JustPearlyThings - Pearl Surprised Them With This Take On Cheating

00:00:00.000 so who who here cares body count for a guy who cares is whether yes or no absolutely yes okay

00:00:09.080 okay so if it's too high will you break up with him raise your hand if you would no i'll just

00:00:14.100 look down on him a lot no at least they've got more experience okay okay okay wait just yes or

00:00:20.320 no if there is a number that's too high he's perfect in every other way are you breaking up

00:00:24.520 with him yes wait wait okay so out of one two three four five six seven eight nine women here i 0.99

00:00:35.340 wouldn't i wouldn't either we have one that cares okay guys if you found out that your girl you're 1.00

00:00:41.320 dating a chick she's perfect in every way and you found out she had an insanely high body count 1.00

00:00:45.860 would you break up with her raise your hand if you would raise your hand if you would

00:00:49.380 perfect if you had an insanely high body count yeah okay okay okay nobody's perfect why would

00:00:56.200 they just randomly find out they would have named okay i don't know my own body count no no we're

00:01:00.400 the only the only the guys guys the only the only point is that it's different for men and for women

00:01:06.300 we i don't make the rules but i can observe what they are this is why marriages don't last though i

00:01:11.940 care i care i know i know i'm not talking about you why i've said i've said like i said i care does

00:01:17.860 that not matter well you're one out of how many and you just said you're in a situationship so

00:01:22.600 you're sharing a guy that's true i'm not sharing that's true so i'm not sharing that's the point

00:01:32.980 i'm not sharing this situation okay then yeah this is 2023 and apparently you can't say

00:01:38.060 single relationship someone made up this if you wanted to be with just you then he would be your

00:01:43.220 boyfriend but i don't know yeah but you don't know most women at some point have that is the point 0.98

00:01:50.540 we don't care about sharing a guy based on what we do we can live in la la land and say things that

00:01:56.960 sound nice or i can look at what we do that's what we pick perla you in a relationship she said yes 0.99

00:02:02.720 she said she said she's indifferent sorry i don't i don't talk about a situation so she's

00:02:08.020 sharing a guy i don't know how situationship defines sharing either this is why people could

00:02:12.780 be in open relationships and share situationship doesn't necessarily mean you could be you could

00:02:18.400 be married and share yeah so the whole point the whole point is women will share women have always

00:02:24.640 shared throughout the test of time like the top 15 of men have always had a bunch of chicks 0.96

00:02:30.640 and it has not been the same vice versa because we've always had to ensure paternity

00:02:35.480 i don't make up these rules i just tell you what they are i've interviewed hundreds of people

00:02:40.900 women don't care how does women don't care men care go ahead how does less bodies ensure like a 0.99

00:02:46.640 woman's gonna be more fertile though i don't get that it doesn't know it's not a whole and they 0.99

00:02:49.960 okay if you if you drink alcohol every day are you more likely to do it again

00:02:54.380 probably okay so so so if you have been sleeping with a bunch of but what's that

00:03:00.040 um if if you have been sleeping with a bunch of different dudes for all of your 20s for a decade

00:03:08.760 don't you think it's going to be a little harder to stop

00:03:11.420 no really it's a generation if you get into a relationship and you're a girl you're not going

00:03:17.840 to cheat and see i think anyone under the age of 20 have got an expectation where you can sleep with

00:03:22.260 as many guys as you want and you're not going to get judged because you're not old enough or

00:03:25.320 experienced enough to know that you will get looked down upon i don't think that at all because you

00:03:28.880 will because you have to not care about what people you don't but there's going to be a man who 0.99

00:03:32.080 wants to date you thinks oh i'm going to fuck her because she slept with well i don't want to be with 1.00

00:03:35.040 that man who cares what i agree with i don't disagree with him i'm saying you are going to get judged 1.00

00:03:38.820 based on the amount of what we do we get judged anyway when you have no body count when i have no

00:03:42.420 body count guys can say oh you're too prude but if you if you sleep around they don't like you

00:03:47.520 i like when women say well i don't want to be with the guy that is going to judge me but the reality is

