Pearl Surprised Them With This Take On Cheating
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships, open relationships, and open relationships in general. We also discuss why women cheat and why men cheat, and how to stop cheating in the 21st century,
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so who who here cares body count for a guy who cares is whether yes or no absolutely yes okay
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okay so if it's too high will you break up with him raise your hand if you would no i'll just
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look down on him a lot no at least they've got more experience okay okay okay wait just yes or
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no if there is a number that's too high he's perfect in every other way are you breaking up
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with him yes wait wait okay so out of one two three four five six seven eight nine women here i
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wouldn't i wouldn't either we have one that cares okay guys if you found out that your girl you're
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dating a chick she's perfect in every way and you found out she had an insanely high body count
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would you break up with her raise your hand if you would raise your hand if you would
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perfect if you had an insanely high body count yeah okay okay okay nobody's perfect why would
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they just randomly find out they would have named okay i don't know my own body count no no we're
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the only the only the guys guys the only the only point is that it's different for men and for women
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we i don't make the rules but i can observe what they are this is why marriages don't last though i
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care i care i know i know i'm not talking about you why i've said i've said like i said i care does
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that not matter well you're one out of how many and you just said you're in a situationship so
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you're sharing a guy that's true i'm not sharing that's true so i'm not sharing that's the point
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i'm not sharing this situation okay then yeah this is 2023 and apparently you can't say
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single relationship someone made up this if you wanted to be with just you then he would be your
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boyfriend but i don't know yeah but you don't know most women at some point have that is the point
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we don't care about sharing a guy based on what we do we can live in la la land and say things that
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sound nice or i can look at what we do that's what we pick perla you in a relationship she said yes
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she said she said she's indifferent sorry i don't i don't talk about a situation so she's
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sharing a guy i don't know how situationship defines sharing either this is why people could
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be in open relationships and share situationship doesn't necessarily mean you could be you could
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be married and share yeah so the whole point the whole point is women will share women have always
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shared throughout the test of time like the top 15 of men have always had a bunch of chicks
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and it has not been the same vice versa because we've always had to ensure paternity
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i don't make up these rules i just tell you what they are i've interviewed hundreds of people
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women don't care how does women don't care men care go ahead how does less bodies ensure like a
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woman's gonna be more fertile though i don't get that it doesn't know it's not a whole and they
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okay if you if you drink alcohol every day are you more likely to do it again
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probably okay so so so if you have been sleeping with a bunch of but what's that
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um if if you have been sleeping with a bunch of different dudes for all of your 20s for a decade
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don't you think it's going to be a little harder to stop
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no really it's a generation if you get into a relationship and you're a girl you're not going
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to cheat and see i think anyone under the age of 20 have got an expectation where you can sleep with
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as many guys as you want and you're not going to get judged because you're not old enough or
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experienced enough to know that you will get looked down upon i don't think that at all because you
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will because you have to not care about what people you don't but there's going to be a man who
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wants to date you thinks oh i'm going to fuck her because she slept with well i don't want to be with
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that man who cares what i agree with i don't disagree with him i'm saying you are going to get judged
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based on the amount of what we do we get judged anyway when you have no body count when i have no
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body count guys can say oh you're too prude but if you if you sleep around they don't like you
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i like when women say well i don't want to be with the guy that is going to judge me but the reality is
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the guy that's not going to judge you you don't want to be with him either i don't care yeah i'm
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judging him as well and i don't i i do care about body count everybody judges everybody so my point is
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the guys that you would look at and be like oh this is the kind of guy i would want to be with
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more than likely is going to have the same mentality that we are speaking about that's
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why women cheat then because because of this exact reason so if you say in the statistics that women
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cheat more than men then that's the problem women women cheat mostly most of the time because they
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are with a man that they don't want to be with no it's because they were the fact it's probably
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because of this reason man that she's scared to lose she would not cheat because men don't give
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them enough love and attention because they don't bother having a connection with or maybe it's because
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women or maybe or maybe it's because women are never happy maybe it's because the guy's got a
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small cock or it could be but that's that's the whole point that's that's the you're proving my
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point because that's like the number one thing you've talked about nothing yeah nothing that
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makes a guy a good husband or a good wife a big cock does to be honest no it doesn't it doesn't no
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it doesn't but again it's just because your age you don't you're not old enough to realize that
