Yeah, why are they less married than ever?
00:02:22.060 Can't say.
00:02:23.800 We don't know.
00:02:24.700 Okay, so if the data shows that men
00:02:29.440 don't like women the older they get, 1.00
00:02:31.880 what does that mean?
00:02:34.000 Who's the data?
00:02:35.180 I don't think.
00:02:35.940 Every dating app data that you can possibly take.
00:02:38.480 Dating apps, oh.
00:02:40.240 Even if you have men pick women by scent, 0.97
00:02:44.040 they still pick the younger women. 1.00
00:02:46.320 Yeah.
00:02:46.920 They literally don't even have to see the women. 0.94
00:02:48.420 They smell it.
00:02:49.380 Trying to keep themselves young.
00:02:50.380 No, I mean, there's biological reasons
00:02:52.380 why we do the things we do.
00:02:54.180 And men are attracted to purity.
00:02:55.820 They're attracted to youth.
00:02:57.920 Because historically, they had to reproduce,
00:03:00.300 and you're more likely to be able to reproduce
00:03:01.960 more children with a younger woman.
00:03:04.760 You can't just undo biology the same way you like
00:03:06.720 taller men because they can protect you.
00:03:08.240 The same way you like muscles because it can protect you.
00:03:10.160 The same reason women like rich men 0.99
00:03:12.100 because they want resources.
00:03:13.200 Men are attracted to purity.
00:03:14.300 They're attracted to youth.
00:03:15.640 Are we talking about men over 50?
00:03:17.680 Or how old are we even talking about?
00:03:19.300 We're talking about older men like younger women. 0.87
00:03:21.780 Okay, and that's over what age?
00:03:23.820 All ages.
00:03:24.740 Okay, just like that.
00:03:25.540 I mean, the dating app is between 18 and 80.
00:03:30.480 You know what age they ranked the most attractive
00:03:33.120 from 18 to 80, all of them?
00:03:35.420 22.
00:03:36.760 I've had some apps go as long as 18.
00:03:39.600 Where men or women, it doesn't peak till 50.
00:03:43.560 So really and truly, men are just looking for the looks.
00:03:47.840 It starts with looks, yeah.
00:03:50.240 And everything else.
00:03:51.480 I know some girls that just don't lift a finger. 1.00
00:03:54.700 And they get it all.
00:03:55.780 They don't even need a personality.
00:03:57.440 Some men like that, they don't want that.
00:03:59.040 Well, I think that's the whole point,
00:04:00.740 is that like that's all women bring in 2023. 1.00
00:04:03.120 The majority of us haven't been raised to be wives.
00:04:06.020 Do you think that's untrue?
00:04:08.600 This day and age, anything below 25, they have been struggling.
00:04:16.600 Women. 0.81
00:04:17.600 Okay.
00:04:18.600 Not all of them, but there is a lot that have been struggling, guidance wise.
00:04:27.720 Yeah.
00:04:28.720 Yeah.
00:04:29.720 But.
00:04:30.720 Yeah.
00:04:31.720 Because we got, I think the women between like. 1.00
00:04:32.720 They're more free spirit.
00:04:33.720 Is that, is that good for society?
00:04:38.540 Both ways.
00:04:39.540 Huh?
00:04:40.540 Both ways.
00:04:41.540 It's good both ways.
00:04:42.540 So it's good.
00:04:43.540 It's good.
00:04:44.540 And it's a bit bad.
00:04:45.540 Okay.
00:04:46.540 So it's like, you can't take, I mean, to be honest, everyone's expectations and it is
00:04:55.620 different, but a lot of young girls haven't been really taught about respecting themselves.
00:05:03.320 You know, they don't, they're not been told how to conduct themselves.
00:05:10.200 But then we all get our moments.
00:05:12.300 I'm not going to say I'm some special.
00:05:15.640 We've all had our moments, but I feel like it's all to do with the maturity.
00:05:18.700 But I, I do believe that it works good and bad for like that free spirit.
00:05:25.180 So maybe if they want an older guy, an older man might not like that free spirit too much
00:05:31.700 because they kind of want depending on the guy.
00:05:34.200 Sorry.
00:05:35.200 But they might want a bit more of a submissive girl. 1.00
00:05:39.200 Okay.
00:05:40.200 And you think older, you think older women are more submissive? 1.00
00:05:44.200 Some.
00:05:45.200 Some.
00:05:46.200 Are people more likely to change when they're older or younger?
00:05:51.200 Older.
00:05:52.200 Come on.
00:05:53.200 All right.
00:05:54.200 If a guy, if a guy's been committing crimes until 18, is he more likely to stop if he stops
00:06:02.240 at 18 or if he stops at 35?
00:06:05.200 He's been doing it for 15 years or he's been doing it for two years.
00:06:09.200 They don't stop guys.
00:06:11.200 Guys don't ever change.
00:06:13.200 Do you think, do you think women change? 0.96
00:06:16.200 Yes.
00:06:17.200 I do.
00:06:20.200 Maybe I'm just talking on my behalf.
00:06:21.200 If there's others that don't, then I can't say, no, you don't.
00:06:25.200 Like it's not my, it's not my place to say that, but I do know of everyone around me that
00:06:30.200 that they've changed from in their early twenties to their mid thirties, late thirties.