00:03:51.620 the guy that's not going to judge you you don't want to be with him either i don't care yeah i'm

00:03:55.480 judging him as well and i don't i i do care about body count everybody judges everybody so my point is

00:04:01.480 the guys that you would look at and be like oh this is the kind of guy i would want to be with

00:04:07.200 more than likely is going to have the same mentality that we are speaking about that's

00:04:11.100 why women cheat then because because of this exact reason so if you say in the statistics that women 1.00

00:04:15.800 cheat more than men then that's the problem women women cheat mostly most of the time because they 1.00

00:04:20.600 are with a man that they don't want to be with no it's because they were the fact it's probably

00:04:24.800 because of this reason man that she's scared to lose she would not cheat because men don't give

00:04:29.260 them enough love and attention because they don't bother having a connection with or maybe it's because

00:04:32.820 women or maybe or maybe it's because women are never happy maybe it's because the guy's got a 0.99

00:04:39.440 small cock or it could be but that's that's the whole point that's that's the you're proving my 0.99

00:04:45.180 point because that's like the number one thing you've talked about nothing yeah nothing that 0.98

00:04:50.040 makes a guy a good husband or a good wife a big cock does to be honest no it doesn't it doesn't no 0.96

00:04:55.320 it doesn't but again it's just because your age you don't you're not old enough to realize that 0.92

00:04:58.820 it's more than just having i get bored easy so i don't really i don't think it has to do with age

00:05:03.360 i really don't i think it's how your upbringing is because honestly like i think you're cool and all 0.99

00:05:08.280 but like you're treating this whole thing as a fucking joke cock cock cock cock cock like i'm just 0.99

00:05:12.880 here to promote my only fans subscribe lately i'm not talking about you no but you you're saying this 0.99

00:05:19.300 but like i like you told me you did only fans before downstairs that doesn't change that you did it

00:05:24.260 you still did it so it's still on my lesson but you still did it like it's you still did it's not

00:05:29.280 going to change that you did it like of course not but that's what i mean we grow and we change and

00:05:33.780 we but it doesn't change that you did it but but her whole point like you you guys are just living

00:05:39.580 in delusion okay did did doing only fans hurt your dating prospects it yes definitely messed up my mind

00:05:46.080 from 19 to 23 for sure yeah i was some of us i literally say this like i don't care because i'm a

00:05:52.200 changed person now how old are you i'm 23 and when did you do only fans when i was 19 like just

00:05:57.520 like how we were talking this girl saying it depends on your situation and it does i did it i got kicked

00:06:01.780 out i had nowhere to stay and i said how the fuck am i going to make money in a pandemic right now 0.93

00:06:05.260 i don't have a degree none of that so i became a sex worker and was it the right decision no i don't 0.86

00:06:13.000 think so i definitely could have found another way out for sure but i wanted the easiest quickest

00:06:17.240 option and that was doing only instant gratification yeah exactly and now i look back at it and it's 0.88

00:06:24.840 like wow that was so dumb of me and i was like a really stupid mistake i made but that's not who

00:06:29.500 i am anymore and i've grown from that and you know i have a boyfriend now and that's something i was 0.55

00:06:34.000 honest about with him because that's who i am today but that's the thing it was embarrassing for sure

00:06:38.960 nowadays you have to admit that like thing is because you probably did that during kobe times or just

00:06:42.780 before kobe times i think it's a lot the situation i think a lot of people women during that situation

00:06:48.680 who did kind of go down that rabbit hole who have exposed themselves and done lots of things online

00:06:53.200 which they went to get the into money because they weren't able to get to the job so you now have to

00:06:56.560 live with that kind of shame but i'm not ashamed of it though you're not no you're not ashamed of you're

00:07:00.620 not proud of it at the same breath of course i'm not proud of what i did but that doesn't bother

00:07:05.260 me anymore yeah no i accept that no i respect that i said you did that you did like a change

00:07:09.320 person that's nice thank you well and i think too guys appreciate reality and like you're not it's

00:07:16.900 better yeah be honest yeah like it doesn't make you any less of a woman or less no that's exactly

00:07:21.980 what i'm trying to say is like i'm same as these girls who are young when you asked me earlier like

