JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023


Pearl Shuts Down Feminist


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

207.8573

Word count

1,880

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

33

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and the role that women played in society in the 19th century. We discuss the difference between the roles of women and men in society today and the roles that were played by women in the past.

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00:00:00.000 i think the premise that men and women can be equal i think is wrong i think men are yeah but 1.00
00:00:05.260 there's equal to what extent you know so obviously if you're talking in the sense of relationships
00:00:10.380 then obviously we can go to traditions and cultures there's a few different factors that
00:00:15.480 we can point out if we want to look at in that way but so i do agree that there is roles within
00:00:21.320 a home i'm very traditional in that way i agree with a lot of the things that um not i don't
00:00:27.120 agree with all of the things before no muzzle i kind of liked the muzzle you see i'm very um i like
00:00:33.800 i do agree you know that um again i'm all for diversity i think voices do need to be heard
00:00:39.380 but there's respect as well and um a muzzle's very disrespectful well it was only used it was only
00:00:46.060 used for extreme women you've seen those women that are berating their husbands in public that that make 1.00
00:00:52.260 their husbands lives a living hell it wasn't yeah but then that's down to how that that woman was 1.00
00:00:57.060 brought up and then that's down for the man as an individual to say that's not the kind of woman i
00:01:01.800 want to be with well you were forced to be married back then so to me i was like i'm not saying we
00:01:07.760 should bring back the mu i'm kind of joking but but my my thing is i kind of understand it because
00:01:12.700 they were forced in this marriage he's married to a wicked wife it's like women don't talk about so 1.00
00:01:18.360 like social abuse or verbal abuse women can be very verbally abusive and women are equally abusive
00:01:24.900 as men you get and with men that go through domestic violence and because of women as well
00:01:29.840 so it can work both ways and again maybe it doesn't get discussed as much because obviously
00:01:35.540 in today's culture today's culture everything has been changed so feminism has actually brought and 1.00
00:01:43.220 changed laws whereas imagine if women that were a lot of women were getting domestically abused 0.97
00:01:47.880 and nothing was getting done about it because their voices weren't being heard there wasn't laws
00:01:52.600 for them but they even but i'm saying even changes that have been made but even even back then they
00:01:57.860 would argue that the the laws still favored women like for example they they estimate that 61 percent 0.99
00:02:02.920 of murders were done by women and most of them didn't even get because back then they didn't have 0.98
00:02:07.000 abortion so women would literally kill a quarter of their kids they just kill them we're also missing 0.96
00:02:10.880 there's like a interesting piece of the puzzle that we're missing in this is that like
00:02:14.280 okay let's go back to the 1700s and yes like there's some different sort of expectations so
00:02:19.180 women are doing all this stuff around the house etc but it's like what was the what was life like 1.00
00:02:22.640 for an average man in the 1700s oh horrible right it's like you're working on a something like you're
00:02:28.140 breathing poison at work all the time you're dealing with poison you're dying like look at the
00:02:32.780 life expectancy is way shorter for men it was like farmhand um coal miner or a factory worker but i don't 0.83
00:02:40.420 remember what year the factories came in and like there's a pretty good chance you're gonna get like
00:02:44.340 a wound that kills you or you're gonna lose a limb at whatever job you're doing and you're gonna die 0.88
00:02:48.420 10 to 15 years earlier than the woman in your life so it's like oh we have all these rules it's like well
00:02:54.100 man men had a really hard existence back then right and it's like can you give him a little credit he's
00:02:59.940 gonna die in war probably defending you well my my thing is i just think we can't be equal because
00:03:06.080 every time like how can you have equality when you'll always have to appeal to men to enforce our
00:03:10.360 rights you always have to ask men to give us the rights no we can't can i ask a quick question
00:03:15.900 about this article was this this is presenting a very overly idyllic version of the past and a very
00:03:23.200 very like antagonistic version of the present because there would have been many women back 1.00
00:03:28.760 then who would have been bad wives who would have been very cruel to their husbands and there are many
00:03:33.460 women hey i showed you the muzzle but who showed you the muzzle this is presenting an overly idealistic
00:03:40.200 version because i agree with you though i completely agree that feminism is bad but to say 1.00
00:03:44.720 that it was all brilliant back then because for example as the gentleman rightly said you know a lot
00:03:49.400 of men led very difficult lives it's not like i didn't say i didn't say it was i didn't say it was all
00:03:54.900 good i would argue the wives were better then i mean i think i think i don't know on the basis of
00:03:59.800 purity alone yeah why is that on the basis you can say that sex was actually used as a weapon
00:04:06.100 to control what percent of women have a cookbook today what percent of women really you you know
00:04:11.360 the average chick i've had over 600 i've probably had a thousand p women in here in the last year the 1.00
