JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023


Pearl Vs The Daily Wire Still Continues!


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In this episode of the podcast, I talk about a video I saw of Andrew Klavan from the Daily Wire talking about marriage and why you should not get married if you are a Christian and a virgin. I also talk about why women have more leverage in relationships than men.

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00:00:00.000 The first clip was something that I saw, I think it's on YouTube shorts or TikTok or something.
00:00:06.340 And it was a video of Andrew Klavan from the Daily Wire talking about marriage. And as I've said,
00:00:13.080 the men from the Daily Wire are very out of touch on this issue. They have no idea what is going on
00:00:20.300 in the dating market today. And while I am happy for them that they don't have to deal with this
00:00:25.880 craziness, it's funny because they'll call me out of touch and say, I don't know what I'm talking
00:00:31.480 about. Yet none of them have participated in the dating market in decades, literally decades.
00:00:38.240 Me, on the other hand, I've interviewed thousands of people that have given me their opinions on
00:00:43.180 dating and relationships. I think a lot of times while they mean well, they go into marriage very
00:00:49.660 naive. So I want to pull this clip that I saw of Andrew. Let's pull it up.
00:00:53.880 What would you consider a prenup? Prenups are regularly thrown out all the time. They're
00:00:59.360 typically non-enforceable, especially the longer the marriage goes on, the less likely they are to
00:01:04.800 be enforced. Men get absolutely destroyed in marriage and in divorce. 50% of marriages end in
00:01:12.380 divorce. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. 90% of she's college educated. 90% of child support
00:01:18.300 payments go from men to women. 97% of alimony payments go from men to women. You know, you have
00:01:23.280 no fault of divorce. So a woman can cheat on you. She can still get half your sh**. 1.00
00:01:29.180 First of all, it's 40% of first marriages. So 50%, the 50% thing you'd have to add people who get
00:01:35.640 serially divorced and you shouldn't marry one of those. So that's not a good argument for not
00:01:40.340 getting married. It's a good argument for not marrying somebody you're going to have to divorce.
00:01:44.600 The way to do that, make sure she's a conservative, goes to church and is a virgin, 0.86
00:01:48.160 then you're not going to get divorced. You'll be fine. Okay. So, all right, a couple of things.
00:01:52.800 I like how he's fighting for this 10%. He's like, guys, guys, guys, you guys are doomers. It's not
00:01:58.960 50%. It's 40% of first marriages. And I want to talk about a couple of things that he really,
00:02:06.600 I would argue, has not considered. So one thing that he has not considered is that the stats today
00:02:11.040 include the people that are over the age of 30, 40, 50, and 60. And I don't really think he takes
00:02:18.200 into account how much social media has influenced the culture and women in particular. So I've said
00:02:24.420 this before and I'll say it again. I believe that attention to women is the same thing as sex to men. 0.62
00:02:30.000 You know, and how I came to this conclusion is if you ask women, if you could be beautiful the rest of
00:02:36.080 your life, you could look 22 the rest of your life, but you would never sleep with anyone again,
00:02:41.500 most women would pick the beauty over getting to sleep with someone. I don't know, say Jason Momoa
00:02:48.120 or whoever it is, right? Where men, on the other hand, wouldn't pick the looks. They typically would
00:02:53.660 pick sleeping with the hot chicks, which it shows us something that we intrinsically desire. Women desire 1.00
00:02:59.620 to be desired, where men desire to, you know, have a lot of, a lot of hot chicks. You know what I mean? 0.96
00:03:06.840 We, we value different things. There's a reason that men brag about the women they've slept with 0.99
00:03:11.320 and women don't. There's a reason that women will brag about the men that have DM'd them or given 1.00
00:03:16.080 them attention at one point or another where, so they're completely different things. Now you have
00:03:21.620 to take into account even the young Christian virgin chick likely has had access to social media from 0.96
00:03:27.580 a young age. So he hasn't really taken into account how one, the women from 12 years old have had
00:03:37.780 excess social media and sometimes even younger in this new generation. Like, I think I was talking
00:03:43.200 to Christine. She said for her, like they got smartphones around nine, nine years old. That is
00:03:48.900 so young. That completely changes your brain. So I would argue that it's actually going to be much more
00:03:56.060 grim. And it also doesn't take into account the people that didn't get legally married and just
00:04:01.560 did the long-term live-in relationship thing and then ended up getting divorced or breaking up,