00:07:26.280 what do you hate only fan girls no i don't i don't hate anyone like i said we have free will as human

00:07:31.320 beings you could do whatever the fuck you want i do not care but do i respect it no we're allowed 0.93

00:07:37.000 to have you know different viewpoints in life that doesn't mean i'm not going to not be your friend 1.00

00:07:41.280 because you choose to pop the pussy on the internet do you look down at them no because it's your life 0.99

00:07:47.660 i don't agree with it that's not something i would do for myself do i think it's the right thing no i 0.99

00:07:53.780 don't but that doesn't mean i hate you doesn't mean i don't want to be your friend am i going to try

00:07:58.480 to correct you for your wrongs of course that's what we're supposed to do if you have an honest

00:08:02.600 open platonic friendship with someone you should and i would hope they would do the same for me if

00:08:06.720 i was doing something wrong that's what i personally my friends are like woo go girl get

00:08:11.360 because women will lead you down destruction and they won't be honest with you those are the girls 1.00

00:08:16.180 you're choosing for your life now even guys say guys say if i was a girl and i was fat i'll do it too

00:08:20.460 but most men wouldn't date you because you do only fans which is it's a sad reality because it's true

00:08:25.080 because again you are not you as an individual just people who do only fans are kind of viewed as

00:08:29.580 less than the normal person who would have an education get a job i actually think that most

00:08:34.400 i actually disagree with that because most my most the girls i know that do only fans have boyfriends

00:08:41.060 i have a question i have a question do they have husbands oh yes no no no no okay okay so you know

00:08:48.220 one but most don't okay okay so why was so why was your first reaction one oh i know one

00:08:57.660 because most she's okay what do you okay i have a question do the majority have husbands

00:09:01.960 how do we know yeah i know okay no no no no no the majority guys will date a girl for a couple years

00:09:08.340 and balance if she's hot do it from like when they're like um you know they've been like from 0.81

00:09:12.340 together since a young age and then they'll both start it it's not like you know they'll do it

00:09:16.600 together that's because they've got a king again i mean again i just need you to answer yes or no

00:09:21.540 does it really matter if they're married does that yes does the majority does the majority have

00:09:26.400 husbands no okay you don't have a husband so why is it correct correct that's not relevant if she 0.73

00:09:31.420 has a husband or not she's making a point about why does marriage always matter and she's probably

00:09:35.000 making more money than any other fans sit on the couch it does marriage matters because it's it's a 0.76

00:09:40.640 stable relationship with two people that respect no because like it doesn't matter if you're married

00:09:44.940 it doesn't make you so you're saying her marriage doesn't matter did i say that you just did

00:09:49.140 i said that if you're married okay okay did i say oh your marriage doesn't matter

00:09:53.180 do you think do you you don't think marriage matters not now no like people get divorced like 0.92

00:10:00.220 20 22 she doesn't know any difference she's 22 sorry apologies i'm 21 actually 21 sorry i'm over

00:10:05.520 age you she's 21 she doesn't know any different she's no i don't it's just because i've seen like

00:10:09.360 so many people get divorced like marriages don't work now like i i honestly i see like they're used

00:10:15.800 i see your i see your point of view a little bit right i i understand that marriage isn't marriage

00:10:20.760 anymore because most people get divorced but we we have to admit that getting a guy to marry you is a

00:10:27.020 far higher level of commitment than a guy dating you it's a flex yeah yeah and we can we can agree that

00:10:33.560 a guy is more committed when he's married right yes so the fact that the majority agree with that

00:10:38.740 okay you don't theoretically should okay you don't think him putting you in a position where you can 0.94

00:10:44.060 take half his shit is more committed yeah but you can't you can't i'm not saying it's good i don't 0.86

00:10:48.900 really see it like that it's just from my experience i'm not married i've had and a lot of my friends 0.99

00:10:53.620 are but they go through the motions where they date going out with something it's steady and it's just

00:11:00.980 like the next step to get engaged to get married right it doesn't necessarily mean that they love

00:11:06.960 you more or committed unfortunately sometimes they just sort of go through those steps she's trying

