JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023


Pearl UNLEASHES This Fact On Feminist


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

214.89345

Word Count

1,869

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

23

Hate Speech Sentences

14


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 behavior because of it but because if someone's you're someone incentivized incentivized to leave
00:00:07.200 you will yeah i i would say that that could happen for in marriages with husbands as well
00:00:13.840 because to be divorced isn't such a bad thing on either on either side are you kidding there's
00:00:19.040 divorce parties women i'm talking about for men there isn't the consequences when we're talking
00:00:25.680 about shame okay to actually like be divorced okay on both sides the consequences are oh i'm
00:00:31.200 divorced and then carry on there isn't a social stigma i'm not talking about money this i'm
00:00:36.880 talking about your social sorry i thought you were talking about consequences no there isn't
00:00:41.840 the social stigma that's being divorced for either side so both parties can go on to be in other
00:00:49.600 relationships you're taking but i'm talking about no what i'm saying is to stay together is optimum
00:00:55.600 but if you don't have the social stigmas that's why there are more divorces why there wasn't before
00:01:02.080 was because socially you would become a pariah if you're a woman you wouldn't be able to get married
00:01:06.880 again we don't have all of that happening now that's why it's on the rise it's not necessarily
00:01:11.920 that it's just on women it's also for men are you performing the way that you should be so that the
00:01:17.760 marriage actually carries on if both people in the marriage are not at an equilibrium that this is
00:01:23.360 working why should a woman just stay in there with the single parent the when you look at the
00:01:30.080 single parent to jail pipeline is very real so now you're not having these people stay together when
00:01:35.280 you look at 75 of the people that end up in jail they come from single parent households so the facts
00:01:40.560 are there to see that is very significant so should both people not be penalized for working on their
00:01:45.920 relationships or should it just be women but the money it's just men because we gotta pay no it
00:01:50.480 should be the person that should be penalized is the one who chooses to leave which is mostly women
00:01:56.480 yeah i think both people if it wasn't working uh-huh should literally be like we have to make you love
00:02:02.880 to ignore the facts you know that i just literally ignored the facts yeah i know what you're saying yeah
00:02:08.320 but the fact of the matter is yeah the reason why more women are leaving now is because women have
00:02:12.720 more money now than they've ever had that's the only reason why they're leaving so if they knew
00:02:17.520 they wasn't getting that money from him on the divorce and they weren't getting the child support
00:02:21.120 they weren't leaving i'm telling you're staying your solution is that women should earn less money
00:02:26.000 no that's not my solution okay okay no no no what i'm saying that's the reason why he's saying
00:02:30.240 he's saying that there is an incentive for women to leave because they get money women women have
00:02:35.680 they own two-thirds of debt women women aren't in great financial places but they get to be when they get
00:02:42.000 making out that they are no no i'm saying they get to be in great financial places when they're
00:02:46.640 getting a check from a dude for the rest for 18 years like what the relationship in a better state
00:02:52.560 the richest the the richest women the richest women in the world got their money through divorce
00:02:56.960 but they're the richest women in the world because of an average woman they weren't the richest
00:03:02.560 beforehand they became because they were aligned with the richest man and then they even on average
00:03:08.880 so i'm saying the average woman when they leave better than they came in yeah so yeah before before
00:03:13.360 you're married to me you didn't have my assets and then when you're leaving you have half my assets
00:03:16.960 now yeah so you're in a better position so it's like so the woman gets a prize basically for leaving
00:03:22.080 she gets free money every month and you also have to bear in mind if you look at the the changes
00:03:26.720 between the sexes men have mostly stayed the same yeah it's women that have changed your mind your
00:03:31.680 mentality has changed obviously your financial well-being has changed a lot of the things that make you a
00:03:36.240 a woman has changed so you're the ones that are driving this this disparity between men i i i
00:03:42.400 absolutely agree with that but what i would say is because the times are moving men need to actually
00:03:47.680 adjust to this and go we are adjusting but they are adjusting they're not marrying you now
00:03:53.600 it's not people are still getting married all the time
00:03:55.760 50 50 50 50 of women over 30 are single and childless you see that we're adjusting women women
00:04:05.280 are getting married at later and later ages than ever so in the in the us the average age of first
00:04:09.600 marriage for a woman is um either 27 or 28 in the uk it's 31 yeah so men are marrying women
00:04:16.080 are also so we have all of these stats for women right men are also very disgruntled