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it's more than just having i get bored easy so i don't really i don't think it has to do with age
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i really don't i think it's how your upbringing is because honestly like i think you're cool and all
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but like you're treating this whole thing as a fucking joke cock cock cock cock cock like i'm just
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here to promote my only fans subscribe lately i'm not talking about you no but you you're saying this
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but like i like you told me you did only fans before downstairs that doesn't change that you did it
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you still did it so it's still on my lesson but you still did it like it's you still did it's not
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going to change that you did it like of course not but that's what i mean we grow and we change and
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we but it doesn't change that you did it but but her whole point like you you guys are just living
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in delusion okay did did doing only fans hurt your dating prospects it yes definitely messed up my mind
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from 19 to 23 for sure yeah i was some of us i literally say this like i don't care because i'm a
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changed person now how old are you i'm 23 and when did you do only fans when i was 19 like just
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like how we were talking this girl saying it depends on your situation and it does i did it i got kicked
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out i had nowhere to stay and i said how the fuck am i going to make money in a pandemic right now
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i don't have a degree none of that so i became a sex worker and was it the right decision no i don't
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think so i definitely could have found another way out for sure but i wanted the easiest quickest
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option and that was doing only instant gratification yeah exactly and now i look back at it and it's
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like wow that was so dumb of me and i was like a really stupid mistake i made but that's not who
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i am anymore and i've grown from that and you know i have a boyfriend now and that's something i was
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honest about with him because that's who i am today but that's the thing it was embarrassing for sure
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nowadays you have to admit that like thing is because you probably did that during kobe times or just
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before kobe times i think it's a lot the situation i think a lot of people women during that situation
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who did kind of go down that rabbit hole who have exposed themselves and done lots of things online
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which they went to get the into money because they weren't able to get to the job so you now have to
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live with that kind of shame but i'm not ashamed of it though you're not no you're not ashamed of you're
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not proud of it at the same breath of course i'm not proud of what i did but that doesn't bother
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me anymore yeah no i accept that no i respect that i said you did that you did like a change
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person that's nice thank you well and i think too guys appreciate reality and like you're not it's
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better yeah be honest yeah like it doesn't make you any less of a woman or less no that's exactly
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what i'm trying to say is like i'm same as these girls who are young when you asked me earlier like
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what do you hate only fan girls no i don't i don't hate anyone like i said we have free will as human
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beings you could do whatever the fuck you want i do not care but do i respect it no we're allowed
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to have you know different viewpoints in life that doesn't mean i'm not going to not be your friend
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because you choose to pop the pussy on the internet do you look down at them no because it's your life
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i don't agree with it that's not something i would do for myself do i think it's the right thing no i
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don't but that doesn't mean i hate you doesn't mean i don't want to be your friend am i going to try
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to correct you for your wrongs of course that's what we're supposed to do if you have an honest
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open platonic friendship with someone you should and i would hope they would do the same for me if
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i was doing something wrong that's what i personally my friends are like woo go girl get
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because women will lead you down destruction and they won't be honest with you those are the girls
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you're choosing for your life now even guys say guys say if i was a girl and i was fat i'll do it too
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but most men wouldn't date you because you do only fans which is it's a sad reality because it's true
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because again you are not you as an individual just people who do only fans are kind of viewed as
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less than the normal person who would have an education get a job i actually think that most
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i actually disagree with that because most my most the girls i know that do only fans have boyfriends
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i have a question i have a question do they have husbands oh yes no no no no okay okay so you know
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one but most don't okay okay so why was so why was your first reaction one oh i know one
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because most she's okay what do you okay i have a question do the majority have husbands
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how do we know yeah i know okay no no no no no the majority guys will date a girl for a couple years
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and balance if she's hot do it from like when they're like um you know they've been like from
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together since a young age and then they'll both start it it's not like you know they'll do it
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together that's because they've got a king again i mean again i just need you to answer yes or no
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does it really matter if they're married does that yes does the majority does the majority have
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husbands no okay you don't have a husband so why is it correct correct that's not relevant if she
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has a husband or not she's making a point about why does marriage always matter and she's probably
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making more money than any other fans sit on the couch it does marriage matters because it's it's a
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stable relationship with two people that respect no because like it doesn't matter if you're married
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it doesn't make you so you're saying her marriage doesn't matter did i say that you just did
