Pearl TRIGGERS Toxic Feminists
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why women should have a back-up plan when it comes to a relationship and why they should have one in the first place. We also talk about the fact that women these days have more guy friends than they used to, and why this is a problem.
Transcript
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Everyone on this earth needs to put their own happiness first above everything.
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If you are, how can you pour from an empty cup?
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I think that's just nonsense, feminist garbage.
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No, it's not. It's for people. Men, women, it doesn't matter.
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Because you're going to be unhappy in marriage at some point.
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You think our great-grandmothers stayed together for 50 years, 60 years, thinking about themselves?
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You know how I could tell the generational switch?
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We got the Taylor Swift generation, which is I'm a victim, blah, blah, blah.
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Please don't take my man because she was worried that her man was cheating.
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And instead of keying his car, which Carrie Underwood keying his car, she stayed with him.
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And it's like it was just a completely different mindset where she's like, I can't live without this guy.
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Where now it's like women, we just care about ourselves and our happiness.
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And if the outcomes were good, then why aren't families together?
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And, you know, I feel like social media has a lot to do with that, too, because there's always like somebody on the back burner or someone we've been eyeing or somebody else who we know we could get somebody.
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Someone that's been liking your pictures for the last two years and they're just waiting for their change.
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Yeah, it's so easy to just get on a dating app and find a replacement.
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That's the guy friend that none of you want to be with, but he's a nice guy.
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And he's the guy waiting on the outside, the guy that's liking all your pictures.
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The nice guy always fucking minutes she's last in this generation.
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Who here has been in a relationship and had a backup plan?
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So I've never gotten into a relationship thinking that it was going to end.
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So I've never had a backup plan, but when I found out that they did something, I could have either chose to leave it or chose to get back.
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And that's the only kind of backup plan that I've had.
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It got snuck into me because my best friend had just committed suicide.
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My best friend had just committed suicide, so I felt very vulnerable, and that's how my best guy friend got to sneak in there.
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If I knew him four years and we didn't do anything, and then, like, when my friend passed away and he was being there for me, then he kind of...
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He was always thinking about that in the back of his mind, though.
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I think that if you're going to be a guy friend, you put him on.
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They're probably waiting for the chance, but we never went on a date.
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Because you told them they're their guy friends.
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And so as a guy, if I'm dating a gal, I've got five guy friends, I'm like, I'd put the
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So women, pretty women always have a backup plan.
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If I looked at your IGs and your inbox, your DMs, you got backup plans.
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Because I've been checking my ex-boyfriend's fucking phone, and it'd be all kind of DMs.
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That's because my ex-boyfriend is in their DMs, too.
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I made fun of cats, so I get pussy pics all the time.
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So I get people sending me cat jokes because I made a joke about single women, angel numbers,
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I think they're so unattractive women sending dick pics.
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I don't like when they send me a shirtless pic.
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Can I just say this for anybody who's listening?
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Like, girls only like dick pics when we ask for that dick.
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If you ever send an unsolicited dick, there's no woman.
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Yeah, the thing about it, if you send a random dick pic to us, it's very perverted.
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Men are always looking at women as a sexual object.
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Now, if they're simping and they're like, oh, she's going to be my sugar mama.
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Whatever's in the desire of the guy, sexually, what he likes, and he's going to look at her.
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There's objective truth to that, what beauty is, but not subjective, but objective.
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So guys are like, okay, we think with our testosterone, we were put here to breed, procreate.
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Women look at a guy and they go for the resources, not money.
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When I say resources, you're going to have children.
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You want the best outcome and probability for your family to have longevity.
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So you're not going to date no scrub, scrub, right?
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Or you're not going to have a relationship with someone or continue a relationship, especially
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when you're looking to have those things with a person.
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You always date at your level and above, right?
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Dr. David Buss has a book called The Evolution of Desire.
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Five years of interviewing 10,000 people all over the world, different religions, ethnic
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And the number one response that women look for in a man was resources.
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Because what happens, what happens biologically, you're looking for somebody better than you
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You want a guy that's successful doing what he's doing.
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Remember when she dated her, well, J-Lo's got a bad record as it is, but she dated her dancer.
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And if I dated, if I worked at, no pun intended, because I can't say UPS, those guys make $170.
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We're like, we're like, we're going to be, if all the women are going to be like outside
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with the tray of cookies, when the UPS comes, hey, hey, hey, hey, when you drive, this is
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guys, this is guys' mentality, to a point, when I was young, you're driving up to the, in
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Seattle, the latte stands, we call them bikini baristas, and all the stands in Seattle have
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I would drive up, and I'd see a dude, and I would just keep going.
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So, you know, and I said, oh, I want to go to Dutch Brothers and have a swirl latte,
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double frappuccino latte with a twist, pumpkin spice.
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First of all, I've been working at Starbucks for seven years.
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As women, we don't realize, as a group, how much we suck.
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I think that women suck as a group nowadays compared from a historical point of view.
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Because nowadays, 100 years ago, a guy would have got a virgin.
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She would have had the mentality of she has to serve him.
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Nowadays, it's like 90% of us are on birth control.
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So as a group, unfortunately, we're just not doing that well from a historical point of view.
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We all would have been thrown out 100 years ago.
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We even had to learn instruments to play for when our husbands, like friends, came over.
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And your husband could actually take you to jail for nagging.
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If you were nagging too much, you could be prosecuted.
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But on the other hand, you could prosecute your husband for not paying bills.
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Yeah, so back then, you would have been like 21.
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But nowadays, we have all this, like, programming that basically tells us to do it on your own.
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So you know how much has changed for as far as what women used to offer men as a wife?
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But it's changed the same way for us as far as what men have to offer as a husband.
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Because you don't know what they're looking for.