00:04:22.560 very feeling very alone but angry not alone saying that they don't want to get married
00:04:28.720 it's easier we may bust in the open more than ever no but i say this but they're not also
00:04:34.560 what did you say but i said you said that a lot of men are disgruntled but really yo this is probably
00:04:38.560 the easiest time it's ever been as a man to get sick first of all for a small percentage of men i
00:04:43.600 know what you mean but i mean in general no one out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in a
00:04:48.000 year i understand that but i'm saying they've got a better chance now than they've ever had
00:04:54.080 you're not correct you're not you're that's no but what i'm saying is the stigma yeah for sleeping
00:04:58.800 around yeah with women yeah is not there now like it was before that's what i'm saying i'm not saying
00:05:03.840 that man are still i'm not saying man are getting what i'm saying yeah that it will be easier now yeah
00:05:09.040 you got more of a chance now than you did before when you needed a virgin wife you ain't finding no
00:05:13.280 virgin wife no most no but i'm saying that's not correct like one out of three men under 30
00:05:17.920 your virgins are having had sex i'm talking about women i said virgin wife less men are less men are
00:05:22.800 having sex than ever it's not easier to bust open the cheeks for most of that it's for for the 20 of
00:05:29.120 men yeah it's easier than ever they have their pick okay what like for example if you're if you're
00:05:34.480 over six foot as a guy you're in the top 15 of men height wise okay i think where we're getting
00:05:40.480 confused here is what i'm saying is obviously before as a man it was easier in the sense yeah
00:05:45.440 that like more women were settling down with average men so your average guy was getting more
00:05:50.240 play that's what i'm saying but i'm talking about in terms of the stigma in terms of sex
00:05:55.280 women sleeping around yeah there's not the stigma there no more before they're like oh i need a
00:05:59.200 nice virgin wife and that now man are wife in hoes well right you know i mean they weren't doing
00:06:04.400 that before they had to make sure that your thing was intact before man was thinking about marrying you
00:06:08.320 and now do you know what i'm saying man running around wife and boris bikes well that's that's
00:06:12.400 where it goes back to there's no consequence you take away we give birth control women can sleep
00:06:16.480 with whoever there's no consequence that's it and then on top of that even if they get pregnant
00:06:20.000 there's no consequence they can have an abortion and they don't know who their dad is man them are
00:06:23.280 raising kids and that even even if even if they get married and they they leave there's no consequence
00:06:29.040 they get alimony or or child even if they have a kid with the wrong guy what do they get child support
00:06:34.320 even if there's homeless there's women's shelters the point is that women face no consequences
00:06:39.280 there's always a cushion for men they're on the streets or they commit suicide but there is a
00:06:44.320 consequence because you are there bringing up a child there is a consequence for leaving your time
00:06:50.160 is spent now rearing another human being it's not like you were running like you just left and then
00:06:55.200 you were getting money no you're a mother but you would have had to do something yes yeah but it's
00:07:00.000 easier obviously it's easier when you're in i don't want to leave you you force me to leave yeah
00:07:04.960 or you you leave and you force me to be worthless divorced and i have to pay you on top of that and
00:07:09.760 then i can't see my child when i want to see my child as well do you know what i'm saying that
00:07:14.560 isn't always the case it's mostly the case 80 of the time i heard you say it was easier i heard
00:07:20.080 you say it was easier to to do it with a co-parent as such right in a pair she can just find another
00:07:25.840 partner because it's that easy as a single parent to find another maybe not one that maybe not one
00:07:33.280 that you want but to find another man yes so again you guys are saying that women should settle
00:07:40.320 they should settle for what they don't want they should be earning less money so that they are more
00:07:45.840 dependent on men we didn't say that no no we say you shouldn't be rewarded for that if yeah i said i
00:07:50.720 say because my whole point is that if you have bad behavior as a woman there should be consequences
00:07:56.320 and as a society we take them away from women okay so if i'm the soul child if i'm the if i'm
00:08:01.760 the primary carer for the child or the children in our relationship and we are not working we have a
00:08:07.680 toxic environment we're arguing all the time we can't settle our differences and i've decided i can't
00:08:12.880 do this i don't think it's okay and i'm gonna go for a divorce and we get divorced and we separate
00:08:17.120 and you're selfish and so yeah i'm taking the children away because i don't want them to be
00:08:22.720 in a toxic relationship that environment and the dad shouldn't pay towards them in any way no you
00:08:29.440 chose to leave it's selfish you broke up your home because you're not happy and because you feel you
00:08:33.680 instead of figuring out how to work it out you're gonna leave break the home put your kid at every
00:08:38.240 put your kid at every statistical disadvantage because you can't figure out how to work it out