JustPearlyThings - Playboy Confronts Pearl With This Question

00:00:00.000 Okay, Mr. Tinder.

00:00:02.300 Can I ask you a question?

00:00:05.280 Depends on what it is.

00:00:07.860 I want to know what you define cheating as first.

00:00:11.560 Like, what is cheating to you?

00:00:13.940 Because everyone sees cheating as a different thing,

00:00:16.180 so I want to know.

00:00:16.960 You're kind of ahead of me.

00:00:17.980 That was going to be my next question.

00:00:19.720 But let's, for now, make it physical.

00:00:21.980 Physical cheating.

00:00:23.660 Kissing.

00:00:24.900 Kissing or further?

00:00:26.400 Yeah, is it deceiving someone behind their back,

00:00:29.040 or is it doing it?

00:00:30.560 When they know about it.

00:00:31.760 Oh, so she knew.

00:00:33.420 She was like, I can't lock Mr. Tinder down.

00:00:37.040 In that case, no.

00:00:40.300 Okay, so you've had, like, an open relationship type thing.

00:00:44.140 No, not at all.

00:00:45.920 No, I've had girlfriends, and I've been single.

00:00:51.200 Wow.

00:00:52.320 I need to understand.

00:00:54.460 Okay, okay.

00:00:54.980 So you've had a girlfriend.

00:00:56.540 I've had a few.

00:00:57.480 Yeah, yeah, I've had a few.

00:00:58.620 And so.

00:01:00.040 To be honest with you, like, everyone sees cheating as a different thing.

00:01:03.560 So I'm trying to find out what cheating is to you.

00:01:05.780 Yeah, so I need to say.

00:01:06.920 Yeah, so I'm something physical.

00:01:08.940 Physical.

00:01:09.360 While you're with someone.

00:01:09.960 Yeah, but if they know about it, then it's not cheating, is it?

00:01:11.860 Yeah, I would agree with you.

00:01:12.760 It's not cheating if they know about it.

00:01:14.360 But so my question is, like, so you did, like, a one-sided open relationship, where it was, like, open on yours?

00:01:20.880 Yeah, I could say that.

00:01:22.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:01:22.840 At first, yeah.

00:01:23.900 And I was a bit of a playboy, to be fair.

00:01:25.960 Okay.

00:01:27.100 Yeah, I was quite bad.

00:01:28.980 Used to party and stuff.

00:01:30.420 Drink a lot.

00:01:31.320 Used to?

00:01:32.360 Yeah.

00:01:32.980 I'm good now.

00:01:33.700 I'm really good now.

00:01:34.600 I'm a settled man and stuff like that.

00:01:36.460 Yeah.

00:01:37.460 But yeah, I would say, yeah.

00:01:38.800 Do you know what?

00:01:39.500 Most of my girlfriends cheated on me. 1.00

00:01:41.140 So I found that as a good excuse to cheat on them back.

00:01:43.940 Oh, okay.

00:01:45.160 Yeah.

00:01:45.420 I was quite good.

00:01:46.100 Like, if I said I'm in a relationship with someone, I'd be like, right, I'm in a relationship.

00:01:50.080 But then they'll cheat on me. 0.99

00:01:51.440 And I'm like, right, I'm going back to Stefan now.

00:01:54.980 And I told them about it as well.

00:01:56.920 But yeah.

00:01:57.960 Okay.

00:01:58.300 And there'd be, like, girls to meet.

00:01:59.940 Like, my girlfriends were so sly about it as well, but I'm quite clever.

00:02:03.320 What do you mean?

00:02:04.880 I'm intelligent.

00:02:06.120 Like, when it comes to, like, dating, I'm, like, super intelligent.

00:02:09.360 Hence, where I got where I got, right?

00:02:11.560 Okay.

00:02:12.060 I'm like the modern-day hitch.

00:02:14.560 So I'm like a detective in love.

00:02:16.500 Do you know what I mean?

00:02:17.400 So, yeah.

00:02:18.000 I found them, like, hard.

00:02:20.480 And they still deny it.

00:02:21.920 It's so funny.

00:02:22.720 How would you catch them cheating?

00:02:24.760 There's various things.

00:02:25.880 So, like, it's like, so they would ask me questions.

00:02:28.380 The biggest one is I'll go out.

00:02:30.100 Obviously, I'm a model.

00:02:31.540 So I'll go out.

00:02:33.020 I'm on TV as well.

00:02:34.420 So I'm going to take pictures with people in a club.

00:02:36.480 Why are you taking photos with them, right?

00:02:38.300 Well, obviously, if I go out, someone's going to take a photo of me.

00:02:40.900 So I know if they're asking me that question, I'm like, I'll wait for them to go out.

00:02:44.920 And then I'll go and tag photos and stuff and see them in photos.