00:04:16.960 majority don't know how to cook are they from this society i i have interviewed women all over the 1.00
00:04:22.200 world like yeah everywhere i'm telling you i've i've i can't even count how many countries we've had
00:04:27.340 and i'm not saying there are women that are more traditional that do cook that do all those 0.96
00:04:31.720 traditional things but do i think more than half of women have those skills today no well you don't
00:04:36.840 have to go back far just think of your grandparents marriage like most of us can remember our you know
00:04:41.140 our grandparents being together and what that marriage looked like and it's probably different
00:04:44.640 in how our parents were and it's different from our peers my mom showed me from young yeah i was
00:04:52.140 grown up she looked after my dad she looked after the family my mom did not know what working was
00:04:58.320 she was just a housewife she would cook my dad would come home from work and we would have a 0.99
00:05:03.800 family dinner that's how it was 19 years my mom was putting up with it and i think it's just about
00:05:09.380 how you're raised it's not about like i don't know it just really depends on how you're raised and
00:05:14.600 i guess the people you're around literally being a housewife is a good thing as well as well we
00:05:20.100 should not housewife but i think my point is if you look at every statistical data point the wives 1.00
00:05:25.340 are worse today than they were they're fatter just because you just because you don't like the way
00:05:31.760 it sounds like the the fact is the truth women were more the women were more pure it just sounds
00:05:36.980 like a way to make modern women look bad i mean modern like we do look bad most modern women are not 0.88
00:05:42.020 feminists they're worse exactly but here's the thing you might they might not identify as a 1.00
00:05:48.080 feminist but most women live their lives according to feminism because traditional women put family 1.00
00:05:52.960 first but you don't have to be traditional women are typically married before the age of 25 because 1.00
00:05:58.700 that's the number one thing they prioritize most women go to college and college teaches you to be 1.00
00:06:03.720 a feminist i'm not saying it's women's fault completely right because we're all told to go to 0.93
00:06:07.820 college we're told to do this stuff but it's like when you prioritize having a career in your most
00:06:14.200 fertile years that's the life of a parentizing a career isn't feminist for example margaret thatcher 1.00
00:06:19.400 no it's not margaret thatcher was not a feminist like you don't isn't the options don't have to be
00:06:24.280 traditional woman versus feminist this is a misconception i'm saying i'm saying they might
00:06:30.260 not identify as a feminist but the way they live their life is more feminist because what do you mean 0.69
00:06:35.420 because when i say when i say when i say traditional traditional is putting the family first and family
00:06:41.260 is your first priority so women that are truly true i'm not even saying i'm i'm not a traditional
00:06:47.080 woman otherwise i'd be married by now so i'm not even i'm not even saying it's me but i'm saying the
00:06:51.860 women i know that are the most feminine the most traditional they are married before 25 they don't 0.99
00:06:56.420 really care about college they don't really care about a career and that's their number one priority
00:07:00.820 so a lot of times people get like like like frustrated because they're like women think they're
00:07:06.480 traditional and they're not but why the options traditional versus feminist you know like because 1.00
00:07:11.460 also this is the misconception being an independent woman doesn't mean being a feminist like a lot of
00:07:16.040 career women because women have taken it to the next level and not even understanding what it means to be 1.00
00:07:24.360 independent so now a lot of these women are saying oh i'm independent i don't need a man 0.98
00:07:28.960 yeah they're man hating because feminism is really about being anti-men like you can be pro men and
00:07:35.620 also be a career focused woman you know what i mean like there's been a lot of married women for 1.00
00:07:40.700 example helen girley brown was happily married and she was one of the founders of sexual liberation a
00:07:46.160 lot of feminists didn't like her okay so what pearly's trying to say is it's either you're going to 1.00
00:07:52.380 dedicate your life to your family or you're going to dedicate yourself to a big career no one's saying
00:07:58.400 you can't no one's gonna no you can't so basically you can be i i my my business academy
00:08:04.560 i actually train women to do business like women entrepreneurs and um female leaders yeah the reason 1.00
00:08:12.220 why i do it is not for the feminists so to preach to them to be independent but what i'm trying to do
00:08:17.880 is to help them build their self-esteem yes and give them skills that they can transfer to their
00:08:22.600 children because the way i see it the women spend the majority of the time at home with their 1.00
00:08:27.180 children with the children so in order to build leaders and entrepreneurs out of our children
00:08:33.100 we need to educate our women in that way so that's the purpose of my business so when i'm teaching these
00:08:39.380 women i'm not teaching them to say right you lot are going to go into your business you're going to 0.82
00:08:43.680 be leaders and you don't need no men you're going to lead the world i'm not teaching them that i'm
00:08:48.800 teaching them to grow and be more confident with themselves and become better influencers for their
00:08:54.760 children because as women we are a big influence in society and to our children you know 0.93
00:09:00.680 you