JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023


Pearl SILENCED Her With This Question


Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

219.85472

Word count

2,270

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

sentences flagged

Hate speech

16

sentences flagged


Summary

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Romeo and Juliette discuss money, women and dating and why women should or shouldn t date if they don t have enough to pay for a first date. They also discuss the difference between being a fat woman and a broke woman and why fat women should not date.

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 like i'm not a shallow person so please let's not do that but i know we're just repeating back
00:00:05.560 what you're saying i'm speaking from my own experience so far i can't say anything else
00:00:09.540 but what i've experienced i've never had a man that's that's not been able to pay for something
00:00:14.080 that he i'm aware of and he has i've never had that you're aware of there could have been at
00:00:18.220 least one man that took you on that date that was the last time probably yeah and i would never have
00:00:22.140 knew so and i'll and i'm compassionate i do respect that but i think if you think broke
00:00:27.840 men shouldn't date then should or then should fat women not date 1.00
00:00:30.980 i just don't know if we have the same energy you know do you know what it is i feel like beauty
00:00:38.860 is in the eye of the beholder so money is in the eye of the beholder period so there's a guy that
00:00:44.860 money is in it money is in the eye of the beholder um listen money money is in the eye of the beholder
00:00:51.580 if if you have if your mentality is above average and you're broke i fuck with you because i know 0.99
00:00:57.260 you've got potential and that we can build together we can be power what is potential
00:01:01.260 it's money later like that's all it is potential is money later it's more about like life just
00:01:06.440 okay okay if you meet bro if you meet brokey at 25 and you're with him for five years he's still
00:01:12.000 brokey unemployed what you're staying say that again sorry brokey he meet a brokey guy 25 and he's
00:01:18.600 unemployed and now now um he's 30 um you're still with him he's unemployed are you staying or going uh
00:01:24.320 no because you're not pushing me to my limit no i wouldn't what five you wouldn't ride out five
00:01:28.260 years if he is unemployed and broke for five years and doesn't want to make a move i can't be with
00:01:32.660 you how long does it take to create a proper business and be successful in life if you're
00:01:35.840 unemployed not doing nothing i don't i don't think you should like don't let it i forgot i'm unemployed
00:01:41.800 for five years now no no not unemployed i said unemployed oh you said okay yeah so that's what
00:01:47.060 i'm with you i'm i'm with you but my my my point is you're you're lying like it's lying yeah you're
00:01:54.860 just lying because you're like oh if he has the right mentality i don't care about money okay but
00:01:59.240 i said like all that ambition translates to is money later so when women say oh i don't care about 0.85
00:02:04.600 money yes it does because because because women women do leave if the men don't make enough money 1.00
00:02:10.640 if women out earn the men they leave the average woman but i feel like the average woman will leave 0.98
00:02:16.180 but you are the average woman i mean the average mindset woman the average mindset woman you have 0.59
00:02:21.080 no i don't i don't i definitely don't i definitely don't and everyone tells me i don't i'm different
00:02:26.700 you just no i'm telling you you're you're i i promise you okay what makes you different because
00:02:32.080 i i'm just i feel like i'm very deep and um i've just learned i've really taken that time out to
00:02:37.800 study life and to understand how life is i'm 32 now okay eight last month so i feel like i've taken
00:02:45.320 time out from it to go inwards and to learn about life and to just you know be more not logical but be
00:02:52.000 more um on point i don't know how to explain it but i don't think my mindset is average i don't
00:02:56.560 think i will ever be average and i really believe in myself so i'm a different okay so i'm a you're
00:03:01.320 you're a hundred percent average you're a comedian no no i'm not no she's a comedian though no no no
00:03:06.200 look at me look at me dead serious and that's not an insult i think i think i'm an average chick
00:03:12.380 i don't think you are because i even said before i came on the show she's a she's a badass like she's 1.00
00:03:16.920 built all this see you're lying again no but romeo didn't i say that to you i've been talking about
00:03:21.100 that stuff before i met you but but i'm saying i'm saying like the way you speak okay i'm
00:03:26.540 telling you i've met women with a top 10 20 you know how many women i speak to hundreds hundreds
00:03:32.060 and i'm saying like i've met women with a top 10 20 mindset i'm not saying it's horrible but i'm
00:03:37.040 saying an average chick when it comes to mindset do you know what i think i just like i think money's 1.00
00:03:42.020 i don't i don't think money is important so it's nothing to me but see you've contradicted yourself
00:03:46.560 like 20 times in this conversation it's very chaotic to like speak to you like it's very chaotic
00:03:52.000 because i don't really understand what you're saying okay because at one hand you kind of
00:03:55.960 we're speaking down to the men in the room because they don't want to spend 200 pounds on a date
00:04:00.020 then you're saying money is nothing do you see how that's confusing so paying 200 pounds what is
00:04:04.500 that that i don't that's fine okay it's not it's not because they said i don't appreciate it and i do
00:04:10.060 but it's not it's not i don't think about it because it's money is money it just is what it is
00:04:14.180 because you don't that's what i mean i understand what you're saying i just don't think you
00:04:21.920 understand how it sounds and it sounds really unappreciated
00:04:25.200 i can't change my opinion it is what it is can you spend 200 pounds every night on dinner on
00:04:33.440 yourself me i spend a lot of money not every night no no i can't why because it's irresponsible
00:04:39.640 i invest my money money is nothing i invest my money i invest money so what about the man that
00:04:47.320 invests money that's his business i didn't ask him to take me out and take me to a place that
00:04:50.300 cost 200 pounds i didn't ask for that so what you're saying is that's not my problem you don't