00:02:48.020 I'm like, why are you taking photos and why are you even asking me?

00:02:51.700 So that would be the first thing.

00:02:52.700 If someone asks you a direct question, you have a direct answer.

00:02:55.140 But normally, they don't.

00:02:57.080 So then I sort of like, if you're asking me a question, then what's the reason that you're answering it?

00:03:01.060 Oh, so you're saying they were projecting?

00:03:02.800 Mostly.

00:03:03.120 Because they were cheating.

00:03:04.060 It's like, where have you been?

00:03:05.120 And they clearly know where you've been.

00:03:07.080 So it's like, when someone asks the whereabouts or why you're doing something, it's normally because they're asking for themselves.

00:03:13.200 Oh.

00:03:14.000 Yeah.

00:03:14.560 Can I have an example?

00:03:15.520 I'm sorry.

00:03:16.100 Can I have an example?

00:03:17.500 So they would be cheating with the guys they took pictures with? 0.59

00:03:20.340 So for example, they'd be like, why are you taking photos with someone?

00:03:26.580 That's normal.

00:03:27.840 So to me, that's normal.

00:03:28.980 Right.

00:03:29.280 But then they would do it.

00:03:31.140 So I'm like, if you find, if that's a problem to you.

00:03:33.640 Then they're doing something.

00:03:34.860 And you're doing it, then you must be cheating on me.

00:03:37.200 And then I'd go in.

00:03:38.220 Do you know what I mean?

00:03:38.600 Is that like, who are you texting?

00:03:40.940 That kind of question.

00:03:41.960 Yeah.

00:03:42.360 Yeah.

00:03:42.580 Like, who are you texting?

00:03:43.480 Or like, where's your phone?

00:03:44.980 Or do you know what I mean?

00:03:45.640 Like, then you're doing, you're hiding something.

00:03:48.340 So that's normally how I found out.

00:03:50.100 Oh.

00:03:50.960 Yeah.

00:03:51.400 Because I'm quite open in me.

00:03:52.500 If I'm texting a girl, mate, I'll just say it.

00:03:54.860 Or if I'm taking a phone.

00:03:56.180 Even if I've gone back to an after party and there's five, six girls in with my mates, I'll say it.

00:04:01.620 And then they go out.

00:04:02.420 And the fact they've asked me, and I've told them, I'm like, why are you doing it then?

00:04:07.580 So then you dig deeper.

00:04:09.000 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:09.480 I end up getting hurt.

00:04:10.540 But there you go.

00:04:11.280 That's me.

00:04:11.840 So how did you find out?

00:04:13.080 Did you message the guys that she was taking pictures with?

00:04:15.840 No, no.

00:04:16.100 I'd never messaged.

00:04:17.420 Looked through her phone?

00:04:18.300 Like, how'd you get hurt?

00:04:19.040 Do you know what's funny?

00:04:19.780 Like, because I've been in the limelight quite a while, they start messaging me.

00:04:25.060 They start liking photos.

00:04:26.600 Like, you see them connect.

00:04:28.140 Because I do social media as well.

00:04:29.760 Like, you just see the network happening.

00:04:31.840 So, and also, if they've been out, if an ex-girlfriend's been out on a night out or whatever,

00:04:36.940 like, you can see who they've been with because they start following them and stuff.

00:04:40.020 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:40.840 And like, oh, they're in Bournemouth.

00:04:42.740 Oh, they're in Mayfair.

00:04:44.280 And it all lines up.

00:04:45.300 And you're like, oh, okay.

00:04:46.060 And then you sort of watch it for a while.

00:04:47.180 And they're like, oh, you're cheating on me.

00:04:49.000 So, yeah, that normally happens to me.

00:04:50.000 Have you ever been wrong?

00:04:51.080 Sorry.

00:04:51.620 Have you ever been wrong?

00:04:53.760 Assuming they have.

00:04:54.560 Do you know what?

00:04:54.880 Like, I haven't, I've always, I've always known my whereabouts.

00:04:58.640 I've known they've been, like, if someone's been with someone, they've not said they've

00:05:01.680 been with them.

00:05:02.160 To me, that's cheating.

00:05:03.160 Whether it's physical or not.

00:05:04.700 Like, if you ask someone a question, they'd be like, oh, who was you with?

00:05:07.200 Was you with, like, so, was you with four guys?

00:05:09.920 Did you go back to that house?

00:05:11.280 The fact they didn't say that to you is cheating to me.

00:05:13.440 What's your definition of cheating?

00:05:15.720 Oh, deceiving someone behind their back.

00:05:17.960 So, does it have to be physical?

00:05:20.000 Not at all.

00:05:20.860 Not at all.

00:05:21.620 Just, just, just, yeah, just, like, yeah, go on.

00:05:25.900 By that logic, if a girl lies about her body count, is it cheating? 0.55

00:05:29.200 Because she's deceiving you?