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i said that if you're married okay okay did i say oh your marriage doesn't matter
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do you think do you you don't think marriage matters not now no like people get divorced like
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20 22 she doesn't know any difference she's 22 sorry apologies i'm 21 actually 21 sorry i'm over
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age you she's 21 she doesn't know any different she's no i don't it's just because i've seen like
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so many people get divorced like marriages don't work now like i i honestly i see like they're used
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i see your i see your point of view a little bit right i i understand that marriage isn't marriage
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anymore because most people get divorced but we we have to admit that getting a guy to marry you is a
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far higher level of commitment than a guy dating you it's a flex yeah yeah and we can we can agree that
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a guy is more committed when he's married right yes so the fact that the majority agree with that
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okay you don't theoretically should okay you don't think him putting you in a position where you can
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take half his shit is more committed yeah but you can't you can't i'm not saying it's good i don't
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really see it like that it's just from my experience i'm not married i've had and a lot of my friends
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are but they go through the motions where they date going out with something it's steady and it's just
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like the next step to get engaged to get married right it doesn't necessarily mean that they love
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you more or committed unfortunately sometimes they just sort of go through those steps she's trying
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to be different so bad it's like pissing me off like oh it doesn't mean they really love you like
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it doesn't no i'm not saying that they don't i'm just saying from my experience from my friendship
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group that it's that that's what's happening what do you think what do you wait what do you think
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marriage is you don't think it's boring going through the motions
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well i'm not married i i've just seen unfortunately with some friends it's worked out for them and
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some it hasn't they go through the motions they're in a social group where you know you get together
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your friends and then you know you're dating for a while and going through those steps and then you
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get married and yeah okay it's a sign of them being more committed but i don't know they're in love
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okay okay do you think love is a choice or a feeling both um that's tricky uh
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that's not a choice okay okay so wouldn't wouldn't they be choosing to love each other if they're
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married i i it's i don't know yeah they should be and you would agree but unfortunately some in my
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friendship groups it hasn't worked out that way and you and you would agree that they're more
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they feel it under pressure wouldn't wouldn't you agree that they're more committed than the people
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that are not married yes no maybe on paper on paper okay would you agree the men are more committed
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because they're because they spend all this money on a wedding they spend all the money on a ring
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i think on paper on the surface it looks like they're committed behind the doors in general
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they're cheating and doing all kinds of i agree most married i've i most married men i've not
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personally come in contact just through friends and that aren't faithful which is kind of terrifying
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for somebody as me who wants to get married and live that kind of normal traditional 2.5 are most
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women today faithful no it's yeah no again it's it's subjective like men and women who who are
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equal both will do equally as shit stuff as the other person would do i just don't understand why
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being unfaithful is like this you know people used to cheat and they'd work through it and it didn't
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have to be the end of the world so i just don't understand why we're in this society where we tell
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women that you're the absolute victim if you get cheated on because women when most do that when
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most women like they post ass pictures on instagram they have open instagram they're talking they have
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male friends they're talking to other guys all the time it's like you know yeah go ahead what about
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like the women who don't do that stuff like genuine like conservative christian woman who don't
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act like that and their husband like they're fully committed to someone traditionally
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and they're in like a conservative christian marriage which is what i want in my life right
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i don't act like that on the internet anymore and they cheat on me then i i don't have the right to
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get upset especially like under god and stuff well i okay i i think you have a right to get upset
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i didn't say anyone can't get upset but my like no my no i'm not saying who cares i'm saying i don't
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think it's the end of the world and i think it can be worked through and i personally know women
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that maybe their their husband cheated 20 years ago they worked through it they're happier than
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ever and i think all we ever hear in media is like it's the end of the world and we never talk
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about the part the woman played because a lot of women like demasculate men so much and they just
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criticize him so much that he just wants to go somewhere and feel like a man i know i'm talking
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like so people no no and i and i think it's very rare to find a wife who's perfect i think nobody's
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perfect correct and so that's my point it's like let's make sure we're clean and perfect before we
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break up and it's perfect correct and that's my point like we have to remember give someone
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i'm not it doesn't give him the right but i'm saying men are human so and i and i but they're
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not exactly the animal they're not animals right i'm not saying they're animals but i'm saying no
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i think it's silly to tell women to leave every time you get cheated on