00:11:11.540 to be different so bad it's like pissing me off like oh it doesn't mean they really love you like

00:11:15.820 it doesn't no i'm not saying that they don't i'm just saying from my experience from my friendship

00:11:20.480 group that it's that that's what's happening what do you think what do you wait what do you think

00:11:25.740 marriage is you don't think it's boring going through the motions

00:11:28.540 well i'm not married i i've just seen unfortunately with some friends it's worked out for them and

00:11:35.020 some it hasn't they go through the motions they're in a social group where you know you get together

00:11:39.560 your friends and then you know you're dating for a while and going through those steps and then you

00:11:44.380 get married and yeah okay it's a sign of them being more committed but i don't know they're in love

00:11:51.360 okay okay do you think love is a choice or a feeling both um that's tricky uh

00:12:02.880 that's not a choice okay okay so wouldn't wouldn't they be choosing to love each other if they're

00:12:10.080 married i i it's i don't know yeah they should be and you would agree but unfortunately some in my

00:12:19.260 friendship groups it hasn't worked out that way and you and you would agree that they're more

00:12:23.420 they feel it under pressure wouldn't wouldn't you agree that they're more committed than the people

00:12:29.100 that are not married yes no maybe on paper on paper okay would you agree the men are more committed

00:12:36.280 because they're because they spend all this money on a wedding they spend all the money on a ring

00:12:42.220 i think on paper on the surface it looks like they're committed behind the doors in general

00:12:48.040 they're cheating and doing all kinds of i agree most married i've i most married men i've not

00:12:55.540 personally come in contact just through friends and that aren't faithful which is kind of terrifying

00:12:59.900 for somebody as me who wants to get married and live that kind of normal traditional 2.5 are most

00:13:04.620 women today faithful no it's yeah no again it's it's subjective like men and women who who are 0.96

00:13:12.440 equal both will do equally as shit stuff as the other person would do i just don't understand why 0.96

00:13:17.780 being unfaithful is like this you know people used to cheat and they'd work through it and it didn't 0.95

00:13:24.920 have to be the end of the world so i just don't understand why we're in this society where we tell

00:13:29.860 women that you're the absolute victim if you get cheated on because women when most do that when 1.00

00:13:34.720 most women like they post ass pictures on instagram they have open instagram they're talking they have 1.00

00:13:40.660 male friends they're talking to other guys all the time it's like you know yeah go ahead what about 1.00

00:13:46.060 like the women who don't do that stuff like genuine like conservative christian woman who don't 0.98

00:13:51.860 act like that and their husband like they're fully committed to someone traditionally

00:13:55.480 and they're in like a conservative christian marriage which is what i want in my life right

00:13:59.620 i don't act like that on the internet anymore and they cheat on me then i i don't have the right to

00:14:05.260 get upset especially like under god and stuff well i okay i i think you have a right to get upset

00:14:10.440 i didn't say anyone can't get upset but my like no my no i'm not saying who cares i'm saying i don't

00:14:15.760 think it's the end of the world and i think it can be worked through and i personally know women 0.90

00:14:20.640 that maybe their their husband cheated 20 years ago they worked through it they're happier than

00:14:25.280 ever and i think all we ever hear in media is like it's the end of the world and we never talk

00:14:30.660 about the part the woman played because a lot of women like demasculate men so much and they just 0.99

00:14:36.220 criticize him so much that he just wants to go somewhere and feel like a man i know i'm talking

00:14:41.160 like so people no no and i and i think it's very rare to find a wife who's perfect i think nobody's

00:14:48.580 perfect correct and so that's my point it's like let's make sure we're clean and perfect before we

00:14:54.760 break up and it's perfect correct and that's my point like we have to remember give someone

00:14:59.440 i'm not it doesn't give him the right but i'm saying men are human so and i and i but they're

00:15:05.160 not exactly the animal they're not animals right i'm not saying they're animals but i'm saying no

00:15:10.020 i think it's silly to tell women to leave every time you get cheated on

00:15:13.940 i agree

00:15:14.720 i agree

JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023

Pearl Surprised Them With This Take On Cheating

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