00:05:33.420 Yeah, yeah, pretty much.

00:05:35.920 I'm like, well, just be open, because I go in at the beginning.

00:05:38.480 I'm like, yeah, I'll just go, and they go, yeah, 20.

00:05:41.160 And then you find out, oh, this, you found out 20 in the space of a month.

00:05:45.540 So, you're like, where's that 20 come from, then?

00:05:48.860 Is it 40?

00:05:50.120 And where's the other 20 on top?

00:05:51.920 So, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:05:52.760 I wouldn't even want to know that body count.

00:05:54.600 No, I wouldn't.

00:05:55.380 I wouldn't know.

00:05:56.060 Because they ask you.

00:05:57.840 If they ask me, and I'm honest about it, it just makes me want to be dishonest going forward.

00:06:01.880 But my thing with body count is, how can you ever really know who's telling the truth?

00:06:06.040 Like, you can't.

00:06:07.500 Yeah, but if you say, like, 10, and you're 30 years old, like, you know something.

00:06:12.140 If I haven't started sleeping with people until I'm, like, 27, 28, then, of course, that number can be.

00:06:16.820 But what if you're with someone, and you find out they've been with 12 people after?

00:06:20.180 That's what I'm saying.

00:06:20.960 How do you, you can't always find out.

00:06:22.940 You can tell, just based on.

00:06:24.600 How can you tell?

00:06:24.800 Because the women that have slept with more people are more bitter, because their life are, yeah. 1.00

00:06:28.840 I feel like that's quite a general thing to say.

00:06:30.960 But it depends.

00:06:31.820 I disagree on that.

00:06:33.140 I'm not saying it's 100%.

00:06:35.300 Yeah, that's my point.

00:06:36.280 Women slip up, it always comes out. 1.00

00:06:37.800 Yeah, look, the thing is, like, 2 off, 4, 5, 10, whatever.

00:06:40.840 But when you're, like, 50 off, or 100, then there's a problem.

00:06:43.640 But that's my point.

00:06:44.480 Do you know what I mean?

00:06:44.740 I don't think we can ever tell.

00:06:47.180 What, 50 or 100 off?

00:06:47.960 No, no, no, no.

00:06:48.780 I'm saying everybody's body count.

00:06:50.600 So if I was to say right now that my body count's 10.

00:06:53.000 What is your body count?

00:06:53.860 There's no physical way.

00:06:54.600 What is your one?

00:06:56.260 You're going to say no way.

00:06:58.040 But you haven't answered my question.

00:06:59.580 You wouldn't be able to know if I'm lying or not.

00:07:02.140 If I've gone higher or if I've gone lower.

00:07:03.640 That's the, like, there's no concrete.

00:07:05.320 Yeah, but I just think the truth comes out.

00:07:07.500 It comes out in the end.

00:07:08.920 It does.

00:07:10.820 I'll give you an example.

00:07:12.180 Because, like, I've had hundreds of women come on the show. 1.00

00:07:14.480 It's, like, one girl will say something on the podcast,

00:07:16.740 but eventually I hear about someone she slept with. 1.00

00:07:19.420 But again.

00:07:19.720 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:19.880 So it's, like, people have reputations.

00:07:25.220 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:07:25.600 Like, shit comes out about people. 0.99

00:07:27.500 I don't think it's that connected. 1.00

00:07:29.980 Oh, yeah.

00:07:30.360 I don't think, you know.

00:07:32.520 You know what?

00:07:33.140 You know what?

00:07:33.580 It's not the number.

00:07:34.160 You would be surprised.

00:07:36.020 I'll get different show guests.

00:07:37.580 Come on.

00:07:37.920 And then, like, some guy will be, like,

00:07:39.380 oh, I slept with that one, that one, that. 1.00

00:07:40.780 Like, it's like.

00:07:41.460 What?

00:07:43.400 But he could be lying.

00:07:45.040 Exactly.

00:07:45.680 That's my pledge.

00:07:46.700 You can never ever completely tell.

00:07:50.000 You won't completely tell.

00:07:51.220 But then when it's, like, three guys have the same story,

00:07:53.340 you're like, okay, God.

00:07:54.040 That's bias.

00:07:56.320 That's bias.

00:07:56.840 Oh, my God.

00:07:57.800 Oh, my God.

00:07:58.820 No, no, no.

00:07:59.460 But you can tell guys cap, too.

00:08:01.460 Guys cap about money.

00:08:03.520 That's the biggest thing.

00:08:04.300 Guys will be like, oh, I have this company.

00:08:05.920 And we'll look it up.

00:08:06.400 It's dissolved.

00:08:08.600 It's interesting to say that because statistically,

00:08:13.480 men are, men are, men lie more about their body count,

00:08:19.020 their women.

