JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023


Pearl SILENCES Feminists

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
The History Of The Manosphere ｜ Sandman @SandmanMGTOW Education and Career DESTROYS Women for Being Good Wives

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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

168.01

Word count

1,980

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Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss cheating, sex and sex in marriage and why it s a duty in marriage. We also discuss the difference between cheating and sleeping with your husband and why cheating is a bad thing in a marriage.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 so you what no no it was the cheating I think if if you don't sleep with your
00:00:05.480 husband oh yeah so you you agreed with me right that if a girl gets cheated on
00:00:12.260 because she doesn't have any reason yeah like if she doesn't have any reason and 1.00
00:00:16.440 she doesn't offer to her husband yeah what the husband needs as well what 1.00
00:00:20.320 would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her husband 1.00
00:00:25.000 what would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her husband 1.00
00:00:30.060 that she just gave her birth she doesn't love him anymore that's a good reason that is a good 1.00
00:00:35.560 reason oh if she doesn't love him anymore well then she shouldn't be with him right 0.96
00:00:39.300 yeah no she should but we don't know why she's not isn't that a bit subjective like
00:00:45.440 once you say feelings change every day yes you can hate someone one day love them the next
00:00:50.980 so then then should we not should we deny a guy's sex based on our feelings if they
00:00:56.500 change every day you think that's fair should he protect us if when he feels like it
00:01:03.880 why so quiet I don't know I'm just asking I think fundamentally he should protect us like
00:01:17.300 yeah and we but like I said it goes back to like your your one your your communion you're together
00:01:22.820 right yeah so like you got a give and take I just think the feelings don't matter at all
00:01:27.120 no I mean if you're really like you know having a bad day and all he wants is like to canoodle like
00:01:33.140 you might just be like dude seriously yeah I mean once in a while guys are understanding yeah you
00:01:38.720 know but for like months on end or for like years no that's just there's guys that haven't been
00:01:42.940 like had sex in like years in marriage yeah no no that's not real that's not right guys are
00:01:47.960 pretty simple though food banging it's true it's true that's all you need what about you 0.86
00:01:55.240 um I don't know why someone would want to have sex with someone that doesn't really want to have 0.76
00:02:00.760 sex with them so I think if I think if the answer's no then that's that debate there can you cheat then
00:02:08.440 if she says no I think he can ask for permission to cheat could he just do it he shouldn't just do
00:02:15.100 oh I don't know I'm not an expert on that maybe if the girl is not having sex for such a long time 1.00
00:02:20.180 maybe she's cheating as well how long can a girl not sleep with her husband before she's deemed a bad 1.00
00:02:27.760 wife wow depends what is normal to have how no no no I'm just saying in general how long three months 0.86
00:02:37.320 three months is bad wife what if there's still a show involved three months there's still there's 1.00
00:02:45.200 still some sort of exhibition amongst partners but it's not full intercourse and you just show for 0.91
00:02:52.080 each other a show wow like this just be naked it could be naked it could be okay okay we're
00:03:00.680 we're just talking about sex I'm not I'd say that um three months in a active relationship is 0.92
00:03:09.080 probably quite a long time to go without okay so without a valid reason like a baby or something
00:03:13.840 okay and so then he can cheat no no he has to have a conversation but I'm not an expert on it so
00:03:19.460 you don't have to be an expert it's just opinions it's just an opinion show you know I can't speak
00:03:24.900 from experience so then I feel a bit funny about saying okay okay that's all right what about you
00:03:30.140 should can a guy cheat if his wife won't sleep with him I don't think anybody should cheat
00:03:37.660 male or female wife or husband if they can't sleep with each other whether it's from physical 0.90
00:03:45.240 deformity or whatever it is okay communicate it and if not then just split how how long can a woman 1.00
00:03:51.720 not sleep with her husband till she's a bad wife eternity forever eternity so she's a good wife still 0.99
00:04:01.040 if she doesn't sleep with him for a year
00:04:07.520 other way around she's a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with him for a year yeah okay so so if it's a 1.00
00:04:14.240 month is she a bad wife no we know she feels a certain type of way she's on her period maybe it 1.00
00:04:20.100 could be many things one month three months is she a bad wife six months ten months a year but at least 1.00
00:04:24.680 communicate tell me why okay and then she says I don't want to tell me why you don't again why there
00:04:32.600 has to be some sort of reason even if you tell me okay I don't feel it it's a reason but if you tell
00:04:39.120 me I don't know that's literally not a reason sex a duty in marriage it's a duty amongst animal instinct
00:04:47.720 but it's not an obligation okay if that makes any what is marriage
00:04:52.760 a marriage is love no a marriage is a contract of commitment and love
00:05:01.180 it's two people coming together and saying okay we agree we agree to respect each other
00:05:07.560 and come to the same vows and say okay if we agree to be together then it's just gonna be us
00:05:14.840 okay and we have to be openly honest whether it's through positive through negative and if it