00:04:53.800 care about the man's money the thing is well i don't ask for money i don't ask a man for money
00:04:58.160 i've never asked him i've never had a man well i've had a long-term relationship where we live
00:05:02.200 together but i've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life so so wait can i
00:05:06.260 ask you a question okay so all right you you've never been proposed to not really not like that
00:05:13.620 no okay okay so if you were if you had this amazing mindset you're 32 do you have kids no okay so do
00:05:22.320 you know your chance is below 50 percent of having a child possibly but if you're if you're single at
00:05:27.260 30 your chance is like 40 percent of having a kid so you're more likely to never have children
00:05:31.620 that's statistically and at 30 and at 32 that means you're three years away from geriatric
00:05:35.520 pregnancy whoa like so that means if you're single today you got to find a guy in three years to agree 0.95
00:05:42.100 to marry you um and agree to get in a long-term relationship marry you and then have a kid or
00:05:47.480 just get pregnant so so the odds so statistically statistically right right statistically statistically okay 0.97
00:05:54.340 okay okay based on so so and based off of like the so the last you've been dating since what
00:05:59.500 you're 18 no well yeah okay so so 10 12 14 years you've been unsuccessful wow right yeah so you're
00:06:09.940 single right and i'm not claiming to be the all like i know everything but i'm saying how how can
00:06:15.280 you say you're in the top like you have this amazing mindset if no men have picked your mindset
00:06:19.820 and you're and it's not looks you're pretty my mindset changed at 20 at age 28 so before that i was
00:06:25.260 a different person so now so you've had four years ago okay so you had four years to try out this
00:06:29.820 mindset and i haven't been dating and and okay i've been going through stuff okay so and you've been
00:06:35.240 accumulating you've been going through saying things so you've been accumulating i've been in one
00:06:38.540 relationship kind of okay okay where where you were problematic i don't think that because he's still
00:06:45.000 on my phone to this day so i must not have been that okay for sex and like i don't think you
00:06:49.380 realize but i'm not but hold on i'm not easy to have sex i'm i'm really really okay did he have 0.60
00:06:56.360 sex with you not not straight away no did he did he ever have sex with you yeah he's back for sex 0.79
00:07:02.000 okay it's like this is how men this is how men no makes things worse no okay no no i'm telling you
00:07:08.400 girl this is how guys see it like i've talked to so many dudes if they've had sex with you once
00:07:12.620 maybe he liked having sex with you okay yeah because my pussy's tight 0.99
00:07:18.100 okay okay is this
00:07:20.600 you're in the danger zone
00:07:26.820 can i can i just say it wouldn't take three months to come to a decision on this one
00:07:33.520 and you're so lovely honestly you have so much going for you i really like you but thank you
00:07:39.420 don't say things like that what not my pussy's tight right keep it for yourself 0.98
00:07:44.640 i'm playing around that i'm just like that's my kind of
00:07:47.220 i'm just really outspoken i don't think you understand okay okay how is a husband gonna hear
00:07:52.020 that yeah you just damped your chances even more yeah because because because because loads of men
00:07:57.260 now know your pussy's tight wait wait wait wait can i can i can i ask you something 1.00
00:08:00.960 okay okay let me tell me okay listen listen listen listen okay and i'm genuinely trying to help you
00:08:06.860 i'm trying to help you so seriously so like those are fake the eyelashes yeah do you know what those 0.96
00:08:13.080 stand for do you know what the history of those are it's literally what hookers used to use to keep 1.00
00:08:18.380 calm out of their eyes i could i could probably believe that yeah yeah okay okay so and and when
00:08:23.660 men see that they they like hoop earrings that signals yeah yeah that's it and the ears aren't 1.00
00:08:28.540 too bad like but but but i'm saying when you're saying like my tight like is that what you want your
00:08:32.960 wife and the mother of your kids to to see but the thing is i'm just a funny person like i'm really
00:08:38.380 like outspoken i just do you know what i mean and i know i'm i'm a fun i like to think i'm funny you
00:08:42.840 know comedian but like there's some things that you really shouldn't say publicly if you want to be
00:08:47.500 taken seriously from a guy i think that um you know if it's meant to be it's meant to be he's out
00:08:54.780 there somewhere and he'll appreciate who i am do you think a broke do you think a broke fat guy
00:08:58.620 should say oh if it's meant to be women will like me or do you think he should improve i personally
00:09:05.380 would definitely improve but okay yeah okay so if you're if your mindset is off do you think we
00:09:11.060 say it's meant if it's meant to be it's meant to be or do we try to improve always try to improve
00:09:16.240 okay so so how do we improve as women if we can't even admit there's a problem right and so right 1.00
00:09:22.040 now it's like it's like you're kind of living in in delusion everyone's like you know maybe it's not
00:09:25.820 a good look and you're like well it's just how i am but but i feel like me saying my pussy's tight 1.00
00:09:31.200 it doesn't determine it doesn't determine how many men i've slept with if i'm a hoe do i go out and 0.89
00:09:35.760 suck dick every week no but it doesn't okay let me let me let me ask let me a virgin could be like 0.95
00:09:41.120 my pussy's tight what does that mean you're a home okay so i want to i want to hear from the men what 0.99
00:09:46.720 do you hey blessing blessing as a guy you're i would say you're more traditional guy you want
00:09:55.660 to be married right bring me this one all right all right what do you what do you what do you think
00:09:59.460 when a woman says that cancelled okay what do you what do you think when a woman says that pretty 0.99
00:10:05.200 much the same and probably just want to sample it just to see if it's tight but imagine you could
00:10:08.860 never though that's the thing and that's just the difference between you know if you don't if you
00:10:12.240 don't you don't in it but like i'm saying if you're saying that out there man i'm gonna be like
00:10:15.300 all right let me test it and see if it's and they could never that's the thing that's why i'm so
00:10:18.180 confident because i'm not like that