00:08:19.320 Like, they will not, not just lie, not just lie,

00:08:22.380 sorry, just this point, not just lie,

00:08:24.240 but they, they are the ones that notch it up.

00:08:27.080 So, men, yeah, exaggerate.

00:08:28.700 Women. 0.81

00:08:29.280 Men exaggerate. 0.98

00:08:30.360 Yeah, men.

00:08:30.920 It's statistically.

00:08:31.640 I never exaggerate.

00:08:32.320 It's online.

00:08:33.140 You can look it up.

00:08:34.360 It's men.

00:08:35.300 Statistically, men exaggerate.

00:08:36.440 No, I don't think that.

00:08:37.140 So, it's hard to know what body count you actually have.

00:08:40.300 Men will try and clear. 0.99

00:08:41.300 But it's statistics.

00:08:42.140 It's not my opinion.

00:08:43.740 No, that's not true.

00:08:45.120 That was written by a woman. 0.99

00:08:46.060 Let's just, let's just, well, there's two problems, okay?

00:08:49.040 One, feminists have ruined, like, all data. 1.00

00:08:51.820 They infiltrated school, yeah, yeah.

00:08:53.300 They infiltrated schools in the 1970s and 80s.

00:08:56.300 But, but I will say, men do lie.

00:08:58.340 I would agree.

00:08:58.880 Men tend to lie up. 0.97

00:08:59.900 Women tend to lie down. 1.00

00:09:00.960 Because it makes sense in society.

00:09:02.600 But who, who lies more, men or women? 0.92

00:09:05.360 Oh, no.

00:09:08.680 No, they both lie.

00:09:10.300 That's a tricky question.

00:09:11.520 They both lie.

00:09:12.180 It depends.

00:09:12.220 It depends on the circumstances.

00:09:14.140 Exactly.

00:09:14.840 Reperfumans.

00:09:15.480 Reperfumans.

00:09:16.320 I'm this show, I'm banning a word.

00:09:17.820 I'm banning a word.

00:09:18.420 There's no, it depends.

00:09:20.140 There's no, no, no, no.

00:09:21.040 There's no, it depends.

00:09:22.060 It's, you gotta pick one side.

00:09:23.200 What about kinder?

00:09:24.080 What about kinder?

00:09:24.800 No, no, go on.

00:09:26.380 I think women have more, lie more, for sure. 1.00

00:09:30.500 Because they suffer more judgment.

00:09:32.620 Yeah.

00:09:33.520 I think women suffer more judgment from the guy. 1.00

00:09:36.160 And usually, it's always the, mostly the guys asking the girl.

00:09:39.640 Her body counted the way around.

00:09:41.280 Yeah.

00:09:41.480 Because usually we presume that the guy is left with a lot of girls.

00:09:44.880 You're with the wrong guys, babe.

00:09:45.420 Of course, that's why I broke up with them.

00:09:49.960 But you need to understand something.

00:09:52.420 Men and women lie for different reasons. 0.53

00:09:54.160 So you cannot determine who's lying more.

00:09:55.800 Yeah.

00:09:56.220 Yeah.

00:09:56.240 So men lie about the money because guess what? 0.93

00:09:58.740 It works.

00:09:59.380 Yeah.

00:10:00.640 Yeah.

00:10:01.340 Yeah.

00:10:01.660 True.

00:10:02.480 There's no lies.

00:10:03.340 It's facts.

00:10:03.440 It's not nice, but women like, we lie about the things that society finds simple. 1.00

00:10:08.680 And women lie about their body count because it works. 1.00

00:10:11.560 Yeah.

00:10:12.180 Not to me.

00:10:13.080 It's so simple.

00:10:13.700 In all honesty, I think women lie more because it's like, we have the filters on Instagram. 1.00

00:10:18.060 We have the caked on makeup.

00:10:19.260 We have the BBLs.

00:10:20.900 But again, men have the cards. 0.78

00:10:22.560 So they've got the clothes.

00:10:24.260 They've got the men have the steroids. 0.96

00:10:26.780 I'll tell you.

00:10:27.700 I'll tell you.

00:10:28.180 I've just had so many people come on the show.

00:10:30.740 It's like so many girls come on. 0.90

00:10:32.300 They'll follow me on Instagram.

00:10:33.520 And I'm like, who is that?

00:10:35.980 And they don't look like they're pictures.

00:10:37.620 Yeah.

00:10:38.060 That's true.

00:10:38.920 Men, it's just not the same.

00:10:40.320 They don't do it as much.

00:10:41.160 They do lie about money.

00:10:42.500 I will say that. 0.99

00:10:43.440 But when it comes to looks, come on, women lie way more. 1.00

00:10:48.360 I mean, I guess in a way, yes, it's just more socially acceptable with women. 0.96

JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023

Playboy Confronts Pearl With This Question

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