00:04:06.160 whatever. The other thing that I don't think he really takes into account is female nature.
00:04:12.920 I'm sorry, but women always have leverage in relationships in 2023. And there is no evidence 1.00
00:04:18.540 that suggests that women do the right thing when they get leverage. We're more prone to violence when 1.00
00:04:23.560 we get leverage. We've passed a bunch of discriminatory policies. And he just says, go find
00:04:29.420 a virgin chick. And I actually don't even necessarily disagree with them. I mean, that is the best odds
00:04:35.340 for success. But I'm sorry, Andrew. I have, I get messages every day from guys that married the virgin
00:04:43.520 chick that did the exact same thing. And the issue is you cannot control the culture. Women, we tend to go 1.00
00:04:51.580 with what's trendy. There's a reason we get the latest fashion trends. Like one year, you'll see
00:04:57.200 like these puffy sleeves. One year, you'll see women will have literal holes in their sleeves, 1.00
00:05:02.260 big holes in jeans. And you think, why do women do that? Well, we always do what's cool. We always do 1.00
00:05:07.160 what's trendy. It's why we have the duck lips now, the Botox forehead, all this nonsense. Even the
00:05:13.380 virgins of today are not the virgins of yesterday. Because the problem is when you, when there is a
00:05:18.820 unicorn, the line that piles up for that unicorn changes the woman. Most women do not do the right 1.00
00:05:27.740 thing. And they go crazy when they get excess attention. You can see examples of this where
00:05:33.500 wholesome women like when Miley Cyrus, she was kind of a wholesome chick from the Midwest. 0.99
00:05:39.440 And then she goes crazy. Britney Spears, another one. All of these chicks that get excessive attention 1.00
00:05:45.260 from a young age go crazy. They go insane. Women are not meant to do that. And so the issue is, 0.99
00:05:51.900 Andrew says basically, find a unicorn. Well, Andrew, only 4% of women wait till they're married. 1.00
00:05:58.440 That's not enough to go around. That would still leave a large portion of men
00:06:04.000 without a wife to pick from. And what I'm saying is actually biblical because it says in the Bible
00:06:10.020 that men are better to live alone than with a quarrelsome wife. Well, what if all of the women 1.00
00:06:15.420 on the market are quarrelsome? And the other thing is most women have never been taught what it means 0.76
00:06:21.740 to be a wife. Most women have never been taught about submission. Most women have never been taught 0.91
00:06:28.160 these things. So Andrew's basically saying, just find a unicorn and find a girl that prays. And
00:06:35.800 therefore, you will have great odds. He then says 40% chance. And even the other thing is,
00:06:45.160 I want to say, I can't remember it off the top of my head, but it was roughly like
00:06:49.320 40% of people that get divorced are religious. And then this is like the comeback you'll always see.
00:06:58.600 They're not real religious. They're not the real Catholics or the real Christians. And then it gets 0.83
00:07:04.420 into a funny place where we're kind of playing God. Who are you to decide who is the real Christians 1.00
00:07:11.480 and real Catholics? I mean, are you without sin? I'm not without sin. How do you know? The only thing 1.00
00:07:19.040 you can really do is ask people. And obviously, maybe you say, let's say 10% or 20% aren't real.
00:07:26.040 Even if it's a 20% chance of divorce. You know, that's a 20% chance of living hell for a guy. I mean,
00:07:34.900 I think it's pretty much hell to a guy to have to watch another man raise his kids. And that is the
00:07:43.980 situation a lot of men are in where a stranger is going to have more of an influence and an impact
00:07:49.320 on his children than he will. Okay. So the comment section had a lot to say. The old dude said it
00:07:55.900 so casually, like we are still in his era. Blood4939 says conservative that goes to church and is a
00:08:03.960 virgin. Like that is so easy in this era. Yes. And Andrew, I have interviewed thousands of people,
00:08:11.440 thousands. Like literally I've been interviewing people on the streets in person for years.
00:08:15.320 Do you know how many virgin chicks I've met that I actually believe because, you know,
00:08:21.500 you also get the ones that say they are, but are super argumentative and disagreeable. So,
00:08:28.280 you know, a virgin isn't even a spiteful virgin isn't even ideal. If 4% of women are virgins on 1.00
00:08:35.980 their wedding days, that still counts for the argumentative virgins, the fat virgins. 1.00
00:08:42.040 This isn't what men want. Okay. But anyways, out of thousands of interviews, do you know how many
00:08:47.560 I've found? One, one. And you can't even tell me that we're picking for special chicks. No, Andrew,
00:08:56.540 no, Andrew, this is the culture. This is the new world. More, there are more OnlyFans models than 0.95
00:09:03.280 teachers now.