00:05:21.520 we don't see alike we can figure out a way around it or away from it because not everything always
00:05:30.060 goes together blends together some marriage for life yes it should okay so one because I just
00:05:37.240 is marriage for life yes it should be for life it should be okay until the day you've done till
00:05:44.420 death do us part is it that way unfortunately not because there are many life-like situations where
00:05:51.680 individuals don't feel the same way they did when they were marriage about feelings
00:05:57.080 it's respect no it's about feelings commitments respect it's about a bunch of different things
00:06:03.060 okay so what would you say it's about feelings commitment sacrifice okay so it is about feelings
00:06:10.160 yeah definitely i would disagree i would strongly disagree i i think if that was true then india
00:06:16.420 wouldn't have like the lowest divorce rate where it's arranged they have no feelings i guess i guess
00:06:22.140 no it's not that they have no feelings about duty i think yeah it's about duty but then there's also
00:06:26.680 have to be some feeling and consideration back back to behind it because if there's a duty okay your
00:06:33.980 duty is to to to go hunt and kill but behind that duty there's a feat there there's a purpose if you
00:06:40.780 don't kill you don't eat nobody eats you can eat by yourself sure so be it do you think it's good to
00:06:46.360 rely on feelings not so not it depends on no on the situation no it doesn't i do not agree but then
00:06:54.160 there's always a situation should a guy protect and provide when he feels like it should a guy protect
00:07:00.680 and provide when he feels like it many of them yeah why not because he feels like a duty as a as a as
00:07:07.140 an alpha yeah he'll feel it even if he feels that he knows that it's negative but if there's an intruder
00:07:11.920 and he's scared should he run away if he runs away then he's not if there's an intruder and the man
00:07:19.820 runs away and there's a household full of women and children male or female they're under the age that 0.84
00:07:26.000 cannot protect themselves and and the male alpha runs away so he shouldn't do that based on his
00:07:31.620 feelings he shouldn't do that anyway no no i'm saying he shouldn't rely on his feelings when he's
00:07:36.620 scared should rely on his duty right instinctively duty and i say this for myself okay instinctively
00:07:43.860 would you say it's the same for women and sex instinctively and duty for women and sex
00:07:56.000 and then you're not sure why not okay did you did you have something to say yeah um i just wanted to
00:08:03.960 ask for the ladies um is a woman's emotional need necessarily um important in a marriage
00:08:11.260 yeah both of them are i just asked this i asked a specific question i didn't ask about men
00:08:18.820 for a woman is her emotional need important in a marriage yeah yeah is it is important for a man
00:08:26.160 to consider his his woman's emotional need in a relationship and in a marriage for that marriage
00:08:32.220 to be successful yes yeah okay that's good so for a man is sex important in a relationship yes yes
00:08:38.780 all right so is it important for a woman to consider a man's need in a relationship for that relationship
00:08:43.840 to be successful yes okay so do you realize how you guys have all argued against that point
00:08:48.960 basically after you asked that question yes i didn't i didn't answer that question
00:08:53.980 but we but we said what is the reason that she's not giving sex right exactly there may be a real 1.00
00:09:02.100 reason i don't see no reason no the question was is he was allowed to cheat that's something
00:09:08.280 different that's good so do you think there can be a reason why a man would not consider a woman's
00:09:13.820 emotional need in a relationship yes there is a reason i don't know what it is but the woman always 0.98
00:09:18.700 ask what is the reason why he's not considering my before they they start making problems do they
00:09:23.920 do they try to find out the reason why the man is not fulfilling his end of the bargain or do they
00:09:29.180 just start causing trouble this is why couples fight this is why because they don't they don't maybe
00:09:33.820 communicate and they don't really consider does communicating does communicating typically lead
00:09:39.480 to the problem being solved no not if they communicate in a bad way so why would men communicate 0.60
00:09:46.720 more and okay they are scared men they are scared to communicate sometimes because why they know the
00:09:51.860 woman will do a big fuss yeah maybe they will end with a big fighting and argument and they don't 1.00
00:09:58.060 want that i disagree on that too who communicates better men or women depends who in general in general
00:10:03.760 even in relationships who do you think communicates better men or women women i would say women
00:10:09.140 are you sure i think women are more open to talk at all women are more open to talk do women typically 0.91
00:10:18.920 communicate and get to the point no they will go around the subject just yes or no do women typically 1.00
00:10:26.040 communicate and get to the point no no so no so why do we why do we so why do we think would they
00:10:31.760 communicate better when we don't get to the point trying trying is better than nothing because
00:10:38.980 some men they don't even want to talk if i just they're just they're just gonna say
00:10:42.800 if i try to lose weight and i don't does it matter
00:10:46.000 i think women have brainwashed society into thinking we communicate better but we communicate 1.00
00:11:00.920 worse i don't agree also i don't really do men do men do men do men do men not communicate
00:11:06.700 in relationships or do women not like the way men communicate the second second yeah i would
00:11:13.260 say the second as well i think it depends still yeah i'm using that word 0.99
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