00:06:35.200 So my question is, you're a woman and you don't, you don't, you don't, you. 0.99
00:06:39.200 Okay.
00:06:40.200 Let's put it like this.
00:06:41.200 You're so sure that guys don't change and you're not a guy, but for a woman, you have 1.00
00:06:45.200 a completely different view on it.
00:06:47.200 How does that compute?
00:06:48.200 You're so right.
00:06:49.200 I'm so sorry.
00:06:50.200 Apologies.
00:06:51.200 Some guys.
00:06:52.200 What makes a woman valuable? 1.00
00:06:57.200 Me?
00:06:58.200 Um, gosh.
00:06:59.200 Well, everything I've said, really, I think, I think being helpful.
00:07:03.200 Okay.
00:07:04.200 I'm respectful of men.
00:07:05.200 I'll go along with that.
00:07:06.200 Um, and having their own ambitions as well and being able to make their own money.
00:07:11.200 Okay.
00:07:12.200 Money being helpful.
00:07:13.200 Okay.
00:07:14.200 Go ahead.
00:07:15.200 What makes a woman valuable? 1.00
00:07:16.200 Okay.
00:07:17.200 Okay.
00:07:18.200 Go ahead.
00:07:19.200 What makes a woman valuable? 1.00
00:07:22.200 Hmm.
00:07:23.200 Why do I feel like I'm going to repeat myself?
00:07:28.200 Oh yeah.
00:07:29.200 I have to repeat myself.
00:07:30.200 Okay.
00:07:31.200 Um, right.
00:07:34.200 Judging on male friends of mine, what they've said, what they find is valuable in a woman 0.91
00:07:42.200 is the biggest word is to stay and ride with them.
00:07:46.200 Okay.
00:07:47.200 Loyalty.
00:07:48.200 Yeah.
00:07:49.200 It's a loyalty thing.
00:07:50.200 Um, even though a lot of women wouldn't agree with it. 0.63
00:07:55.200 It's something that men tend to really love is a loyalty thing.
00:07:59.200 They want to know that that woman is just you. 1.00
00:08:01.200 They want to know that that woman is the only one.
00:08:03.200 You're the only one as a man that's going with this woman, basically. 0.70
00:08:07.200 Okay.
00:08:08.200 I'm not going to go into too much details, but that is something that I've heard from a lot
00:08:16.200 of men that they do like the loyalty.
00:08:18.200 Obviously, you know, the same old cook and all that kind of stuff.
00:08:22.200 But then again, I've also heard, which I kind of understand to a certain extent that when
00:08:27.200 you're doing all that wifey, wifey stuff, it's great.
00:08:31.200 They know that you're home, but it gets boring for some men.
00:08:38.200 That's why some men go and cheat because they want someone that's not doing the everyday
00:08:42.200 stuff that is going on at home.
00:08:44.200 I don't agree with it, but it's just something that I have basically heard of.
00:08:53.200 And it's a lot, a lot of men say that.
00:08:56.200 Okay.
00:08:57.200 That they want to cheat?
00:08:58.200 No, that it's just like, it's boring, you know, with all these, these things that we
00:09:03.200 as women feel that is valuable to a man. 0.65
00:09:06.200 We, we think what we think, but men won't think the way we think, you know? 0.91
00:09:12.200 Well, you know why it gets boring for them.
00:09:14.200 Have you ever heard the phrase, you can't compete with noob, you know?
00:09:19.200 It's because men crave sexual variety.
00:09:22.200 In order to pass on their genes, they had to, you know, how did Ganges Khan like get 1.00
00:09:26.200 two out of every a hundred people?
00:09:27.200 He like screwed everybody.
00:09:28.200 It was the best way to procreate.
00:09:30.200 It's the same reason, it's the same reason we like rich guys, right?
00:09:34.200 Because if you got the highest value guy, he was the most likely to protect you and pass on resources
00:09:39.200 to you.
00:09:40.200 For the typical reasons we feel the way we feel.
00:09:42.200 But, you know, he had a queen and a concubine.
00:09:45.200 So we shouldn't, we shouldn't confuse what he does with the concubine with the queen.
00:09:50.200 Right?
00:09:51.200 Would you agree with that or disagree?
00:09:53.200 No, I understand what you're saying.
00:09:55.200 Yeah.
00:09:56.200 What about you?
00:09:57.200 Purity, loyalty, respect, and a caring nature.
00:10:01.200 Okay.
00:10:02.200 I literally would have said everything she just said.
00:10:04.200 Can you think that I would have added to it?
00:10:08.200 Oh, I don't know if there's anything that I could add to what she said.
00:10:11.200 I would have said the exact same thing.
00:10:13.200 Okay.
00:10:14.200 I would say morals.
00:10:15.200 I think if she got good morals, then she would tick all the boxes that were insane. 1.00
00:10:20.200 So if she got good morals, then she'll be respectful and that would just naturally reciprocate 0.95
00:10:26.200 and that leads to loyalty.
00:10:27.200 The respect that I guess would be loyal.
00:10:29.200 Okay.
00:10:30.200 I think a woman should be a man's piece. 1.00
00:10:33.200 I think a woman should be a man's piece. 1.00